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victorian:
How about dating someone that's broke and poor? What's it called?


Ode!

Slavery

IamPlato:
I Am A Good Man Too... I Deserve A Good Wife

Are you sure?

pocohantas:
Awww, belated birthday wishes to you

And thanks to wifey for putting a smile on your face. She is so beautiful.

I hope some people can experience this kinda love from a woman, so that they can stop overdosing on red pills and being angry all over NL.

I also hope some women can be this generous. It mustn't be too big, just do the little you can. The act counts.

But then, you are who you attract

Many more years to you OP.

Hmmm...

Words on marble. Shout it! So that people at the back can hear.

Undertaker001:
that's the only way possible to express oneself to hoes..

never treat a Cub as a pet.. A cub is always a lion.. and it shall one day harm you..

y'all bitches are wild spoilt hoes... you don't expect us to pet you and treat you as gentle ladies.


Money hungry Leeching hoes

@ LilMissFavvy

See the gibberish he just typed

BigDick70inch:
Well,if its really true that ladies above 30 years easily get married like u have lightlighted.."MY QUESTION IS WHY DO WE HAVE LARGE PERCENTAGE OF LADIES ABOVE 30YEARS DOMINATING MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP PROGRAMMES TRYING DESPERATELY TO GET HOOKED TO A MAN??

WHY DO CHURCHES ORGANISE HOOK UP PROGRAMMES AND BEEN DOMINATED BY 90% OF LADIES IN THEIR 30S OR ABOVE??

IF MARRIAGE ISNT AN ACHIEVEMENT LIKE JUST A CHOICE,WHY DO EVERY GIRL LONG FOR MARRIAGE??

PLS..NOT EVERYGUY WANNA GET MARRIED TO A OLDER LADIES..THAT WILL END UP LOOKIN LIKE THE GUY'S ELDER SISTER IN FEW YEARS..ALL COS SHE PLAYED AWAY HER YOUTH..

TRUST ME MY SISTER,HAVE RELATED SO MUCH WITH SINGLE LADIES IN THEIR 30S,THEY AINT PLEASED WITH THEM..

Ladies married older guys that also played away their youths instead of settling down.

The single programmes usually have below 30s and over 30s. Why focus on the over 30s.

30 and above is not a bad time to get married. Not every lady is in a hurry. And not everyone is desperate.

There are even guys that are more desperate. Do you know how many guys I am trying to hook up? Meanwhile most of the ladies around me are married. I have more single guys around me looking to settle down more than I have ladies.

Let's not make marriage a woman's thing. Men also want to get married DESPERATELY.

madridguy:
The op of the thread is even female so i don't see why dragging guys into this.
Moreover are you married?

There was myopic comment from one guy.

You are late

lorhema:
Sweet corn is more expensive than the regular corn. A friend on the plateau sold some from her farm at 300 naira per kilogramme.

Yeah. That's what I mean

ubunja:
gesture my arse.

you'll love attention

I don't expect you to get it. Your own is just how to bed women and be fulfilled.

Didn't she see the label. It's sweetcorn, not the regular mouth organ one but the one for making salads, fried rice, etc.

ubunja:
who makes noise over chicken?


Atleast a car is better. Chicken? Come on!!!

When will you see that it is not about the chicken but the gesture? You are overanalyzing the simple situation.

Relax and enjoy life.

LillyVal:
The bolded, No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You still have very fine gentlemen here.

Yeah. I know there are exceptions. But the terrible ones just seems too many and overshadow them

Lonestar124:
Childlish and immature, so she have not eat chicken before or count money above that, abeg next news.

And someone will call this arrangement romantic....

Stop bellyaching.

You guys here should be unpredictable for once.

Must you always lash out when a guy spends on a girl?

Lonestar124:
Childlish and immature, so she have not eat chicken before or count money above that, abeg next news.

And someone will call this arrangement romantic....

Stop bellyaching.

madridguy:
Do you have evidence of your claim?

https://www.nairaland.com/5334274/ladies#80836358

This thread has evidence

Undertaker001:
you are the uneducated one here...
don't try to deviate from the topic
Your ass must be seriously jealous of the amount of shiit that comes out of your mouth

These are the men that ladies are supposed to be marrying. Just see the way you express yourself...

Cc LilMissFavvy

BigDick70inch:
Lol..
The best bet a lady above 30 can get is getting married to a older widower or someone with kids already maam..
No young or single guy who wanna get settled will ever think of going for a girl of 30 years or else he just wanna maga the woman..

Stop this ignorance. You think all the ladies that you see getting married to young single guys are all below 30? When next you attend a wedding, go and ask for the lady's birth certificate. I married above 30 and I am so glad I waited. My close friend got married at 34(a virgin) to a single guy. Infact many of my friends married at over 30 to single guys in their age range.

I don't know why you are making myopic baseless assertions. If you can't marry a lady above 30, no problem but don't speak for everyone.

This kind of restricted and shallow mentality is peculiar to Nigerian men... mostly the unexposed ones who still think traditionally and inside a box. I would rather marry at 40 than marry a man with such mentality.

Marriage is not a prize, an achievement or a race to be run; first to get there gets a prize. You can rush in and rush out or stay and suffer because of how people like you think.

This prejudice against single ladies needs to stop. At least I know for sure that there are many men out there with a liberal and healthy mindset. It's only in the Nairaland world that these nonsense talk happens because it is filled with myopic, unexposed and self absorbed men.

OlawaleBammie:
Hmm, a 33yr lady being ur mum's immediate sister?!?! and wat is ur age, what is ur mum's age? wen did ur mum give birth to u?? i dont k w if ur g/parents spaced their childbirth with 10-10years or more sha. i tink someone understand the puzzle am trying to arrange cus the story to me seems cooked up just for traffic reason.

Because the op knows that NL guys will dive into the thread to criticize on of their "victims". Many of then will take the bait

Bank ..11k!!. Is it piggy bank? Don't sell your self short. Some jobs mess up your CV and decrease your value.

LilMissFavvy:
Exactly, I laugh at her perceptions about ladies, relationships and marriage. She even refers to a guy of 40 as still young, and a lady of 35 as old. Take a look at the current pictures of Ini Edo at 39, or Omotala
in her 40(s), etc, would any sane person call any of these ladies old? I have colleagues who are 30-35, even after having kids, they still look good and can't be seen as old. Ladies who age anyhow probably do not know how to take care of themselves.

It's even unfortunate that Nigerian women are the ones encouraging men to believe that marrying ladies within their age range is wrong, through write-ups such as this. Go abroad it's not so. Men abroad don't discriminate the age range to marry from. It's all about the Nigerian or African mentality anyway. Even at that, we still have men who see nothing wrong marrying within their age bracket.

Funny enough, you'd never see a guy create a thread like this to talk down on his fellow men, but you will always see ladies write threads to intimidate ladies about aging fast, menopause, etc. We will get there!

Regretful truth. Women bring women down even with erroneous claims as what the op put up. Nairaland is becoming a dumping ground for shallow assumptions

Isabellah:
Yes, I agree, but you need to see my 65 years old Uncle.

The genes matter and maybe the way you treat your body. You need to see my 60 year old mother inlaw after 6 kids. Even my aunty that's 45 and unmarried. She looks younger than some 35 year olds.

Funny thing is that things don't always happen in a particular order. 35 year old ladies still marry in their age range. My cousin that I mentioned that is getting married is over 40 and the guy is younger. Everyone has their own story and eventuality.

Besides, not all ladies are unmarried because of their wild ways or the "hot akara syndrome". Some were just unfortunate with wrong guys, too focused on work or career, too introverted,etc. But people are quick to conclude and label older single ladies.

Still, everyone should make hay while the sun shines, not only ladies. Because even for men, they lose their youthfulness as they age. Not only women age.

lilmax:
I cringe when women try to be sarcastic


it makes them look like drake trying to beat Chris brown in a dance competition

please you guys shouldn't repeat this, makes me want to deactivate


mtcheeeeeeew

So sarcasm was created for men...

Or the post doesn't just go down well with you. We don't expect guys to find it funny.

Just read and see how you guys usually sound when you criticize and judge ladies.

Sorry o porta potty

genq:
Lol. You'll be damned if I get worked up over this trashy post or any other stupid post made by the OP.
This child called LillyVal actually has a thread called "can men make women happy without money?" .. As if it's a man's job to make you wh0rees happy. Women are naturally miserable and discontented creatures and any simp who endeavours to make a woman happy is doing nothing but hitting his empty skull on hard rocks.

You are actually the one who sounds miserable. Just read this post of yours over again. It's a miserable person who wrote it apparently.

genq:
Sure thing boss - sometimes sarcasm is the only way to communicate with these lazy, entitled scums of women we have nowadays.
The saddest part is the silly OP and her feminist minions find this childish post hilarious

That's how you guys sound when you spill the same things. It's good to see you getting worked up over it

Jacinthe:
That's how they will be running to Shiloh every end of year. They just dont want to learn.

Slay kings. When they turn evening newspaper, they will run to Shiloh.

How do we know he is going to be a good husband? Not like all these guys without home training. Someone that cannot help his inlaws to be.

ubunja:
repeat after me, "Marry for the.... GREEN CARD".

Is that happening in Nigeria?

Did Regina Daniels marry him for the sex? She also married for the monetary benefits.

IamSoProlific:
I don't seem to see any insults with what I wrote.

Learn to separate sentiments from reality.
I just stated the obvious which is cited not just from this precise mention of his but from subsequent ones.

Indeed

A lot of you guys on this forum cannot stand when a lady is given credit or defended. It just doesn't go down well with you guys.

He said something simple and basic. But guys here are already getting worked up over it

You guys are all focused on the pant and disregarding the fact that they sent the ladies out at such that dangerous hour just because they refused them sex.

Seems you have a personal score to settle with red pill men, alpha male, etc. So why are you bringing Me Eazi into the matter?

We can't know if he's there for the money or for the fulfillment or whatever. So why assume?

MrBrownJay1:
Sadly, people like you who see sex as a trading tool, Will never succeed to understand this issue. This woman didn't think she needed to be married to have sex before, why should she now? Should she now trade sex for upkeep? What would therefore make her any different than a prostitute? This woman should date a man, and if they dig each other like that then possibly marry in the future... But thinking that before she opens her legs again she needs to be married, is the reason why most remain living like miserable nuns.

This got me too. Sex is used as trade by barter. Instead of giving free sex, she gives it in exchange for marriage. Its a terrible foundation to build a marriage on and a recipe for failure and abuse. It's like 1000 ways to have a failed marriage