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greggng:
Put fear in wild woman? The best thing na for him to park out life doesn't end their...is not even good to live in same compound with your landlord

Squirrel01:
Na here your thinking reach?

ozento:
olosho woman. e dey her body. she'is nt ready to settle down at all.

BafanaBafana:
This is Nigeria. People are working hard, the money is not coming. Others are not even working at all but are getting the money

johnchins:
Once you meet someone who believes in you, and you are ready, get Married. You musn't build a mansion first but atleast be able to provide the basic things that life demands. Starting a family early is beneficial.

Amakavula:
I am always happy to when women take the bull.by the horn and make decisions like this, I only fault her for marrying too quickly but thank God she did what's best for her.

You can't understand until you have been with someone whose life goal is incompay with yours. Best life ahead sister. Resist !

MrBrownJay1:
What a funny thread.....some people are truly living in la la land!!!!

Let me go drink some tea before I give this one a piece of my mind.

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FOOLISHNESS #1
so what you are is just a desperate woman with her body clock issue on her mind....yet you want to play difficult?!?!?!



FOOLISHNESS #2
Do you want to get married because you actually WANT TO or because of peer/family pressure?!?!



FOOLISHNESS #3
You THINK you need to settle down or you actually desire to find someone to marry?!?!



FOOLISHNESS #4
If the above was remotely true then you wouldn't be single and desperately seeking for donkeys online



FOOLISHNESS #5
Beggars ain't got the right to be choosy/picky....



Let me give you the NL comedic post of the day.

DanDeeBoss:
I find it hard to believe she's 35.... lol

Jacinthe:
logobenz2, I don't mind going to a rant thread if you still want to banter

Michellekabod2:
ignore the moniker ubunja. He is sex starved,jobless, and a woman-hater. The only thing he does on the road,in the bank,in church,in his room,in the toilet,and while eating is thinking of how to smash a pussy!he never teaches men to make more money or become relevant to themselves,but just pussy!
He is obsessed with womanhood....
His definition of an alpha male is based on a myopic view(basically a sexual relationship). He will not view an alpha male from other perspective....


Broke hungry dudes on NL still under the father's roof and BOYS still struggling to write jamb will call themselves Alpha men

BluntBoy:
You are married

davodyguy:
I agree with everything, save the part she talked about different bed. My son would cry if the mom's not beside him. It works differently

VivaDeAngelo:
A family friend's wife inadvertently suffocated her child while sleeping. The husband never forgave her, we must heed to the advice of this doctor.

thesicilian:
I personally believe that sleeping on the same bed with your baby is the best way to nuture and nourish them. You can easily hear when the baby is crying, you can breastfeed on demand without having to leave the bed (thus interrupting your sleep too often) and is very protective.
Except of course, those adults who like rolling from Jericho to Jerusalem when sleeping.

virgoquin:
stop wasting your time on that ubunja guy,he has always been like this,a pained woman hater always spewing trash about women with so much boldness

worse of all he's got legion of followers here mostly boys I wouldn't call them men that swallows all the bullshit he vomits hook line and sinker.
He's not Nigerian

LordKO:
E bi like say na you be the new attorney general of Romanceland and Familyland dese days, lol.

ubunja:
if women were not the same they wouldn't be all chasing "The Tall, Dark and Handsome" man and the "Strong Silent type" guy. Those two guys are the staple of all your fantasties. Because you are the same.

No matter how unique and special you may think you are, your desire is like that of every other female. Don't tell me your fav colour is purple but your best friend's fav colour is blue then take that to mean women are different because that's a difference that's INCONSEQUENTIAL.

Where it matters the most you're the same. In the big Loves and the big Hates you're the same. That's why men know if they improve themselves in a particular way (say hit the gym, or make money, or be a Player) they know they'll get bîtches cause really you're predictable. Cause you're the same. It's like dealing with 1 woman with different faces.

Hope you're getting me loud and clear.

freecocoa:
Lol, man I’m not finding the comments here funny o, it’s looking like a hopeless situation.

Logobenz2:
and my mom becomes whose priority?

Logobenz2:
well,I will advise my wife to ignore her since she doesn't provide nor cater for our family but using it as an excuse to be rude or violent to her?nah!
If she does,she just earned herself a reason for me to be very very aggressive around the house.
Once more,ignore.

ubunja:
argue with your ancestors

MrBrownJay1:
A female human being.... some good, some bad, some yellow, some green, therefore you can't really put a bigger definition than that, unless you are talking of a specific woman

Texman21:
From my own understanding,the longest thing a man has ever studied is a woman but uptill now it seems the study is not yet complete.


from my own perspective a woman is not weak like many men believe and i know some women believe they are weak well depending on the way she was made to feel around men.how did you think women survive all the ancient brutal world of men where there is always wars,killings,intimidation it is by having a better survival instinct and the gift of reproduction which its impossible for men.



women always look for perfection,which makes it always impossible because men cant be perfect in every aspect of life same as the women.but why do they look for perfection because they cant have it all,what i cant still understand is it just being human or the desire of filling that not perfect side.




i finally submit my study of women as a man to the world i cant get any further.

lordskid:
No more post from you, I beg. A person that loves to attack the "personality" instead of the ARGUMENT ain't worth your time. Don't TUNE "down" to his "frequency".

Martinez39:
Oh, the irony. So much said with certainty even though you don't know much about me. The unreasonable nature persists. Keep on proving my point.

Martinez39:
I too don't care if people choose to agree with me or not, I never said I cared. Also, I never said that you can't form your own opinions, did I? Diverse opinions and perspectives among two or more people is a sign of individuality(as opposed to a herd mentality) and I have no problem with this. Intellectual diversity is better than racial and ethnic diversity. If everyone agreed with me, we would all be atheists but that's not the case.

That excerpt from the op's write up does not describe me. I only state facts. Even if you are Adolf Hitler or an enemy of mine, if you are factual and reasonable, I will admit it. That's the way I am. Unlike you guys, I go for what it is not what I want it to be. You, just like nairaland girls, have been unreasonable and disappointing in your rationales as long as this and other related issues are concerned. You all have a track record for being unreasonable and just can't argue and comprehend like rational creatures ought to. Posts in the past are there to validate my observation. You cannot eat grass and still expect to be called a lion. It's just the truth, facts are facts.

Though you have the right to form your opinion, but if you would go about forming stupid opinions and dishing out non sequiturs, don't be butt hurt when people call you stupid. In fact, I too have the right to form my own opinion and my opinion is that you and other nairaland, as far as issues like this are concerned, are not reasonable and intellectually impressive. It makes no sense to expect much, intellectually, from you people on issues like this. Good night.

Martinez39:
True but inappropriate response. What's the point of typing this? Are you trying to imply that I am insecure and my post was an attempt to cast you down to make myself feel better? You just proved my point that it's right for me not to expect much from women, intellectually, on this and other related issues.

Oh wait, being factual is now a crime? Nairaland girls, including you, and those offline have a track record of being deliberately and stubbornly unreasonable in discussions on issues like this hence no sensible and experienced man can expect much from you women on issues like this. It's just the fact even if you don't like it. Also, once I see these characteristics in both genders, on other issues, I don't waste time arguing or trying to set things straight. A human that doesn't want to reason will never reason.

The day you become reasonable, I, Martinez39, will acknowledge that. I don't care who you are, if you are reasonable then I am on your side. So far, you, just like other nairaland ladies, have been disappointing.

Martinez39:
I am a real alpha male. Probably, you will not agree or you might start saying nonsense, as I expect from women, but I will still entertain your replies.

Martinez39:
The OP is saying the truth. There are too many fake alphas. A real alpha knows his self worth, has self confidence, pursues his goals, won't be treated less or settle for less, and tries to improve himself. Real alphas don't need male or female validation and they don't let women(& men) control them like fools.

Fake alphas are pretenders that are slaves to their ego and insecurities. Fake alphas pride themselves on getting and pleasing any woman they want. They pretend that they are bad boys and aggressive because they think that they would get women since women like bad boys. Most times they end up being annoying. They try to best every man to make themselves feel better. Real alphas don't give a sh!t.

Real alphas will go to the gym to get healthy, fake alphas will go because they want to improve their looks to get women. Getting women's heart, pussy, attention and validation gives them(fake alphas) their sense of being.

Real alphas will be themselves and focus on being the best version of themselves but fake alphas will try to be the aggressive bad boy that gets his sense of being from having women orbiting him and throwing their validation.