₦airaland Forum

Divoc19:
Women, girls and ladies that believe in equal rights (50/50) to their men.

You provoke them they dump you for another asap. Marriage or not

first and foremost,most females now are been trained how to be a lady and not been trained how to be a wife material .
I don't know how many people will see this ,the ladies who started this feminist movement are married with grown up kids who jeep their family in a smooth sailing position,and you that is single are emulating and swallowing all their feminist movement they sit in the comfort of their man's lap in the bed room posting trash ,I can give you a whole lot of feminist ladies enjoying their marriage,while ladies and girls who choose to follow what they literally know nothing about are still single in the market ,after 30 years .
get your bsc,get your master degree ,get your PhD and get a 1millionaire monthly pay job ,and you will not need a man and you marry a man who u will provide for (wrong reality)

obinna58:
Respect is earned not forced

biologically the brain of a female is wired differently ,so if u expect a man to keep his cool when the wife mess up ,expect the court room not far from you ,so the coolness of modern man compared to our forefathers,what has it lead to can we compare both ,

obinna58:
This is where Africa got it all wrong. Who are to torment people in the name of discipline.

and this is where u thing the world is from the view of Hollywood or media ,how I wish u can have a deep Convo with a full western lady ,u will know a lady is and supposed to respect her husband ,not what the media portray or Instagram white chicks

LadyRosa:
This can only happen to women who don't truly come from strong willed families. Try that with some wives and have her people beat you up blue black and yellow before stuffing the 500 naira bride price you paid for her in your bloodied mouth

the funny thing about ladies is this ,you act cool they take u for granted ,you act harshly they call u a beast ,how do you tame a lady who is going astray ? I kw most marriages in the world or in Africa are abusive marriage and many women still stay behind ,while the other marriage in which the man Acts cool is full of cheating or infedelity ,to me ,as far no blood spillage I don't see any abusive thing in a marriage ,but also most times a lady needs to be put in her rightfull position in marriage ....

Divoc19:
Op, you try but lower your tone so that you don't pass the good message in a wrong way. I am a woman and I understand. But these benefits does not apply to feminist.

and who is a feminist ,? sorry If I may ask please

hammer3x:
I DONT KNOW WAT NIGERIANS EXPECT.


FOR THE GIRL TO JUST ALLOW HIM KILL HER AND DO NOTHING?



THE ONLY REASON THAT GIRL AGREED TO FOLLOW HIM IS BECAUSE OF POVERTY.

here we go again,we want to blame govt ,,,so na poverty make people day go hotel with person ,,my guy black is black and white is white

Bigfish121:
Same issue I am currently facing with a neighbour just because I come Bleep one girl for my house this girl nor gree talk to me again. But as a guy man,I nor send ooo.if you nor talk to me,I nor go talk to you nah so my life be.most of the time I tell my guys to keep male friends because Nigeria girls mata get as e b.

it's not nigeria girls syndrome,it's female in general,,

we african are always fast to draw conclusion to a story ,and forget the lessons involved ,

her story's are not new in town ,we pray we meet those who express their self why they left their marriage ,...why am I saying this ,i basically know of a woman ,not them say ,them say ,I know her personal ,her story is almost similar to the op story but abusiveness was also part of it ,and her candid advice when i ask her for one for ladies even to her fellow younger sister is never rush into the arms of a man Bec he is financially stable , (which was wat she did at a very young age )the marriage don end ,,,with 4 kids all with the man .


let the young ladies finish her story ,even if it's fake or original pick something out of it

Segzy19:
Mumu man!

Person wey u suppose sponsor go schools like Caleb University or Madonna...

Shebi him eye don clear

I swear ,who day put woman for school these days ,make her parents sponsor her education ,

people or guys don't learn,,when ever I get into a new relationship,guysi double my career ,first I have created a big distance bw me and her , even if I plan to sponsor her via education,it will take her years before she even reach where I day ....who can you be in level 10 and u day sponsor woman via school to enter level 20
some guys don't think at all ,
I have come to realize that females don't value what men give to them ,they only value what they earn their selfs ,,,,...guys better wake up ,I can't even differentiate bw a lady who needs help and the one who needs love ,,they all look same to me with interior motives

SOZINN:
From 35 years, the wall hits them hard, accompanied by lechery but nobody wants to sleep with them by then because of the wall. Except for some of them with physical attributes that qualify them for MILFS. Did I mention loneliness, they hate that word. If women don't eat their cakes and have it, they will end up disconsolate and depressed.

Knights are there to save them from themselves.

that's y even olosho girls they get serious boyfriend too,they kw the implications as time goes,,, loneliness is what no human can handle even dangote too get e woman for yankee

Powerfly:
You're wrong... First.. there's no partner to act indifferently... If I'm not sure we're in love...then we are not dating..
You can't open up and find love when the next available person wants to have fun and move on... Besides.....true love finds us....we can't find it..when the time is right... The right person will show up..that's that for me... Ain't stressing myself for no fake relationship anymore..

there is no difference bw what he said and what you just said ,,as far u have a mind set of if love comes and it doesn't comes watin con sine me ,there is literally nothing the dude or your potential lover will do ,that u will deeply appreciate ,,infact trust will be far more like you not getting over what an ex did to you ....it's psychological,no body sits and wait for love you wouldn't get it,the same way u hustle for money is the same way u hustle for love ,stay in door and trust me u wouldn't smell a single dates for 365days,even if it comes u wouldn't appreciate it (entitlement mentality will set in )

luminouz:
Lmaooooo... Yet she wants to marry?

How old is she again?

Abeg,introduce me o...tell her say I'm very very very desperate to marry and I have tons of money.

at 20years ,they play
at 30 years ,they pray
at 40years ,they plead /beg

Ishilove:
So many immature, shallow people. This is why when they come online to cry about heartbreak I don't have any sympathy for them because you put looks over character. The two of you chat and discover you have chemistry. You are comfortable with this person, you flow with this person, they make you laugh, you both share the same interests and worldview, but because you are shallow and you can't see past the physical appearance which will fade in time, you cut off someone that can make you happy in the long run.

Foolishness on all fours

I just keept laughing at their story ,and the funny truth is many of this ladies dished are way ahead of these guys now ,,,,

in Africa as a whole I have come to understand ,it's only nigeria guys that understand Nigeria women ,,,,other african nationality have not found it easy understanding Nigeria females most 9ja ladies are outspoken while other african ladies are slow spoken

djon78:
That's how the story always ends
At least I know of several cases like that

A Yoruba guy cohabited with a Calabar girl, they had two kids, the third one the Lady does
What that dude went through
He married that Lady before her burial
It was horrific

Another one same cohabitation
The Lady got pregnant with twins
She died during delivery
The girl family launched out a man hunt for the guy
They even went fetish
Guy later died too

All these happened in Abuja

Cohabitation is bad
If you want to live together
Go and do the needful legally

It never ends well

it's best the girl parent be aware their daughter most times comes over to your place ,it is not bad ,cohibiting is not bad ,

hush15:
In life, nobody wants to be lonely or alone, male or female. It's just that many haven't realized the with great sense of belonging just like power, comes with
great responsibility, be it male or female too.

There is nothing wrong in companionship, but you must be also be ready to take on responsibilities responsibly

loneliness is a term most people fail to know untill 30years+ or 40years + and many times we start wishing we had given a trial of those things we did do , Bec last last we all want to avoid the life of loneliness

hush15:
In life, nobody wants to be lonely or alone, male or female. It's just that many haven't realized the with great sense of belonging just like power, comes with
great responsibility, be it male or female too.

There is nothing wrong in companionship, but you must be also be ready to take on responsibilities responsibly

loneliness is a term most people fail to know untill 30years+ or 40years + and many times we start wishing we had given a trial of those things we did do , Bec last last we all want to avoid the life of loneliness

PeaceJoyLove:
Poverty is the reason topics like this come up. Poverty is why a woman chooses to live with a man.

it's called getting to know ,this is how most people marry the wrong person ,so u day wait till honeymoon before you spend the night with him ?

noah24:
Sure... But get am fo mind say wen u fuckup... She go collect am back

so try not to Bleep up

it's better you learn hw to ask your babe for money,make she kw say no be all the time Pocket day day well,,this is the problem most people mostly guys have these days ,u will so much impress the lady , making her feel ,u are a managing director in your company ,the day u Eventually go broke after marriage and u ask her for money ,then she will be shock ,but few ladies will understand,but many will react negatively ,,,,,...

1Sharon:
You're an ignoramus.

you are welcome ,it's a man's world,not the other way round

TheGidRedpiller:
Wait, you are female?

,,,becus I use we ,nooo a dude man ,,, painting a picture for a young lady man

TheGidRedpiller:
I'm really going to have to create a thread on how stupid sexless marriage is

feel free bro ,marriage was seen as an institution but now it's now a contract that isnot even contracted properly ,who does a sexless marriage ,I just can't imagine the kind of wack life both couple's ,are they even couples ,hiss

1Sharon:
Where did I say that?

of course you just did ,for you to state a sexless starve marriage then you literally advocate for it ,cudoes to you pretty lady

1Sharon:
Western culture of marraige? You think only westerners are sex starved in their marraiges?

and you feel it's okay for a marriage to be sex starve ,and you still call that marriage ,,gosh

TheGidRedpiller:
The women literally control the sex in western marriages, stop argueing like you have a point!

she should bring more points,and I will tell her where mostly ladies who play the game have landed them selfs ,siting lonely at home with a dog or a cat to console them selfs

TheGidRedpiller:
Western marriage is actually now the dream of every woman, where they get to do anyhow in their husband's house and still be termed rightly by society. Our forefathers were really wise, thats why they could marry countless wives and still be in total charge! But today's men can't even control one because we made the mistake of giving them privileges and now they are all loose!

and now I see why the number of single mother mostly in the black African community are on the high rise , Bec we (ladies) tend to imitate what doesn't suit our own society ...now I see why most black guys will prefer to go marry a white lady than his own community african lady ,

1Sharon:
Look up sexless marraiges, bothe sexes are culpable.

sexless marriage is more like an open relationship ,do as you will ,and pretty lady I wouldn't like us bring in western culture of marriage into our talk, Bec you and I kw they don't have culture,,who goes in to a marriage to maintain a sexless marriage, what is your main reason for marriage,base on Contract?

1Sharon:
LOL happens all the time. Women lose libido after marraige apparently.

and I hope you will also agree men don't find their wife attractive after marriage , since it's a normality that women lose libido after marriage ....all I see in your statement is that marriage is a trap set by females to entangle the life of men

1Sharon:
What if the woman is your wife?

and WY will a wife zip up for the husband,na means of punishment?

have a cup of coffee or tea with him , to finalize , if it isn't going to working out,move on girl ,your biological prime is ticking daily.