Celebrities › Re: Comedian Cute Abiola Acquires Mercedes Benz (Photos) by JuanDeDios: 9:20pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
Chloraseptic: Poverty is too much in Nigeria..
It's weird if you don't own a car in some countries Nowhere is it weird if you don't own a car. A lot of people in developed countries choose not to since there's a functional public transport system. In fact, Patrick Willot once said it's foolish to own a car in the UK. And a car is certainly not as basic as food by any stretch since you can live a decent life without owning a car. I think your point is that a car is not a luxury. Yes, it's not in developed countries. but IT IS in Nigeria because incomes are low for most people. |
Celebrities › Re: Comedian Cute Abiola Acquires Mercedes Benz (Photos) by JuanDeDios: 4:47pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
Chloraseptic: For Christ sakes cars are basic life needs just like food..
Not everything must be celebrated. Really |
Travel › Re: Andy Uba Lands His Private Jet At Anambra Int'l Airport: Video by JuanDeDios: 7:23am On Jan 01, 2022 |
catherine1998: Yes of course, we are seriously building the airport, you can go & greet transformer, idiot A governor is wasting your money. You're happy because you can't see it. You're calling someone an idiot. There is no hope for you people. |
Romance › Re: I'm Attracted To Dead Women!!! by JuanDeDios: 2:19pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
LogicBomb8: I used to think necrophilia only exist in america and other far away lands....you need spiritual treatment Nothing exists in only one place. The freer or more liberal a society gets, the more things crawl out into the open. The internet has brought that kind of opportunity for people to express themselves. |
Education › Is Federal Government Scholarship Worth It? by JuanDeDios(op): 9:47am On Dec 31, 2021 |
BEA Scholarship. NDDC Scholarship. ETC. Some Nigerians have travelled abroad on these scholarships and others. Have you been a beneficiary or know anyone who is? Does the Nigerian government meet its obligations to the students? Or do they get stranded there and have to find ways to survive? Is it worth the trouble going? |
Travel › Re: Andy Uba Lands His Private Jet At Anambra Int'l Airport: Video by JuanDeDios: 3:20pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
PrinceOfLagos: What's the market price of the jet then ?
If it's 3 million like the guy I quoted said, then wizkid for don buy 3 You're actually right. I had a mixup there. |
Travel › Re: Andy Uba Lands His Private Jet At Anambra Int'l Airport: Video by JuanDeDios: 3:20pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Bunkbars: Aswear, Obasanjo and this man really stole money from anambra, if not for ngige and peter obi that state would be in shambles Obasanjo stole from Anambra? Now, that's a new one. |
Travel › Re: Andy Uba Lands His Private Jet At Anambra Int'l Airport: Video by JuanDeDios: 3:17pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
PrinceOfLagos: That jet should cost nothing short of 25million dollars
Andy Uba is a thief Sorry. Mixup. |
Travel › Re: Andy Uba Lands His Private Jet At Anambra Int'l Airport: Video by JuanDeDios: 3:17pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Ezewuzie01: Enugu airport will be the biggest loser. Anambra people are already redirecting their flights to the Anambra airport. And the coming on board of Ebonyi airport will finally sound a death knell on the Enugu airport though Ebonyi airport will struggle too due to poverty in Ebonyi state. I see Ethiopian Airways relocating their international flights from Enugu to Anambra soon. Ebonyi is serious about building an airport? Nigeria should be renamed the land of useless, white elephant projects. |
Family › Re: My Husband Is Frustrating Me. by JuanDeDios: 10:28am On Dec 30, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1: one thing is certain....he doesnt want kids now, and that should be the end of this dscussion.
whether they did discuss it or not, this man doesnt not want children now and that should be the end of this "lets have a baby" discussion.
she "thinks" his reluctance is because of money...isnt that also an assumption?! what about asking your husband the simple question: WHY? ... and accept whatever answer he will give you?!
sadly, in this day and age, staying married at all cost (to fit with the Joneses) is more imprtant to people than anything else. End of the discussion? Accept whatever he says - like what she has to say doesn't matter? It does not work that way. Never have. In negotiation theory, there's something called an "ongoing relationship". In an ongoing relationship, everything is up for discussion and you keep at it. It's a different matter if he said "Look, I don't want kids." In that case, it's best for her to move on if she can't accept that. But from what she wrote, it appears to be usual "I'm not ready to have kids yet." In that case, it's understandable that she wants to make him see reason that they can have kids on their present monthly income of N170,000. Here: Kolawole2130: He says his not ready to start bearing kids that he wants to have enough money to take care of the kids. He says he doesnt want his children to suffer. |
Family › Re: My Husband Is Frustrating Me. by JuanDeDios: 9:55am On Dec 30, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1: ... while she doesnt want to see reason with him?! why not just accept that these guys aint compatible and move on with their respective lives?!
thats because you "assume" that he doesnt wanna have kids for financial reason, while it can be many other reasons. the point is: he doesnt want kids, and that should be his final answer. it is obvious that this is something they've talked about way before marriage, thus she has nothing to complain about, as she fully well knew what type of man she was marrying.
the important question here IS: SHOULD YOU FORCE A PERSON TO HAVE KIDS, WHILE IT IS OBVIOUS THEY DONT WANT TO HAVE KIDS?!?! How is it obvious he doesn't ever want kids? There's no evidence they discussed it before marriage - that's your ASSUMPTION. They likely didn't - and that's a common mistake. Of course, if he wants kids and she doesn't, going their separate ways is the right thing to do. But the lady seems to think his reluctance is because of money - she said so and it seems you didn't read those parts. That's why she's trying to make him see reasons with her. |
Family › Re: My Husband Is Frustrating Me. by JuanDeDios: 9:43am On Dec 30, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1: you have a narrow minded view on the issue because you are focussing on the wrong things.... aka your desperate bodyclock etc your man tells you he aint ready...so you can either WAIT with him or go find a man who has the same views as you...but dont try to change a man.. Ultimately, you're right about the bolded, but since she's married to him, it makes sense that she wants to make him see reasons with her. The man is also being narrow-minded. I used to think like him until I had all the money I thought I needed to care for a child and then the kids refused to come. Life is about thriving in chaos, balancing ends, taking risks, juggling different things. The idea that you have to get certain things right before attempting others may work sometimes. but it can backfire sometimes. |
Politics › Re: Masari’s Arms Suggestion: Governance Of Confusion’s Complete, Ohanaeze Mocks by JuanDeDios: 9:36am On Dec 30, 2021 |
NewsForYou: Even Masari is not thinking well. You want to arm people in a country like Nigeria like for real? Buy ammunitions and share to people with no identity? Who will be responsible for these ammunition? After the Fulani menace have been quenched how do you retrieve the guns? In a country like Nigeria or even Africa no individual should be allow to wield arms. You give people arms with no job and no security you are going to have something worse than squid game. You dey mind them. People don't know what they're asking for. |
Politics › Re: PAJAWIRI: Banji Akintoye Unveils Mobile App To Track Kidnap Victims by JuanDeDios: 4:15pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
I've only read the title, but it doesn't work in Igboland? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Job In Maiduguri: Do I Accept? by JuanDeDios: 2:03pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Elsueno: Nope, u did not, that city is a fortress, there are already millions of people living there. Thousands of soldiers, mopol & other security personnels. she is safe inside the city, Also if u story is true, multi national like that would have thier workers housed in a prime location. There are even no bandits in that vicinity. The only problem currently I know of is lack of electricity. but security wise only Abuja is better....so yeah..U fuvcked off man 100% correct. Maiduguri city is about as safe as Lagos or any Nigerian city. Just don't venture outside the city. |
Crime › Re: Robbers Drop Apology Note After Robbing A Lady by JuanDeDios: 7:43am On Dec 27, 2021 |
dan9ice: Them don blow that powder
Back the in Ajegunle. These thieves have the nerves sha.. They entered boys room(when I'm talking of boys, I meant their species, their genotype) they took every ones phone.. The funnies thing is that, they bend the protector still yet nobody noticed (no be juju be that) Later in the day they discovered they where sedated with black magic o. That's when I got to Know the powder thing It's not black magic. It's sleeping powder. |
Car Talk › Re: Car Wash Guy Drives Client's Benz GLC To Buy Food, Crashes It (video) by JuanDeDios: 5:01pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Jakumo: Hahaha dis man don buy market o.
On a serious note, anyone driving an expensive Mercedes yet who has no home with a driveway where an employee can be assigned to wash the car, should sell that vehicle and buy a fairly used Okada motorcycle that better suits their budget. You haven't met the Nigerians. That sort of thing is perfectly normal. |
Car Talk › Re: Car Wash Guy Drives Client's Benz GLC To Buy Food, Crashes It (video) by JuanDeDios: 4:58pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
In his little mind, that lying down thing he's doing can fix it. |
Culture › Re: Divorce: We Are Probing Possible Hacking Of Olori Naomi’s Instagram Page- Palace by JuanDeDios: 1:03pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
baralatie: The bolded You must be in shock right now  |
Culture › Re: Divorce: We Are Probing Possible Hacking Of Olori Naomi’s Instagram Page- Palace by JuanDeDios: 12:59pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
ivolt: Her statement was carefully written to avoid backlash. If she reveals that her decision has something to do with the new wife, many people will consider her foolish and selfish to have assumed she will be the last wife
Ooni had older wives in the palace before his first post-crown marriage but those ones are never in the limelight and pose no threat to her.
The alleged arrival of the new wife, who is said to be a London-based attorney however may have changed the palace dynamics.
When a woman talks about struggle in marriage without sharing details, the most probable reasons are; Money issues, lack of attention due to competition from other women, in-law problems, and domestic violence.
The first wife was kicked out because of in-law issues but this particular one was allegedly brought in by the in-laws which leave other women as the most likely cause of their issues. The fact that the palace is denying her decision to leave also supports the other women theory as she might have accepted the new wife in private. Bolded is interesting. I never knew that. But Queen Naomi said the Ooni is a different man in private and in public. That's heavy. It's something serious to say about a man and I doubt she would say it lightly. And I wonder what you mean by "in-law issues" with a previous wife. One would have thought a man in the Ooni's position would be shielded from any trouble from his wife's family. I doubt most families would even try to create problems for a man like that. |
Culture › Re: Divorce: We Are Probing Possible Hacking Of Olori Naomi’s Instagram Page- Palace by JuanDeDios: 12:10pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
ivolt: He is lying. Even terrorist and murderers have loyal wives. This woman is leaving because of the new wife that was married October this year. The other 2 wives didn't want to leave. They were divorced due to in-law issue and they did all they could to stay. Bolded is true. Ok. But Queen Naomi said in her post that it's nothing to do with any new wife. I doubt anyone would marry a king around here and then expect there'd be no other wives. There has to be another reason. |
Romance › Re: Kenyan Side Chic Knocks Out Sugar Daddy’s Wife During Confrontation At Her Place by JuanDeDios: 11:25am On Dec 24, 2021 |
EmzyT: The married woman was lucky to dodge a few of the punches, and threw some of her own, but she was not lucky for long as one of the mistress’ punch hit her face and she fell down
 You see commentary! |
Culture › Re: Divorce: We Are Probing Possible Hacking Of Olori Naomi’s Instagram Page- Palace by JuanDeDios: 11:21am On Dec 24, 2021 |
Omihanifa: What is there to probe the lady is no longer doing because she's tired of living her life for the gram and camera.
Let the ooni go and marry another yellow girl nah if it won't still be the same outcome
The truth of the matter is that as long as the king continues his Shaddy and fraudulent lifestyle ( 419, ritual killings) there's no woman that will stay with him Oga o! Really?! |
Education › Re: Sylvester Oromoni: 5 Dowen College Students Granted Bail by JuanDeDios: 7:04am On Dec 22, 2021 |
RapistOnBail:
ThankGod social media no be judge.
Otherwise, rapists would be lynched on sight? |
Politics › Re: PSC Promotes Six Police Commissioners, Two AIGs, 7,207 Others by JuanDeDios: 6:48am On Dec 22, 2021 |
Okortor: Nice one by PSC.. however I am very happy for cp hakeem odumosu, Lagos state cp for his promotion to the rank of AIG, congratulations sir.
We gotta pop champagne when we see... continue the good work, your efforts aren't in vain.
And to all hard-working officer's, I wish you all the best in your career.
Great day guys. 1luv And what exactly is Mr Odumosu's good work? |
Politics › Re: PSC Promotes Six Police Commissioners, Two AIGs, 7,207 Others by JuanDeDios: 6:47am On Dec 22, 2021 |
superCleanworks: Congratulations but....
Where is James Nwafor?
or is he not due for promotion? Sure. Peter Obi and Willy Obiano should be able to swing that for him. |
Travel › Re: Governor Zulum Begins Painting Of Flyover In Maiduguri Like Kaduna (Photos) by JuanDeDios: 8:41am On Dec 20, 2021 |
GenAbacha: Lol
The north and their inexplicable obsession with flyover bridges. As in ehn!! Nigeria has to be the world's capital of wasteful and useless projects. |
Business › Re: Lady Gets N1.6M Job After Giving Plantain Of N400 To Someone For Free (Photos) by JuanDeDios: 1:09pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
blowjohn: Hmm at 5k per person that is 1.25 million.
So what about drinks? What about the people she will pay to cook with her? What about her own professional fee? You mean at N6,400 per person for 250 people YOU can't supply drinks and pay cooks? Business clearly isn't for you. |
Business › Re: Lady Gets N1.6M Job After Giving Plantain Of N400 To Someone For Free (Photos) by JuanDeDios: 10:30am On Dec 18, 2021 |
blowjohn: How do u cook food for 250 people at a cost of 1.6 million naira? Na eba and groundnut u wan serve ni?
And a classy meal at that! Lies! That works out to N6400 per person. How is that eba and groundnut? |
Health › Re: What Do You Take When You Have Malaria? Please Share. by JuanDeDios(op): 8:45am On Dec 18, 2021 |
kodded: see question 
Better visit the nearest pharmacy  Oh, I never knew pharmacies existed. Thanks for the info. But you haven't answered the question. |
Health › What Do You Take When You Have Malaria? Please Share. by JuanDeDios(op): 8:16am On Dec 17, 2021 |
Please share. What do you take for malaria? |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo To Nigerians: Don’t Expect Anything More From Buhari by JuanDeDios: 10:13am On Dec 14, 2021 |
vedaxcool: Old bitter man, you spent over how many billion of dollars and gave us darkness. You bitterness and envy is gigantic that your brother Abiola was denied his due recognition when you were president. There are people who actually admire and love Buhari and think he's a good leader. They will defend him and cuss anyone that denigrates or criticises him. They actually seem to think Buhari is a good leader for Nigeria - that is, they think Buhari is honest and has capacity. To these people, nothing matters, except their love for Buhari or what they're paid to defend him online. I find it fascinating. I wish someone would carry out PhD research to help us understand the psychology of these strange people. |