₦airaland Forum

Franzinni:
but will you drink a spoon of spit from her ?? .... Let me help you... NO!

I will if I'm deeply into her.

I don't enjoy sex if there is slightest feeling of reluctance from my woman. I love it when she fvvks me wholeheartedly. So, I won't demand for sex under such condition as stated in the op

Franzinni:
Kissing is disgusting... Think of it, if your spouse spit in a spoon and ask you to drink it, would you ? I bet you won't .... But you will happily be sticking your tongue in another person's mouth... Well, nowadays it's acceptable practice to stick tongue people's asses so .... What do I know, maybe I am just old fashioned !

Nonsense talk.

Me I like kissing like kilode. That's where the passion lies during lovemaking. You use your mouth to show your partner how much of her you desire.

Sctests:
If you impregnate an Igbo girl without doing the marital rites and paying the bride price. That child DOES NOT belong to you. You are just a SPERM DONOR. The child belongs to the man who is responsible and values the woman enough to pay the bride price.

God save you if that lady dies during childbirth, then you will visit hell and back, because you must pay that price and 'marry' her corpse befittingly before she is lowered into earth. Else you won't sleep when the whole village send their deity after you. YOU KILLED HER. Who wants to go to the spirit world with shame? An Igbo daughter?

The Akure judge should concentrate on stopping Royal cannibalism that is customary to yoruba people.

It is common knowledge that when a king, Alaafin, Ooni, Oba or Baale dies in yorubaland, it is customary for the succeeding monarch to eat the heart (cardiac muscle) of the dead king uncooked. Ask any honest yoruba traditionalist. In fact type 'yoruba royal cannibalism" in Google and research it.

More so, after the death of a yoruba king, human sacrifices are made and head hunters are sent out in the dead of the night to hunt for human head as part of their Oro practice before the late king is buried.

Let the Akure Judge face these barbaric customs of his people and stop meddling in a foreign custom that is older than his 10th great-grandfather and ancestors.
He can't win. Let him remove the wool in his own people's eyes first..

He can't dare go to the muslim North and try to stop them from marrying 10-year old girls, without his head being cut off from his shoulder with matchetes, but he wants to flex judicial muscles here in the South.

The Igbos are not your plaything. Respect their customs and stop meddling in their traditional affairs.

Don't you know that once it is about Igbos, southern lawyers find their voices?? But they're all afraid to question the barbaric acts being perpetuated in the north!

God bless him.

We need more of his kind in Nigeria

HORLADY:
It might send a wrong signal to other professionals working in the State Civil Service Commission..
Even if the car is structured as a loan, what of the Nurses, Laboratory Scientists not to even mention professionals in other Sectors.
Other professionals might feel marginalized and will definitely impact their commitment to duty.
You don't need to pamper some at the expense of others as that is what led to different uprising/insurgency all over Nigeria.
He should have make it all inclusive and limit it to professionals at a specified cadre across board.

Honestly! The marginalization in the health sector is just too much!

Some people like Nwifuru don't understand that healthcare is a team work, and that all the professionals in sector must work in synergy to achieve a holistic healthcare.

The Nigerian medical doctors would rather constitute themselves as clogs in the wheels of progress of other health professionals and this is why our health sector is one of poorest in the world.

Christianity is dying today while paganism is becoming the order of the day, no thanks to pastors who have made themselves demigods to be worshipped by their members instead of worshipping the Almighty God.

Self-worship by those on the pulpits results in self-worship by the congregation, and consequence is that selfishness (satanism) becomes the order of the day thus paving the way for paganism.

Mtchhhheeeeeeww


Evening newspaper forming special adviser!

People married from scratch and achieved financial breakthrough afterwards! Most of the married men around me had nothing before marriage but boomed afterwards because they had goals backed with actions.

Your mind will either make or mar you in life!

Good job there.

Well-done guys!


Anything to rid the world off terrorists is okay by me

Lionessza6:
LMFAO,you cannot pick up a dumped item with no elasticity and brag that you've over-stretched it . Remember the previous users tossed it in that dumpster for a reason. What you'd be referred to as is a dumpster-diver looking for used items to recycle . You can only brag to your fellow recyclers about your newly found treasure not the people who like their items new and unused

My gut instinct tells me you're actually a Nigerian lady, else you wouldn't refer to fellow SA women in such derogatory terms.


Meanwhile, we know why we sometimes bash our women hoping they could actually change and become better for all of us. It's not really that we hate them nor could we pick foreigners over them. It's just like a typical Nigerian father would want his sons to be better by pointing them to their peers.

If you want to know if Nigerian men hate their ladies organize a contest for ladies from SA and Nigeria, requiring Nigerian men to pick a wife from the mix of ladies. Maybe then you'll realize it's just a cruise people are doing here

UnfairLife7:
Olodo

Omotola didn't got pregnant before marriage. She was married in proper way, pursued her education and career before childbirth. Only foolish men like you go about sleeping with teen girls without CD. Even if you don't have parents as a teen girl, getting married at that age should be the least of your worries. Even if at the end, marriage is the only means for you then the man you're getting married to should worth it. A man like Omotola husband. A man that would not have sex with you before marriage. A marriage that'd be so much engrossed in your career. A man that'd push you to your limelight. A man that'd support you. A man that love you deeply. Not a pervert looking for intimacy gadget

How many Nigerian men fit into that category biko? How many Nigerian men get sense like Omotola husband? You're just after teens girls getting married but not concerned about who they're getting married to

Illiterate!

Nor be only "didn't got"

I'm done with you because it is now obvious that I'm responding to an Illiterate.

UnfairLife7:
Olodo
If i don't have 16 yrs old teen girls in my payroll,then i should admonished or encourage them to consider marriage and get pregnant? To same calibre of Nigerian Men we have in this generation?

Omotola Ekehinde Jolade got married at 18 to a successful young pilot man, responsible and love her genuinely. If you're talking about these calibre of men with a written agreement before the marriage then it's a little bit fair. If otherwise, then you're a failure looking for company

Full!


And did an 1mbecile like you manage to the person responsible for the girl's pregnancy or even if she's already married to the man

If not that you're a fullllllll from a generation of fulllllls, you would have taken the possible circumstances surrounding the girl's pregnancy and why she's obviously happy with her reality into consideration before coming on here to type jargon.

Oh, so Omotola can be excused for marrying early while the girl in question should not, even when fulllllls like you do not know the circumstances around her pregnancy?

This how your type go about deceiving helpless young girls without providing any help to them until they end up in brothels for prost1tut1on.


How daft you are!!!

UnfairLife7:
old man writing rubbish. Tell your sisters and daughters to marry and get pregnant at 16

Ejieet...


Get your mumuish self out of my mention. You're too daft to comprehend my stance on the subject. If I ask you now, how many helpless 16yo girls are on your pay roll or you are sponsoring in school, you'll have nothing to say.

UnfairLife7:
how you confidently typed rubbish baffles me.

What I type is my opinion and is based on reality on ground.

If you don't like it, hug the nearest loaded high tension cable!

ceejay80s:
Make una allow the man rest, he didn't kill his wife,
It's normal for u to come home find ur wife hanging, cut the rope ,bring her down and be on top to see if u can revive her, shey na under her he for dey?
Pray no such thing happen to u, then everyone will become cid for ur matter

Exactly!

All the man's haters in that compound and beyond would ensure they give unfounded accounts in order to nail him.



Some Nigerians can be very devilish!

Iziquiel:
While reading your comment I suspected you were angry then I read your last paragraph which confirmed my suspicion.

That your last paragraph make me laugh.
I no know wetin make you dey vex but Just take am easy.

Lol

she is angry because no man wants to marry her and so she has grown old in her father's house.

Jewessgratitud3:
You are dumb to think that having a "husband" is an achievement and not having one makes one lose themselves. So because I'm not married I should not express my disappointment on a matter... You are a joker.

Ill continue to comment and express myself however I like on any post I wish. You and your cohorts had better look for another line of attack of shaming because the one you're using is already stale and almost making you all sound monotonously stupid. Any small thing.. go and marry, marry marry marry... Una abuse no pass that one. Shows how slow y'all are.

Keep wailing. I care less. Go and hug naked wire.

Your bitterness in every thread on this forum is enough to decipher that you're unhappy with your status as an unmarried old woman.

Check the number of people telling you about the level of bitterness you exude so it'll not look like I'm the only one telling you.

Stop pretending that you don't crave to be married! We know you do.

My problem is that angry unmarried women like you have a penchant for spoiling young and naive girls by lying to them that men are what they are not. You do that all in a bid to drag such naive girls into your kind of fate.

I wish more young girls could understand your evil agenda and avoid your type like a plague.

Jewessgratitud3:
That thing I told you earlier struck a nerve. Go and think about your miserable life and stop crying around me before I kick you enter bush

Nothing struck any nerves and I am light years ahead of you in all ramification despite you being older than I am.

I just pity your miserable and lonely life and that was why I advised you to see a shrink and stop getting angry at everybody. Your continued display of anger will rather chase away any man who would have pitied your condition and marry you.

Truer words have never been spoken

Jewessgratitud3:
Madam you're saying trash. You're not complaining because you care about him and how he's stressing himself doing the chores but because he no longer has time to cuddle and have fun with you.

Who will cuddle a dirty woman? You wan use dirty kill the man and because he's trying to make his living space clean and habitable for himself you claim he's doing too much. How daft! Some women are very dirty.

Even you know you're dirty because you claim you can overlook a mess in your own living space with a baby around and you want him to also overlook the mess so he can have strength to cuddle you and everywhere will now be oozing like pig house.

Have you ever thought of why he no longer cuddles you? Because no matter how tired a man is sometimes he'll still gather small strength as soon as he sees a clean fresh smelling woman that turns him on but if you can be comfortable with mess around you imagine what your personal hygiene will now be like. I'm sure you'll be like one woman I used to know back then who smells from her hair and armpit down yet she won't allow the man to rest. Always fighting and complaining he's not touching her. You pass near her window the smell that oozes out is nose blinding. Na so she born full house like rat. 7 children. Las las, the man went to rent another room in the same compound just to avoid the pig, she still followed him there and broke the door. I know your type..only make man climb una una Sabi.

Leave the man. No use dirty kill am abeg. Face your baby and nurture him well make oga rest. Some married women especially new Moms need to step up their hygiene game.

Let any pig of a man or woman quote me to say rubbish this Saturday morning. I ready for anybody. I'm not smiling.

You need to see a shrink asap.

The way you're going these days ehn! Nobody is responsible for your being unmarried at old age, so stop getting angry at everybody

Jewessgratitud3:
Says two efulefus who can not maintain a family

I don't know why you two think you're making sense in all you've been rambling about so far. Can you listen to your dumb submission?

An underage girl with no proper education or vocational training and not financially independent getting pregnant is the best accomplishment to you two? Smh... Now I know the kind of slow guy that impregnated this girl. I can see the guy in YOU!

What if few years down the line sometimes happens to the guy and he can no longer fend for them or worse still, he kicks the bucket ( God forbid), where will she start from? How will she manage the home and cater for the childrens financial needs? Na una yellow teeth she go sell to train them?

When they say a woman should be financially independent it's in case of future emergencies and not to be feeding your lazy a$$es. Since you two don't know, I just said to educate you a little otherwise I would have just ignored the living daylights out of you. Very inconsequencial thinz.

Mannerless thing! Evening newspaper that has refused to change her bad ways! Ewu!

I can feed your entire generation and not go broke ejiot.

Continue deceiving naive girls and dragging them into your misery! You're the who is going to kill their men abi What a lame excuse to deceive young girls!

I still maintain that any girl who wishes to marry even at 16 should go ahead and marry. If she and her man plan well they can have investment that can sustain their children should the man dies. Instead of wasting time in school to acquire degrees that can only be put to use when the man dies.

Continue in your misery, evening newspaper!

Kajaard:
Like the op. Go through her posts. A perfect example. Misery loves company.

Exactly!

Kajaard:
Truer words were never spoken. Nicely said.

Honestly! A lot of ladies are already messed up mentally regarding marriage because they listened to those angry old unmarried ladies.

Even on social media, you'll see them deceiving young girls. That's a cancer currently fighting the marriage institutions especially in southern Nigeria! Many unmarried old ladies are out to prevent young girls from getting married!

Provided she's married or have the baby's daddy to take responsibility for her and the child, no problems!

I think more girls should decide what they want early enough and go for it. If you want to marry early, please do. Don't go wasting your time and then end up unmarried and jittery at old age like our nairaland evening newspapers!

I'll advise young girls to please stop taking marital or relationship advise from old unmarried women! It is very dangerous! Parents should also endeavor to protect their young daughters from such ladies! They don't mean well for you but only want to drag you into their kind of fate. Misery loves company!

If you want to marry early, please go ahead and marry! After all, most of the so called educated ladies still heap all the financial responsibilities on their husbands, making me wonder the use of all the education. The worst are those that would have gone into menopause before getting one simp to marry them. The husband will not gain anything eventually because he'll spend his resources in going from one hospital to another in search of a child whilst also bearing the family's financial burdens.

Where are nairaland ladies to come and tell us what women really want? Many women complain about their husbands not helping out with chores but here is a woman complaining that her husband does too much domestic chores. So, which one do we follow

Jambofficial13:
OP never know say 10k no dey last again. You won 53 million and you think you're financially free?

You're still a poor man because that money has no foundation at all. This is how most yahoo boys get it wrong, you think when a huge money suddenly hits your account then you're suddenly rich, that's not the way money works bro.

Bad belle!

Celebrate with the guy or never comment to show how jittery you are that a struggling young man broke the yoke of poverty through lottery.

I understand op's situation. Many Nigerians hate introverted guys. They misconstrue their introversion for being pompous or they'll say he's lazy! For this reason, they ostracize him and would not want to help him with jobs or connections. But the universe understands the nature of all the humans inhabiting planet earth. That is why it blessed whoever he chooses to have mercy on.

And who said op cannot invest the money wisely and reap profits that can keep him out of poverty forever.

Congratulations to you op. I tap into your blessing for bigger wealth to come my way. May the universe favour me with abundance of wealth more than what I make currently.

This is how many human resources keep wasting away in Nigeria. Our leaders fail to understand that the greatest source of revenue for any nation is her human resources!

This is why many governments in the western world ensure that everybody is working by creating job boards to help fix people into jobs. But here our leaders would rather create obnoxious economic policies that would make many genuine employers of labor go out of business. Take the pharmaceutical industry for instance, many have left the shores of Nigeria while others are preparing to leave due to bad policies!

It's a pathetic situation in Nigeria!

macho44:
Ooooooooooooh!
How Do You Want Your BEER?
Ice Cold or Just Chilled With Nkwobi/Asun By The Side?
You're spot on with your analysis 🫂
What I Do Is, Whenever I'm Romantically Attracted To A Daughter Of Eve, If I Like Am Wella, I Go Let Am KNOW, I Go Still Let Am Know Day If She Begin Do Anyhow, Me Sef No SEND Am.

lol....

I tell you! They can frustrate the hell out of a guy if they discover he's deeply into them.

macho44:
Truth is, none of the men she's been Intimately involved with "LOVED Her For Who She Was".
A lot of people go through life without finding their soulmate's, hopefully DJ Cuppy will find hers🙏. E fit be me sef, abi wetin you think 🤔

Hehehehe...e fit be you o, my guy

However, you need to understand that most ladies of nowadays don't bother about men's genuine love. They despise the good men who genuinely love them but prefer to go on a wild goose chase for frivolities. I'm telling you from experience!

Once I am genuinely in love with a lady, it hardly ever works out because as soon as I let them know I'm in love with them, that's the end of the relationship because they'll start making shakara and I'm not the type to start waiting and pestering for a long time. It drains me emotionally!

But if I come out with a typical playboy vibe, the ladies would be the ones getting burnt eventually because I'll not take them seriously. I want to marry a lady I'm deeply in love with because I know very well that the marriage would be more successful if I'm in love with the lady.

This is why I don't pity any woman going through maltreatment of any kind in the hands of a man.

Women are heartless when dealing with men. Even their supposed love for a man is usually for their selfish interests. No genuineness at all! It's either the man's fine face or his pocket which all boil down to their selfish interests.

If this story is true, the guy should just go to a good hospital and treat himself, afterwards he should marry a younger girl that can bear him children.

LSC (when it truly occurs) is very easy to treat!