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You think Ambode is the one that lost


No! It's you and your unborn generations that lost big time to Tinubu and other political vultures in Lagos...

CanadianNaija:
Yul didn’t marry a 5 years old.

So it is now about age gap
I knew it!

asuustrike1:
Those house chores are not difficult. It makes you stronger when many of these tasks are given. Do I support guys not doing those house chores you mentioned? No. But for women to have that mindset that house chores should be shared is a stupid assumption. Do I support men not assisting their wives? No. Infact a guy right from bachelorhood or teenager should perform those house chores. It makes them responsible. Our parents were the ones that sink that idea in us to think certain house chores are for boys and girls. This African mentality had made many to think that all men need in marriage is sex and food

If you say those tasks are not difficult, then what other tasks are more difficult Especially for a guy who is not engaged in jobs like farming(the non mechanized types), bricklaying, mechanic, palm wine tapping Most guys who refuse to do house chores don't even have other physically demanding tasks they are involved with. They are simply lazy and egocentric!

asuustrike1:
They are not necessary lazy because those house chores are easy. Many men don't do house chores( depending on which) because when growing up their parents specify the kind of chores to do. Sweeping, cleaning, cooking are for ladies while fetching of firewood and water is for guys.

Fetching of firewood and water, cleaning the house, clearing of grasses around the house etc are still house chores and they are not easy! Even cooking and sweeping are not easy tasks... This mindset of yours is the reason why many guys think it's normal to leave their houses unkempt.

Ammy5565:
From age 13 till now, her relatives actually do owe her some help, if her parents are late. I mean, this life isnt black and white. Its true no one owes anyone anything but i honestly dont think it applies here abeg.

What if her parents never helped anyone when they were alive or were even the troublesome types It takes a very forgiving relative to render help to her in such case.

Baldness is not a curse neither is it a sickness. In fact, many guys these days rock their baldness with pride, including my humble self. If anybody doesn't like it, she/he should simply take the exit route.

havilla:
just go and marry a new born baby girl, paedophile

We ain't talking about my own preferences!

ZIMDRILL:
do you know what is mob phsycology

this is when people act the same way becoz the next person is doing the same or people around you are acting the same

a 16s year old if feel ready becoz she has seen other 16s getting married but it mean she really ready no the is following the pattern

its us men who lust for young girls and we marry them very young

imagine marrying a 16 yr old legally she can even get into a night club nor can she vote and you say you got a wife ?

the only thing to her name is birth certificate and may be a national id

sometimes men we are an embrassment to each other

picture this equation there are more girls who marry very young average 17 and below than boys of the same age why ?

simple its greedy men to pray into inmature teens and make them wives


few cases you would find a 16 yr old boy marrying another 16 yr old girl, its always much older guys marrying 16 yr old girl why ?

You are wrong bro! If getting married at such young age is so bad for the girl like you make it appear, no girl of today would be willing to marry that early. But as I'm talking to you many girls that age are getting married or planning to. Forget the mob psychology thing. Why don't such girls follow the mob of ladies campaigning against early marriage these days Because they simply want to get married! And like I said before, it is not always just about trying to escape poverty like you imply, women are naturally marriage oriented! It is people of this generation that are trying hard to redefine who a woman ought to be.

So brother, let's not make it look like it is a taboo for a 37yrs old man to marry a 20yrs old lady. Provided the lady is not being forced against her will, they are good to go!

ZIMDRILL:
1 you saw things from outside not within the marriage itsself

2 remember i clearly said the husband needs to be patient too so what if those girls were lucky to have patient husbands

3 most girls who marry young to older men are excaping poverty at home so they will fight to make the marriage a successful one

Of course even marriage to an older lady requires a lot of patience from the man.
If I haven't seen situations where marriages between older ladies and men hit the rocks while those between younger ladies and much older men succeeded, perhaps I would have agreed with you that age gap is a major determinant of marital success.
Your problem is that you make hasty generalization! In some parts of Nigeria, girls even in their 16s are very ready for marriage and would be very willing to get married and believe me, it is not always about trying to escape from poverty.

ZIMDRILL:
20 and 37 doesnt work got my reasons let me explain

at 20 the girl hasnt really experienced much decision making of general things let alone running a home with a husband then new people aka the in-laws. the guy has 17 years of explosure to life experience and in this situation the guy has to lower his maturity/exposure to life on dealing with the girl, he must have patience so will the girls in-laws

And how many girls of that age did you relate with to arrive at your conclusion

I have many instances of girls even younger than 20 who got married to much older men and had successful marriages.

Bapy:
Thanks sir. I want to know about the curriculum. How many courses are we to offer? Will the present Bpharm courses be fused into those of the Pharm. D programme?

Yeah. All the present BPharm courses would be there. However, there would be more courses in clinical pharmacy and some aspects of pharmacology. Also, there'll be more clinical rotations where you would be exposed to a more robust clinical practice and pharmaceutical care.

Ishilove:
Yes, I am still enjoying my youth, and yes, my youthful 'Mr Paul' showed up a long time ago.

Sexism will take you nowhere. It is your kind of mindset that push women into wrong relationships because you have pegged her value to her marital status. People like you make single women feel like they are nothing without men and they must make marriage their greatest life's ambition.

And how far the marriage to your "youthful" Mr Paul I guess it must be all rosy

Point of correction, I'm not a sexist! The lady in the op is not being forced against her will to get married. But you and your cohorts assumed that because you were not mentally matured at younger age, every young lady out there isn't as well.
Like I opined before, age does not necessarily determine chances of a lady having a successful marriage. I have countless case studies to back my assertion.

Ishi, I can bet anything to the fact that those attitudes you considered immature when you were 22 are still there in you even at this age, while there are many 20years old ladies who don't display such behaviors since they got the right kind of training and orientation at their teens.

Ishilove:
Let me tell you a true life story- mine.

I was in 200 level, age 22 when I met this man, let's call him Paul.

Paul was very well educated, was running his PHD and was very comfortable when I met him. Paul was also 39 years old; 17 years my Senior.

22 year old me found his outpouring of affections very intriguing. I found his maturity very alluring while he found the prospect of being the first person to 'enter the place' a complete novelty. (I was still a virgin at that age).

Paul wooed me with vigour and alacrity because I was his spec- BBW, homely, studious and very Christian. All my favourite gospel songs are gifts from Paul.

When I told my mother about Paul and his intention to wife me, she smiled with great effort and went on her way without making any comment. As the relationship continued, her smile turned to a grimace. She was like "Ishi, let him go and look for his mate."

She never outrightly opposed my relationship with Paul but in time I began to find his world so...daunting and adult. While I giggled and jumped over his furniture, he would sit at his desk and look at me like a long suffering uncle.

He would tell me about the Oracle of Delphi and Euripedes, discuss world politics and religion, as well as the trends in international relations, while all the time all I wanted was just to gossip about Professor Ibidapo-Obe's antics.

It got to a point I began to find his maturity repelling. He had such big plans for us and our future, while I on my own part had other plans for my life that did not include marriage. I wanted to enjoy my youth while I still had it, but Paul, he had seen it all and was ready to start life with me. I wanted him to be young with me, not always so thoughtful and slow to react.

Meanwhile my mum was in her corner grimacing and giving me side eyes.

I was scared, and I fled from Paul. Mature, intelligent and oh, so stingy Paul...

Op, it may work for you but I speak from someone who has walked the walk so I can boldy talk the talk. She is too young for you.

QED.

Last I heard of Paul, he ended with a woman three years his Junior and they are living happily ever after.

And you are still enjoying your "youth" and possibly waiting for a Mr Paul to show up now??!

@topic, age is just a number and the fact that the lady is 20 does not necessarily mean she is not matured enough for marriage. I know many ladies in that age bracket who got married to men far older than them and they are doing well in their marriages. Likewise, I know some who got married in their 35s yet ain't having it cool in marriage.
Op, don't let the opinion of people in this forum stop you from marrying your woman because people tend to react to issues like this with so much bias.
Since the lady in question is willing to be married, pls go ahead and marry her if you have established that the two of you are compatible.

wolesmile:
Some will say love is blind...



But me I'll say
1. Either the guy is rich
2. Or the guy is influential with some connections the lady needs
3. Or the guy guy helped her family out of a situation and the lady became the ultimate price
4. Or the lady was conned into marrying the man
5. Or the situation is not ordinary...



Whatever it is, this ain't love!!!

What is your definition of love?

Yomzzyblog:
Toke is right tho but....Welcome to Africa, No man want to ever be the underdog, We gat pride



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There are many men who wouldn't mind being with a richer lady! The problem is that such ladies despise men like that and would rather be looking for the rich men. They forget that most rich African men prefer the poor ladies they can easily control and give all sort of shiit to eat.

Aditii:
Everyone is entitled to their preferences. Personally I cant be caught dead with a man with no money. God forbids!

Hope you have money too because men these days are looking for rich ladies. Gone are the days when a rich man would stoop low to marry a poor lady.

ASSURANCE is better than the so called fever!!!

Davido is a better man than the deadbeat aszhole....

TY Savage is an ugly whorre....


Chioma is bae!!?

Very soon this car would cost less than a mil.. I know for sure

Na on top this ugly lady matter Teebillz wan commit suicide

Tiwa is not worth it to be honest

Some guys somewhere might just be looking for her kind of lady.
One man's food is another's poison.

mhizcassidy001:
lecturer are here to lecture him.
my opinion is that,he just started the game so he his very much eager.

Yeah...that's why he's naive. He'll learn with time.

This guy is really naive! You want to fuckkk a runs babe and you are telling her you're a student

Bolusticus:
This was the same Kola Ologbondiyan some years ago writing a scathing report on Atiku's misdeeds. APC was only trying to paraphrase his article then

Atiku is a looter, facts don't lie.

Go and die!

Even if I saw Atiku with a gun rubbing a bank, I'll still vote for him! Not to talk of when he has never been convicted by a court of law but only by smear campaign by APC and their paid agents.

Atikulation on point!

yeyerolling:
Weak men everywhere chai. Beta flee. Cos this one go kill u soon

Strong man! When you marry you go know say no be by power...

Pray never to marry a heartless lady... you go beat her sotey you go tire and na that time her own strength go come... women dey o

The guy is a cuckold! Why slut shaming when you know you are a fucckslut for the ladies yourself.

AmazonTopaz:
I wonder why people would have money and still be stingy on top.

As for the question I would prefer the poor guy who is caring but not too caring.

Many are like that

IamD18:
100% of Nigerian ladies don't give a fvck about your care.

Just give them money.

Seems you are right.

Between a poor man who is so caring and can give you his last kobo to take Care of your needs and a mega rich guy who hardly spends his money on your needs and even abuse you on top, which do you prefer.

I need your sincere responses. Thanks as you share your thoughts.

except if they can come up with a law to bar northern men from marrying more than one wife. Or until Nigeria is totally restructured with regional autonomy. Else, this proposal would further keep the south politically disadvantaged compared to the north. I hope our southern leaders would reason well before allowing such law.

Hope the buhari supporters are seeing this!


Later some foolls would want me to believe that Buhari is fighting corruption

BluntBoy:
Atiku is a businessman. Tell me one big businessman who shows tribalism in his business? Tinubu does not show tribalism in his companies, Dangote does not show it. Otedola does not show it in his businesses, neither does Adenuga. Or have you ever applied to GLO or Dangote Groups and you saw where they said they only want Yoruba or Hausa? And is this enough to conclude that they are not tribalistic.

Don't be fooled. Atiku has nothing to offer.

Atiku has so much good to offer Nigeria!

For your info, some business men carry tribalism into their businesses.
The advantage of having such people with entrepreneurial mind in government is that they would carry everybody along in governance. They'll know how to pull the right strings to boost the economy. They are not biased minded like Buhari who thinks that Nigeria starts and ends in Daura.

Atiku is a man with a large heart!!! Add Peter Obi to the equation and you'll see a better Nigeria with a booming economy.

This guy called Nnamdi Kanu is not smart!
Watch as his dubiously earned popularity crumbles with this his agenda.