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APOPTOSIS:
The Worst woman to relocate Abroad is a woman who does not love you for one bit. The best for most men is a solo way of life abroad, but if you can't get that, better settle for someone that loves you more.

Also try as much as possible to avoid Light complexioned Nigerian Ladies or habitual bleachers. It almost always innate with them that you gonna have terrible diaspora issues with them. Don't joke with statistics. It's an advice that's coming with a warning!

Women don't love men in reality because whatever they feel don't stand the test of time. It is their infatuation which fades after a few months together that they mistake for love! Therefore, it is very wrong for any man to take his wife abroad with the believe that she loves him.

Only men's love can hold a marriage together!

Well I'm considering leaving due to high exchange rate of naira to dollar, and also to be in a sane society where I'll see less of the impunity and lawlessness which Nigeria is known for.

I want to be in an environment where I'll not have to bribe anybody before jobs or anything I'm entitled to as a citizen of the country.

Where I'll see less of power cuts and infrastructural decay

A country where I'll practice my profession in a regulated environment so that the impact of my practice will be felt

And many more...

Since when has it become an offence to ask a lady for sex

That lady is too petty

This is bad in all ramification


I don't support this senselessness though I'm Igbo

I know very well that there are many clean Yoruba babes out there. There are also many dirty Igbo ladies as well.

I believe it's individual thing. Besides, Igbo ladies also have their peculiar fault which is their excessive longthroat and greediness when it comes to a man's pockets.

Cruise777:
Look at the comments of Ibo girls and understand why their men are in Asian prison for crimes


The tweet reads "BURROW" and the man would still pay back on their behalf through hard work

I'm telling you o! The greediness of an average Igbo lady makes them so undesirable! Their education is a total waste of money! That's why I'll never contribute a dime towards education of any Igbo girl except she is my daughter or has passed through my tutelage for a total reorientation. I can never educate a lady who will end up marrying a drug baron without looking back simply because he's in the abroad.

Britishcoins:
They are so humble, my bro if you see the house they are living u will not belive this 2 beautiful girl are from there.. I imagine house they are paying 500 naira per month.. The mother is very hard working.. She even do farm work to survive.. The girl is doing sales girl and surviving with 15k per month

That same girl will treat you like trash if you go broke!

I have seen the kind of ladies I desire.

The problem is that whenever I see my ideal ladies, it's either one bros is in the abroad deceiving her with non-existent marriage or she's already genuinely taken. This is very frustrating and may lead me into marrying someone I don't really like.

I dread marrying a lady I'm not deeply into because I don't know if I can ever be faithful to such lady.

HRHQueenPhil:
Head game yaself to Hell
You are truly in need because you don't know what you u need .

Why insult her because she was bold enough to say what most of you crave for but are too cowardly to say it out

As far as I'm concerned I love ladies like op who boldly say want they want in bed.

It's a free world @op, go for what you want!

edunaragold:
as your case be na so my own be too,I will send money they will laugh and say how much is this ,I came to understand that the change she dose of for me to let go of the baby.if I talk ,she will cut calls,of I ask of the baby she will cut calls.me too leave them , brother igbo woman too useless

Everybody keep lamenting about Igbo ladies, yet they don't want to change from their bad ways!

Igbos have the highest number of 40+ single women in Nigeria. When you dig deep you'll discover that their greediness is responsible for their not being married. They are too greedy and long throated! An Igbo girl would marry a criminal provided he has money to throw around. Whenever you see them lamenting about yahoo boys killing their girlfriends, they're only paying lip service to the menace. Deep in their hearts they don't care provided they are not the victims.

It is only Igbo ladies that are so shameless that a man who is married abroad would marry them and tie them down in Nigeria while he's abroad enjoying with his oyibo wife. Ladies that call criminals and yahoo boys "Odogwu" because they have ill-gotten wealth.

I won't advise even my enemies to marry an Igbo girl. Never!!!

That was a good decision by the president.

AlphaHakimi:
Dear men,

I want to take out time to properly educate you oh how women think and act. I also want to educate you on the general solution to most problems you face in your marriage or relationship.

A woman was created to be under a man and hence she should serve at the behest of her husband or boyfriend. Now this authority that was given to men is not just because you have a dick, it is because nature has given you some tools which establishes your authority.

These tools are
1) Developed Reasoning
2) Physical strength
3) Finances.

If a woman senses any weakness in these aforementioned endowment from nature, she is bound to misbehave.

Developed reasoning refers to your ability to make judgement devoid of emotions. If something is black, then it is black even if your emotion is telling you it is white.

Physical strength enables you to navigate this world in providing for yourself and for your family.

Finances enables you to create a certain level of comfort for yourself. When this comfort is created, you then get a woman as part of the comfort you need.
In all these, nature has ensured that you live a life according to what you can provide for yourself.

Now women generally respond to these qualities. If she senses any weakness in any of these attributes, she rebels.

Leaders often times take tough decisions in order to subdue the followers and this makes it easier for them to lead.

NEVER GRANT A WOMAN FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE. This is because most women enter into marriage or relationship because it offers them a certain level of financial freedom without responsibility.

Verbal abuse and physical abuse are the same kind if abuse the difference is just in the instrument used.

If you want your wife to stop abusing you, withdraw every form of financial assistance you give her. Close down that shop you opened for her. Make her depend on you for survival.

Just to further explain my point, You cannot abuse your boss at work not because you fear and respect him but because he pays you and thus grants you financial freedom. The day you resign from your job, you automatically discover that you no longer fear or respect your boss.

Don't be afraid to loose your wife, if she is tired of the marriage she should go. Don't endure any form of verbal abuse.

Just make a rule from today, Any day your wife insults you, make her pay the price immediately.

No matter your age, you can still remarry. Men generally avoid women who have been previously married.

Don't worry about your kids, when they grow up, they will understand.

Shalom

Why do some of you guys think you have better reasoning than females Such delusion! Women reason far better than most men. That is why they successfully turn love relationships to their advantage.

Physical strength is relative. Some women are physically stronger than some men and you know it.

Many women in this country are more financially well off than their male counterparts. If you are surrounded by poor women, I'm surrounded by rich ladies.

So, the premise upon which your post is based hold no water especially in this modern world.

I don't believe that men cheat on ladies they really love. The truth is that these days men hardly marry the women they truly love and desire rather they are forced by situations to marry whoever that agrees to marry them.

It is very hard these days for guys to marry the ladies they desire because once you tell a girl that you love her, she'll most likely reject you thinking that she is too hot and that is why you're falling for them. So, most guys are left with no choice than to MANAGE whoever that agrees for them while pretending to love them so much in other to keep the family.

Personally, I know that I can never cheat if I eventually marry my kind of lady. .

It can be very frustrating when a lady you loved to the extent of marrying her insults and disrespect you like this. Those abusive words hurt more than even physical abuse.

Westerhoffe:
Prevention is better than cure…
So I just don't fall sick.

Yeah, prevention is better than cure really, but when cure becomes inevitable or when you need preventive medications, always consult a Pharmacist.

Westerhoffe:
From my personal experiences, nurses are both.
But my main turn-off was the stabbing part.
I can turn down your flirt with ease, used to that already. But the syringe and needle aspect, o boy! Especially when you have no choice than to take that drip, you need to see the way she was stabbing my arm with syringe and it will swell up instantly. She'll remove it and stab another place. Done about four to five times before she went to call the doctor, who yelled at them angrily before coming to do it himself.

Since then, I just don't bother going to stay in the hospital...herbal remedy is enough.

Injection no better pass tablets o. Always go to a QUALIFIED and REGISTERED Pharmacist whenever you fall sick. They always know what best to give!

NLegendforte:
Shut up and learn.

Tell your father to shut up.



Ewu

Mohisah:
Not like dat. Who no fit touch ur husband, & if husband is the force man, he dare not touch her, else na guardroom u go see ur self with heavy damange control fr ur body. Soldiers no dey bully deïr partner & hv rest of mind sha

I don stay for barracks before and I know how e dey be. Some soldiers dey beat their spouse, especially male soldiers.

Kobojunkie:
How many of those guys who you speak of are happy today?

How do you know that they're not happy

That useless Lagos hospital owner knows why his staff are leaving his hospital for greener pastures abroad. Private hospitals in Nigeria are mostly owned by devil's incarnates who would overwork their staff only to pay them peanuts at the end of the month.

Despite the huge amount of money they charge patients, they'll still not pay their worker well. That is one contributing factor to why most of those private hospitals are nothing to write home about because their workers are mostly not motivated, hence they render half-hearted services to patients. The government need to thoroughly regulate our private hospitals to ensure that they operate at par with public hospitals not only in terms of staff welfare but in meeting set standards for hospital operations.

With the way things are going in Nigeria, every wise person is seriously considering the japa option. Even me that was thinking I could put in some work in Nigeria as payback for my education, I have changed my mind and would soon start my japa process.

All these quack universities offering Pharmacy!

PCN has got to be very careful with them. Quality must not be compromised!

Aside being bigger than the man in size, she also got military training. Any fvck up from the guy, she'll thoroughly mend him.

Some guys like such women sha who'll tame and emasculate them.

Nor be for someone like me sha

revolt:
I thought I was the only sensible observer here o.. the thing weak me. The guy can't even physically match her. She's bigger than him.. damn... their fight no go easy. Lol... hopefully she's posted out most of the year.

He'll definitely be submissive and loyal to her otherwise na steady beating him go dey collect

ukaface:
nothing I no go read for this forum
O chim , hiaaaaaa

You dey mind that simp?

That guy ( abi girl sef) deserve the award of the biggest simp of nairaland.

Unless she's a lady I don't desire. But if I desire her, I can't guarantee not to touch her all through the night.

Jewessgratitud3:
Hmm... You seem to understand my personality.

The thing is, they come anytime I talk to God about it but my fear is I keep getting what I don't really want. Like no feelings for them. Like now, as I was typing , one just called me. He's everything but the attraction is not there. I'm scared I don't want to enter and now regret. No feelings for him.

You must not have 'feelings' for a man before you marry him. Provided he's a good guy and has demonstrated that he really loves and desires you, go ahead and marry him. A man's love is the most important in marriage because that is what is needed most considering the enormous responsibilities marriage places on a man. Stop acting like an immature 16yo girl!

Telemundo is doing a lot of damages to the psyche of this generation's ladies! Their minds are always focused on the telemundo kind of love. Stop watching too much Indian love films and come to terms with reality. Wether you believe it or not, your desirability to men declines as you age. Don't be decieved by the attention you get from immature boys in your dm. Many of them are only looking for sugar mummies and sex without commitment. You'll be surprised to realize this when you decide to give one of them a chance.

So, if you're sure you still have a man who is serious about marrying you, I'll advise you to take a chance today because you might not have such opportunity tomorrow.

Even at your age you still haven't learnt the code of marriage. That is why you're still saying "I must like the person first".

Let me enlighten you a bit..... there's a reason the scripture says "Men LOVE your wives and Wives SUBMIT to your husband.

Love as we know it can never be mutual! And like you even alluded in your post, men are expected to be the one to carry the bulk of the family's responsibilities (financially and otherwise). Since most women will not agree to carry the family's responsibilities even when they have the means, and since humans tend to take advantage of the one who loves and desires them especially men, it is wise for women to suppress their own feelings and follow the man who desires them. You're only required to submit to them. Besides, most women end up liking the men on the long run

That way, the man would gladly shoulder his responsibilities as the man of the house! It is easier that way! Women who insist that they must marry the one they have feelings for should be ready to go after the men they desire, woo them, withstand all the time he'll be playing "hard to get", marry him and cater for him and the family! If you cannot do all these, then follow the age-long method or remain single for life.

Even in biology, males are represented with the diagram bent towards the direction of the female which stands straight.


This generation of ladies will want to eat their cakes and still have it.

Blacks should never complain about racial discrimination by the whites because even blacks discriminate against one another.

In Nigeria for instance, the three major tribes discriminate and hate themselves. Even in the same tribe, blacks still discriminate against their kinds.

People like Martin Luther Kings and other notable blacks who fought against racial discrimination of blacks would be turning in their graves seeing the level of discrimination and hatred which blacks have meted to their kinds.

Persephone1:
Aha! I was right after all! It takes a psychopath to defend a psychopath!

You know you are not really as invincible as you think on Nl right?

Come and arrest me if you can

Little21:
Nahh. It's all back too you in 100 folds. At least think sometimes with your senseless brain before writing trash to people online.
Continue with whatever curse you have left .bye!

Your family is cursed for real!

You are communicating with a deity, so just know that any curse I pronounce on you tonight must manifest in your family and in your life!

Persephone1:
Don't kill for rituals sha...

That's my own.

With the way I hate Nigerian ladies now, I can't guarantee not to

Persephone1:
Nahhhhh bro. It doesn't work that way. An arrow can only be returned once. Your curse has being reverted back to you in double folds, next time think twice before you curse a stranger online.

Good luck with whatever becomes of you after tonight bye!

Mtchhhheeeeeeww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Little21:
Bleep off!! I see that justify killing.
Most of you just need too be locked in confinement. You are just so worthless!

It is your father, mother and accursed family that are worthless!


I have no more iota of pity for the female gender and I mean it.