₦airaland Forum

jjwaterfalls:
But wht did she pack and leave a 6month old behind

I wonder how she could do that. It's a very hard thing to do

Richmondofficia:
Truth or Na lie,I just know 85% of these famous people in Nigeria are fake

And probably the same percentage of bloggers are evil

Do the traditional requirements, go to court and then go to the pastor's office for joining and marriage blessings.

Or have a church ceremony and serve takeaway packs from the church...no hall...no reception.

From what I have seen here, some guys here are not mature. They come to Nairaland to talk down a girl after they have issues with her.

Why would a reasonable girl want to ruin her reputation and dignity by opening up to a guy who would turn around and spew trash about her

eazzzy1:
Just like girls will say if the situation was turned around, will you return all the sex and the sperm he gave you? Pay fire

While he also returns the egg that was used for conception.

Yeah peace of mind is important. A man that won't be scared to go home after a long day at work

Did you find out why her parents got divorced? It could be that she is like her mum or her mum's actions influenced her upbringing and mindset. So divorce might not be a big deal to her.

How can you be the only one apologizing. That kind of relationship is a toxic one. And your wife is set in her ways and doesn't seem like she will change.

Only you can take a decision. But whatever you do, please just make sure the children are well taken care of

Acidosis:
Listen man, focus on your spillover courses. You both have your individual goals to pursue. You're older. So what? Few years from today, your sis would end up with a man, with or without a degree. You should be very concerned about your future as you have more people to look after in the nearest future. If you scold or beat up your sister for failing, who's going to scold you for the 3 spill over courses in one session?
Doing the work of your parents shouldn't be at your own detriment.

Op is patient. I would have sent her back to the people that gave birth to her and trained her. I can't stand rudeness.

lexy2014:
U don tire?

If my comment hurt you or struck a cord, I can't help it.

But MANY men are friends with their phones oooo

lexy2014:
D issue isn't about being hurt or not. D issue is how do u no what's going inside people's homes since u say d people are many? How u able to c them give their phones preference over their phones? Are u usually in d homes of those "many men"?

Usual Nairaland men's behaviour. Try to make the lady look loose.

Please rest

lexy2014:
I have made my point. Its u who is dancing around d point I made cos u can't validate what u are saying.

First, u say d men are many yet u can't put a figure or quantity to it. But if we take it on face value, how are u able to monitor "many men" in their homes and how they use their phones in preference 2 their families? Don't u have a home where u stay? Do u go about hopping from one persons home to another to monitor how families live their lives?

Oh you wanted me to give you a number? Awww you should have said that you were waiting for a figure. Ok wait let me go and count and come back.

In case you don't know, you don't have to live in people's houses or "hop" as you put it. And yes...MANY men are friends with their phones. If you feel hurt about the use of "many", you are going to have to hurt some more.

lexy2014:
To d point were u no what these "many men" do inside their homes were they are just "friends with their phones"?

Yes. To the point that these many men are friends with their phones.

You don't need to keep turning around. If you have a point to make, do so. This is getting boring

lexy2014:
Am not saying they don't no themselves. Am saying 4u to no them, u are speaking from a place of personal experience most likely marriage

I am speaking from a place of observation and/of incidences around me.

lexy2014:
Am sure u no them too. Are some of the many in ur home or ur marriage?

Whether I know them or not, the important thing is that they know themselves

ubunja:
you just can't stop playing into my hands can't you?


that's the whole point of it all. if something is what you secretly favor you all say "It's none of our business" "it's her life" etc

only when something makes you angry then it becomes your business
cc: ImaIma

Whether she marries a rich old man or a poor old man, how is that my personal problem. It's her decision and she will live with the consequences. Because she flaunts private jets and luxury cars doesn't mean all is well.

People's lives are not my problem. She has a family to worry about her

ubunja:
don't make me laugh

19 yr old Regina Daniels married a man old enough to be her grandfather and all you women are silent as mutes. if that old man was broke there would have been outrage


women are whôrés.

So we should carry placards because someone decided to marry "her grandfather". How is her personal life decision our business?

ubunja:
broke guys, decent girls = the undesirables


we're willing to try it with the decents if you're willing to try it with the brokes.

Does it mean you prefer the indecent girls that you guys readily assault verbally?

ubunja:
have you ever focused on broke guys?

So broke guys = decent girls

lexy2014:
Ur many could b a result of what u experiencing at home cos if u say many, how do u define many?

Define the "many" however you deem it fit since it is a word that is giving you so much concern as regards my post.

The "many" I refer to know themselves.

kurupt1:
But on a sober note,a lot of girls are hoes even though we still have decent girls. Our ladies lust for the good things of life is unprecedented and they can't even work hard for it but rather sell their bodies.
We have too many single ladies now that are hoeing all around the country

Focus on the decent ones.

ubunja:
wrong. it is our business

even in America people are audited under special circumstances. if you're spending MORE than you're making you have to explain.

there are 2 ways a woman can make big money fast, 1 by selling pussy, 2 by selling pussy.

Good that you said they are audited and not addressed with lewd and demeaning expressions

ubunja:
you are 30 , no job, no qualifications and you disappear for 3 weeks then come back driving a merc where the hell did you get the money??

Unfortunately, it's not our business especially when there is nothing we can do except throw insults and assumptions. Let her family advise her and worry about it.

Eventually, everyone faces the consequences of their actions

lexy2014:
Is ur statement below a rhetorical statement or a statement of fact?

"Many of them are strangers to their families but friends with their phones"

In case you didn't catch it, I said "many" not "all" not "most".

If you are reacting because you feel you are part of the "many", that's not my problem.

I am only responsible for what i say/write and not for how you choose to understand it.

jaksmillioniar:
ok ma. i will mention u again.how is ur baby. she will now be a big girl oh.

She's fine. Thanks

As silly as it may sound, Nairaland is shaping the mindset of many people especially towards women.

Guys are believing that all ladies are "oloshos".

Any girl that has some money and has comfortable life is said to have slept her way to get it.

Any lady that travels to Dubai is a porta potty.

Any girl that marries a guy with money is a gold digger(she has to marry a "broke" guy to be seen as good)

Any lady above 30 and single is an "evening newspaper"

...

jaksmillioniar:
mummy am not happy wit u dear each time I tried to mentioned u in my blog I get a ban. are u d one banning me

Not at all. I did no such thing. It's probably a technical problem.

lexy2014:
Is that how ur husband does it?

Is that how to go around asking rhetorical questions?

CreepyBlackpool:
So how did they now know he put his plane on auto pilot



btw, did he force himself on the girl??

But don't you know that whether he forced himself or not, it is a crime? She is a minor. He as an adult is supposed to set her right even if she seduced him rather than take advantage

God cannot have different values...one for Muslims and one for Christians.

God and Allah are not the same

AmazonHippolyta:
Are they even good at sex, Forget romance some african men do not know how to relate with their wives and children.
They just believe that paying school fees and houserent makes them good husbands and fathers.

They are rarely there for their family even when at home to relate or communicate with the family is a problem.
The only thing they are good at is to behave like lenin at home.

Many of them are strangers to their families but friends with their phones

thesicilian:
Someone should tell me why we don't really use traditional materials for school uniforms?

Washing it constantly will make the colour fade fast. And I am sure it is not Hollandais fabric

God bless my inlaws for their product. Some men are rare. And Nairaland makes me realize that everyday.

Anang ma!