₦airaland Forum

Dabronze:
No woman (nigeria) will tell u the truth about their past all what you will get is a coock-up storie women are good in this wot to do instead is to environment which a woman was brought-up and spent most of her days realy matters alot
EXAMPLE A
A girl dat still in her prime yrs and very attractive(fairskin) that are mother own a resturant&bar in metro area in the city
EXAMPLE B
A girl that help are mother sell raw-foods &condiments in popular marlet in up-town
EXAMPLE C
A girl who is a fresh graduate social- media celebrity wannabe with no job that are parent are civil-servant.

if a lady whom you want to settle down with hid her past ,then its in your own good to find out yourself ,I will give u a very short story ,
I kw of a lady who lives this high class babe life in my state ,rolls with big boys bursting Hennessy and champagne most with guys who just hit the millions and guys just coming into town from over sea ,,she lives around a beer parlor where she also hangs around when she is less busy ,lucky for he a new dude came around town and got hooked up with her and this guy needed to settle down and fly back probably take her along,

Kaybae:
A situation where by a lady always give in previous relationships but still jilted, do you think such lady will want to help in any relationship she finds herself? I can only condemned that in Marriage.

pretty lady,if the lady can't help out in relationship,do u think she will in marriage,let's not forget how ladies or females are been brain wired ,what she doesn't do for
u in relationship, doesn't expect it in marriage

Quality20:
That's a very valid observation. Many of these women have been conditioned to see men as ppl who shd always be squeezed for money. In fact, so many housewives who earn more than their husbands would always wait for d man bring out money for the slightest thing as a #50 sachet of salt.
Sometimes, one feels that its even better to marry a non career, non- educated, complete housewife than all these rich but stupidly stingy, wicked n greedy women

bros calm down

kings we need to be more careful,we have more of damaged ladies or females in our society than the normal ladies,be careful how you relate with them , asking about their past life isn't a bad idea and where they where 5 years ago ,as a Sharp guy ,you can connect the dots even when all doesn't seems right

the likes of chidinma are still hovering around in town waiting to explode

Emotionss:
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That has always been my stand.

A man that has a Blue collar job can also be a Redpiller. As long as a man has a Dream and he is working towards accomplishing that dream he has every right to be a Redpiller even if he is broke or jobless at the moment. In fact His being a Redpiller will even help him Elevate is Status faster. Remember there's More to Redpill than Women and Sex.

Salute.

that's true man ,it's more than sex and women ,it's about career building,create a niech of successful redpillers around you guys ,you can't do it a lone as a man have sussefull guys around you to push you higher .

cfree14:
I just need some opinions about this. I'm thinking of settling down soon and everyone is telling me to go for a younger lady. They believe the man should be older at all times. I understand their concern, looking at the fact that ladies tend to age faster than guys.

To me I don't think it should be anything of concern as long as true love is there.
What should be the age difference if you think otherwise?

two set of people will give u answers ,
1st set of people are from Ladies and they will say it doesn't matter age is just a number ...ok ooo,,

2nd set of people are from men and they will say don't try it

both are correct
but just know 2 set of babies (male and female) born same day and same time , scientifically the female brain is far smarter in development than the male so the choice is yours bro to make .

Xenry:
Some guys like to do the "chasing," but once the reverse is the case, they will easily become tired.

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Stop calling or texting him, and stop giving him attention: If his feeling is genuine, he will definitely turn around.

and it becomes pay back time abi he he comes back,,If I were u ,I will just tell her ,to tell the guy her mind ,if he says he feel the same ,no problem and if he says no ,life goes on ....this is how we end up using mind games on our selfs and call it love Abi relationship

Sanmel:
Na lie joor.. Things just happen anyhow..

look if you are a female behind your keyboard,just know this ,men view relationship differently from a way a lady views relationship even marriage ....no matter how gangster a guy is or how crazy a guy can be trust me ,na peace of mind he day find as partner ,,if u like you get attached to him because you too get craze for head ,it will not work ,,,,
within 6months of dating a man ready to settle down will have know if he will marry you or not

lookingfly:
you've not answered those important question I asked. If a gal doesn't want to give sex in a relationship, she shouldn't pressure a guy to give her money.

and y wouldn't u want to give sex in a relationship if I may ask ?

Paultricenoni:
WHAT A MAN NEEDS IN A WOMAN.

Men attends to women for two known reasons, SEX, and LOVE, but in real cases, men do not marry for Sex or for Love, they marry for STABILITY.

Let me explain:
A man can Love you and still not marry you.
A man can have sex with you for years and still not marry you.
But immediately he finds someone who brings stability in his life, he marries her.

What I mean by Stability is "Peace of Mind"
I have seen so many guys who made this statement "I love this lady so much but I don't think I can spend the rest of my life with her." "This lady is so sweet in bed but I don't think I can marry her". Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids or most of the things ladies think is fanciful.
They think of whether this woman can build a home, can take care of his kids, can support his visions and dreams and also give him PEACE of mind..
Men don't like Ladies who give them discomfort and who have nothing to offer them. This is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a short while and get married to her.
The comfort of having Peace of mind is the most paramount to every man.
Sex is a pleasure, love is an affection, RESPECT and PEACE is Stability ♥.

Good morning lovelies �
Hope you had a pleasant night?

loud it man,this applies to all men all ,,,,,even if you use juju hold the man ,it's a matter of time before he goes looking for that peace of mind

Sanmel:
Life no just balance..

e balance o,

Gerrard59:
I can bet that she broke up with the guy because he cheated. I posit that Nigerian ladies should get used to the notion that most men are polygamous by nature. Secondly the country is the world's poverty capital and expecting a high valued man to stick to one lady when there are many beautiful women around is misplaced. Worse still, men see sex differently from women. Also, love doesn't exist in the world's poverty capital.

Respect and compromise are key to a lasting relationship. Nigerian women cannot have it all.

na cheating jor

purples25:
Let's talk here, what do you say?

he isn't going to bite you via email , atleast give him a listen ears first ,ladies ordinary email message again u day fear

nokspos:
plus "have you eaten, what did you eat"

we have gotten the part of wen is your birthday or I called u ,u weren't picking....

relationship from scratch isn't easy ,the time we put in trying to break up or divorce Bec of unwarranted reason if we seek a therapist it will pay off eventually ... and many times it's all a regret after parting ways ,it becomes I should have sat down like adult and solve our issues .

GboyegaD:
Have you had first hand experience or this is just from a place of envy and bitterness?

I took my wife from her and is being super pleasant and that is the tales of my friends as well. Overall, you attract what you represent. If you are a good person, you attract a better person and vice versa.

you are just a lucky fellow among the 100s ,go on Twitter and read story's or Facebook it's all there ,same story different folks

hammed71:
shut up! You're just being racist

he isn't been a racist,I have met Nigeria guys who will spend all they have to validate themselves with a white chick instead of black chicks ,will you also call that racism

Igbojihadist:
okay thank you remain blessed

for 4 years u still day beg ,it's not bad Bec every young man has been in that shoes before ,but the question I will like you to pounder upon is "will she make a good wife like this " how u go beg woman for 4 years ,
if na 50k you day save or 100k u day save for 4 years multipy it ,u should know lhow much u must have lost ...

I once asked a lady out she no gree ,she con day even roll with other guys for my eyes just to get me pained,last last god still will have his way ,

SweetVibe:
Then whats the differents between redpillers and bluepillers if their women all cheat on them.

all women are the same only a few ,and try get that few ,even if they want to cheat it should be worth it

azraeljaheel:
Boss you dey complicate things...


So you never ever missed calls by 10pm before..

Nature of jobs differs... Na only olosho dey run night jobs ?


And saying on a daily basis baba e no possible

u never jam low key runs girl

azraeljaheel:
How do I simplify this...


Okay can an olosho be morally sound?

which do you prefer ,a lady u call 9pm and doesn't pick your call but calls you back at 1am and dis goes on on a daily basics vs the one you know what she does already ,the choice is yours to make ,

TheGidRedpiller:
You are speaking unnecessary english here

exactly

azraeljaheel:
A quick question please


Would you choose godly fanatic over a morally sound individual?

make it more simple words ,so everyone can contribute,use simple words

SenecaTheYonger:
Well feminists are telling them that they can have it all and to not settle for less. So they turning 40 and single

while the feminist that are advicing them are happily married to a no nonsense man who take no shit ,,,,,

African Ladis should know that we are not Western and can't be them ,we have culture we are plastered on our walls in my education system ,it will be difficult to act like the oyibo ,,,

Volkswagen90:
no mind them,they will call the guy boring, they want to eat their cake and still have it,


They want rich,handsome,God fearing,Good character,only in one man.

I once asked a lady back in school what typ of guy does she want ,,god fearing ,blabla bla ..
5 years later I asked her again ,it was god fearing even if he doesn't go to church

see the more a lady goes old her value decrease ,,I say It again,their value decreases ,even if they hustle and huslte and 80 percentage rely on pay checks ,
while the value of a man increases incredibly mostly if he is a hustler

who then is the price ?

Bouz:
The thing is most ladies, go for guys that are after just sex, without them knowing. Just because the guy cojld provide all she wants like shoes, bags, pocket money and has a car. You want to settle with him because he is man enough to provide for a family, now the question is does he also want to settle down with you, or is he after your ass, since he has what you want, my dear don't play your self oh, love who love you. Whether he has or not, you too will grow together or rather love who can provide for you, but when your ass gets dumped, don't come here to scream how men are scum, cuz i think your the scum here .

and who told you they don't know ,check the life of most guys you should know if they are serious ,ask them where they have been or doing the last 5 years you will know who u are dating or starting to date immediately

RomanGreen:
Don't mind them, always playing the victim... My ex was more beautiful than this lady here and well endowed but guess what her character is crap. She's rude, stubborn and disobedient. How can I marry someone like that ...today we are separated and she's crying foul that I did this and that yet she forgets her own lapses....guy leave these daughters of Eve

my guy we are entering an era of if na olosho get good behavior na that one we go marry I swear

AAAntz:
i was in a match making whatsapp group



one day i was browsing through and i saw a 40 year old woman still finding husband




it was then i realised that a lot of things are going wrong in our society




and if you meet many of them in real life and approach them say you wan marry them


EITHER THEY DRAG YOU, CLOUT CHASE YOU OR MAKE JEST OF YOU




but when they get to the corners of their rooms, they weep and sober


#ITISWELL

the truth is a man is the price ,lady have been long deceived they are the price ,,,,a man calls the shot if he will put a ring on your finger or not ,....

I can't imagine a girl friend can't even sit and plan with his boyfriend and u expect him to marry u,,some say if I ask him ,they will think I am a gold digger ...

I just laugh at lady they purpose to in public and reject the proposal ,,we are entering a different era and it's going to be very brutal ,

to all the good Ladies out there if you got a good dude hold him well

the video clip we just watch ,that lady is going back to square one again in relationship that's why she is all pained ,when I mean square 1 ,I mean starting over again ,from hi to can I have a date with you ,to when do you close from work ,,,,godddddd ,,na that part of relationship they tire me

sweet7oyin:
I think the major thing men want from women is sex.
Thats why the financial status of the woman dosent matter
Most men would not Bleep or be attracted to a woman cause she has a job but would Bleep because she has a big ass.

my guy that was then ,the system is changing

jericco1:
You're right.
A working class lady will appreciate a guy better.

I have experienced both and know what it is like.

that's really tru,all she need is just a little financial help ,the one u know it's very important ,not the my house rent is about to expire ,or I need school fees ,the question I ask is who was paying the school fees before I came in ,and the next reply is never mind

Edusouls:
Shut up �, umunwayi Ndi iberibe, she went to her ex boyfriend house to do what? To Bleep Abby? Or she just went there for sight seeing? She didn’t say it, but somehow she got caught.well I like my fellow mans decision marriage is over, men have gone wiser now, you girls are completely useless..

the harsh truth which most ladies still fail to accept is ,most guys have move past the stage of ,u delaying to give him a chance he Moves on , you don't call ,my dear he moves on also , Bec the internet has made it obvious the deceptive life most ladies live ,,,I tell or advice ladies it's better you stay truth to a guy if u do runs just let him know before he finds out , that u do coded runs , atleast he will decide if it's to move on ,from that very day the relationship has ended but still rolling

Belafonte:
I don't understand why Nigerian men in the diaspora think it's a good thing to come marry wives from Nigeria. It is always a foolish thing.

Nigerian women are extremely sexually active, and I can just imagine the body count of a 33 year old Nigerian woman. This kind of woman cannot stay unsexed for more than a few weeks at most.

Stop fooling yourselves. If she's not a virgin don't bother coming to pick a Nigerian wife. If you cannot marry a woman in your immediate environment, you don't deserve to have a wife.

Hopefully, other men learn from this unfortunate episode



You're either trolling or naive. The mature thing for him to do is actually cancel marriage plans and move on. The woman has no business visiting men behind closed doors, least of all her ex boyfriend.

like the popular saying you can't eat your cake and have it back ,,,she is still single for 1 particular reason, Bec she is foolish ,the ex didn't marry ,why revist him again,and am very sure the ex is already a baby daddy to another lady

LadyRosa:
Locking out one's wife the whole night is far too extreme in curtailing a woman's excesses. You don't spite the face by cutting off the neck, if your own sister calls to tell you this, even if you will blame her you must react negatively towards her husband for going to that insane extent of locking her out.

See, this kind of issue can bring serious issues between some families. I don't know how many people on here are raised but I don't think calling my father to narrate that my husband locked me out would be a tale taken easily. Them no suppose to hear that one at all as the outcome can be disastrous.

The guy went way too far, period.

I am not in support of locking a wife outside,there are other way to discipline a lady ,