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My two people...kiss and make up.

Hahaha and they can vex easily when you price their market.

While an igbo person will still laugh and tell you "i no buy am like that madam", a yoruba woman will start calling you "oloriburuku"

It is either their parents have been saying stuff in front of them because children grab things easily like magnet. Or they have been associating with some kind of kids. Either way, parents need to be alert

Rapmoney:
Many who claim to be 'Godfearing' are only window-dressing their characters. Godfearing has to do with religion. What you meant is good conscience. Try to find out the meaning of religion and you will discover the connection between religion and Godfearing.

My point is that some people are religious but do not genuinely fear and reverence God. Practising a religion is just following the rules and regulations of Christianity for instance. It is different from having a relationship with God and letting Him be in charge of your life

A God-fearing person is one who fears God and has reverence for God in his life. A person like tha doesn't just act without thinking of the consequences of his actions. It's not really about religion

His smell.

ikelords:
If truely you have wisdom in you, you will engage toks2008 constructively with facts and points to buttress you stance. You are just like a typical nigerian woman I dont expect you to react any different. Open your mind to knowledge and if you know nothing about something research and update yourself .

Spoken like a typical Nigerian man

Gaspardd:
I guess if u re creative, 2k is just enough for a cool date, but then for a typical naija babe with material ideology, well then the focus is gonna be on money instead of focusing on the feeling.

It's not about creativity. It is about being prepared. I am taking someone out on a date and cannot decide for the person what he or she would eat.

For me, if i say i am taking you out on a date, it is not to drink water. Even if i end up spending 2k, that wouldn't be what I leave my house with.

xpresseeve:
I am your fan on this forum but you 'blew it big' this time. There is no price tag for a good date experience. Try and read to understand what the guy means. There probably is no budget but you just need the ambience of a 5 star set-up and in order to ensure it happens you just buy the cheapest and inconsequential product on offer; water.

I can't take someone on a date and budget 2k. If that means i "blew it big" then so be it.

Wallade:
Why not 2K? The date should be about the time, affection and chats but not really about the money spent on the date.

Moreover, there is no price standard for dates.

Ok let's just leave this issue. You can go on a date with 2k but i won't take my man or a friend on a date and budget 2k.

For me, it would be an insult to them. Would rather not take them out. That's my own thinking but it doesn't have to be yours.

Wallade:
You and your husband can still enjoy a time out with 2k. A cup of tea or bottle of water at Sheraton Hotel and Towers is about 1K hence 2K for the both of you. You can sit out at the pool bar and have good time and gist while watching EPL.

Please why 2k? Is that the price standard for dates these days? I am trying to understand this 2k obsession. Who are you guys on this forum? The 2k gang?

So I dress up for a date, then we go and drink water at Sheraton. Why don't i just drink my water at home?

PUSSYHOE:
I did and she adhere to it, she is a better woman today

Case closed. Have a good day

PUSSYHOE:
You are making English more difficult than it appears, How does this thread signifies exenoration of my sister and mom rather the opposite, now I know the reason for the unnecessary mentions. You need to control yourself and not allow pussy cloud your judgement. You are the only one who misunderstood the thread.

You need to tell this to your sis

Gaspardd:
Stop thinkin like a wood digger. Your entitlement mentality is just too cringy. Be humble and be glad for whatever he brings to the table. Then you too should strive to bring sth to the table.

You think I sit back while he brings everything? Think again. And must we go out on a date? It's not compulsory. We can stay home and have fun. Your small mentality is really something to worry about. Don't think 2k is everyone's standard like you. 2k can be someone else's 5naira. So relax and stop this your 2k trouble.

Entitlement mentality because of 2k. Please don't make me laugh.

Wallade:
Oh! Something like what? I simply want a honest answer. You are free to decline.

As it is now, my husband says he's taking me on a date, where would he take me to that he would spend 2k? Mama Nkechi's joint? Or to the roasted yam lady down the road? Let's just stay home and watch EPL mbok.

PUSSYHOE:
I have already answered that question with the thread. You wont agree all women are whores because of few exceptions but would take a cancer drug with 90percent immortality rate( success). Lwkm

So you exonerate you mum and sister but label others among the majority.

Ok. Nice one. Keep it up

Wallade:
I should think you wouldn't do 2K dates; is that the honest truth?

I don't know how to respond to your enquiry. Are you trying to start something?

PUSSYHOE:
Didn't you comprehend the topic before you slide in?

Are they among the majority or the exception?

molybdenum0012:
Yes, it's maturity. Then again, it also has to do with the circle of friends the guy move with.

It is usually common among " con guys". These kind of guys meet women solely for the purpose of sleeping with them, after which they share their sexcapades at the bar wherever among friends.

But most guys who are in serious relationship irrespective of the age would not do that.

Most guys have done it at one point in their life, as they grow in maturity they see no reason for it and stop.

But have you noticed that even among these circles of friends, there might be one who doesn't tell his business? Those are the ones called men. The ones that can hold their stand in the midst of others spewing theirs.

PUSSYHOE:
If you pass through a good tertiary institution you would know the world don't function on exceptions, majority carries the vote, when majority follows a trend we generalize. A drug with 20% and below mortality rate is considered a good drug isn't it? in this case more than 80% of Nigerian girls follows my perception ( negative) so what do you expect?

Where would you classify your mum and sister in all of this?

molybdenum0012:
Most young men in their 20s who don't even know they will settle down soon do it a lots. Only few among men in their 30s will do it.

I think it is more about maturity than age. It is only an amateur that sees the need to kiss and tell...in fact, to tell even before he kisses.

Kirinwa:
They don't have religious rules and regulations and they don't have dressing code? Tell me more.

Why don't you research for yourself? And see if they force them to attend service and rule their lives like kids.

molybdenum0012:
You kinda right though. But the truth is that kind of careless talk usually happens when the relationship is new or just starting, but after sometimes when things are stable, it naturally stops.

But not all men do this careless talks. So what kind of men do it?

PUSSYHOE:
I don't think any lady would say otherwise, every lady is a saint. Never seen a Nigerian lady admit she is a HOE and Nigerian men are complaining every seconds.

I understand that you would prefer to focus on the negative ones and not believe that there are exceptions. It's fine. You cannot help your mindset.

Kirinwa:
Have you been abroad or even to a Christian university there?

I have never been to Covenant University but I know what goes on there. Do I have to go to a Christian Uni abroad to know how they function?

What is your point?

Biglittlelois:
I'm wondering when he suddenly has a girlfriend, or maybe the independent sweet collegue didn't tell on him at work and accepted to be his girlfriend.


It's only immature fvckboys that talks about their sexcapades.

Modified: Ladies, if you are in a relationship with a guy who passwords his phone or doesn't allow you touch his phone, know that you are only for chop and go, and he is cheating, do not be sweet talked to accept such insanity.

You should know that his Modus Operandi is to always come and justify his actions.

He goes on a 2k date and then turns around and blames the girl for buying stuffs. Now he says hurtful things about "his bae" to his friend and instead, he blames her for going through his phone.

He is never wrong... always right

XavierD:
You knew Covenant University too well, yet you enrolled.

You should have told them so before you graduated nah.

CU is not a secular school. It is a Christian Pentecostal school.

Just like you cannot attend a seminary school, a convent or Islamic school and not abide by the rules. No one forced you to enter in the first place.

And guess what, your opinion doesn't even count. One billion hate messages can either shake Bishop Oyedepo nor CU

Seminary school is not a university. Their aim there is to seek God.

CU is a university. Is that how Christian universities abroad operate?

PUSSYHOE:
You mean they are some single young ladies out there who doesn't go out with more than one man and doesn't demand money and things

Absolutely. I for one never dated 2 guys at a time. And I started making money as soon as I left secondary school. I worked in two different places before University.

I worked during holidays, i worked after university before going for service. I was always working and I didn't have to ask any man for money.

There are many ladies like that but you might not find them on Snapchat or in the club

omokudu:
U must not drink all night, u can take fanta and dance all night. I think we should rename nairaland to saint Nairaland.

Not drinking alcohol or clubbing doesn't make me a saint

PUSSYHOE:
So they can take in your foot steps going out with several men and collect money and things?

Not all ladies do that. I am sure you know that

Some people will like this. It is not materialistic...lol. 50k wedding. Please don't marry

So we are many

Even in University, i never went to the club once. I didn't see the point of it.

Besides i don't drink alcohol. Will i drink fanta all night?

The day i knew clubbing was not for me was the day i fell asleep in a club even with the loud music.