Most people nowadays just want someone to love them, they don’t think such love should be reciprocated or protected.
If i were the almighty God would i give my beloved son or daughter to something who wants love but would never small money out of his/her pocket to appreciate his/her partner, some that always want to be on the receiving end. Making no effort whatsoever ?
Go on twitter you would see oloshos trying to bash who is happily married and protecting her love with effort.
The true is some people would never know why you can never find love, they are so selfish they have become lost in self.
hobat4cash: Lol. Do women need any reason to behave like women?
Let’s just pray we cross path with insensitive and materialistic partners.
Growing up i can still remember a couple, it was very obvious the woman earned more as a civil servant than her husband back then, but she always insisted he foot the bills, long story short; she left him cuz she was “tired of using her own money to support her own nuclear family” lol.
God no go show us, guys don’t ever ignore the red flags. She can’t spend on you. Never marry her.
Ginaz: it's your stupid friend who is a second hand used product. what right does he have to call a girl who gave him her virginity a second hand product? when he travelled did he not cheat too?
JoshTim: Tell your boss you are leaving but open to negotiation. Show him the employment letter. A 250k salary increment is better than the unknown. Do this, if eventually they don't increase it, please leave.
Lol rooky mistake.
You wan dey threaten your oga with offer letter from another company for Nigeria
Maths125: Happy new year Professionals in the house.
I need an advice as regards my career
I just got a new job with a startup as a Business Analyst with Salary of 300k. Pension, health included
I am currently working in a well established company with a salary of 170k. Pension, healthcare included also
I am afraid of the unknown, there is comfort in my current company
Tomorrow 2nd will determine if I will resign or not. What if my current company decided to increase my Salary to 250k. Should I stay or not.
A man that is always afraid of the unknown would never go far in life.
Try do small research about the new company, search linkedin for Old employees and add them up, ask them about important things, work life balance, if the oga no be weyrey wey dey wear clothe, if salaries are paid on time etc. Also check glassdoor reviews.
If they say run, oga run oo
Make nothing fear you this 2024, no gree for anybody.
Yemike: My life have been stagnant for like 4-5 years now. I work in a factory and I also sow clothes. I've not been able to spend money on myself or to pursue my dream as a result of family responsibilities. I'm a drop out of FUOYE and I'll so much love to go back to school but the plan has been failing for 2 years now.
I've obtained a part time form from Adekunle Ajasin University Ibadan campus last month hoping to start the new session next year but my problem now is that I have a brother that just finished HND 1, his rent has expired and he'll pay his school fees this January. I paid his rent and school fees for HND 1 and he has notified me for HND 2. My fear now is that time us running out for me (I'm 27yrs now) as I sincerely wanted to go back to school but I can't sponsor myself and two siblings.
Should I wait for another year or everybody should carry his cross?
Oga you are not a camel. You can’t keep carrying all the load of the house.
Help as much as you can without leaving yourself out in the cold. Let everyone know they have to turn on their individual hustle or sapa would strangulate them.
I laugh at the people entrusting the future of Nigeria to a business (Dangote) that has shown very little or no ethical boundaries lol.
A business that is all for profit irrespective of anyone’s well being would push Nigeria forward? Lol
I have already predicted what would happen when Dangote enters oil & gas, check price history way before Dangote announced his refinery to what it is now, this current price would even increase further when that refinery is fully operational.
By the Grace of God would be here to say i told you so.
PDJT: -Which UK lover will accept a woman, without permanent residency, carrying 3 kids? Lol. Na her puccy go hear am.
-Single women never see lover na woman with THREE kids. Mtchew!
They no dey tell person. you know how some women think, the guy has started showing her with gifts, cash and better nacks in her little mind; he is better than her husband but you and I already know it would end in premium tears and regret
joebeckz: You should double your efforts to make more money at the moment. Your wife can't do anything now cos the hours she is getting for work won't sustain her should she chase you out of the UK.
Lol You are assuming that her new UK lover no get job. Wrong assumption Nigerian women mostly tend to lean towards a higher bidder.
kilisi: Good day friends and trust we are coping with the current state of things
I plan to resign from my current job by the end of February 2024 so that I can go into full time agriculture. That's my discipline from school anyway.
I've been able to raise just 1 million naira within a year and 2 months and the plan is to plant cassava and maize on a 12 acre farmland I'm about to secure.
6k per acre of land
I also plan to use about an acre for planting pepper and tomatoes.
I hope I'm not making a hasty decision by resigning from my job soon.
Don’t resign. Set-up a proxy system for the new business has best as you can and create time to supervise atleast once a week.
Use your salary to keep nurturing the business until it makes more than your salary.
Valoromega: My wife and I are expecting our first child, so currently I'm saving up money before the baby comes, we are also trying to get baby things of almost 400k.
But she wants me to buy Christmas rice for her mom. I've already decided that I'm not buying anything for anyone this December, including my own mom. But she wants me to buy for her mom which I refused becauze my baby is more important. Mind you, she has elder ones who can't even get anything for their mom this December (she's the youngest). I just lied to her that I'm broke and I don't have any money. But I have close to 1.7 million which I want I to save for the baby and also get a car for when the baby comes.
I'm I making the right decision by ignoring everyone this December or should I take like 100k and just buy a bag of rice and share to the mom.
Personally I don't want to spend a dime on anyone because my child is the most important thing right now
Oga let everybody take care of themselves and focus on your nuclear family.
Na mumu dey carry extended family matter for head.
Don’t start what you can’t finish, once you start you would create expectations, the year or moment you default on that execution you go turn bad person.
joseph1832: Truth be told, if this whole nonsense can happen on the island, where we believe there's a modicum of sanity, I wonder what on earth will be happening on the mainland, where disorderliness is the order of the day.
I believe it's about time, LASG shift their focus to the mainland, particularly those living in Alimosho, Ifako/Ijaiye, Oshodi/Isolo local government areas.
Many of the people living in those LGA think it's their God given right to misbehave and do whatever they like.
Bruh you have no idea.
I can remember going to one part of mainland, there was this particular street that was in between two streets. It was perpendicular to the other two streets forming H.
The residents of the street in their wisdom decided to erect a gate on one side and permanently lock it
So if you follow google map, it would lead you to a locked gate, you then have to follow the street down a longer way before you can see a turning to lead you into the street in question. Very nonsense something.
Biko if you don’t feel safe on your street, move somewhere else. Stop stressing commuters.
Englishisamust: Buy Aboniki mix it with pepper used it to scrub the affected area before tommorow all those wounds will dry away. Or put palm oil on fire Kon dey drop the very hot palm oil to the affected place!!!
Omo! If you are a doctor your patients would cry one bucket full of tears on every visit.
Offpointng: That's what the deity he falls to probably asked him to do to convert the Glory of those innocent young kids who seemed helpless and thought he is really doing em a favour.
Y'all really need to know and understand nothing goes for nothing esp amongst the Elite cus is there any sense going to spray 100m just like that??
This post is not for the shallow thinkers btw
It takes the Spirit of God to do acts of charity without expecting anything in return.
Here’s a man of the world giving out 100 million, any reason person should ask “to what end?”
Some weeks back one killed his wife, I purposely refrained from commenting on that trend.
Not trying to say her killing was justified but I have actually spoken to a family friend on about this matter and litter i heard from her about the doing of married Nigerian ladies in UK ehn; migrating with any Nigerian babe should be the last thing on your mind.
Especially the poor ones, ones that have never had any real finance of their own, never tasted real freedom or known the favour of the Law. Brother run oo
lawyer: 25. Real Estate companies that offer Bags of Rice, Goats, Palm Oil, and Christmas Chicken to lure you to buy their lands have the biggest baggage in their corner. After they have used 2 free Chickens to entice you to buy their lands, you will end up with the chickens but no land or very bad title documents…
Oga this table you are shaking violently is very fragile oo