₦airaland Forum

The man has two kids from the previous marriage and funny enough his fiancee doesnt want to have any kids.

Also, she recently moved all her stuff out. This happens a few weeks after he just tooko her on a cruise. When he offered his help and all to help her move she refused to give him her new address saying that he might stalk her etc etc. All this is happening at a time when he just got diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. Funny thing is, she recently had a bad migrane and broke down on the job but he (fiancee/ex fiancee) was the first person she called.

What do u guys think?

@ Sissy
yeah i agree o. you in the US? If so what city?

Another thing I may add is the term "Strong Black Woman" is used a lot of times to cover up for an arrogant attitude or a "mad angry black woman."
Being mad and angry doesnt equate to strenght. So when black women say "I am a strong black woman," they really need to think deep about their definition of "strong."

@ Sissy

Yeah thats what I said too o. 17 years, ouch! You know the world is soo jacked up. I know he got burned really bad in his first marriage but darn that was over 17 years ago.

For me, I think they both have their faults. They are both wrong.

My friend's brother just found out that his fiancee has been cheating on him for about 3 years. Despite this, he has tried to forgive and work with her and now she is the one leaving him. Her excuse, well, they have been together for 17 years but he hasn't married her. His excuse, he got burned in his first marriage and has his fears. However, he has been a loyal man and they practically lived as a married couple.

Personally, I think he is wrong for not marrying her and allowing his fears to waste 17 years.

Then I think she is wrong for cheating on the guy for 3 years. She should have just at least broken things off first rather than cheat.

Just wanted to know ladies, does this give her the right to have cheated?

@ T@meD0

Omo you took the words right outta my mouth! The naija bobo interviewing was really stretching his throat!

Funny

@ IyaKadijat

You mentioned: "If I found a man I actually liked and thought we may have some longevity together-he is the one I made wait for the nookie!"

I've always wondered why chicks do this to the good guys who they know would treat them right and all. Can you please shed some light on this?

Thanks

@ acid drop

Make u no vex my sister. There is no comparism like I said earlier.

longevity = naija babes

End of story

@190

Oyinbo chick got no conscience at all ooo. They will sleep with everyone around you and have no loyalty.

@ poster

Please.,, women do this too, even more than men.

@Yicob

My bros where did you get your unemployment figure from? 90%? C'mon. While there is some truth to some of the things this man has said, he is in Nigeria living a luxurious life that he can't afford to live in Germany or wherever he is from.

Holla at me, when he sees you next to me he will regret

lol

No but seriously, I know its hard feeling rejected and all, but trust me when you meet Mr.Right you will even thank your ex boyfriend

Gosh, do you actually have to write a book on this? Its sooo simple, F, k him and Feed him. You'll have him wrapped around your finger.

Na wa. I've always wondered why some chicks I know are still single despite all their degrees and $$$$. I guess some people think that they have power over time. There are soooo many people in the world and everyone might have their audience, but it is hard to find a mate that fits you hand in glove o. VERY hard. Its not just a thing of snapping the fingers and one will appear. This goes for both men and women. Good women hard to find also oo. Trust me, I can tell you this. My advice is don't take anyone for granted just because you think you have power over time.

Na wa for this homeboy.

I guess ugly girls need love too.

I can attest. Cali is awesome! Lots to do. Love LA, hollywood, Melrose, Rodeo Drive, Pasadena, Newport Beach, list goes on.

Love Lajoya San Diego

Haba, na wa for judgemental people oooo. Ok what she did was a sin. Sin na sin period in God's eyes but so long as we confess and ask for God's forgiveness, that's all that matters. She came clean with you shows that she got a conscience and a conviction. Build on that! How about those who would have never told you.

Good woman hard to find my brother.

@ Poster.

I know its hard now, and people's advise is usually "oh just move on!" As though you can just snap your fingers and turn off emotions. Easier said than done for those not in your shoes. But it always takes time, trust me. What matters most is what you do within that time. Invest in yourself, invest in your future. And one day, you might run into this guy, and you will look at him and ask yourself why the heck you were going nuts for him in the first place. Trust me that time will come.

@ Smurf,

Haba its not that long now. I've seen much longer on NL

Ok I did some editing, Sorry

Can't marry a virgin for two reasons:

1. I'm not one and it's only fair that we both should be virgins

2. Got no time to train no one  

Ol boy, this dude is cool with me man! Would like to meet the bobo self, lol

Lax is taking notes:

Ehh, so Calabar chicks have it going on ehh? Aiight I'ma have to check 'em out when next I'm in Naij.

Food for thought