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vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

Both GUYS are stewpid!

Why they still dont gerrit that you are not worth a rats life, talk-less of their combined lives, is beyond belief!

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Grendel:
You don't know how powerful sex is?
sex can solve so many problems when given at a right time .

..And has caused many problems, when wrongly denied!

I hear it in divorce cases everytime...even the LAW recognize it as a valid reason for divorce!

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faceURfront:
Benue South Senatorial District things

Lagos no send o! I guess its as a result of all those vehicular fumes that tradition like that stop working in Lagos!

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Tallesty1:
Here are the few reasons some men find it difficult to forgive a cheating wife(They are what I heard men say. I didn't author some of them)

1: EGO:

2: GUILT:-

3: THEY CAN'T FORGET

5: HE PAID YOUR PRICE.

On a serious note. A cheat is a cheat and you can't quantify cheating. Who is cheating doesn't matter. Stay Faithful

Please indulge me to ADD a few lines to what the Op above posted above though l think he did a brilliant job already!
Dont forget, we are just x-raying why men find it more difficult to forgive a cheating partner (not the justification of cheating!)

6.) Physiological make-up: A man's anatomy is different form that of a woman. The man has an "external, protruding organ" that can act outside his body, get cleaned-out after the act and maintain its original state without leaving a trace behind.
The woman's anatomy on the other hand, is a "receptacle" that is "invaded deep down and DNA is deposited inside", during the act! No matter the amount of "after-cleaning" that is done, the offensive liquid cannot be completely eliminated and thus a man remembers that the area of his partner which he considers most private, secluded and hidden deep inside her body, has just been offered to another competitor and in his brain, that DNA will always be there since there is no way of bringing it outside her body and cleaning it completely. He sees her own form of cheating as being "more involved".
If we also add the fact that it is a woman that carries the result of some of those illicit acts (as in pregnancy) while the man does his job and walks away, then we can understand why the burden of guilt is heavier on the woman's side. (perception-wise)

Again, we might wonder why it is that from time immemorial, not just a Nigerian thing as some are implying, a man is allowed to marry multiple wives (spiritually approved cheating!) while a woman is not allowed to marry more than one husband concurrently? It has to do with our physiological make-up as l explained above and the weight attached to it.
Mind you, this is just an "analysis" as cheating is cheating and is no less acceptable for any of the gender in a relationship

7.) Sense of Invasion and Conquer: Like a Virus which invades its host, the shexual act by a man consist of invading another living host (woman), injecting 'DNA' into it and taking-over the host, so to speak.

Thus, a man sees the woman as "conquered and dominated" after the act so much so that in some cases, the "host" is damaged and deformed (as in cases which leads to pregnancy, swollen boobs and tummy).. and eventual expulsion of another alien (birth). This is the "context" in which a man sees shex with his partner, by another man!
Now imagine a situation where a husband wakes up everyday to run it through his mind that another "invader" has injected, invaded and conquered that which is supposed to exclusively belong to him?
Most men just cant live with that and that thought wont just go away no matter how much he tries to wish it away....and most women know so! This is another reason why such wound is deep-seated and forgiveness seems so far away!

8.) Emotional stability: Most people will agree with me that women are more "emotionally stable" than men, though men try so much to "mask' their emotions (since it is very unstable in the first place) thus for a man, shex is more of an 'Adventure' with less of emotional attachment.
A man is more like the male chicken, he struts, chases and pounce on the fowl and after he has "downloaded", ... he is so disinterested and detached, as if nothing ever happened! It is now in the past! He can go back to his 'real love/wife' where his heart really lies and its as if nothing ever happened. He was not emotionally attached to the "shex act".

Some "honestly dont even think" they have done anything wrong, to warrant all the fuse! They still love their wife as much as before, all they did was "conquer a seeming challenge"!
I know for a woman this is not acceptable and l am not even advocating that it is but l am just painting a picture of "WHATS ON A MAN'S MIND"

For a woman, they are more emotionally stable and dont get aroused that easily.... (if they do, they do a god job at containing it initially, unlike men!) ...but when they do, it has taken a lot of thought, incubation and conviction... and like a volcano, its eruption would not spare any "obstacle"!
Men know that when she goes for 'it', its not just out of some adventure or some impulse.... it is a conscious decision that is laden with a 'solid backing of emotions". She has actually given out her heart. and men don like this at all!

Actually, there is a school of thought that says when a wife cheats, she has thought it over seriously and concluded that her marriage is over and done with,....its just a matter of time, ..till when she is found out. Men understand this position and hence forgiveness may be difficult, knowing the above.

Thus, one would understand when some women want to punish their hubby, they go lure and sleep with, his best friend!
A man does not forget or forgive such act because he knows what was behind the act itself.

Its like Murder, some kill for no reason, spontaneously (man) while some other murders, ....(yes, same result of death of another humanbeing as in the first case.... are so gruesome and calculated (woman) that the court Judge wishes he has a way of hanging the culprit first, then put him on an electric chair after that, before asking that he be[b] injected[/b] and finally be beheaded!
ofcourse, the hanging alone would have done the job!

In all, as unfair as it may sound, it is the truth that men dont cheat because they no longer love their wife or their marriage, to them, its an "act of adventure with no emotions attached" (Hit and run!)
but for a woman, its signals a deeper problem and shows that "her soul has left the husband she is with, for the other man".

We need not apportion blame here, but we can say instead of cheating on your spouse, have self control ....but if you cant, for whatever justification you want to put forward, be bold enough to accept responsibility and opt out of the marriage, instead of causing heartache to a loved one and the children.

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PastorOluT:
Adults (even with police) watch as the child was been eaten by the dogs for more than an hour n could do nothing?

Oh what a country, if it was to beat n burn someone (sometimes innocent victims) to ashes u see them with sticks, stones, petrol etc n in less than 30 minutes the deed has been done.

I am so sad n don't even know what to type again, God help our mentality.

That part tire me ooh!

I cant beleive no one in that area has a matchette or use a knife to attack the Dogs!

Shame on MEN, bigger shame on the POLICE in that event.
Or is it that we are so selfish to the point where we are reiuctant to risk our own wellbeing for the safety of a liitle boy?

No, this is a new low for us, really.

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Thank God l was not there, l know l cant stand around and watch such things without endangering myself.

fursh:
Aggressive dogs should either be chained or kept in a cage. One just can't let loose fierce dogs in a compound filled with other people, restricting others of their freedom. Some peeps just don't know the difference between having a pet and a security dog.

Sad story, I pray omo scale through this soon. Amen

Look its simple: If yo decide to keep those type of breed of Dogs, you have to be responsible for any act or danger they cause!

First, any Dog that attacks and injures a human being is no longer a "friend of man", THEY MUST BE KILLED (SHOT OR INJECTED).
Those Dogs, having tasted BLOOD, will never stop loving that taste of blood and will kill other humans in no time.

Secondly, that Kingsley should be charged to court for endangering public life and keep dangerous animals causing grievous bodily harm to those children.
He should be sentenced to at least five years in prison with hard labor (yes, he was warned but he chose to be unconcerned about putting other people in danger... Now look how he has ruined the life of a little boy!).
Let his case be a lesson to others who act with such impunity.
I have seen where people like him use Dangerous Dogs to intimidate other neighbours, its a "Gangster Culture" and must be stamped out mercilessly.

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sexzskil:
If u like curse me from now tomorrow, fact remain that Nigeria is one of the least developed countries in Africa, Nigeria was never a great nation but filled with retrogressive, mediocre, clueless people, and finally, THE NIGERIA GOVT WAS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR D CONTAINMENT OF EBLA.

WHEN THIS COUNTRY DOES SOMETHING REALLY WORTH IT, I'LL GIVE MY PRAISE. BUT SO FAR, THE ATTITUDES DISPLAYED HERE HAVE BEEN THE ONE OF PRIMITIVE, PARANOID FOLKS FROM AZTEC CIVILISATION.

I'VE FOUGHT FOR TRUE JUSTICE... DR DAVID SHOULD BE IMMORTALISED!

I've gone through a lot of your post and its always a display of rabid hatred towards Nigeria?
While Nigeria may not be the model country it is destined to be right now, l am wondering what exactly made you so full of hatred for the country?
If you were a Nigerian, l would say you are doing it because you hope things will improve, in the future but seeing that you are not, l am wondering what is eating you so deeply about Nigeria, that you cant even contain it slightly?

[b]In cases l have seen in the past, it is mostly Ladies" that have been dumped by a Nigerian Guy that displays so much "enduring hatred" for anything Nigerian!
Where you dumped in the past, by a Nigerian Boyfriend?
If so, l apologize on his behalf

You wont expect to last with him, .....with the amount of "beauriful bevy" Nigerian ladies he has to chose from ... and seeing the type of harlot that you, from your post below!

https://www.nairaland.com/1809990/sexzskil-behold-nairalands-most-erot

sexzskil: Yes, i love sex, inside my pus*sy is embedded everlasting sweetness, guys all around find me too sensatingly hot to handle. I love to be fvcked evry hour of my life. I am born to fvck in this world until the end of time, but men shall always pay much cash for it. I even turned my blood brother into slave because of it. No girl in Nairaland can beat me in the area of core erot*city. My pus*sy is lovely, neat, meaty, wet and edible all the time. My br*asts are erected, long and so soft to suck. My lips are the most juicy stuffs to kiss, every guys attest to this. No girl, i repeat, in Nairaland can fvck hard dick*s into softeness like me!

Get over it and move-on please.[/b]

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BTW: Talk more about your own country instead of wasting your breath on Nigeria/Nugerians. YOU dont count at all.

MNDY:
Oops! My "jajaweed" in my previous post was changed to "supporter of APC." Like I sought to know, how was that term coined? Maybe dem go even change am again. I mean "jajaweed." What is the idea behind bringing the "weed" to join "jaja" or "janja" to make "jajaweed"? I know it stands for a supporter of APC but how was it coined?

'J@nj@weed' is actually the name of a band of terrorists in the SUDAN (when the country was still one).
They are a band that is not much different from the barbaric ISIL in their crude way of killing the innocents.

They maraud around on horseback and attack settlements especially in the lower/South Sudan. They are most supported and ignored by the Sudaneese Govt of Al Bashir as he uses them the same way the Northern Oligarchy uses the Cattle Rustlers in the middle belt of Nigeria, to achieve their sinister aims.

Thus, they gained prominence as a result of their notoriety so much so you will conclude that they were on some "DRUGS" that made them so inhuman
"J@nj@weed" became a derogatory term synonymous with drug-induced barbaric mindset and inhumanity to others

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BTW: Why does N/land change the name to "APC Supporters"? That is wrong and l think Seun must quickly act to remove that "auto-correct"!

zboyd:
First, I only listed 3 scenarios but I stated that there are more depending on the couple.

Second, do you know how many women over here work full-time AND raise 1+ children, many times by themselves? The average woman over here doesn't have any house help/nanny/governess/etc., but some do have daycare institutions they pay a pretty penny to, who watch their kids from 6am to 6pm. In fact, some of these women work two jobs and still manage to raise their children well AND take care of their household expenditures, sometimes, by themselves. And they are far from well-off.

Third, some men rule their homes with iron fists. They even confiscate their wives' paychecks. And no matter what the wife brings home from working, he and only he has the final say how her salary is spent.

Abeegi, stop painting all these "dooms day" picture that is non-existent!

Where in the WEST does a man "confiscate" his wife pay-check?
Her weekly payments, just like any other person that works for pay (employee), in the WEST (as in America or anywhere in Europe) goes straight into her BANK ACCOUNT and the husband does not even see the thing!

I dont like those who strewn lies together, just to make a point.

if you need to say something, be realistic and state it exactly as it OBTAINS! Your intended reader might not be aware of what obtains in the West but P-L-E-A-S-E, TRUTH preserves someone and since we are doing this anonymously, it costs us nothing to be truthful and objective.
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Again, the picture you 'painted' about that woman doing two jobs with no house-help and paying "pretty penny" for childcare seems to be about some woman who lives in the "WEST"

......but you conveniently left out the fact that she gets "all sorts of FREE MONEY" from the Government (Early Childcare, Back to School Grant, Child benefit)
.... and seeing that you did not mention that she has a husband helping her, l will assume she is separated/divorced or just one of them baby Mommas who just get pregnant for whichever man who succeeds to 'score', then she is also getting LONE PARENT ALLOWANCE plus her House Rent is being paid for by the Govt (at best she contributes a tiny fraction of about 15% or even nothing if she lives in one of them Council Houses since her income is and will be "means tested' .....meaning if it does not reach a certain amount/threshold, she pays nothing!).

I agree that gone are the days, especially in the WEST where women can just sit at home and do nothing... its even not god for any woman's health not to fulfil her potential in life, as long as it has no detrimental effect on her family, which is her primary responsibility.

Working and contributing to the family purse, by a wife is simply to give the household a "leg-up" on the income ladder so that they can afford to buy things which ordinarily they wont be able to afford IN THAT YEAR, if only the husband is working. They would eventually get there but if both are working and contributing, they get there very quickly, as in faster than when income is from one source, the husband.

Most men have enough pride to just ignore their wife's income (especially for a man with a good source of income) but for some, it helps a lot if the wife also chips-in.
Infact, a "wise woman", the type that qualifies to be called her "Husband's Helper", even if the man refuses to take her income into consideration, will impose it on herself to ensure that she uses her money to take care of certain things in the household, even without informing her husband (ofcourse, he will know and appreciate her for that)

... But the Greedy and Selfish ones are the types that will tell you "I am saving it for the rainy day or l am saving it for my kids" meaning she is already planning ahead for the death of her husband or the break-up of the marriage, hence the squireling-away of money for the "proverbial rainy day".
Ofcourse, it just shows lack of "complete commitment" to the household/marriage.

Just setting the records STRAIGHT!

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BTW: Until we agree and accept that there is a reason why we have "headmaster" in a school (even though there are other senior teachers in the school), "Captain" in a ship/Plane (even though he has Shipmates & Co-Pilot), "CEO" in a company (even though there are Departmental heads as well), e.t.c, ........until we figure out the reason (its simple actually, the buck must stop at someone's table and that person must take responsibility for prime decisions at all times), .......until then, we can continue to argue about the role of a woman in the family-setup.

Not all women like their role (some even wish they are men ), not all women will accept their role (some will challenge their husband over these) but all-in-all, if you chose to go into marriage, you must be able to come to agreement with your husband before marriage, on what will work best for your household otherwise, that marriage is just doomed. Chikenna.

[size=14pt]Definition of A WOMAN: Someone who wants "SOMETHING" but does not know "WHAT" she wants nor "HOW" to go about getting it![/size]

It seems to me, reading though the three models, that the woman never does ANYTHING for an ALTRUISTIC reason!

*If she contributes to household upkeep, its because she wants to claim equality and drag with the husband

*If she does not contribute, its because she thinks the man is not respecting her and is trying to undermine her authority in the house!!

*If the man decides to allow them to share financial responsibility, she says he is not "man-enough" to live up to his responsibility as the head of the family.

In all the three cases, all she thinks about is ME, ME and MYSELF!

I read a thread on here yesterday where some poster asked Why "MEN" are shirking away from getting married (legally especially).
I just smiled and thought, "You get what you pay for, You reap what you sow"!
Marriage will end-up the way WOMEN want it to end up.
They can shift blame and point fingers at men ....all day long but at the end of the day, l foresee a time, in the very nearest future when "marrying a woman" will be like ..."who does that nowadays"!

Already, l have read about a few men who "paid to have a child from another 'woman-carrier' and the child is about 3yrs old now".
The woman is "just doing a job and rendering a service, for which she is paid for: SURROGACY, it is called.
Why would they need to marry a woman.... if they can "pay and get a child using their own spermatozoa?

Its a shameful trend but one that l realize is borne out of necessity!

Like on most issues, l always look beyond the periphery and try to take a leap into the future , so my opinion might not sit well with some people. I accept responsibility for that.

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RockMaxi:
So this is the best you can advice her.

What do you expect?

"Unorthodox specimens conglomerate to the nearest proximity"!

Okay, in simple Turanshi: Birds of the same feather, flock together!

It is not strange when you see the "Housefly" supporting the "person with a sore"!

Get my drift, l trust.

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A:Summarise, its too long!

B: Can somebody read and summarise for me?

C: I cant read all these, My ba3 is low

D: Cant they condense it into just two lines?

E: Why word for word, its too long to read!..

And so on and so forth.

I just get amazed when l read posts like the above, which litter most thread that are longer than five lines, like the current one.

"Some white-man once said that: "If you want to keep a secret from the Black Race, PUT IT INTO WRITING...WRITE IT DOWN BECAUSE BLACK PEOPLE CANT READ.... MOST JUST HATE TO READ"!

Well, l have a secret for all you planks that cant read: No one is gonna summarise nothing for you!
You cant read it, then forget about it. its your loss... Go and Read about Davido and Tontoh Dike, that is what tickles your fancy!

No wonder most youths nowadays are as dumb as it gets. Most have never even read a singlel Novel in their life!

Learn to read voraciously, it would change your life and do you a world of good.
Trust me on that.

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Vessi:
Lastpage, I very much appreciate your detailed effort in making sure I understand your points very well. I want to assure you those efforts were not in vain. I have done the research and come to understand your points were in line with the results my research produced.
Now, if I may ask, how do we protect ourself from the plans of those who want no African superpower?
How do we ensure their plan for Nigeria never materializes. It appears as though they intend making Nigeria a failed state, look they even stopped importing oil from Nigeria-a country solely dependent on oil revenue to run government projects and pay civil servants/government workers, they have allegedly blocked the purchase of arms by the Nigerian government, they refused to offer Nigeria the zmapp so the epidemic will ravage our country, their intelligence agents have not co-operated with our armed forces to eradicate boko haram, they want to know how we curbed the virus in order to introduce an epidemic we'll be unable to curb, the boko haram insurgency and many more yet to unfold.
Do we now embrace the Chinese? Russians? Even as they act less concerned on this whole insurgency saga raging Nigeria?
I still wonder why the Nigerian government is yet to take this investigations about US plans for Nigeria seriously? Perhaps it is because it holds no water.

Its simple my brother.
Charity they say "Begins a Home"!.

Its a long story but l will just summarize sharp-sharp:
1.) Committed Leadership that works in the interest of our country. When leadership is good, the followership will tow the line. Experience has shown this in other countries like China, Cuba, e.t.c
The major challenge here is having a leader that has ZERO TOLERANCE FOR CORRUPTION!
A Civilian Govt in Nigeria, cant do this, they are just too spineless and corrupt..
Even in Ghana, it took J. J Rawlings, a military man, but a "committed military man", ......not like our own types of silly, thieving Military top brass who even steal from their own troops, in war situation, to do it for Ghana


2.) Sound Education: Not just churning out half baked Graduates who cannot fit into the labor market because they were not taught the right knowledge

3.) Uninterrupted Power: No nation has ever developed without this. This is the advantage South Africa has over Nigeria, right now. During the days of the Industrial revolution in America/ Europe, Stable Power was the key factor, some then dabbled into Nuclear Power to ensure they have stability. Its not rocket science, in this age, nothing is new anymore. if you cant do it for lack of knowledge, BUY IT,... if you dont have the money, Steal or Copy it illegally (ask the Chinese about this)

4.) Export only finished product, not raw material: African countries, as blessed as they are in natural resources (Cocoa, Coffee, Oil, Rubber latex, Sugar cane, e.t.c) have restricted themselves to exporting only their natural resources.... which will eventually run out, .. at low margins while they end up import the finished product at ten times the value of what they exported.
They could simply have bought the machine and know-how, refined the goods and export the finished product.
I understand the role played by "super powers" in perpetuating this kind of dependency. (WTO, Embargoes, e.t.c)
Such exports will also create jobs and accelerate industrialization.

5.) Change to mechanized farming: Yes, invest in Machinery, set-up Farm settlements with all the modern amenities of life on the farms (Good roads, water, internet and telephony, Housing Units, good Shops/malls within reaching distance, everything you need in the city should be available in such "Farm Industrial Estates".
A nation that wants to be independent must be able to feed itself to the tune of at least 80% -90%. otherwise, enemies will use food to blackmail or strangulate you. Look at what E.U did to Russia recently and how Russia responded back with its own 'baby- sanctions'.

6.) Play International Politics: if you notice, countries like Sweden/Switzerland/ Belgium,.. dont particularly have a strong military but their words still carry weight in the international arena while they dont get attacked by other nations! Our country must play international politics of non-aligned while trying as mcuh as possible, to avoid getting entangled in matters that dont concern us. Just play dumb as if you did not see or hear anything. let others settle their own business. Unliek following the instructions of Britain or America or NATO to always get involved in any dispute in foreign nations. Teh Chinese are the smartest when it comes to this... and they have used the time and resources to build their own economy while America, despiet its riches and dominace of using that paper-dollar, is in huge debt, crumbling and ailing! The last thing they have is the usage of Dollars (They just "print morepaper" to buy more "real goods" from others! ), hence they would fight tooth and nail to destroy any nation (Russia, Iran, Libya, China, Venezuela, e.t.c) or individual (Ghadafi, Saddam Hussein, Muritala Mohammed, Allende of Chile, Putin, e.t.c) who dares suggest that the Dollar should be jettisoned as an international currency!
We just need to see where we fit in and play our game properly

7.) Finally, develop a strong "moral code" for our nation, especially our youths. They are the future and we must imbibe it in them that Country comes first, even before money. That will ensure that everyone of us protects our hard won freedom from attacks coming from the outside.
Hardly would you see for example, a Chinese working against his country (Some who ran to America still try to do, under "influence" but when caught, it is death by hanging surely, no stories)

There are many more things to consider but these are just the basic blue-prints. Issues like a good health System, Welfare system for the less privileged and aged, quality and free education for children, enhanced transport system, e.t.c

Cheers mate.

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BTW: .. and please dont indulge in this game of injecting "Politics' into serious discuss. it has the ability to "cloud reasoning". Same with Ethnicity or Tribe.
Trust me, whether its Goodluck or Buhari or Tinubu or whatever Poli-Thief-cian", they are all the same, just in different parties.
Its like the TWO SIDES OF A COIN, whichever way it lands when you flip it, the VALUE of the Coin does not change! Bunch of selfish traitors!
Think about this for a minute please.

Mondisweets:
impotency is when a man is unable to keep himself erect during sex, women dont have erection problems

Abeegi, stop spreading falsehood here!

What you described above (inability to stay erect) is called Erectile Dysfunction.

It is different from impotency .... which someone already explained as FIRING BLANKS.
That is, sperm lacks "alive and fertile spermatozoa"

If nothing else at all, use Google, it can help.

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Jaymaestro:
A Team with Costa Fabregas Matic And Chelsea defenders n Hazard + Monstrous cech . It's certain victory against the likes of Arsenal .

TRUE TALK!

I am a GUNNER but the truth is "[size=14pt]You get what you pay for" ...... except in cases where Omo-Ibo sell "MONKEY SHIRT" FOR YOU![/size]!

Just compare TWO PLAYERS in today's Match:
Ozil = about 40 Million GBP ...... contribution => negative!
Diego Costa = 32 Million GBP.....contribution => One goal and good assists!

When a club is looking for "free agent" and cheap buys all over the place, recruiting "school boys" like Callum Chambers or "short men" like Debauchy, as their New Season signings, then you know such Club/Coach are not serious about challneging for the Trophy!

Arsene Wenger just wants to be seen as trying to be amongst the 'TOP FOUR' CLUBS (usually a very big struggle towards end of the season anyway!)

As for winning Premiership or Champions league, it will remain a pipe dream for Arsenal, with Wenger in charge.
Quote me: We will one day say "It is Twenty years ago since Arsenal won the Premiership or Champions league.


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Lastpage: Wenger don phuck-up again, in his substitution!
he should have removed Mezut Ozil, who has contributed far less compared to Carzola!

Carzola is the one that have attempted the only one or two feeble shots at goal, from Arsenal.

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What is wrong with this Arsene Wenger?

Again, he removes Jack Wilshere who is about the only player in that attack, with Sanchez, who is making DIRECT, GOAL ASSAULT ATTEMPT!

What is Mezut Ozil still doing on tha tfield, when you can remove Wilshere and Carzola?

I think "OLD AGE' os catching up with this yeye Arsene Wenger!


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Wenger don phuck-up again, in his substitution!
he should have removed Mezut Ozil, who has contributed far less compared to Carzola!

Carzola is the one that have attempted the only one or two feeble shots at goal, from Arsenal.

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IYANGBALI:
weekend wey go sweet na from friday pesin go know,go look dat foto welu well,I don talk my own o meanwhile check out my wedding pix,I challenge you to post yours

@that pikshure you posted.

See, if some men suffer "physical violence" from their wife, l will just say "Who send you"!

Is it not obvious that, dat "hubby" don go carry wetin him power no reach?

Just imagine what will happen to that husband when "Mummy" decides she wants to "Ride Okada" (as in shake something)?
Is it not obvious that the husband will suffer Cardiac Arrest within 3minutes?

Cheesus! some men sha, na dem ko work hard so tey, go take their money buy Coffin for themself.

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MarvellousGod:
HML... Spreads mat and waits for more pictures chaii, it's well sis...

What's her business with what you do with those stuffs?? Nigerian society is the reason behind desperation and frustration displayed by some single ladies. .


Nevertheless, I wish your own man locates you soon

Aaahh! There you go!.. Adding your own quota, to the so-called desperation!]

But really, if we must say the truth, a woman is INCOMPLETE without a husband.
Feminisn and all that shakara can tell you otherwise.... but just ask women who are 'happily married', and you will see my point

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Toks2008:
WOW! I am impressed

Hope this is not lip talk sha.

Take note: The issue raised throughout was about "having children"!

She never said she would not go out to "satisfy her sexu@l urge"... which is a natural thing and you cant expect a just married woman to be without shex, for life.
To think so is to fool oursleves, even the "Mother/Nuns" in the convent have found a way to circumvent that vow.

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Toks2008:
The only reason i support a man divorcing his wife is sexusl infidelity a[b]nd for the woman,repeated physical assault[/b]. any other reason can be worked out and infact tolerated.

You mean a man does not have the right to divorce his wife who "repeatedly, physically assault him"?
Okay, until dem beat the man to coma... and im come pass-on, na dat time you go know say, sexu@l violence is not exclusive to men alone and "Man" sef get blood for body!

Advice: Dont marry a woman who is physically stronger than you (Me, l cannot separate fight where the man is crying and calling for help: People please come Ooooo, she wan kill me Oooo!!

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striktlymi:
The question here should be: was there ever a marriage to start with?

In my view, a number of factors must be considered before someone can truly claim that he or she is married.

1) The union must be one entered with full consent.
2) The couples must be able to consummate the union via the conjugal act.
3) The couples must have attained the age of reasoning.

Without those 3, there is no marriage. A man who is impotent would have defaulted on at least one of the above. The lady would be right to ask for a dissolution of the union as divorce does not come to play here.

Three Gbosaa, for YOU! 1,...2,...3!!

But let me see it from a different angle:
Marriage is supposed ot last a life-time.
"Shex", leading to procreation is a big part of the "contract"... even the Bible said "Spouse should NOT DENY each other (Shex)"!
Impotency on the other hand implies that one spouse WILL DENY the other of Shex ... since S/He can perform! (whether self-inflicted or not, does not really matter)

but what strikes me is that No Man or Woman will "WILLINGLY" marry an impotent spouse!

In view of the above, it seems the impotent partner must either have "intentionally" deceived the other spouse of their "sexual condition" or the issue did not come up at all before marriage.

If it is the former, then the marriage could be said to be null and void (deceit)

If it is the latter, then may be the question 'Op' should be asking is: Should intending Couples "sample" each other before tying the knot?
Because me don buy "No Testing Fridge" before, .....come carry am reach house, the thing no come work!
Come see wahala for Deadi-Bodi!

My advice: Once you are engaged and very certain of going ahead with the marriage very soon, please "sample the product", God forbid you come be like wey carry Fridge reach house finish only t discover say na "condemn' na im l buy!
Dat one na total loss!

You will not believe the number of marriages that CRASH as a result of something as simple as sexual imcompatibility!
If you doubt me, go to a customary court and just listen to the proceedings (Remember to be quiet o, one yeye Judge nearly jail me and my friend in those days, if not that we still had our secondary school uniform on us, when we busted out laughing during one funny divorce case like dat! You are warned.)

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Hmmm...
It is obvious that Building regulations are not being followed to the letter.

And if you dig deep enough, whether it is in Abuja or Benin or SCOAN building collapse, the root of the problem lies with CORRUPTION, either in Govt Circles or/and Private individuals....... not some phantom "UFO"!

From Building Contractors trying to dupe House owners by short-changing them on quantity of materials assigned for use (which some of them go behind to sell back to the original seller), Quack builders, qualified but incompetent building Engineers/designers....

To Private Owners who try to DIY on structures or raise building above approved levels or even employ unqualified builders like Baba Sikira (though some of these artisans have been known to build One storey buildings that lasted over a hundred years in the past, ... and that makes me wonder if the materials they use back them, has the same quality as the materials in existence now, especially cement)

To Corrupt Govt officials who at times dont even inspect the construction as it goes up, before granting approval, after collecting Egunje.
At times, when you report an illegal construction at the State Building Board, they simply come around to collect "See Me" from the owner and the building work continues, only to pretend and claim innocence, when something bad happens.

But even of concern is the various "ROAD BLOCKS" erected by state Govts (especially Lagos) to the speedy request and acquisition of Building permits. It may take you almost a year to get a Building approval .... until you grease their palm, officials in-charge make life a hell, for prospective home owners.
Govt needs to streamline these process and stop asking for documents and payments that make coming forward to get approval/permit, a herculean task. Just look at that list published on that SCOAN building collapse thread! You go weak, walahi!

If all hands are on deck, we can checkmate this nonsense causing wanton loss of life.
Just my take.

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bennyrazz: when children see you handling, kissing your spouse or doing some other things, they tend to pick it up and practice such with their fellow children eg (mummy & daddy play) let's play the play mummy and daddy use to play, I am mummy you are daddy and they begin to do some funny things they see their parents do. In their own mind, it's not a harmful play but that's actually when sexual abuse begin. That's when children begin to sexually abuse each other without knowing. so it is wrong for parents to make out in front of their kids.

Meehn, l gbadun those "role play" as a young boy!
I wonder where all those girls wey l dey take style sample come dey now?

And that reminds me, maybe na wetin spoil TuFace reach current levels be that o!

Hmm... I beg, l no wan make my pikin resemble me for that side.
(Locks door before drawing Mama Risikat closer! )

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Goke7: all this talk about man management is crap, siasia had problems with same players keshi had problems too, Eguavoen had issues with Yakubu, Amodu and chukwu all had problems controlling some big players in their time even the foreign coaches were not left out lagerback had problems with osaze just like keshi and siasia, westerhof benched and dropped some very good players we had then and so on and so forth.

Are you saying that all the coaches who has coached the eagles all lack man management skills, common man remember the social media is more in use today than before and its so easy for all what goes on in eagles camp to get to the media easily, I think we are just getting too bias as regards to keshi and posterity will judge us all. siasia who failed as eagles coach did not get all this bashing for christ sake, some of us are even clamouring for his return. Nigeria I hail thee

Your post is full of EMOTIONS but lacks substance!
First, highlight one single line where you saw the name of Siasia, in my post which you quoted! yes, go ahead and do so or STFU!
You come across as one of those people who cant set standards for themselves, talk less of doing so for others, you know the typical Nigerian that rationalise failure by saying because APC is a Thief, therefore it is acceptable that PDP too should loot or because Tinubu is a thief therefore there is nothing wrong if Jonathan loots us dry, afterall, he is not the first person to loot!

That is the kind of mentality that got us where we are today and that my friend, does not cut it with me.
if you take your time to "reason" on my post, you would deduce the following.

1.) keshi has tried and has been successful in the past
2.) Keshi's recent performance, since the completion of the Confederations Cup, has been going downwards.
3.) That second reason shows that he needs a refresher course, just like most big time coaches do refresher course (Jose Maurinho and Arsene Wenger was in one, a few weeks ago. if l can get the link, l will post it here). Keshi does not know it all and so has to keep abreast with current trends in coaching ..... l even suggested it should be done with FULL PAY to him.
4.) Any seasoned coach would tell you that at the level of the National team, you are not teaching players how to trap the ball or how to dribble or make a clean throw-in. They already know all these, that is why they are National team players!

What National Coach does is BLEND AND MANAGE FOOTBALLERS under his watch.
Once you as a coach can manage your players such that they understand themselves, become telepathic during play, understand and follow your tactics, then you are home and dry.

Keshi will benefit himself, if he learns how to manage players. Remember that these footballers are not your usual "well rounded/morally upright teenagers" (except for the likes of Odegbami, Adeolu Adekola, e.t.c who are University graduate Engineers). Most of them are very rude, egoistic and selfish. It is he job of the coach to know hoe to manage them (Man-Management) so that he can get the best put of them ...... Instead of taking to Tweeter to denounce your own player or banning your best "Striker option" because of some squabbles that can be avoided. Players will always be players;
Look at how current Liverpool Coach is trying to "manage" Baloteli (The same Player that was almost punching that Italian, former Man City Coach!) .. and we can see the difference already showing in Balotelli as he now marks and works for the team while maintaining a "level head", even in the face of provocation on the field. THAT IS "MAN-MANAGEMENT!

Tactically, no Coach is perfect but some are better than others. Keshi is still a long way off in terms of reading a Match!
Its not just by shouting at the side-line or chewing Gum endlessly that would give you the tactics of somebody like Sir Alex Ferguson!
The best way to learn "tactics" is to understudy those that know and practice it.

That is what my post is all about. I dont get involved in all those childish gang-ups against a coach or try to run-down keshi, just to promote Siasia. Both have the strengths and Weaknesses but anyone of them that wants to go far, will embrace Knowledge.

My take.

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mpowa: Nigerians did not call for the removal of Ideye, the issue most people have with Ideye is the final ball, putting the ball in the net, he's not a great finisher, but he's very good supporting striker, so people criticized when Keshi went to the confederation cup and our top striker was Ideye. Agreed Eminike was injured but we have other proven strikers, he ought to swallow his pride and call them - Uche, Martins, Obasi, Osaze etc. but none could be called because of one reason or the other.

This is the problem with Stephen Keshi, nay any black man that makes a "little stride of success"... He now feels he is the next best thing after the invention of Microwave!

My own suggestion is that he (Keshi) needs to calm down and stop acting like without him we cannot win any competition; otherwise let him try his luck elsewhere.

But personally, l will prefer that NFF send him on to a sort of "Apprenticeship" under seasoned coaches like Maurinho, Acellotti, Van Gaal, (I would have mentioned the coach of my darling Arsenal but that "Arze Whinger" would only make him worse!

Let him spend Two years understudying them on "tactics and man-management" (especially man-management, which 90% what a National Coach does anyway).
During that time, his salary should be paid in full (with a proviso that he cant work for another country/club within 5years of being trained, else he must refund the country a certain amount equivalent to our loss or his gain, in training him)

He is definitely getting very short on ideas and is taking it out on his players.


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Tomis14: The movie star has reacted by tweeting about her 5 year old failed marriage to American based business man Phillips Ehiagwina.

Do you think she cheated on her husband?

Source http://www.toniaodili.com/2014/10/ini-edo-reacts-to-crashed-marriage.html?m=0

[quote author=Ini Edo ]I asked for a DIVORCE, from my Ex-Husband because of lots of irreconcilable differences....[/quote]Am l the only one reading/seeing this?

An "Ex-Husband" is a Husband you are no longer LEGALLY MARRIED TO! That is, he is no longer your husband.


How then do you "DIVORCE" someone who is already your "Ex" husband, (someone who is no longer your husband?)

Can someone ask this slowpoke to correct her statement on twitter, a lot of people can read it.

Suggestions:
*I asked for a Divorce from my Husband, due to ....blah blah blah.
*My Husband and I and in the process of a Divorce due to ....blah blah blah...
*I have filed for a Divorce from my estranged husband for blah blah blah reasons

BTW: "Irreconcilable differences" is a legal term/jargon used to encompass all sorts of reasons that constitute "dirty linen" which the family may not want to "wash in public".
It ranges from sleeping around, to violence, sexual incompatibility, denial of shex, dried up emotional/sexual feeling for the other party , more money, e.t.c

Yea, there could be a hundred reasons for/why "Love dont live here anymore"!

Just watch their marriage video again, right now..... and at times, l wonder when "Men" would come around to the fact that "Marriage ceremony' is a sham and not worth the effort.

Its like "Night Market" or "No testing Electronics market ",
You never know what you are buying until you take it home or use it for a few weeks!

Anyway, its better than "poisoning or strangling each other"!

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Vessi: This is scary but making sense.
If I may ask, what would the US benefit by spreading the epidemic in Nigeria again?

Does it relate to their prediction of Nigeria's implosion in 2015?

Well, in "GEO-POLITICS", NOTHING MAKES SENSE, ITS ALL A QUESTION OF "POWER, CONTROL AND INFLUENCE"....in that order!

For example, just look at what is happening in Ukraine! Despite all the "propaganda" from both sides, it all boils down to TWO COUNTRIES (Russia and America) wanting to exercise the "Power, Control and sphere of Influence"..... and Ukraine and its citizens are the PAWN in all this.
DOES IT MAKE SENSE?

What l am saying in essence is that to the ordinary layman, it all seems impossible because it "does not make sense" but for those in the know and those who maybe out of curiosity, want to know more than the B.Shyte we are constantly fed with, from main-stream media like Russia RT, CNN, France24, CBS, FOX (faux) News Aljazeera, SKY News, BBC, e.t.c you have to look at the "Big Picture" by bringing all the info available together.... and then MAKE SENSE OUT OF THEM!

As disorganized, corrupt and inefficient as Nigeria is, it still remains a "POTENTIAL FORCE" to be reckoned with in "Geo-Politics".
Okay, did you wonder why Ghana, that has no recorded case of Ebola, is where the EBbola Command center was set-up by the United Nations..... While a nation like Nigeria, which has shown the "willingness and experience" to combat and defeat the Virus was over-looked?
Does that make sense?

Population, Location, Race, Tenacity (never-say-die-spirit), Natural Resources, Level of Exposure (not actually Education), e.t.c has put Nigeria in a "Pole-Position" to be a World Leader though LUCKILY, we are "blessed" with Leaders who are completely bereft of ideas, clueless and are "encouraged to actually sabotage our nation" by the same "BIG Power Players of Geo-Politics"! (IMF Loan and Its poverty-inducing Conditionalities under Babangida's Govt, Liberalisation of market by a nation that "Manufactures NOTHING", Exporting raw materials instead of finished products, e.t.c as just few examples of such "sabotage efforts" from our leaders! but that story is for another day!!)

if you still ask: But WHY?

I will only summarise by saying "keeping Nigeria DOWN AND STRUGGLING" (while enabling minions like Ghana or Angola, who can present NO MEANINGFUL CHALLENGE to the "Status-Quo".. fits into the Geo-Politics of America and Europe.

Trust me, Ghadafi was not only toppled and murdered because he was a "Dictator and sit-tight Ruler". Ther are so many other reasons, unspoken about in public. .
The "unspoken angst" of Western Powers against him was that HE WAS CHALLENGING THE STATUS-QUO AND TRYING TO MAKE AFRICA, NAY LIBYA, A FORCE TO RECKON WITH!
Now, you will need a little bit of research to "make sense" of what l just said. Read Upon how Ghadafi tried to encourage Oil producers like Libya and Nigeria to STOP getting paid using a worthless paper like the Dollar(they just print the paper and pay us with it, its not backed by any GOLD STANDARD!), also Read-up on how he rallied other countries against the exploitative practice of routing our internet via African-to-Europe then back to Africa, just to speak with your next neighbour African country! He personally paid Half of the "fine' imposed on us, to get-off that blackmail! Read-Up on the necessity of AFRICOM, how it stages insurrection in Africa and encourage wars, so that the military-industrial complex of the West can sell their weapons and improve their economy.


I hate to say it, but we live in an era where NO ONE LIKES TO READ!
And some "Oyinbo man" said the best way to hide something from Africans in general, is to WRITE IT DOWN!
Africans, even worse, the current generations of our Youths, HATE TO READ!

How then do you acquire Knowledge if you hate to read? Who is going to read it and "inject it" into your brain?

Anyway, l hate to digress (which l have already done a few times! ).
A burgeoning population, big land-mass coupled with natural resources and versatile human Capital ..if mixed with GOOD LEADERSHIP AND SECURITY( as in safe and stable environment) WILL PRODUCE A WORLD POWER IN NO-TIME!

Everyone, including America knows that Nigeria has ALL THE ABOVE, EXCEPT GOOD LEADERSHIP .... which will in turn produce SECURITY!

So, go figure if they tell us we will collapse by 2015 ... and then insurgency, Ebola pandemic, food shortages, insecurity starts spiralling out of control?

*We have refused to let them TAKE-OVER our internal security, rather we asked they sell us WEAPONS to fight the insurgency! Guess what? They REFUSED!
*We have refused to allow then set-up AFRICOM "Military" BASE in Nigeria! They took it elsewhere anyway.
*We have nailed the Ebola pandemic (a very easy way to wipe-off the Population, apart from War and Famine!)

Again, read more about what HIV is, Where it was "manufactured", How it was intentionally spread via testing on Humans in East/South of Africa and the effects it has on the economy of Africa nations in terms of lost revenue (on treatment and human productivity loss)

Hmmm....We seems to be asserting ourselves, despite our level of "self-induced" poverty and dependence!

Now, somebody, somewhere MAY be thinking: What can we do with these Mutherphuckers who think thy are "smart" and can stand-up to us?
What about "If we introduce a more virulent strain of Ebola" ...since we know that when it comes to Scientific research, they are Zilch, as in ZERO?
If they beg us for the cure, we simply tell them, as before, YOU NEED TO BUILD MORE HOSPITALS, ALLOW MORE HUMAN RIGHTS (Read: Homosexuality!), TOW THE LINE AND GENERALLY BE A "GOOD BOY" (Read: become a stooge and obey us like "Master" ).

Like Fela said in one of his songs: The More you look, the less You see!
This kind of discussion are not for this type of forum and l must admit most people will probably think l am spewing rubbish or just a "conspirator y theorist".
Yea, l understand "how and why" some would feel so. Only the 'deep" can speak with the "deep", if you get my drift.

Lets just be CAUTIOUS and be on the look out, l wont be surprised if in say six months time from now, we are talking of Ebola resurgence wiping off millions of people in this country Nigeria.... or at least, a totally "unexpected and unexplained resurgence".
Just Bookmark this post and lets talk about it then.

I wish and pray something like that does not happen but lets not forget, ""Heaven helps ONLY those who help themselves"!


O'ju ni alakan fi n'sori. (The Crab uses its long, stalk-like eyes, for a purpose: To watch over itself from danger!.... literally translated)

All is well..... or is it?l.

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Caveat: Just ignore this post if it is "too long to read" for you.
If you disagree on "ideas and logic", state your own politely.
Dont inject "party-politics or tribalism" into it, lts irrelevant here.
I was just wondeing aloud when l wrote all these, so dont take me serious.

ITbomb: That was my doubt too, I believe the Americans thought they have perfected the virus but the high survival rate in Nigeria really got them thinking, they want to come and collect blood samples to use and strengthen the virus for next deployment

My fear is this:
Now, we have passed the 21days incubation period so "a pandemic spread' is actually under check but we cannot rest on our oars as there might still be "local pockets' of infected people lurking around. if let untreated and the victim themselves did not move around, it will eventually kill/wipe them out and contained locally.

Today, America has one confirmed infection who might probably have infected a few children (5 in number) and some few unknowns as well.
The source of this infection is also an American Liberian though it is there "fantastic health system" that phucked-up by allowing the infected man to go AWOL (Unlike Patrick Sawyer, he told them he is very sick and is from Liberia, they gave him Antibiotics and asked him to GO HOME! Five days later, after infecting a few people, they are beginning to wake up)

My worry is that "IFF" America has experimented and developed a more virulent strain of Ebola, ..... come to Nigeria and introduced it to our Animals (You only need to inject a male Dog or Monkey or Rat, who will mate with a female, give birth to infected offsprings and it begins to spread, juts like it started in Congo in the 70's ... and in a few days/Months, it will leap to the human body one way of the other

WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO OR SAY?
Are we going to start begging them for another Zmapp?
Are they going to refuse to give us their own treatment and allow our own medical professionals, like Dr. Aidadevoh to died needlessly?
Are they going to tell us to go and build more hospitals as they did before?
Are they going to condemn our own sourced solution as "poisonous pesticide"?
Are they going to act as if they know nothing about the source of the Virus and still blame us and our medical system?

These are the questions Nigerians should ponder upon...... not jumping around that America is begging us for knowledge!
They know far ahead of us in this disease because it is manufactured in their Laboratories, as a Biological Weapon!

I hope our Govt act SMART... and in the interest of Nigerians, on this one.

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nduchucks: Some of you people gloating about this topic are pathetic. Ebola potentially threatens the lives of millions of people majority of who may be pellow Aficans. The US has sent 3000 medical personnel to Liberia to help and study the characteristics of this virus and are now sending a handful of experts to study the containment of the disease in Nigeria. This issue is too serious to be gloating about.

Medical experts are being sent to Senegal, a country where the virus seems to have been contained as well.

Those of you who would like to attribute this Ebola containment to politicians are outright ignorant. The success was due to:

(1) Swift action of our top Doctors and more importantly,

(2) The result of an emergency command center financed in 2012 by the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation to fight polio. As soon as the outbreak began, it was turned into the Ebola Emergency Operations Center. Without that top notch facility turned into Ebola Emergency Operations center, the story would have been different.

(3)The US Center for Disease Control had 10 experts in Nigeria working on polio and H.I.V., who had already trained 100 local doctors in epidemiology; 40 of them were immediately reassigned to Ebola and oversaw the contact tracing.

Ignorance kills.

I agree with you, this Ebola thing is too serious to be a laughing matter.
I also agree that our Doctors deserve all the praise, despite working under "stringent conditions".

But should you not know that:

1.) the 3,000 personnel America sent to Liberia, are not MEDICAL Personnel as you claim. THEY ARE MILITARY PERSONNEL. Just google it and you will see your folly.

You can then begin to wonder, if Cuba, a tiny country, later sent 1,200 DOCTORS to Liberia, what did America have in-mind, to send 3,000 MILITARY personnel to Liberia? Incase you dont know, it is to enforce the Lockdown and kill anyone that contravenes it. Go and watch the story of the "Lockdown during Katrina flooding of black neighbourhoods in America".

2.) The Mellinda Gates Foundation facility has been in place for treatment of HIV, and that was an individual effort of the Bill Gates family..... not the U.S Government effort. having said that, l recognise that he is an American.

3.) It was our Doctors that converted the facility for "test and confinement" of Ebola suspects. That has nothing to do with the American Govt.

4.) The re-assigned 40 Doctors are still Nigerians, trained in Nigeria till they were qualified Doctors. CDC only came to add to their knowledge, as already qualified Doctors.

5.) The U.S Govt made it very obvious from the onset, that they want to see us suffer the disease, hence their refusal to help with Zmapp, then their condemnation of our Silver Nano and their shifting of resources to other countries EXCEPT Nigeria.

We must also give some credit to our "Executive" (I dont have party affiliation but can recognize performance when l see one). In this case, the machinery of state moved "uncharacteristically very quickly", to make sure that Public servants were galvanized into action immediately. This credit goes to the Lagos state Govt, Not America.

The question is: What does America need to know about Ebola, that it does not already know or cannot know by mere "phone/internet/paper REQUEST", ... that it needs to send its personnel down here, at this point?

Is there a hidden agenda we are not being told?
All this jumping up that America needs "our help" is actually foolish on our part!
They will never need our help but they may make us bow to their own Lordship over us and if we decide not to "play ball", America has a long history of using every dirty means not found in the textbook, to make countries bow to their whims; including Sabotage, regime change, deadly infections, e.t.c

We just need to be extremely wary and cautious of this "trojan Horse" of studying us!

Having said that, ...
Apologies, but you are the very ignorant one and you sound like one of them "Visa Applicant" at American Embassy who would say "anything" just to get an American Visa!

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PointB: Finally, something mighty US can learn from Nigeria.

U.S is never foolish though..... and must never be underestimated! Trust me, they have an "Agenda" in making themselves look "begging", like this.

There is nothing they want to know.... that they cannot know through "hearing and reading on the internet or just asking over the phone".
The fact that they refused to help us with any "experimental drug" (which they used on their own citizen) when Dr. Aidadevo was in the throes of death and the Ebola pandemic seems to be on the up-swing,....only to now turn around to send "personnel" physically into the country....


Makes me wonder if they are not up to something else!
I HOPE THEY DO NOT RE-INTRODUCE IT BACK INTO OUR COUNTRY.... only to make us beg them for a cure again!
I JUST DONT TRUST THEM ON THIS "TROJAN HORSE" THEY ARE GIVING US.

Nigerians and our Govt needs to be on high alert!

Better still if we can ask them to ship their "observers" to where they are needed in Sierra leone or Guinea.... and speak to us by internet or on phone