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Not interested in introducing you to anyone. Maka Y?

Just bored stiff with you propagating your usual misogynistic messages under the guise of my container no na high sea. N in my opinion u dont count as rich o, so wats the big deal bout being ur spouse that'll sentence me to a lifetime of chores since u say rich men dont do chores. How much money do u have sef?

Iogobenz:
My circle isn't wide enough?
You don't know me
I still re-iterate.
Only men that are poor in Nigeria share chores with their wives.
Please kindly introduce me to that your large circle.
I need me some help too...

Na dem. Always trying to use culture and religion to oppress women. Is it also a crime for a man to fart in the presence of his wife? Now that we have social media n it should be used to condemn stuff like mutilation of female genitals, horrible widowhood practices, and even baby factories - all she's concerned about is to propagate crap. Perhaps to make herself sound like a wifey material par excellence.

Watched a prior video of this same annoying woman insisting husbands be served with 'brekkable' plate. Is it your husband? Every man knows wat works for him and there's no universal formula.

Only poor men u know.....

Speak for yourself bro and those you know. I have a different set of facts and since u seem to be speaking with a certain measure of assurance, permit me to be believe that the problem is that your circle isnt wide enough.

Iogobenz:
I simply said no man that is doing well and fulfilling his obligations do chores.
He can help out when he wishes to,not share chores!
Only poor men clean the house,care for the child and cook in the name of helping wifey.
You can take this to the bank.

N didnt you read where she said her Nig bro in law living in Nig. I guess u are also in every one's pocket and bank account to know those who are rich or not. Mr I too rich

Iogobenz:
Our point has always been Nigeria ma.
Only poor men share or do chores with their wives in Nigeria.
If you want to try,relocate with your husband to Nigeria let me see if he will share chores with you.
Or you no know say n.a. because e dey fear make you no divorce am cone share em properties na why e dey help out?
Or you want just let us know say you dey Yankee?
Only poor men do that shit!
#Spits.
So after working hard to provide I come begin wash plates and all?
In fact all of you are very stupid.

Sounding like you are all that....

Iogobenz:
Maid or nanny is a luxury every where in the world and you know what they say about luxuries.
Our finances have to be the determinant of getting a maid or not.If I can,sure.If Not,she Better take off her heels and talons and get busy.
Let it sink in well.

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Start with soaking the bedspread in kerosene....

Trust me there are better things to aspire to. Way more hotter guys n I'm not kidding. Just work on yourself so you match the specs of guy ure looking for.

Marvieduke:
I just want a one night stand with him that all

Ur dumb prayer will never work. Where were u wen his wife was suffering with him or u think Rome was built in a day. Yeye dey smell everywhere. Potential man rapist.

Marvieduke:
I must Bleep this guy whether he likes it or not

How's the mother a slut and how on earth do you equate squatting with comfort?

Oriyomin25:
Poverty is the genesis of everything. from ur narration @OP The mother is a slut who will always trade her dignity and of her children just to stay comfortable, so you can't help the situation unless u are ready to bail them out of their condition... The Thought Of having a girl child in this insane enviroment scared the shit outta me, i'm afraid the girl's innocency has been exposed and may not come back.

May their souls rest in perfect peace. What a shame of a country...killing those they are sposed to nurture

Well Joseph was definitely competent. Nigerians be acting like our rules dont act against the best getting called up at times. Hypocritical bunch of people

The question is how much following does GEJ have in Bayelsa

She can stay with her family till the court wedding. It's only 8 days apart if you file ASAP.

Josephilemona:
my name is Joseph, a struggling upcoming young man, my plan is to marry this girl of my dream traditionally for now so we can start life, but her father and stepmom insist either I choose to do church or Court wedding she isn't not coming to stay with me, she will stay with my pastor I don't really like that idea, Because I don't trust any man of God of this days since we're not even related, her family are frustrating my efforts, they insist If I don't meet their conditions I either suspend the traditional wedding, my problem is I have shared the traditional wedding card and invite my friends and family, i am devastated right now.

Immaturity at its peak

@OP - TITLE SHOULD READ CORPORATE.

Waoh, if this is a true account, what a terribly wicked being. Two things stand out from this account - saying the widow killed her spouse and saying her own grandson will be buried.

Oloun oni Je

Yen, yen, yen

Who tell u say govt pikins are not born in the overseas. N all the ones born in Naija even for village, why they never build ur country finish after 59 years.

rentAcock:
The rate at which Nigerians are giving birth to children overseas is quite scary. I feel like in the next 20yrs, half of all middle class families will have children with dual citizenship. The government should put a stop to this immediately, otherwise we wouldn't have anyone else to build this country.

My kids are off limits!!! I'm indifferent about Linda Ikeji but you dont write stuff that can hurt a child's esteem all under the guise that I'm a blogger. N why can't she realize that some people value their privacy?

Locking the door may result in violence but u can speak to him in the dead of the night. I trowey hand for our fore mothers... they got this whole stuff down to an art

Ladyboobae:
he doesn't want to give me the money to do side biz,I dont know what he has in his head...I really dont know. I will try locking the door tactics..I hope it works..the man that wants to give me the govt work has told me I have just this week to decide to be his mistress or not

Don't be his mistress. The antidote for a bad decision is not to make another bad decision... I ask again, wat is his attitude towards u? Is he a good husband apart from being stingy? Is he a good dad to your kid, apart from paying fees for a nice school? Is he abusive, emotionally or physically? If he's Ok, stay in the marriage... N look crazily for another job. Instead of putting adultery on ur conscience, take another look at wat else u can do.

Ladyboobae:
he doesn't want to give me the money to do side biz,I dont know what he has in his head...I really dont know. I will try locking the door tactics..I hope it works..the man that wants to give me the govt work has told me I have just this week to decide to be his mistress or not

@Ladyboobae

What state are you in?

Ican is one of the richest professional bodies n u can take this statement to the bank. After chartering sef, u pay to be inducted. Then annual fees ati other levies.

But it'll help her eligibility for jobs.

baby124:
Na wa o. The exemptions are less than the fee for the full level of papers, correct? OP needs to apply and pay for registration, since it’s only 300. She can figure out how she will raise the rest.

Yeah but before you get to exams. You have to pay for registration, then exemption and some form of lectures before you get to exams.

baby124:
I just looked at the ICAN fee schedule and it looks like the whole thing for all the exams is 208,750 Naira or am I seeing double or not reading correctly.

Madam I salute your patience and love o for this amount of money, considering what your husband earns. Because local woman can never can biko . Chai! Abeg let me run away from this thread before I start teaching unarmed robbery . Is this not the ICAN fee schedule? Correct me if I am wrong please:

Wawu. I actually think he's selfish and that your salvation is not gonna come from him. I couldn't decode ur age from ur op but I think you should apply to the big 4, state parastatals. I also don't know if u live in Bayelsa or in Port Harcourt but its quite difficult getting jobs in both locations.

Now, first things first. I'm always an advocate for keeping your sanity and mental health intact. When your spouse is acting up, it can hurt your self esteem really bad and make you wonder if you are not woman enough to get an upkeep from him. But dont think those thoughts. Be cheerful and think positive.

As per ur friends, na today? Some of them may be jealous of you and even planning to step into your home. You will be surprised the things I've seen happen and also seen from other people's experiences. You owe no one any explanations and how do married women dress biko. I thought dressing like a married woman is now old school. I'm def doing my best not to come across as married though I dress decently.

As per your husband, is it possible that this is how he was brought up? Or something in his past has made him like this? Apart from that is he a good spouse? A good dad? Then try celebrating the good aspects of him. Thank him for the little he does? N speak up but politely - I want to write ICAN. The money is big at once but let's be providing for it small small.

I truly wish you the best.

Ladyboobae:
he doesn't give me .upkeep,I ask him for upkeep he said his salary is not fixed it fluctuate .but I told him your being paid...at this point he says nothing...he gives me money for cooking...we dont stock food stuff he gives me money to buy food stuff as it finishes from time to time..and I give him breakdowns of what I bought because he is a kitchen person and was the cook for his mum for years before he married...so he is very familiar with kitchen stuffs...I dont collect a dine from there..

I doubt it cos that is typical offshore salary but you may be right in the sense that he gets paid 250k more frequently than 500k

Acidosis:
I don't think you know how much your husband earns monthly. You may have been exaggerating things. Women do this a lot.

I love me some Aisha Buhari. She's even more outspoken than my southern self.

What is it made of and what are the side effects?

They are soooooo annoying for heaven's sakes, do they know his peculiar circumstances- if his wife died, or is Ill or a breadwinner. The way Nigerians do Aproko is becoming overwhelming. N the shaming of men who are actually caring for their kids is on another level.

I've finally heard it all

He's ungrateful and you know it. What's his own approach to giving gifts. The only thing I can think of is either he has a different love language or doesn't think your gifts have been sacrificial enough as per the monetary aspect. But theres always a nicer way to pass that across. Other than that I will suggest you continue gifting him your presence as a wife and eh his lovely children.

Modified to add: If he's actually a great hubby - u can gift him a gift voucher , let him make his choice. I think he has high taste cos I read bout his Italian shoes n suits for the wedding.

For wetin?