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otipoju:
As you labor hard to take care of your wife and children...do not forget to invest for your old age.

There is no guarantee that your children will reciprocate the sacrifices you made. Women also use that period to poison the children's mind against their father.( they are very good at this)

A lot of women dont have the capacity to love....they calculate. If the man is not of any benefit to them right now, or does not have the potential of being of any benefit to them in the future, they will throw you in the dustbin.

Na men dey fall in love. Wise up and enjoy your time on earth doing whatever it is you love doing.

Emmanuel909090:
In this case the woman is.
The man is misbehaving, that doesnt mean he loves her less.
But generally speaking both genders in this generation easily fall out of love, they keep looking for what doesn't exist.

Please, who is the man after Gods heart? David abi, and you know the story.
He kept dissapointing God but he was always sober and sorry for his actions, listen no man/woman is perfect we all have flaws,so the earlier you realize that the better for us.
Its not an easy task totally cutting off a woman who has a child for you, so she should understand that its a process.
He made his mistake sleeping with the babies mother but no child is a mistake.

Listen i am not comparing Tonto, i gave a visible instance, that the general public can relate to, their are so many in my locality but you cant relate.

Women should not be pushed, yes i accept that, most of us would have not been graduates today, if not that our parents understood and pushed us, i can remember my numerous refusals to return back to boarding school, but my parents kept encouraging and advicing me.
Same plays out in marriage, we dont always get all we want, so we need people to encourage us on ways to go about it and not always quitting, thats the job of counselors.

I dont slut shame women, men are even treated more badly in the society than women, a lot of men forgive unfaithful women and keep mute, to save her the shame due to the love they have for her, but women find it diffcult to cover, they always want the world to know their husbands shortcomings.

Learn to build your home and dont let pride scatter things.

Emmanuel909090:
Stop comparing people, i wonder why its so easy for this young generation to easily fall out of love.
What happened to fixing things?
Thats the reason why you will see a woman who has divorced 3 times and is on to the next.

Tonto thought it was greener, her new guy who has not even married her is already cheating.

Learn to build your partner into what you want, with patience, love, tolerance and prayers.

Hathor5:
I disagree.

The working conditions at her hospital are shitty. The other doctor who works at the private hospital doesn't have these problems.

Someone who has succeeded to graduate from medical school should be treated with more respect and not made to pose danger to her patients because the hospital burns her out and she is constantly tired.

JovialJune:
I'm married, but I love you regardless

Watch how man boys will assume you are a female with a male moniker.

azraeljaheel:
Both the boy and the girl na the same thing ..


Dirty girl cooked in such filthy kitchen. Mrs ABINNA FFO

The owner of the apartment na swine


Baffles me how a lady can finish a whole two super packs of noodles smh

Ishilove:
Na that one concern her. Let her carry her cross since she has refused to have sense.

2ndtimeuncle:
It rains every where, I don't want her to make a decision she will regret for the rest of her life.

bukatyne:
1. That's why my people (Yorubas) say a bad spouse is better than bad in-laws.

They figure that if a wife/husband doesn't have sense, their family would call them to order.

But if the in-laws don't have sense with a senseless spouse? It is finished!

RightToReject:
The lie that women didn't use to cheat before has become stale already because it's an established fact that most women, just like most men, have been cheating from time immemorial. Evidence abounds everywhere.

The only thing that made it seems as if women weren't used to cheating in the past, even up to now to some extent, is because they do mask their act with disingenuousness. That is unlike men that have always been haughty with their acts, even though some have adopted the disingenuous approach of women in this regard since the wake of the wave of equality, especially in the West.

2dice01:
Grandma
They are related by marriage

Google confirmed

RightToReject:
The lie that women didn't use to cheat before has become stale already because it's an established fact that most women, just like most men, have been cheating from time immemorial. Evidence abounds everywhere.

The only thing that made it seems as if women weren't used to cheating in the past, even up to now to some extent, is because they do mask their act with disingenuousness. That is unlike men that have always been haughty with their acts, even though some have adopted the disingenuous approach of women in this regard since the wake of the wave of equality, especially in the West.

2dice01:
Yes
My mum isnt my father's Blood

Yes his sister is his Blood

2dice01:
My brother or Sister
They are my Blood
My wife isn't

jclassiq:
Pregnant lady

CharisEleos:
You will never understand until you get there. You have to stop leaning on your own understanding so the salvation power of God can take over your entire life. It's not by our power that we are bornagain and the power at work in us is what places us where we are today; not our careful works or walk. By strength shall no man prevail.

It's important to surrender ones whole being to God to experience the Lordship of Jesus Christ and stop searching him with our human understanding.

Lets strive for spiritual understanding.

CharisEleos:
I'm not saying a bornagain is infallible (which doesn't even always happen at the degree you're citing if at all it happens) but im countering the notion you gave that a casual xtian is better than some "real bornagain" xtians. I beg to disagree.

I never said you should trust anyone absolutely even the bible says test the spirits to know if they are truly of God. So in all your dealings with peeps, be wise as a serpent.

CharisEleos:
Then you clearly don't know the meaning and characteristics of a true bornagain and that's because you've only met the fake ones.

Being a pastor doesn't certify one a true bornagain. There are so many selfmade pastors who are not truly called. that is why you can have cases of such men of God involved in that kind of scandal.

For a truly regenerated soul it will be very difficult for him to be caught in such mess.