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alexpumpin:
I can't forget the day i trekked from ojota to mafoluku after i lost my wallet in 1997. I was so ashamed to beg for money from passersby, not because of superiority complex but because, i was not raised to be a begger. That can never happen again sha, Thanks to technology.

9jaRealist:
Exactly! It’s the 14-year-old’s fault that a PAEDOPHILE old enough to be her father is (at the very least from the VIDEO tape) inappropriately touching her.

Perhaps if that was YOUR OWN MINOR daughter, you will show “good sense” and perhaps find Baba Ijesha a private room to continue. SMH
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Stipe:
You do realise that there is video evidence that he defiled a minor right? So what in God's holy name are you spewing here?

Thereddevil:
I think from this post, women naturally expect their husbands to die before them and men also feel the same.. They put their wives and kids as next of kin cos they think they're gonna die first.. It's not so easy being a man, while you struggle to enrich your home with financial aid and happiness, you definitely know it's taking away your life so quickly, but a man gotta be a man..

Wordsfrombimpe:
Actions speak louder than words

Reading your comment it’s obvious you have the wrong mindset and a wrong mentality

Also you are busy criticizing single mothers but it’s your type of men that don’t use protection on women and they become baby mama for you and then you abandon them

Shame on you

You think Single Mothers are indiscipline if you don’t know the story behind their journey then fem and stop saying absurd things

How dare you look down on Single Mothers and think they are cheap I won’t tolerate any single mothers slander here ✅

Wordsfrombimpe:
I would accept because we are not perfect and love is key! If she makes my son happy , I will gladly accept

Yes I Will Accept Because I Will Be A Mother With A Great Mindset And Mentality and I will embrace his woman with love

We all deserve love either she has a child or not

Nigerian Men Change Your Mindset and never look down on people who have children

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

budaatum:
So, why don't you debunk "women deprivation in the society" with statistics instead of all this, what ever you call this of your's?

I just wonder what you think the kidnapping of girls is all about!

budaatum:
I really do not believe I need to be educating you on gender disparities in education but I can see I need to.

Please start with the following. Pay particular attention to the references at the end.

Sex differences in education

budaatum:
What do you expect when you deprive girls of school? Go check where they are not deprived and see them doing much better than men!

Ardar:
Most Nigerian mails would pick their extended families over their nuclear family any time any day even if one of the members of their extended family is a cannibal.

Richy4:
Based on what I read or watched on YouTube/ internet, He did not choose love over family..... He was disrespected..

Racism is something that should be frowned upon by everyone... Imagine discussing irrelevant things like what's gonna be the color of your baby in the name of royal protocol...

It's just like telling a couple who were expecting a baby that you know, your child will be an outcaste.. we the family members will not give him/her our name because you married an OSU... if you were to be in that man's shoes, are you gonna stand and be disrespected?

Welcum:
Family is important, yes. You have two families as a married man who has kids. You, your parents and your siblings belong to your FAMILY A (FAMILY OF BIRTH) while you, your wife, and your kids make up family B (Your own family).

Family B is your real family while Family A is your parents' family. So, basically, we are trying to decide between YOUR OWN FAMILY and YOUR PARENTS' FAMILY, the one you should give priority. So, why are you talking as if your wife is NOT a part of your family?

Cc: Liposure

Dpsychologist:
20.) MEN ARE MADE , WOMEN ARE BORN :
Women are born, a woman is just a girl that can conceive children. There is no challenge mental, spiritual or otherwise that distinguishes a girl from a woman, nothing other than age even attempts to make this distinction. And thus it is so that whilst we hear chatter of what constitutes manliness, that a hated man is a boy whilst an admired man is “a real man”, we hear no such rhetoric in regards to women.

Unlike womanhood, there are barriers to manhood which transcend age and they embody qualities and characteristics which men as a collective respect and aspire to. Things like fearlessness, confidence, bravery, strength and honour. Unlike women, men are not born, they are created. Pain, poverty, difficulty and heartache, these are the things that make men out of boys.

It is women that pushed most men to the red pill

Conflict and pain is what forges the masculine mindset, a boy cannot grow into a man without conflict and retrospectively analysing his mistakes. A man is the embodiment of experience and difficulty.

Men need to apply logic to the pain endured in their lives in order to become powerful enough to transcend boyhood. Men are not born because comfort doesn’t breed men, men are bred in the fields of bloody battle, be it a war of economy, psychology, violence, or a combination of such.

A man is a soldier of differing kinds, an individual that has learnt to repress fear and hone the adrenaline it elicits to attack his limitations and evolve. This is the spirit of “manning up”, all this the process necessary to become someone worthy of the mighty majesty the word “man” represents.

Dpsychologist:
Women hate to take responsibility, they hate to admit to faults, they’re so allergic to being wrong or being exposed in some negative way that rather commonly they’ll emotionally lash out, either at you or whoever is close by even when what is being said is either truthful or reasonable.

Women inherently value their own sense of well-being above reality and truth, justice doesn’t factor into the equation unless she personally feels indignant about the dispute at hand.

Funnily enough, if you explained and presented to a woman her illogical behaviour but instead of framing it as being part of her own behaviour you instead told her they were the actions of another woman, she’d concur with you that this behaviour was totally irrational.

It’s when you apply those same facts to her, she immediately begins to feel judged and then starts shutting down dissociates from reality and rejects the truth using flawed reasoning and stubbornness to alleviate her discomfort.

Mokason288:
Awuf dey run belle

That’s why the North is still very poor because they are very comfortable with cheap things

From cheap transportation

To cheap accommodation

To cheap food...

You can’t make it in your comfort zone

MODIFIED : To those kids quoting me ,have you asked your self why the South East and South South that things are very very expensive the individuals living there are super rich and richer than the North

I HOPE I MADE SENSE

ePoster:
Yen Yen Yen...
The Orange troll is out! Nothing's made me more happy than watching the loser concede...
*Sighs*

Monitoring your account... You've been jumping from one thread to the other being your usual self...

Deactivate dapcity!!! Imagine if the bet had been 10k instead...


Too much big English... Let me ask you a question... What makes a woman inferior?
1. The mindset...
2. The vagina...

ePoster:
So? I agree... The thread is asking why black men choose to live lives of hypocrisy...

These men are the exact copies of the women the dislike...it's worse cause the physical appearance of black women is always a thing they throw shades at... Nappy hair, broad nose, etc.

Describe a white girl and most would use the word 'delicate'.

Why hate what you bear so much semblance to?

You can't answer the question?!

ePoster:
Sure... How about black men?

Most are ghetto... African American men are all about drugs, the hood and being pimps.... They are the masculine representation of these awful females...

Then here, where the women are same and a good deal more quiet...why the hate?

There's always a reason why black men consider black women to be inferior to those of other races... Even if the white girl is a racism sex addict, black men would classify her as being sensual and expressive...

Then there's the issue of why black men think black women are nothing but downright ugly... Black men have nappy hair, broad noses, but consider white features to be the ideal form of beauty... Why?

ePoster:
No Really?
She didn't refer to all black men as bastards, but those who diss black females constantly using derogatory remarks and so on...

It's like black on black racism...

In the example the writer gave, black men instigated the backlash the girl received... Why do these kind of men encourage hate? Especially one that is shown towards their own...

Imagine black women exalting men of other races while referring to black men as nothing but ape-like pimps... Weird ain't it?