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what do we do to help boys like this?

savesoul:
It is funny how some nairalanders assume every post on this forum as a joke or prank, why should i come out and make up a story? for what? what would be my gain?.

I couldn't contact the bank until the Monday after Xmas and what came to my mind was sharing this with nairalanders to ask for help and also alert them on what is going on with our so-called reliable financial institutions.

I have contacted the bank and they told me to wait for five(5) working days for them to 'investigate'. i am really disappointing wit the bank, because i made sure i kept my account information private and never respond to emails scams, i had 'NEVER EVER' given someone my account number, even my girlfriend does not know my account number, that is to show u how i keep my banking information private and confidential.

What i don't still understand is how the funds were moved. Am stunned!

Still Keeping my fingers crossed
Why would a bank send out 'rats' to spoil other banks? bullshit!!   Person dey vex here you dey talk about rumors

nothing is new in naija. i have said this before naija banks are licenced rougues. they nearly scammed me too some years back. asked for interest on fixed dep. a/c to be paid into another fided deposit a/c. they cleverly sent the money to a current account before moving the money back into fixed account. collecting unearned COT. only the threat of moving my account reversed the decision.

benincitys:
why you need extra car , same to you

i know i need one. do you have a name/list of reputable car dealers and sellers too?

o boy no vex na. i ask simple kwuerstion why you dey vex like this for new year?

your info is good i just wanted u to clerify the security thing. e be like say na you be the manager for the place as you get all these info under your pillow like this.

hapy new year

power has changed hands.  many women in the board rooms now.  unemployment amongst male is more than the women work force.  salary is not there yet  but technically women are now more empowered than men.

i pity the younger generation of men or shall we say  boys.

benincitys:
if you want to ship a car from Germany to Nigerian you can call this  guy he ship my car in Nov to Nigerian for less than one month
and he clear the car for me ,
it cost me #252,000 to clear it .
he ship the car and the brother clear it  they did a great job without me knowing them before  .
Germany number 00491715219743, Nigerian number 002348053078645.

nice one can i give you my address in benin now? i need an extra car pls.

good to know you got a good guy to do that for you. congrats and a very happy new year to you.

will be back here

brownbonno:
Ikeja
Lagos Airport Hotel
111, Obafemi Awolowo Way,
Ikeja, Lagos
Tel: 01-497870 - 9


Rates,range from N11000 per night + Breakfast.
Alot of Bureau De Change within the Hotel,registered car hire service,security staff within every lobby.Have been there several times and will always go back there,it might not be the best hotel in town it suit my security interest.
3mins walk to Alade market and tantalizer(Allen avenue)
If you wish to fly to Benin City try Aero contractor,Virgin Nigeria and Arik airlines.Rates,about N14k/N16k with 20kg luggage allowance and N150 per kilo for excess luggage.
Wish you the best.

security interest as in? please explain.

@OP dont let cheapness be your main consideration. security is very important. your hubby and baby still need you.

ANAY LUCK WITH sleeping open eye ''sleeping open eye o .open eye?

happy new year

RESTLESS SINNERS STILL AT WORK IN 2009. LORD HAVE MERCY.
THIS IS THE YEAR OF SWEAT AND HEAT UPON SINNERS LIKE YOU HAVE NEVER SEEN OR IMAGINED. THINGS YOU ENJOYED BEFORE ARE GOING TO HURTT YOU SO BAD YOU WONT KNOW WHAT DAY YOU ARE IN. SIN IS NOT GOING TO PLEASURABLE THIS YEAR.

IT IS TIME TO SEEK GOD FOR HIS SALVATION PEOPLE.

STOP DECEIVING YOURSELF. GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS

are you both hausa or what. 16 nawao this day and age

Rescued from human traffickers in Togo, three-year-old Nigerian waits in vain for parents
By Sesan Olufowobi
Published: Saturday, 3 Jan 2009

Abu’s age, mien and deportment all bespoke a hapless three-year-old boy in search of motherly love. But all the efforts made to locate his mother since he was rescued in November last year have been fruitless.
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The police in Togo had rescued Abu from child traffickers and handed him over to officials of the Nigerian Immigration Service, but they had no idea of his parents’ address. They therefore decided to hand him over to the National Agency for Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons and Other Related Offences (NAPTIP).

At number 15, Awolowo Road, Ikoyi, Lagos office of NAPTIP, Abu has become the darling of the agency’s official. Most of them were moved by pity to dote on the toddler, but that would hardly be a sufficient substitute for the motherly care a toddler deserves.

Since he was brought to NAPTIP’s office in November last year, the only thing that the officials of the agency have been able to get from him is his trademark smile. According to the Head of the Lagos office of NAPTIP, Mr. Godwin Morka, the officials of the NIS who brought Abu had two letters with them; one from the NIS and the other from the Nigerian Embassy in Togo. The one from the NIS, which was signed by the Deputy Comptroller of Immigration, Seme, Hamaid I.Y, describes Abu as a victim of human trafficking, while the one from the Nigeria Embassy in Togo, which was signed by Mr J. E Wagbara, explains that Abu was brought to the embassy by a Terres des homms (motherless home). The letter describes Abu as a Nigerian Child who was stranded in Togo.

Saturday Punch learnt that the police in the French speaking West African country rescued Abu from a woman. The woman was arrested and taken to court, where she was sentenced to a term of imprisonment, while Abu, who was rescued from her, was taken to the immigration office at the Seme end of the Nigerian/Benin border.

If NAPTIP thought that locating Abu’s parents would be an easy task, they were wrong. The head of investigation of the agency, Mr. Mustapha Ajara, told our correspondent that officials of the agency had been sent out to locate Abu’s parents but their efforts were fruitless. He said, “We have two things going for us. One, the woman that was arrested said she got the child with the consent of his parents in Seme-Zango. She said the mother’s name is Foussena. Two, we had two telephone numbers belonging to the said parent.”

Saturday Punch gathered that the woman from whom Abu was rescued insisted that she did not steal him but got him from his mother. She was also said to have given two telephone numbers, +2348074134913 and +2348080433745, through which Abu’s parents or relations could be reached.

However, none of the information given by the woman has helped NAPTIP in its bid to locate Abu’s parents or relations. Morka said his men resorted to calling the two telephone numbers hourly for several days without results. “But we got lucky last week. I called the numbers and the second number rang. A woman picked the phone and I introduced myself to her. I told her about the child and explained that we needed to see her to establish his identity and do other necessary things. But the woman did not understand much of English and so could not understand most of the things I said.

“I asked if there was anybody I could talk to and she gave the phone to someone who I suspected was her husband. I explained again, but the man said I was a 419ner. I think I managed to convince him that I am a government official. He then said that he did not know the boy. After a long discussion, he promised to help me check the Hausa community in Seme-Zango where he said he was living. He said I should call back the following day.

“When I called him the following day, the phone was switched off. I kept trying but when the phone rang, nobody picked it. But I have been able to ascertain from the service provider that the location of the phone is Seme-Zango,” he said.

Efforts made by our correspondent to get information from Abu also failed. While he readily gave his name as Abu, when asked his father and mother’s names, he responded Baba and Mama, the Yoruba words for father and mother. “Apart from that, this three-year-old child knows nothing else,” Morka said.

When our correspondent visited Seme border to talk to the immigration officials who handled the case initially, they admitted that they knew about Abu’s case, but none of them was willing to be quoted. One of them told our correspondent that since NAPTIP had taken over the case, it would be better to talk to the agency. “But we know about Abu, he is a sweet child,” he said.

Saturday Punch also sought to know why the woman from whom Abu was rescued was not repatriated so that she could take Immigration or NAPTIP officials to his parents, officials of both agencies said the Togolese government was not willing to release the woman. A NAPTIP official said, “We are not surprised. That is their usual reaction. Many of our sister security agencies in West Africa do not want to see eye-to-eye with us on this issue. They will tell you that they have punished the suspects and it will be injustice to lay our hands on them again, because we might inflict another round of punishment on them.”

Meanwhile, Abu is being taken care of by officials of NAPTIP. Mustapha says his behaviour has been normal. “Even the older victims of human trafficking are competing to take care of him,” he said

But Morka said the agency would launch an all out manhunt for Abu’s parents next week. “We plan to go to Seme-Sango and get the members of the Hausa community there to help us. We will also work with the immigration and other relevant agencies. We are hopeful that Abu will join his parents soon,” he said.

But he said that if everything else failed, the toddler would be taken to a motherless babies’ home.

“We cannot keep him for ever,” he said.

Anambra businessman constructs 4.2km road
By Emmanuel Obe
Published: Saturday, 3 Jan 2009

The Anambra State Governor, Mr. Peter Obi, on Friday inaugurated a total of 4.2 kilometres of road, constructed with full asphalt by Ichie Mike Ezenduka at Amesi, a town in Anambra State.

The road network comprises the Akalabo Road, Mife road and Umeozulu road. During the ceremony, the governor thanked Ezenduka and commended him for his readiness to deploy his wealth in the service of the state and humanity. The governor traced some of the problems in the state to the erosion of values, recalling that in the past, communities provided and maintained amenities in their communities.

He regretted that these days, people preferred to showcase their wealth in fleets of jeeps, even when local infrastructure in their villages such as schools were completely neglected. He called on others to emulate the service of the businessman, to make the task of developing the state more fruitful.

The President-General of the town’s union, Air Vice-Marshal Canice Umenwaliri (rtd.), congratulated the governor for setting a “standard of excellence” in Nigerian politics through obedience to due process, integrity and prudence in the management of the resources of the state. Umenwaliri said that with the governor’s massive development of infrastructure in the state, it had become evident that Anambra State was not cursed.

He said that rather, Anambra’s problem was that of past bad governance. He appealed to Obi not to be distracted by critics. He said that if Obi had been bothered by critics, he would not have been able to build roads, equip hospitals, rehabilitate schools, restore confidence in governance and carry out infrastructural development.

While thanking the governor for the work at the town’s Christ Redeemer College, the grant of N2.5 million each to the 177 communities in the state and the on-going rehabilitation of Obizi Water Scheme, the president-general appealed to him to help in controlling erosion in the town and equipping the town’s health Centre.
By Emmanuel Obe
Published: Saturday, 3 Jan 2009

The Anambra State Governor, Mr. Peter Obi, on Friday inaugurated a total of 4.2 kilometres of road, constructed with full asphalt by Ichie Mike Ezenduka at Amesi, a town in Anambra State.

The road network comprises the Akalabo Road, Mife road and Umeozulu road. During the ceremony, the governor thanked Ezenduka and commended him for his readiness to deploy his wealth in the service of the state and humanity. The governor traced some of the problems in the state to the erosion of values, recalling that in the past, communities provided and maintained amenities in their communities.

He regretted that these days, people preferred to showcase their wealth in fleets of jeeps, even when local infrastructure in their villages such as schools were completely neglected. He called on others to emulate the service of the businessman, to make the task of developing the state more fruitful.

The President-General of the town’s union, Air Vice-Marshal Canice Umenwaliri (rtd.), congratulated the governor for setting a “standard of excellence” in Nigerian politics through obedience to due process, integrity and prudence in the management of the resources of the state. Umenwaliri said that with the governor’s massive development of infrastructure in the state, it had become evident that Anambra State was not cursed.

He said that rather, Anambra’s problem was that of past bad governance. He appealed to Obi not to be distracted by critics. He said that if Obi had been bothered by critics, he would not have been able to build roads, equip hospitals, rehabilitate schools, restore confidence in governance and carry out infrastructural development.

While thanking the governor for the work at the town’s Christ Redeemer College, the grant of N2.5 million each to the 177 communities in the state and the on-going rehabilitation of Obizi Water Scheme, the president-general appealed to him to help in controlling erosion in the town and equipping the town’s health Centre.

http://www.punchng.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art200901034231315

todays naija punch have this

He only wants my body
By Kemi Ashefon
Published: Saturday, 3 Jan 2009

I am in my 20s and have been dating a guy for 10 months. I love him and we have had sex several times. But I have discovered that he hardly calls me. And when he does, he asks me to come over to his place so that we can have sex. After that, he may not call me for two weeks!

Now, I want stop having sex with him because of the things I have heard about pre-marital sex, but I don’t know how to tell him.

I know he loves me, because any time I try breaking away from the relationship, he cries and begs me not to. I am now avoiding him, because if I don’t, we will still have sex. What should I do?

K.A, Abuja.

That you have made up your mind to stop pre-marital sex is good. That you have also started avoiding him is also a good step. But you need to work on yourself more. Know when to say no to sex with any man you are not married to.

You can’t avoid him forever, and I think you should start now. Send a text message to him and let him know why you are avoiding him. Don’t be deceived by his tears; any man can put up any act to get whatever he wants.

He only wants your body and not your love. Or how do you explain his ‘take-off’ after sex and ‘arrival’ whenever he needs you? Dear girl, wake up and determine not to be a sex machine again.

http://www.punchng.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art200901031461814

qosfat:
mssn we are sleeping and i hope this is the best forum 4 us to spread islam, loaging complain,and meeting our self on net,instead having programme every day.so that this wil reduse the stress of people coming from far places.startin from the central branches.locals,& state.let us be globalised.more post on this, so we can lift up the image of islam.

how do you explain and make sence of this kind sir?

I was born a Muslim became a Christain when I was 14 because my mum decided to convert back to her former religion. I was a very good christain I must say, but left the entire religion when i found out that prayers was a farce(I even try to lay hands on sick people before so that they could get healed but nothing happened Grin). There was a day back in kano during the religious crisis of 2004, I was together with a group of friends(VERY VERY strong christains) when the crisis got to where we were. The crisis began around 2 pm after the slaves of Allah were giving moral and spiritual invigoration after the friday prayers. We(about 15 of us) were in church when the crisis came to where we where. When the rumours started flying that the moslems had come about we all ran away but had to come back into the church when we realised that the church would be safer for us. I told them that i would go out and keep an eye on the moslems because as a an hausa guy(who speaks the language perfectly) who was also a former moslem and could recite the koran very well I had no problem staying outside. My friends strated praying in ernest to God to come and save them. To cut the story short the slaves of Allah came and went into the church, I lied to them that I was a muslim and begged them to spare my friends but they refused. When they got into the church my freinds were so confident that Jesus will save them, they prayed to God to send his angels to come and blind the eyes of the moslem assailants, they were more than confident that it would happen. There had no fear on their faces and prayed in the front of the moslem killers with full confidence since prayer was the only thing they could do. The killer slaves of Allah waited for them to finish praying some of them(killer slaves of Allah) bursted out laughing because they were amazed at the way my freinds were speaking in tongues and praying even in the face of death while the other killers patiently waited. After about 10 minutes one of the killers cut the chase and started slamming my friends with his spear. They killed all the males among them (9) and raped all the females. Since them my belief in the God of the bible dropped 50%. When I went to sweden my belief droped futher to about 70%. After I opened my eyes to the world, did my personal research on how the bible was written, why it was written and all the fallacies that were inside my belief droped futher to about 90%. Now that I am in Nigeria I am confident to say that the God of the bible is a farce, Allah is a farce and all the Gods that Nigerians worship are are a BIG joke. So poster go ahead and tell your girl she deserves to know the truth, as for friends and family please don't for now until you are completely independent. Nigeria is a place were you could be killed for openly displaying your lack of belief in God.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=213688.msg3296006#msg3296006

BabeX:
Haba folks ur definition of virginity is a bit harsh. Ok so sometimes, or let me be specific when i read things in the sexuality forum I begin to feel funny or "Hot" as its called. Ok since I'm confessing, a guy has touched me there once, I guess he got his confirmation that I was for real,  ive never given head, never been given head, actually i don't have the "liver" to do these things. So does that make me an impure virgin. Wow,  I need to pray for God's forgiveness,

pray and sin no more. can i get an offering for that plssss

busybein:
some people were born wtout hymen


some pples hymen broke after doing some strainous exercise or work,like horse riding and so on

some during child birth sister. you are funny

Treetop20:
masturbation doesn't count. i agree she is not pure anymore
once she thinks of sex and touches herself but she is still a virgin

what next prostitution doesnt count abi? lets make the net wide so all is allowed that would be nice and better

BabeX:
Pure virginity? I thot as long as a guys thang hasnt been in there u r still a virgin. May be we have various degrees of virginity. what about when a guys finger has been in there, is the girl still a "virgin"?

my granny said the lies we tell ourself are most dangerous.  various degrees ke.  you are either it or you aint.  only you know that

busybein:
plssss ooo u people should count me in,I'm also a virgin

we will remember this on your judgement day.  happy new year ma'am

davidylan:
Much respect for the real virgins here. Self discipline is an undervalued character trait these days.

thanks my dear brother.  you can say that again. we are poorer as a generation for it.  everyone dont know where to stop no more. lets just accept it cos everyone is doing it brigade. right is always right my dear.
happy new year

ztyle:
#Poster  True Talk  

where is the true talk  

chamotex:
I like girls that are Virgins

All the Virgins in the house, put ya hands up!

great and rare things dont do cheap bros.

H2O2:
so those of us that have decided to be patient and impose some discipline on ourselves now lack opportunity

   

the greatest thing you will ever do for yourself is being pure within you. there is nothing wrong with being virgins. it is the people messing up themselves that have something wrong with them.  we live in a world where right is becoming wrong and wrong is becoming right.  the devil is a documented liar.

all these idiots with their corrosive cursed sperms should never see your bodies to defile and deposit their ugliness. you carry a greater destiny than to be reservoir for some players sperm. you have more to loose than just your virginity.  someone said no string attached sex.  who said it is only strings they attach?. that would have been easy to walk away from.

wait for there is no harm in waiting. don't believe the everyone is doing it hype. wait patiently there is a rewarder in Christ who does not look down on you for keeping yourself pure and holy. psalms 125: 3 For the rod of the wicked shall not rest upon the lot of the righteous; lest the righteous put forth their hands unto iniquity.

this is 2009. we have all been given a clean slate. we will not spoil it for ourself by defiling our bodies and sinning against our God.

mafolayomi:
thank sooooo much dearie. and i pray that u enjoy yr entire family including yr in laws throughout yr entire life time. AMENNNNNNNNN

thanks ma'am. i pray you enjoy yours too. it is a great thing to have people we love around us. God bless and give you great happiness and blessings this 2009

Akinagirl:
Ladoma, no one is hammering you for what you did, more so how long it took you to get her treated. She is your wife, treat her as such. All I and anyone else is asking you to do is first forgive yourself, then work on things. And know that she does have a right to leave you.

Akinagirl:
I saw that she got treated. But look how long it took you to get her treated. I sincerely hope it didn't damage her for life. More than the cheating, more than the STD, she will hate the fact that you did not tell her, considering her life was and still is in danger! No one will pat you on the back for that. So like I said, it will only take intervention in order for her to forgive you for that. Her life and well being is at stake.

thanks sister. you speak for most san people on NL

ladoma:
well.thank you all,once again.
akina girl,nkasi87,jjyou and co,maybe you missed the part where i said she has been informed and treated.please go back to the previous post.she is free and i am also free from the ailment.what i am doing now is what can be called ''house mending''.
do you know if my wife have access to all the things some of you were saying here,she will never forgive me?
haba! did i kill somebody.even if i did,am i not entitled to be forgiven especially if i am remorseful.
please folks,learn to forgive.
was it a mistake to have share this with you all?
i did it to act as a deterrent to others.so that we all have to be careful in our daily life and avoid temptations,but you people are making me feel like the worst murderer. the way i am seeing things,i dare not openly introduce myself to some of you outside this post o.i think some are ready to kill me.
ah! you are not really helping me get over this.rather you are all driving me crazy .

epele sir. thanks for sharing your story. you choose to cheat. ok you didn't murder this time. some women get abused and badly treated by jealous rivals? you introduce all sorts of things into the other person life by choosing to cheat. i was going to look for a medal to help your hurt but i cant. i am a Christian by Gods grace and will easily forgive you but don't ask a medal from me. next time before you get your heart running towards some dodgy skirts know they are not always worth it as you are more likely to get society's rejects that will give you another dose of sickness and heart ache. is your life really that cheap that you think something exciting and good will come from these relationships? i don't think so.

your sins are forgiven you go and sin no more

what is wrong in knowing what you want? u may just get one. good luck

evil

this man agbayaism dey smell

calm down