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Typical Nigerian na only to dey born una sabi

Which one be your own sef

Who no dey born

Even if you gather all the money in this world, you will still not be satisfied!
The joy of bearing one's own offspring is bigger than any amount of money.

Btw, Nigeria's problem is not about population but bad leadership! I can defend that assertion anywhere.

Congrats to her!

IVF is bae!

Better than being a second wife or side chick.

If you know, you know!

The reason why I don't take Buhari serious in his so called anti corruption fight is because he is only using it to suppress opposition against his failed government. Just imagine the way they are busy concentrating on Fayose alone while a bigger thief in Osun state is also about to leave office.

victorian:
But if a lady goes for IVF, she trains d child well, he or she is all grown up and wants to get married. Who will stand as her father during traditional marriage?
Cause with white wedding, one can easily get away with it and hire any old man as her dad.. But in traditional marriage, u can't pull such stunts.
How do u go about it, as a mother?

So all those ladies who lost their dads before marriage don't get married eventually

@Victorian, single ladies can have kids if they want. But the truth is that it is not about having children but gold digging. There are many working class ladies who have kids through IVF or by getting a toy boy to impregnate them. That is better than being a second wife or side chick to a married man.

Even Linda Ikeji, I suspect seriously that she did IVF, because I don't think a lady of her class would stoup so low to get pregnant for a man before being married by him.

Please ladies, go for IVF instead of being a second wife. It is better!


Most polygamous homes are war fronts!

victorian:
If my husband cheats on me, I won't kill him, neither will I break his head. I will ask him what's the problem? If the reason are not cogent enough and if I feel I can't stick with him? I will move on.
If it's something I can overlook, I will stay. It depends on his response.

Going by your post in the other thread, I think you shouldn't even ask your husband why he cheated. Instead, you should help arrange side chicks for him to be taking care of since you are very ok with a married man having a side chick he's taking care of.

This is why I would rather pretend like i believe in the sky daddy. It's about survival. Nigerians are the most hypocritically closed minded people on earth.

Many are in church today not because they believe that god exists but just to socialize and look out for business opportunities, contracts, partners, jobs etc. Deep down they don't believe the hogwash. When such people give tithe or make donations in church, they do it because of what they stand to gain from the church business.

I think that is how to adapt in a closed minded society like Nigeria until one finds himself or herself in better climes where open mindedness is the order.

So, Freeze shouldn't bother himself trying to enlighten those that have refused to use their senses. He should rather open a church and join in the scam.

victorian:
Yes o, jman06, there is nothing wrong in becoming a second wife. As long as the man can handle his home and wives well. And he takes good care of them. I don't support women who are waiting endlessly for a single guy till 60years old, dying single with no kid.

And you also support a man having side chicks even when his married??

I hope you don't expect fidelity from your husband

funmisticqueen:
i never said that a woman should allow a side chick or be a second wife. dont misquote me
i as the op will never allow a second wife into my home, all of the above will ensure of that. Marry me first and let me see you bring a second wife home and see if your lifespan wont cut in half. i will not need a knife for that sweetie.

I didn't mean to suggest that was your stand. I only brought that here to let you and other ladies see how some ladies encourage men to cheat. If most ladies can stop dating married men or accepting to be second wives, men would sit up. But they won't! In fact, some ladies even despise the guys who are faithful to their partners. Some of them believe that a guy being faithful is a sign of being broke.

This funny dude sef!

LADIES, READ THE POST BELOW BY YOUR FELLOW WOMAN, CROSS THE Ts AND DOT THE Is, YOU WILL SEE WHY SOME MISGUIDED MEN THINK IT IS OKAY TO CHEAT ON THEIR WIVES.
IT STILL BAFFLES ME HOW A LADY WOULD ACCEPT TO BE A SECOND WIFE OR A SIDE CHICK TO A MARRIED MAN.
ANY SINGLE LADY WHO HAS EVER DATED A MARRIED MAN DOESN'T DESERVE A FAITHFUL MAN.


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victorian(f): 6:06am
She must have gone through alot of lack and poverty for her to be grateful having a married man taking care of her needs.
There is no real difference between her and a man who married openly more than one wife. Look at Alafin of Oyo, he married so many wives and he's taking care of them well, none is complaining. They all have houses built on their names, buisnesses here there. The wives are happy, nothing like divorce in his home, all minding their own buisness but all taking good care of the king. Look at Mayweather, the boxer he has many wives And concubines abroad. None of them is complaining, none has divorced him. The Op should let the married man marry her properly and she will become second wife and stay on her lane. As long as the man still loves his wife at home and taking care of both their needs. I see nothing wrong in it. The men that married only one wife, no be divorce tomorrow, divorce today? Ordinary food sef, some cannot provide. Beating today, beating tomorrow.
Babe enjoy your life jare. There is no karma in this one, as long as she doesn't plan evil to his wife.

CHoccolaTE:
I remember reading on this same Nairaland, a certain thread where a married woman came to complain about her cheating husband, she said she caught the man having sex with another woman inside their matrimonial home, right on top of their matrimonial bed.
If that isn't the height of disrespect then I don't know what is.

But guess what out wonderful Nairaland men said to her? They advised her to pound yam for him and prepare his favorite soup and then in a loving respectful tone of voice she should ask him what happened that made him cheat and help him work on those problems.

That particular idiotic suggestion to pound yam for a shameless cheating husband gathered more than 500likes, and many more heartless beasts that call themselves men were cheering the person that wrote the comment and advising the wife to follow his advice.


You men deserve a taste of your own medicine.

Some idiots will tell you women find it easier to overlook cheating and forgive and in the same breathe will tell you how women are softer and more emotional than men so how can the same weaker more emotional person withstand blows and heartache better than the logical unemotional one?

And no, women can have sex without attaching emotions. Women have friends with benefits and sugar mommies keep sugar boys they sleep with on a casual basis.

No gender cheating is better or worse than the other.

victorian(f): 6:06am
She must have gone through alot of lack and poverty for her to be grateful having a married man taking care of her needs.
There is no real difference between her and a man who married openly more than one wife. Look at Alafin of Oyo, he married so many wives and he's taking care of them well, none is complaining. They all have houses built on their names, buisnesses here there. The wives are happy, nothing like divorce in his home, all minding their own buisness but all taking good care of the king. Look at Mayweather, the boxer he has many wives And concubines abroad. None of them is complaining, none has divorced him. The Op should let the married man marry her properly and she will become second wife and stay on her lane. As long as the man still loves his wife at home and taking care of both their needs. I see nothing wrong in it. The men that married only one wife, no be divorce tomorrow, divorce today? Ordinary food sef, some cannot provide. Beating today, beating tomorrow.
Babe enjoy your life jare. There is no karma in this one, as long as she doesn't plan evil to his wife.

PLEASE READ THE ABOVE POST BY YOUR FELLOW WOMAN. AFTER READING IT, DOT YOUR Is AND CROSS YOUR Ts, THEN YOU WILL SEE WHY SOME MISGUIDED MEN THINK IT IS NORMAL TO CHEAT ON THEIR WIVES. IT BAFFLES ME HOW A LADY WOULD ACCEPT TO BE A SECOND WIFE OR A SIDE CHICK TO A MARRIED MAN.

cococandy, daeylar

OhiOfIhima:
Don't corrupt my mind Oga.. I have been running from one house wife of recent.. Jus have one kid n she keep on give me night mare...

My hand off bros.. I no dey oo

Better run for your life....

My initial comment was a sarcasm

Nothing also wrong in having an affair with a married lady provided she does her wifely duties at home



Crazy world!!!

Quam7even:
lol Boss I'm not Married ooo! inlaw ke.

I meant your mother in-law to be!

Just run for your life bro.

200k every month is what your mother in law to be called small Hmmmm

While many couples in Lagos earn below 100k, yet are still happily married. Your mother in-law is greedy and it seems your girl inherited same gene from her mother.

My guy, this is a red flag oo! This is a toxic marriage loading...Run for your life!

tumababa:
They want vote buying to stop. They plan to ban cameras from polling point to curb vote buying. They still say its a plan to rig. My God answer my prayer. This shithole no fit me.

How does banning smart phone stop vote buying??

Divorce her and save yourself from the agony of having to put up with a lady who goes about sharing her coochie. Once a cheat is always a cheat and don't even think that she'll change. She would get smarter instead!

I knew it! These people are out to rig the 2019 elections. From the lopsided appointments into the armed forces to the actions of INEC, everything points towards rigging the 2019 election. This country is doomed!

2buffagain:
Had to laugh at this.

Freaking read my mind.
Sounds like a very igbotic thing to do.
And the woman will ALWAYS side with her family over the family she is supposed to be building together with you, while you pay for everything (talk'n `bout "its our culture" or some ish). Don't be surprised if she is probably the one who even suggested it to her father.

Fear igbo marriage !

But na you still dey rush igbo girls!

This is ridiculous sha

This Nina girl is a biiiiigggg fooool!

I hate her for what she did to her loyal ex boyfriend.

I pity any man that would marry her because once a richer man comes around, she would off her pant without thinking twice.


I hate you Nina!!!!

Nigerians are irredeemable!!!

The best thing is to join in scamming them just like the GOs and smile to the bank every day. Someone like Freeze that is mouthed would be very successful in the church business.

Where in this country can you buy that size of fish for #200?

Zombies who support brainless and wicked politicians on tribal and religious grounds. They deserve all the suffering in this life. That is why I stopped dashing money to almajiri beggars in the north and those beggars in the southwest.

Dpharisee:
When the Govt wont provide healthcare services, this man is the only help available for that community if they have fever or headache, as long as he doesnt sell fake and expired drugs just free him jor.

He should not be freed! Who told you that there are no hospitals around for people in that community to access quality care?? Your type are the ones emboldening these miscreants who go about killing people in the name of patent medicine stores. What does that guy know to give to patients? What those guys do are trial and errors! At the end many people die because of these patent medicine dealers.

Orthodox medicines are poisons and should only be given by qualified healthcare professionals who would know the appropriate ones to give to a particular patient to treat a particular ailment. How I wish we'll be carrying out autopsies on every death recorded in the country! It'll reveal so much about how people die from drugs in this country.

To solve this gender problem once and for all, we scientists are going to find a means to create a generation of hermaphrodites where everybody would bear both the male and female reproductive organs, such that lovers would sit down and plan who should carry pregnancy and who should impregnate who. At the end, the partner who is better suited to carry pregnancy at a particular time would be impregnated by the other. For example, if one partner is busy with work or is the bread winner, he/she can impregnate the other who would stay at home and take care of the home front.

It's good you all are posting these pictures. But I'm sure that you'll still vote Buhari and APC just to spite those you think are your political foes. At the end of the day poverty and underdevelopment would continue to take tolls on you all.

Please Nigerian youths, let's stop supporting incompetent people just because of our tribal and religious affiliations. Poverty knows no tribe or religion oo.

It's a normal thing for boys at that age to crush on pretty ladies. I know because I did crush on some of my hot teachers then. I remember my economics teacher Victoria that time.

Later @ChineloSA and co will want us to believe that the whites are our problem. How I wish we blacks could do as much good to our kinds as the whites have done. But our dark hearts would rather cause us to continually kill and discriminate against ourselves. White men would make their money and send some of it down to us as charity, but when blacks make money they use it to fly private jets and live luxurious lifestyles.

Since independence, our evil politicians have been looting our money and stacking them in foreign bank accounts while the greater proportion of the citizens live in abject poverty.
In fact, "Europe did not underdevelop Africa" but Africans did underdevelop themselves.
Sorry for digressing a bit from the topic, but I'm angry here!

Kudos to the lady! May heavens reward all her good deeds for humanity.

TEYA:
So if you vote APC out of power in 2019 there will be free healthcare for all? Do you think it is every Nigerian that benefits from nhis? So if a doctor or nurse neglects a sick patient and the patient dies the government and nhis is to blame? Youths like you are the problem of this country, always incapable of intelligent and objective reasoning. Was there any government before this that made nhis accessible to all? Mstchew

Did you read a publication by the NMA last week Do you know that Buhari has since failed to constitute the governing board of the MDCN thereby making it impossible to punish erring medical doctors See, the system we run in this country is such that the government either directly or indirectly determines the course of action in every sector of the economy, therefore government is culpable for failures in all the agencies.

This is what you get when fools are chosen over wise men to lead an organization. Later some people would want us to believe that buhari is not corrupt, yet he is running one of the most corrupt governments in Nigerian history.

This NHIS executive secretary came into office and immediately began looting the agency's treasury, indicating that he has no plans to lead the organization aright but only came to loot. Concerned Nigerians raised alarm and he was suspended, yet buhari had to reinstate him obviously on tribal and religious bias. A man that should be tried and sent to jail for looting, yet buhari reinstated him!

Buhari and APC fail to understand that some agencies need not be politicized. Agencies such as NHIS, NAFDAC, tertiary healthcare institutions etc shouldn't be politicized due to the direct impacts they have on people's lives.

flyca:
There should be no patent medicine stores (aka chemist) in a sane clime

Exactly. But in Nigeria everything goes, and the government turns a blind eye to such.

It seems Nigerians have yet to realize the effects of drugs on their healths. Many deaths we witness on daily basis are caused directly or indirectly by drugs! But our senseless leaders would not care to strictly regulate our drug markets.

Most of those patent medicine guys don't know anything about the harmful effects of drugs. They only care about making profits while sending many people to their early graves.
There should be a strict rule that those who want to deal on drugs should proceed to pharmacy schools to study pharmacy or open a pharmacy and employ a superintendent pharmacist to be in charge of the pharmacy, but those in authority here in Nigeria are not the thinking types.