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2buffagain:
Three things:

- Hurry up and leave that house for the owner so you can devote your energy to thinking of matters concerning your own house. Until you do that, you are subject to all manner of shit from whoever you are dependent on. Feel free to isolate yourself from their toxicity after you have gained your freedom.

- Women! Get this point into your thick fucking skulls. Figure out what to do with your life beyond just being a housewife and giving birth to children. There is more to the purpose of your life than just these basic things. BE FINANCIALLY PRODUCTIVE so you are not that person having to be asking one man with delusions of godhood (and even your children for that matter), for money to buy everything including paiyynt. This shit makes me angry when I see women who put themselves in these situations. Being a MONEY EARNING woman does not make you a bad christian. Read Proverbs 35. In fact, you should be suspicious of any man who doesn't want a proverbs 35 woman. It means he just wants someone he can control due to his own low self esteem issues.

- Sons and Daughters! Get this into your thick fucking skulls. Be stubborn early. Set boundaries with your parents early. No human being has the right to insult you, so tell them to cut that shit out the moment they start and hang up if they continue. YOU have to teach people how to relate with you respectfully. Otherwise you leave too much to their bleeped up nebulous concept of right and wrong, respect and disrespect. Give your parents a template of how to interact with you through negaive/positive reinforcement. When they know you will put up a fight each and everytime, they too will start fearing the consequences of getting you involved with their mess and will disrespect everyone else in that family but you.

adeblow:
Sounds so much like my dad. My dad is even worse. Thank God we all turned out well now and we've left his house for him.
He married someone else and she ran away within a year.
Why are some men like this?
With my own dad, his car is his first child.
We wash that car twice a day, thoroughly.
I can't even type everything here.
Just take it as a motivation to work hard and finish well in school.

Mstick:
Almost 30 years of marriage and your Mom doesn't know how to work around your dad?

Weird.

talk2hb1:
The Headline should be changed to Defile, not rape. You cannot rape minors, minors are defiled.
I knew it, we are fast becoming endangered species.

ogoloray:
"top official working in Dubai"

Was that detail really necessary

BlueRayDick:
Why don’t u eat Egusi ? I’m curious, I want to know .

When I was much younger I also don’t eat egusi , I don’t eat ewedu laced with egusi, neither do I eat egusi ijebu ( just plain watery egusi and pepper spiced with dried fish or any protein ).

When a paternal aunt came to stay with us for few months she accused my mum for spoiling me and allowing me to decide whatever soup/food I like or I don’t . She would carry stick, sit with me and try to force me eat any of the aforementioned soup/food. She usually gets frustrated Cos I end up not eating at all. Later she realized her folly that u can only force the horse to the stream but can’t force it to drink from it. She apologized to my mum and allowed me choose what I eat .


Funny enough , now that I’m all grown some of those meals/food/soup are my favorites now. Egusi with garri at a standard Igbo kitchen is what I don’t play with anytime I’m in an area that has such mouth watering delicacy . Even ewedu with egusi goes well in my mouth with Amala well well. Even carrot that I don’t eat back then, it’s a must for me in my stir fry spaghetti, fried rice or coconut rice .

creolehunt:
Professionals in the House, please which do you advise?

I already have an MSc in a Social Science course, but plan to pursue a career in HR but have been wondering the best path.

Should I pursue an MBA in Human Resources from NOUN or simply sign up for a CIPM certification?

Debodimeji01:
I swear...

Though crude but your mind is at rest.
GTB... you get alert, they remove N50. You do transfer, the debit you N10, then debit you N26 again. If the transfer is now above 10k, the debit you N50 again. On top your money ohhhh...

TheGreatIYANU:
You knew you had medicals, YOU still went and drank red wine... LOTS OF IT!

Is this not village people?

Denvacandy:
Bros, i dont even talk about how much i make or tell them when i recieve credit alert, this my 2 brodas live far away from each other, infact we have not seen each others for close to 7months now.

Let me make this clear to you, you cannot hide money for long, people will notice you already have money.

When you dey fresh and change shoes cloth and even making crazy moves, how will they not know you already have money

I try as much as possible to hide it away from people that i have money but no.

Do you know the meaning of someone that has suffered and smells compare to when you see the person now and the smell of peff won make u hug the person? you see fresh shoes and cloths?

Shey hin go steal am ni?

Kobojunkiee:
Why make for staff? Dem no fit go make it for their own self? Why must they eat from what is the students?

Teachers wey suppose to dey give students, na to take from students dem they do instead.

AngelicBeing:
Hahaha, lol at be sexually miserable for the rest of your life

NovesaTillie:
Thank you for being real with your response. I will reduce my going there. Their baby is so cute and his wife is very nice

kilokeys:
Boiled my Bowtie pasta in beetroot juice and made my cream sauce from scratch

Amotolongbo:
No matter what, it isn’t a justifiable reason to beat the Mother-in-law. If her mother had said so, would she beat her or if her mother had said so to her daughter in-law, would she want her mother to be beaten for saying such?

Johnpaul2217:
Thanks ma. It is a pity that a mother has taken care of 7 children all alone and at her old age none of them is ready to take care of her, it is really sad. She only has 3 children alive the others 4 are dead it was only my late wife and her late sister who truly loved her wholeheartedly.

Karlifate:
Good girl gone bad.

LMAO!

Greystone:
She's obviously a good lady. Never let her go. Good girls are so hard to find.

If I were you, I would marry her.

You can manage her brother's issues easier than replacing ur lady.

FutureIsFemale:
Dear women, invest in yourselves. Forget these chameleons who keep changing every second. They don't worth it.

Please permit me to say this. Men are very wicked. They are ready to waste your life. Imagine marrying a lady just for clout. You care not about her emotions and her biological clock. Very selfish lots.
A man would date a lady for years.. Pinning her down with fake marriage promises. Deep down he knows he won't marry her yet he will chose to tie her down.
My God will continue to punish every male child that has ever promised a lady marriage and dump her for another woman.

Time is the only resource that can't be recovered. Men know this. And they are fully aware of a woman's clock. Yet they chose to waste women's time. My God will judge them.
If not for Biblical purpose, I see no reason I should get married. These men don't deserve it.

It's different if you are planning on marrying a girl and something serious like health challenge happens and you later cancel your plans.
Why keep a woman in your custody for years when you know you won't marry her? What's the sense in it?
God will punish you all marriage-promise-breakers. It will not be well with you all.