₦airaland Forum

Thank you jare. I need some free delish food in my life right away.

elektra:
Look at what I am looking for in my life, someone is rejecting.

I go just relax, enjoy free delicious food.

My mom and mother-in-law will work for me oh. I want them to cook us food, watch the kids, e.t.c. They are always happy to help.

I plan to have child-free summer holidays as long as our parents are able to watch the kids. Ship them off to grand-parents and enjoy my life.

Portion control toh bad...me likey

cococandy:
Dinner last night

How did she assault him?

DimIsaac10:
Arrest her ASAP...
How can you demand for apology rather than justice from a man you publicly assaulted...
Mtcheew...

whatever you do, don't get pregnant to coerce your parents to accept him. 29 years old and still thinking like a child. Odiegwu! All the time he's using to calculate your monthly calendar can be used to build a relationship with ur mum.

Just too bad. A hardworking woman by all accounts is now being suspected on the basis of skin color. I refrained myself from responding cos this really upset me.

PrimadonnaO:
As always. Too bad.

Just one more thing to blame women for....

PrimadonnaO:
My colleague's got the fairest baby ever, but neither herself nor her husband is light skinned. Neither of the grandparents are either.

I feel heartbroken on behalf of your wife that you're questioning the paternity of the child you both had together. Really disheartening.

Just learn to bond with your daughter. Act like a child with her...play, laugh with your teeth open... let the love in your heart radiate in your actions.

Im not sub human abeg. All these issues are caused by greed and the victim mentality that has been the clutch for so many African nationals.

N as for ipob, just ignore the clowns....

KanwuliaExtra:
Na so IPOB go attack Nigerians from Biafra ke!
See SHYTEHOLE vs SHYTEHOLE!
The world is having a goooooooooood laugh!

Let me see if anyone can blame WHITE PEOPLE for this BLACK CURSE!

The BLACK race is truly SUB-HUMAN!

Kai!!!!!

Explain to me how this is legit. Y wont Nigerians be treated like crap when theres extensive evidence that our country doesn't care about its citizens. So that'll kill them in Nig again after butchering some outside. Naija we gat to do better....

Hello COPR, please do you have a format for a fixed deposit that has been accepted?

COPR:
This is sad. Did you attach exchange rate of that day you submitted your application? Difference of 430k should give you a strong buffer zone.

I think you should raise a CSE for your application to be reopened and also call them. Liquidate your PoF and put it in Fixed Deposit.

Me ke? I am not the bigger shoe o. I don't have any interest in comparing stuff talkless of online. My point is you might think a guy is rich but theres always gonna be someone way wealthier. Gosh there's something wrong with your morality if you think a little act of 'philantrophy' can cancel all the wrongdoing in the past. Take a cue from the silly slapping senator who committed his acts, before he was sworn in, then cctv footage exposed him for who he truly is. N while that was ongoing, his deceased's wife sister pulled more dirt on him. Yeah, he won an award after that but nothing can convince me that hes not a messed up sort.

I'm just saying you can hope money can buy you a nice guy image but I'd rather be married to a genuinely nice guy than one that has the image of a nice guy n trust me, you can fool some people some of the time but u can't fool everyone all of the time. Peace!

@op - sorry for hijacking your thread

nwanneni:
I still don't understand what point you are trying to make with the bolded statement.
So you are the bigger shoe I presume,that is if I got your point correctly.
Anyways you can continue dodging reality all you want.Goat no dey fight with lion.
That is true capitalism and please don't bring that "in this part of the world equality nonsense!" because if you are really that Prada woman you say you Are,you will know that justice is manipulated even in the West by people with money.
How do you talk about hurting a person's reputation in a country like Nigeria where almost everyone is poor?
Don't you know a little act of philantropy will buy him all the reputation he needs again after whatever damage the poor people thought they inflicted on him/her?
Please I am a realist,keep Cinderella tales very faraway from me Ok?

The family may not opt for physical violence but can decide to teach him several lessons which can leave him scarred or at least hurt his reputation. I understand this is Nig and people get away with crap but an enlightened family can mess with the irritant. I hope you know the whole concept of having money is relative. U can say ure rich cos u can afford an aldo bag monthly, while some can afford Prada and way more expensive items. Shoe get size...

nwanneni:
I cannot be obsessed about the things I already had from birth.very unlikely.
I was just pointing out a flaw in her approach which albeit is alarmingly impossible if the offender is rich.
Would her brothers dare go to a rich man's house to beat him up for molesting their sister physically?
Of course we both know they wouldn't dare or risk a total wipe out of their entire lineage.
It's just reality,accept it or continue wallowing in ignorance.

Present. Pepper soup lover for life....

Prestonn:
Village kitchen

Hot Pepper Soup...Tradition

If you're a pepper soup lover, please gather here for a brief meeting. Attendance is mandatory

Your obsession with wealth irrespective of the source and the notion that money literally makes you get away with anything is worrisome. Money is not a panacea for bad behavior except you are looking for a chick who's after ur money. Just thot i should drop this here...

nwanneni:
what if the man is rich?
You don see where dem dey go beat rich man before?

Hmmm, doubt if this advise is necessary as a lot of this has been happening without this late advise.

End her life ke? Success is the best revenge! Tell her to end nothing and keep peppering dem. Na today?

Peachbloom:
To be honest with you, the issue has been on and off for a while, but this morning, she called me again asking me if she won't end her life in all these trouble.

I calmed her down, and told her, once you're done, you're done. There is no in-between, as the court has ruled them over.

I told her not to feel guilty or bothered about what the guy keeps spreading about her and her mum. I assured her of my support, and I reminded her that she is with children too, and also of her husband's unflinching support.

However, this man really wants to end this woman, I can tell you this authoritatively. From all of his actions. It's so sad that there is nothing one can do about it. Even court can just give him a restraining order, they cannot stop him from saying whatever it is he wants to say.

As it is now, it's pretty unfortunate.

Lunaatic alert! The guy get am for body? ogini?

Peachbloom:
To your question of what caused their fights.

I was in their home on two different occasions and something as trivial as a remote control for the dstv made this guy hit her head on the wall.

Second occasion was the fact that she lent her mother her own money, and the man was asking why she would do that. This lady hardly knows how to express herself and she was literally shaking all over. I kept begging this man to calm down, he put me in my place, and I had to stand back.

Right in my presence, he started hitting her and dragging her by the hair all over the place. It took the intervention of her neighbors on this particular day.

Now guess what, despite every I'll treatment, she stayed!

Oh I remember this, when her mum was in the hospital after her surgery, this guy came to the hospital and instructed her to leave her mother's bedside, I was there by her side too so I saw this.

When. She came the next day for the visit, she had hot oil scars!!

Before you start sarcastically casting aspersions, know that many men are actually mad, and her ex husband was part of.

No worries, my dear sis. Keep your sanity and let it all out...the hurt, the feelings of unworthiness etc. I pray u find healing

Ineedyouradvise:
Thanks @Gloriagee

I literally just typed that I don't think she wants a divorce.

ITbomb:
If you were legally married, get a lawyer to get you child support at least.
From the tone, I don't think you want a divorce (maybe cos the children)

No, you were not wrong to leave. From your account, he has made no attempt to get in touch with your kids...so ur best bet is to stay alive for the kids. If he were to beat you to death, who'll take care of the kids. The last thing u want is for ur kids to grow up thinking physical violence is normal in marriage, thereby repeating a crazy cycle. N ur emotional health is also a priority...staying in a toxic environment will reduce the quality of decisions u make.

As for child support, a lawyer can advise on that. Doesn't sound like u want a divorce yet but u def can stay separated, if u wish.

Not necessarily.. they may have been robbed

daddytime:
Wow...this is top-notch carelessness. Obviously just gotten the kid's passports.

The fear of Buhari na...

TooMuchStuff:
Don't know why Wike even bother to explain his actions to complete aliens. What for?? U be Ameachi??

Make dem go Sambisa to build Mosques.

Yeye Parasites

See JAMB qweshion...

OKOATA:
Please my question is how was the marriage terminated? Did both parties appear in court or what's the procedure to terminate a marriage? I want to know about this so it will be easy for me if things go south

After helping him take his bath and dress up for work, while taking his breakfast, and looking sexy around him, helping to feed him bla bla, how am I supposed to get to work? Ok assuming, I'm Married to Dangote n don't need to work, How do i even prepare the breakfast before or after bathing and dressing him for work?

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Stop coating barbaric and uncharitable acts as culture. Culture ko, culture ni

Cee9:
@op
Seems ebira people share some similarities with the igbos....

Now tell your friend this:

whether the groom spent 20million or not, no marriage has happened traditionally.

He may choose to go to the registry,if he likes but he is just postponing his days of agony.. If he marries that girl in court and let's say something unfortunate like death befalls her, he go hear am and also no matter the numbers of children the woman bore him, they all belong to her father..

Can he stand this?


If he still want to marry the girl, he should do all the necessary things...

Those people had pity on them small.. I have witness such occurrence.. The wedding was totally disrupted.

The girl's mother was billed a penalty fee of 500,000..

All these people shouting reaping where he has not sown, una never see anything. This is Africa.. We have culture

I was and still am surrounded by classy folks. Have to take back my compliment... the insulting question is unwarranted, in my opinion.

Richy4:
My mother raised me right.. I am proud of her. and my Dad raised a gentleman with Class... what kind of male species were u surrounded with that made u have some doubt

This! Had to check your gender again tho

Richy4:
People are really quick to pass judgment.. there's nothing new based on that fact..
They didn't know how the mother managed when the girl was sick.. How she might have had a sleepless night thinking about where the next school fees might come from.. how they will eat, if the landlord will chase them away due to inability to pay rent.. they don't know and they don't care... If the man was not there during all these storms in her life , why is it necessary to invite him when the ocean is calm..

People especially Nigerians should differentiate between a father and a sperm donor.. The difference is clear..

Yeah, they don't and thankfully so. A Video of a married guy partying with ladies in bikini surfaces and somehow it's the lady's fault. SmH for u

KevMitnick:
They don't make them like our mums anymore...a lot of ladies nowadays cannot weather the storms of marriage. Another broken home.

Our, but do you think its from the specific eatery you got it from? Just want to be sure cos I can't stand Ghanaian food but thot the jollof rice was ok from a specific restaurant.

iomoge2:
Yes you are
I hate the aroma
I think it’s basmati rice n not well washed

I tried over 10timrs n gave up trying

Apparently I'm a ' liar from the deepest pits of hell'

When I used to attend there, dreads were quite common. How neat are the dreads though? U can put it in a ponytail for church, think uti or Charles tudor. I'm not sure you will be disrespected. You can also try the ikeja branch too.

IamSoProlific:
Please I need to be sure, I was recommended with one sometimes ago but when I went there, the experience was something else, so I need to know if you've seen like people on dread consistently and severally.....thanks.