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Guess we already knew that so # No surprises. Insensitive and non communicative leader personified.

How far? The result never come out

@op, Accept my heartfelt condolences. He was still young. Cry it all out , grieve in your own way...this too shall pass!

Im one Interested lady. What do u mean by moved on please? #nojudgementzone

telkevog:
Please brother, take heart. Cancer is a beast! It also took away my wife on January 22nd this year.

I share your grief, be comforted. For me, I have moved on!

Just bear with her or report to her mum. Please don't flog . Kpele

bupounds:
My pregnant wife dey make me vex i go flog am for leg o..
How men take dey cope with women sef
Which Kind wahala be this we be say if i wan go house i go dey think

Take a study leave if u explore the option of working remotely and e no work. When doing your msc, try and get good grades and apply for PhD in the US/ Canada. Best of luck

Only a slowpoke will spend 40k usd on a baby daddy and only a more moronic boyfriend of a baby mama will foolishly agree to fund such. Don't know about anything else but that part is a lie.

She's with her dad. Wat she need my prayers for?

Your fans?? Wat exactly do you do to have fans

Nwachinemere

Na real wa. Can't you communicate with simple and clear words? It enforces your credibility. Words like share of long weekend, assurances of highest esteem seem like an overkill but wat do I know?

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@OP, You used HER whenever u can sounds so degrading. Is she an object?

Yen, yen, yen

Yall don't get tired of recycling the same stuff. Kuku buy time machine so you can import 'yesterday years ' wife.

Yes 35 years is not the most appropriate age for a woman to get married if it can be avoided. What about her fertility window and his own tastes and preferences?

Ajibade123:
I am so disappointed that you are educated and you still take age as a big deal
so 35 years old is bad for a female to get married??

if you interested in Canada, UK, Belarus work and study visa
package check my signature to be added to the gc.

Is nor easy

ImaIma1:
Faithful husband at heart

Okurr, what are symptoms of HIV exposure? Your contraceptive broke? Or condom? The story no too gel imo

Nice suit...me likey

Ndi monitoring spirit! It's a really friendly question to project marriage break up from personal text? Dont come for me, I've removed my hearing aids

CuteMercury:
Please what happened to i am not spoilt, my husband just love me.
In your profile?
Are you single now? If yes then i will be happy to take over.
Biko no insult o, it's just a friendly question.

Dumbest comment I've read in
a long while and to think you can call yourself Shedrack is even much more annoying.

Shedrack777:
but on a serious note, this girl dey enjoy free legal orgasm for captivity o

So if he was in the country, he'd be framed for something hes innocent of.

Na real wonder woman

tartarus:
So you want her to contribute financially at home + do the house chores + carry your baby + run her Msc?? Cos she's wonder woman abi?!.
She suggested you both outsource and pay someone to clean and take care of the house chores at home but you refused cos you want a cook, a cleaner, a mother and a CEO in one woman, so what exactly is your usefulness?. Make it make sense please

You're not ready. This is 2021

Better get someone to do the chores and you both focus on making money and raising your child

You are a good man

ravensckar:
This issue is the easiest that I have come across. With a little bit of understanding, both of them will have a perfect marriage. Now, let's analyze the issue. She's educated, but you think she's unambitious. That's a lie! She just doesn't enjoy doing whatever job you're pushing her to for reasons best known to her. Bros, I'd advise you take her out for dinner one beautiful night and calmly ask her what type of job she'd like to go into. You'll be amazed. My wife is a degree holder, but prefers owning her own shop. I once forced her to work for a company, it almost killed her self-esteem. But now that she's in her preferred area, she's shining.


Secondly, on the issue of laziness. I think you just need to sit down with men and let them tell you first-hand what marriage entails. Almost all women find chores stressful. They enjoy roaming the house naked, watching television and enjoying themselves. Who wouldn't? I'll advise you play a trick on her. Whenever you return from work, tell her the usual line; 'work was stressful today, this and that happened bla bla bla'. Then, proceed to cleaning the house in her presence. Do it with a smile on your face. Trust me, her conscience will prick her. Some women are like that, words and threats won't work on them. Just appeal to their conscience. I believe your lady is a wonderful person since she isn't even pretending to be hardworking just to trick you into marrying her.


Thirdly, on the issue of pregnancy and the everyday drama that comes with it. Bros, I'll be very honest with you. The initial stage of marriage is filled with drama. Do you know why? Both of you ain't used to each other yet. You're beginning to observe the unpleasant sides of each other. Now, what's the solution to this? Take your minds off the negatives and focus on the positives. Think of the stuffs that your wife is good at and let it motivate you to want to make your marriage work. Compliment her for it, and tell her to her face that she's the best in that area. Then, watch her try to improve on her weak areas. It's a bit complex than how I've put it, I pray you find a way around it.

PS- It took my wife more than 4 years to understand that she has to tidy the house before going to shop. You can guess who was doing the cleaning for those 4 years. Lolz. Marriage hard o, but again, compared to what?

How exactly do you punish a wife?

This bolded part is most mind boggling. How exactly does she intend to neutralise the fetish

Richy4:


OP, I'm Just curious..... So if the money passed through her to your mother, the charm holding you people's progress will not work on you anymore or what?

Was there incantations or prayers said before handing the money to your mum?... Is she a prophetess, "dibia-ress or Babaaláwo-ress"
It's just amazing the bitter pill some people swallow just for peace to reign in the name of marriage

For those who dont drink or gift alcohol. Learning never ends, u know....

Bornsinner7:
Which one is requirement for born again Christians only??

All this stress just to own a pussy??

Now that the world is thriving towards gender equality.. I think they should start groom price as well

Good question

LadySarah:
how did a 3 and 6 yr old get to PRI 1 and PRI 4?

3 years old in Primary 1

You are a clown, right

aremuforlife:
Development take stages, if the previous government was able to do have of what this present government is doing, Nigeria would have move forward a bit, but nevertheless, we are still moving and hope we will be there.

Rent of 400 usd sounds low. What country?

Bvlgari:
As we all know, living overseas is very enjoyable but u must pay for those things unfailingly every month

This brings me to my question...

How much do u spend on your bills monthly overseas?

Pls note that it may vary from country to country

As for me, this is my breakdown spendings every month

1: house rent $ 400
2: grocery shopping $ 150
3: electricity $ 25
4: water $ 10
5: internet $50
6: gas $5
7: car fuel $ 50
8: kid school $ 150
7: miscellaneous $ 200

Total $ 1040 monthly

Pls kindly let use know yours because our people in Nigeria don't ever understand and they always demand and demand from us thinking there is a tree overseas that we pluck money from...and they pay their rent yearly o

May God bless our hussles

How polite can you be when responding to questions not addressed to you?? Next!

PoliteActivist:
How is that your biz She likes older guys. How old are YOU?

How old are you?

Zzor:
Sweetheart I'm on his side on this,its always wise for a lady never to date a man in her age group, a man must be stable financially before thinking marriage and he already made you understand that,the only mistake you made is dating him.Since he's not ready please look for someone who's ready and settle down with him,never let your emotions direct your thinking in marriage issues.Please let him go so as not to waste more time as you already have. Follow this tips:Cut off from a relationship that has no head way after six months to avoid stories that touch.As for me I already resolve never to date a man below 50yrs because most Nigerian men below 50 are still struggling.Such a messed up country