₦airaland Forum

ceeroh:
African mentality is totally fuvked up! Most times we usually relate sexual abuse to the girl child alone. Most young boys are exposed to sexual abuse but you hardly hear of it. An incident happened roughly 2 decades ago, a young boy was being molested regularly by an aunt... BTW don't ask me who the young boy was

StUdY1:
But the fact that I read a few pages on different thread on this forum that it is better to have a skill than having a degree have being making me to think about forgetting about education and focus more on what I am doing(which is my skill)

PLS I WILL NEED YOUR ADVICE!!!THANKS...

EVILFOREST:
A COMPLETE WASTE OF RESOURCES.
with this attitude of ours, we cannot get to any where.
Kindly use your GOOGLE MAPS to access places in Nigeria. What you will find will keep you mute, especially in the southern part of the country.
U will find WORSHIP CENTRES littered every where.
U will hardly find thriving mega businesses except in LAGOS.

Then use similar GOOGLE MAPS to access JAPAN,
SOUTH KOREA, USA, GERMANY, ETHOPIA.
U will see worship CENTRES sparsely distributed, with companies and packaging factories littered everywhere.
Despite these worship centers, NIGERIA is still closer to the DEVIL than these people

Abbeybailey:
Gbam. With that kind of mindset, Nigeria will forever be a perpetual 3rd World country with a bleak future. What Nigeria needs is not mega churches or House of worship, she needs industries and commerce to lift her people out of poverty.

jaxxy:
This is great bt we should also care for the helpless in the church. I see so many struggling to feed and pay skol fees in the same Church That’s building cathedrals and mega domes.

judajix:
Why don't you build factories that can employ a substantial amount of the church population then use proceeding profits to build the biggest building in the world

Majidmuhammad:
i can pay you for this comment. What business does a pastor have with building factorie? Does he make soap?

davidodiba:
Do you realise how many people will get our passport as a Nation to come explore this wonder? You are a small thinker....stop being biased and be happy when others succeed...when he started you did not notice him

Abbeybailey:
Gbam. With that kind of mindset, Nigeria will forever be a perpetual 3rd World country with a bleak future. What Nigeria needs is not mega churches or House of worship, she needs industries and commerce to lift her people out of poverty.

Appili:
wasted fund,this building is just for show,can you imagine how many people the money used in construction would have changed their lifes.

Abbeybailey:
Gbam. With that kind of mindset, Nigeria will forever be a perpetual 3rd World country with a bleak future. What Nigeria needs is not mega churches or House of worship, she needs industries and commerce to lift her people out of poverty.

Grupo:
I'm an atheist but sometimes we need to allow these church people to breathe a little. No be every time we go dey find fault for wetin dem do.

Sirheny007:
Do not be quick to say it is greediness.

Consider their predicament first;
If KEKE NAPEP were to carry the standard number of passengers which is 3, wherein lies their gain?
I pity the KEKE riders when i see hundreds of them at Boundary market waiting for their turns..

BUT,
The Benin riders are somewhat greedy o!
4 passengers is understandable but 5 is greediness.

abbeyty:
And I heard is the only child,what a waste

HigherEd:
Truth be told a Dangote doesn't do to well with competition. And while his companies have brought so many jobs to Nigeria we can't deny that the lack of competition which is a product of govt stifling opposition does a lot of harm...

CodeTemplar:
What is the point of govt stifle the cement competition and make dangote artificially rich while citizens are homeless?
Is that a example of Dangote making life easier?

CodeTemplar:
The north have been using this rough tactic to develop themselves for decades. Their eyes are fixated on the South's resources to the point they neglect their own potential.

rhajaan:
I laugh when other tribes see Northerners as unintelligent Abo..kis.....see the amount of scholarships offered to their indigenes..... good southern professors.. would dominate and Populate their system with southern brethren, ...rather they went for foreign Profs. who would not care about domination but would mentor the Northerners

Take a look at Ekiti for example and see how the educational structures are rapidly falling. If you have ever schooled up North...there is a systematic plan to have Northerners...foreign trained and obviously better...to take over from southerners in most Universities... eg ABU and BUK...

I hope other states wake up...

AfonjasMustProsper:

Everything in your list is correct except "Having only one source of income"

I just accessed you with that dumb comment

My uncle only had one source of income which was exporting palm oil and he was rich as fucck

I followed his footsteps too

Now, mention any rich person that has more than 1 source of income, I'm waiting

bongolistik:
How much can solve your immediate problem now? You never can tell, someone might just want to assist you now to offset it

chukxie:
I've heard so many negative tales out of Oman. I personally met a Nigerian lady on a plane who described in shocking details how her boss and his family treated her while working for them as a maid. The grass isn't always green on the other side.

sulaiman01:
You already got the job most people don't have. and still wanted to travel to a country that's known for slavery. please stick to your job and go on

GT07115:
Hello guys, I am 29, I don't know much about the Uber and Oman, please I need concrete advice, anyone in Oman, and anyone in Uber business, should please help out

olamilarks:
With your own car on Uber you can comfortably make 200k+ in a month in Lagos. I know this cos I drive on Uber and I deliver 140k monthly to the owner of my car, I take home at least 80k monthly after fuel and other expenses. It's better to face the hustle in one's fatherland than looking to go and labour in racist Asia. Let's talk here : https:///2349082711043 if you wish to know more.

tensazangetsu20:
Go for the uber but avoid the Toyota corolla drastically. You can go for a Peugeot, volvo or an opel. I repeat avoid the piece of shit econobox. It might get stolen before it is even driven out of the parking lot.

generationz:
1 you claim you were a virgin yet your neighbours house maid had slept with you

2 secondly I do not believe all the other times your male friend raped you was done without consent. why did you continuously go to his house if you didn't want it. my guess is you enjoyed it but the guilt you feel that homosexuality is seen as a sin and a crime in Africa is making you second guess

sorry about the older lady and the house maid , those were the only people I feel you didn't consent too.

MrBottle:
yes sir

Mmaxix:
Babe...don't risk the relationship. Give him what you can afford to let go. If he was a husband, I will have no worries, but a boyfriend is no guarantee.
Money is one of the most potent relationship wreckers among friends so watch it.
My humble opinion though.
Personally I will not let go that amount for a boyfriend but I will gladly let go all for my husband.

franksam2009:
Don't forget he z not married to you yet, I won't advice u to give a man u are not married to ur life savings. Think twice. Sometimes love can be a scam oo

yazz09:
You are not obliged to lend him the exact amount he asked. Give him what you are comfortable with and tell him that's what you can part with as you still have other personal and business things that needs your funds

Amhappy:
There are several cases of Men who gave their life-savings for a girl education and eventually got disappointed at the end of the day. They become bitter and some do crazy things including murder. So this is not an issue of relationship but business. Do not give what you cannot afford to lose.

1stNumeroUno:
The irony is - the more employable graduates we have the more job opportunities would abound. I can explain further if you need me too.

Juliusmalema:
God bless u.....


Ebonyians from time immemorial has been sabotaging the unity of igboland.


Is better igbos know whom their enemies are.

Kiishii:
There isnt more to it, i kept it from him before marriage that's why he's reacting this way, he said it was a risky gamble, and i have apologised multiple times.

I had triplets.

luckygeee:
i opened this thread and i havent shared my experience, i think its time i do

dorriss:
In other news, i have 100k, i need ideas on a profitable business i can venture into. I'm a lil confused right now

MrMacinterchi1:
Lol. I'm a Nigerian bro. I was speaking generally on the uncut stuff. I know how we perceive thing here in Nigeria. Just like u are now, I was bewildered when I first heard about others from different race and countries not being cut.


Some whites are not, same with Indians too. The guy from Zimbabwe said that they do not cut babies when they are born; that they are given the chance to choose whether to get cut or not.
It's weird but things work differently in many place.

I'm cut and I like it just fine and it's more attractive to me than seeing those uncut. it looks weird to me but I guess not so to them.

MISEDUCATIONS:
im Zimbabwe we dont cut foreskins of babies. the boy must choose to when he is of age.

MrMacinterchi1:
He once mentioned being from Zimbabwe. And, most male are uncut. Don't see it as a new thing.

MISEDUCATIONS:
i was barely grade 5 when two older girls forced themselves on me and my friend. i remember i bled because they tried to pull back the foreskin but it was too tight around my pènìs head. may God help men.

Earthbound:
I was molested too by older babysitting family friends













But I realised much later, it was more or less consensual. Women have been telling me from a young age that I'm huge. I've grown to love it.

Mynd44:
Well actually, its her body and she can decide not to have any children sef.

The flip side is that it is his life, he can decide to walk out of the marriage to go have more kids.

These things shouldn't be binary. Childbirth isn't easy and a lot of women after going through one dont want or are scared to have another and they should not be blackmailed into it. But women should also not blackmail men into staying in a marriage where she has refused to have more and he refused.

A better solution is surrogacy. Her eggs, his sperm and someone else (paid or whatever the arrangement is) carries the baby to term. Everyone is happy.

Childbirth does a lot of things to women, a lot of women have to stop their careers, have to give up dreams, have to watch their body go through (sometimes irreversible) change so please do not blame them for not wanting it.

But is it selfish? Of course it is. But is it wrong? No.

Partnerbiz:
What's your authority bro?

Those oils sellers are ripping you off.

Walelavender:
Nice one Op

There's an instruction at the duct of the gear oil-"No need to replace ATF under normal working condition,if you need to, check the Owner's manual'

However I change the the engine oil as at when due, but recently on the dashboard,it reads- "maintenance required". Could it be that the ATF needs to be changed coz the gear oil is no longer sticky?

Don't ask me about the Owner's manual
E no dey

brunofarad:
60% of Nigerian car owners are using the wrong transmission oil.

Fact

ttshems:
And pls don't even make any of this mistake with A CVT

strangest:
Na so my guy go change his transmission oil for the first time... the transmission knocked the next day... if you do not have the right transmission oil available.... postpone changing the transmission oil until you get the right one

sunnedee2:
Even the rich man knows beer is not sweet

strangest:
Na so my guy go change his transmission oil for the first time... the transmission knocked the next day... if you do not have the right transmission oil available.... postpone changing the transmission oil until you get the right one

moscobabs:
My route is prone to traffic and I hate driving in traffic, I only drive the car to bar on Sunday and it's close to my house