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clap for yourself. some of those rubbish "i have got aids" ads should be pulled off air though. i think they are mis guided. comes accross as meaning i have it yet i am functioning like nothing happened.

u guys manage to turn every thing to a fight on nairaland. chill people. there is no harm in apologising to people you love.

Baby Jinx:
Oh by the way, I forgot to add that I just love it when Madam Deepzone takes us on one of her "Because Deepzone heard or thinks therefore it's true" rides! It is always so amusing to see ignorance displayed so unapologetically . . . I swear no one does it better than she does.

i will not put up with anyone trashing my auntie like this.  sister nwando you see wetin you cause.  seun ban my auntie now she is getting all this wahala with her new pepper thing.  you outted her so i blame you

one man's meat is another man's poison as they say. what is wrong in begging to get what you want? make una chill with our sister i beg

answer questions funmi. perper or pepper you are not growing younger. what is going on? where is deepzone gone? what got you this time?

benin people are lazy, ibo women are too demanding yoruba women are angels and saints? is that not wonderfullllllllll? if ishes were horses as they say

plus_Queen:
This is deep zone.
So they've banned you again?
So far in your new threads with your new name,you've given links,what's the link to this your story ?
If you want to dwell on stereotypes,did you watch "The new masquerade" back in the day with Akpeno and Jegede,then ovularia and Zebrudaya ?
Can you compare the 2 women?
Which one was vicious,demanding,emotionally abusive and pushed her husband to borrow money and live above his means?
Even in Nigerian movies,what women are usually portrayed as aggressive and ready to fight?
Please don't go down that route,you may not like the outcome.
I know several Igbo women married to yoruba men not the other way around.

i told you your mind works like a clock. this is definately my auntie funmi. funmi kilode? wetin don happen again? this perperspray business is not good for you my dear

MIZ THANG:
I GOT MARRIED 24YRS AGO IN NIGERIA, HUSBAND AND I ARE NOW UK CITIZENS. HUBBY HAS JUST SUED ME FOR A DIVORCE. HE CONSTANTLY CHEATED ON ME AND HAD NO FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR OUR 4 CHILDREN THROUGHOUT OUR MARRIAGE.
CAN WE GET A DIVORCE IN UK OR IS IT BETTER IN NIGERIA AS HE IS NOW GOING AFTER MY PROPERTY WHERE I LIVE WITH OUR KIDS AS WELL AS OUR JOINTLY BOUGHT PROPERTY WHICH I HAVE BEEN PAYING FOR. HELP!!![color=Black][/color][b][/b]

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I Need Help! I Am Dying In Silence & Frustration on: Today at 02:02:19 PM
It's so sad to hear this story BUT I believe that ideally, marriage is for life.

What you need to do is to pray first, then talk to your wife about it (TACTFULLY) so that you can get help TOGETHER. I think that COUNSELLING would be the best option where you can both explore some things e.g.
- why you were originally attracted to her,
- what she does now that repulses you
- learn the little ways of spicing things up etc.

Marriage is a long term thing. You seem to love her but you have to be determined to do WHATEVER it takes, for as long as it takes, to make this work for Her sake as well as Yours.

I wish ALL the BEST!!

nawa for this seun land. these makeup artiste or is it stories now?

my dear sister you have done a 160% degree change. i hope in God you change quickly. you don't like tithing because some bishops took your pocket money, you don't like books because some people write about name it claim it now you don't like clapping.  what next you wont like people bringing in different translations or fat people come into gamines's church?

you went into some strange land. faith is fragile my dear. handle it with care. Jesus is all we got. there are loads of pastor who once serve God passionately everyday that are no more in faith today because they travelled this road you are travelling now.

it is good to question things like washing of feet and communion but hold on to Jesus and what paul said in Hebrews 12:15

See to it that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled Hebrews 12:15

NIV  - See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up and causes you trouble, or many of you will become defiled.

New American Standard Bible (©1995)
See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled;

GOD'S WORD® Translation (©1995)
Make sure that everyone has kindness from God so that bitterness doesn't take root and grow up to cause trouble that corrupts many of you.

King James Bible
Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled;

American King James Version
Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled;

American Standard Version
looking carefully lest there be any man that falleth short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you , and thereby the many be defiled;

Bible in Basic English
Looking with care to see that no man among you in his behaviour comes short of the grace of God; for fear that some bitter root may come up to be a trouble to you, and that some of you may be made unclean by it;

Douay-Rheims Bible
Looking diligently, lest any man be wanting to the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up do hinder, and by it many be defiled.

Darby Bible Translation
watching lest there be any one who lacks the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it;

English Revised Version
looking carefully lest there be any man that falleth short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby the many be defiled;

Webster's Bible Translation
Looking diligently, lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up, trouble you, and by it many be defiled;

Weymouth New Testament
Be carefully on your guard lest there be any one who falls back from the grace of God; lest any root bearing bitter fruit spring up and cause trouble among you, and through it the whole brotherhood be defiled;

World English Bible
looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it;

Young's Literal Translation
looking diligently over lest any one be failing of the grace of God, lest any root of bitterness springing up may give trouble, and through this many may be defiled;

mazaje:
its more like a culture there hairakiri i don't know if i got the spelling right but its [b]a form of tradition over there oin jap[/b]an where a person pays or redeems his/herself by taking his/her life when they do something bad, that culture then evolved into the rampant suicides that we have today. . . .

nice try. tradition and culture of death indeed. a Godless person always see gloom and no way out of the battles of life. stop being deceived you need Christ and you Him fast.

you and i were created for the purpose of giving pleasure to God in worship and service. no man will ever know love nor the meaning of true happiness without knowing Christ Jesus

please Lord give me back my old gamine in Jesus name. ise! ise!! ise!!! vbe ni Ijesu

huxley:
Yes, I wonder. What happen?

you should be able to tell me why they have the high suicide rates they have

Dosman:
I always av probls with ladies who date relatively older guys for money or for connection purposes.There is this lady I used to respect alot n I av been chasing her 4 years.I used to respect her ambition,self confidence etc.Recently she just gelled for me and as I was trying to settle into her life well I found out that recently dated one UK based yahoo guy who would even push cocaine.I am of the opinion that ladies that are from rich homes who yet date these sort of guys are unnecessarily over ambitious and this kind of thing will make it very diffciult 4 them to date a salary earner even if dey claim dey will be fine at d start of the relatnshp.Sincerely my feelings are lean now 4 her.
I will be happy if my people will spare out of there precious time to advise on this issue.
Thanks in anticipation.

there is nothing wrong with being ambitious. why do you guys always assume every succesful person you see would even push cocaine[i][/i] as you say. poverty and lack is evil that is why people run away from it. it has nothing to do with coming from rich homes

what happens to the suicide rate of japan and south korea?

you really like attention

buy now pay later

Boys

Gamine:
LOL@Josh.

I no dey do anything oo!!!

Like i said, there is MERRICINE!!!

Nytol, Nysol, Sleepbetter, Nomoresnore, e.t.c!!

LOL

you have done your research down. may God help you my sister

so you knew you were telling fibs against an old man? may this not be remembered against you my dear

nuisance that is what i call any adult that gives a child such poster to carry. well they will say it is better than strapping some bombs on him wont they? hope all is well in the home front. the Lord is your shield

plus_Queen:
and Christians and atheists probably passed the streets in London where they saw this.
A suicide bomber trained in the heart of London.http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1509664/Muslim-protests-are-incitement-to-murder%2C-say-Tories.html

Gamine:
Well Mr Josh, i no know wetin that one be.

But you no seems to understand wetin pesi dey talk

These requirements are too mild for "Naija"

iwin X 2= iwions

JJYOU:
Amen. jazebel and her cousins is not your portion in Jesus name.  check out derek prince "God is a match maker". i think every young person should read that book.  the enemy is ready to push people into wrong relationships because he knows if he succeeds there he has literally destroyed a destiny.

you must go for a marraige God can bless. God finds it joyfull blesing a home that is united team work dear brother. team work.  by His grace i am building my team Joshua. never slavery. woe to the man that treats Gods child lesser than God wants for her. it is a priviledge for God and a parents to entrust you with their own daughter.  we will all become parents one day. we must treat the mothers the way we want them to be treated. that is not beyond human ability

check my replies at 3:37 and 3:49 for your answers. God bless on marraiges that are after his partern not slave or manipulated relationhips. if record was taken of relationships failings in nigeria i wont be surprise the figures may be higher than the western world. lets do every marraige Gods way. it is the best way

Gamine! Gamine!! Gamine!!! your old age is beginning to affect you my dear. you need to read what i said again and see the words i put in bracket.  you guess i still love you

Gamine:
@Josh,

omo na so i see am ooo!

i see naija for post-topic. . . . . .

you are an iwions as my sister would say

DavidDylan:
Mr. Dauda please
I'm not sure you've read the bible at all. It calls Eve a "helpmeet" not a mere afterthought. Perhaps you may want to brush up on your sunday school lessons again.

say it again loud and clear.

my darling sister. did i hear you will be sleeping together before the day?  i am getting my koboko ready for your answer

@ pilgrims.1  seriously dear sister. i think you have done al you need to do on this matter. stop wasting your precious time on this matter. let them save their ,omey.  Jesus is coming soon. they may need the money to take the alternative flight if they miss the rapture ( not for not paying tithe) i must add.

Angolobabe:
when u were enjoying it u forgot she can get pregnant,why didnt u use condom? well ur going to be a father soon CONGRATULATIONS . start perparating for nappies and kiddy room

condom when madam and oga pikin wan sleep with house maid> nawa for una o. the girl should be rejoicing according to my bobo. cant you read it took him a very loooooong time to yield to her seduction? bobo no worry the house maid is comingto seduce you again. you be fine boy. better go and tell your parents before they discover themselves

Gamine:
Where is the "Naija" aspect here??

all that na oyinbo na

where the oyinbo? love and respect is of God not white or black.

DavidDylan:
True words bro. It took me a few years to come to this realisation myself. Sure i know the Lord is preparing a woman for me, i can bet she wont be a femi-nazi.  

Amen. jazebel and her cousins is not your portion in Jesus name.  check out derek prince "God is a match maker". i think every young person should read that book.  the enemy is ready to push people into wrong relationships because he knows if he succeeds there he has literally destroyed a destiny.

you must go for a marraige God can bless. God finds it joyfull blesing a home that is united

DavidDylan:
We love and appreciate them . . . they are our helpers, friends and confidantes not slaves.

team work dear brother. team work.  by His grace i am building my team Joshua. never slavery. woe to the man that treats Gods child lesser than God wants for her. it is a priviledge for God and a parents to entrust you with their own daughter.  we will all become parents one day. we must treat the mothers the way we want them to be treated. that is not beyond human ability