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Yusufisraelj:
When someone is trying to upgrade you to a level where your own income cannot sustain that spending, jejely come to your level, especially in relationships where nothing is guaranteed.

As the guy left how did she faired? Some people just like the fake life to show that things are working. She never grew to the level where the guy was pushing her into, equally the guy wasn't willing to allow her grow into those levels, it was largely a transactional relationship. From OPs story her life went from first class to economy within a short period, what does that say?

I'm I saying guys shouldn't spend on their ladies? No, no sane man will over spend on his lady even if he is well to do, they want such ladies to be able to manage their wealth someday, so they allow them grow into taking certain responsibilities.

It was obvious the wealth wasn't largely the guys own hence the heavy spending without proper foresight to groom the lady for management of large sums. Bkos it has shown that his decision can be largely influenced against his will and choice and the lady couldn't keep up with the new standard.





Like seriously?

Nicely elaborated! One chilled beer for you, bills is on the house

free2ryhme:
You are a content thief



https://www.nairaland.com/5246864/wifes-sister-crash-marriage-please

Ewo... Nairaland detective has arrived this one sweet me die,
For making me this happy, wetin I want? I go give me sharp sharp

Theben:
Bro, same thing is happening to me at the moment. I am not dating this lady though, but we had moments that almost led to sex.

She reports directly to me. I knew her to be hardworking and smart, but now she's displays unseriousness in the discharge of her duties. Unlike you, I can not even bring myself to querying her. It is really affecting my job.

Once you have sex with a girl it automatically means that you guys are dating
You better correct her where necessary and don't let her action cost you your job, this is the pure side effects of having anything to do with your colleague.

Shey you no sabi say once you lash any babe una two don become age mates, she go insult pepper comot for ya body only the few sensible ladies out there knows how to respect and adore their men irrespective of the sexual connection between them.

Billionsclub:
A friend of mine called me and told me what happened to her. this happened recently.
she is a single mother. she said she went to meet her boyfriend (not the father of her child) on an outing. As they were there, unknowingly to her, her boyfriend friends and their girl friends were all there. Before you know it, the guy knelt down and propose to her, they were recording, but my friend said she refused. according to her, her boyfriend was not happy. one of her boyfriend friends called her to ask her why she refused to accept the proposal and she told him the reason. according to her, she said she has only met the boy four times and they just started dating two months ago. in order words, it was too early for the boy to propose. after she explained all that happened, I told her she did the right thing. I also told her not to take the relationship serious because the boy may want to use her and dump her because of the embarrassment she gave him in public.
on a second thought, I felt a little bad because I might have given her the wrong advice.
should she continue the relationship or step out of the relationship because of the embarrassment she caused the guy by refusing to accept

michigang:
michelle, I have arab men for you if you are ready. Terms and conditions apply

LordKO:
I do not think that there is anything more appalling than when a well-known wretched active harlot from a wretched foolish family thinks that she counts and matters to sane and established people. Active and retired harlots should stop using the foolish and wretched elements that brought them into this world as a standard for all Nigerian men in particular and men in general.

Catfishing:
Geez....never knew he viewed it this way

gnykelly:
he speaks the mind of the average nigerian. that's why there is a law against the living of lgbtq+

bigpicture001:
@OP, exactly this same thing happened to me, but not this same issue. The ladies holding onto anything unreasonable just to want out.... I begged mine for 1nd half month...

I later realized that a lady who picks offence on unreasonable stuff to want out already wants out but looking for the flimsiest of excuse to leave...

What is worrying yours is the prospect of meeting new guys at NYSC. So doesn't want to be seen as being with someone when she gets there.... It's hard to say.. But just let her b.. It will hurt, but you won't die!

Mine is two months ND counting. ND am now very OK. I dont even have any secret plan to know anything about her anymore...... I moved on.. Like she also did

heendrix:
He killed a Pornster, the pornster family got settled with up to 24m in dollars. what reason else would he be jailed for??

we simply got one less pornster to worry about next should be Rico strong, Charlie mac and that heifer Goat nasir till the world is free of pornsters

Mhimi007:
used to have this neighbor then in Lagos...she actually took my virginity it was slow and all at first like the normal sex but then I started hearing words from my guys abt how this girl was a sexual godess I acted as if I don't know what they were talking about and deep down I was like this same girl then the next day I went to her flat(she is a student of uniben and she stays with her family in my parents house a block of four flats) naso i come carry myself go this babe flat,knock she came out I asked her if she was alone she said her mom was around i told her to come to my flat my folks have gone to work my siblings to school that was how this aunty came oo and it started we did the first one she allowed me rest for a couple of minutes then we picked again if I remember correctly we started by 9 or so and it was non stop till past 3 she had to leave cos of my siblings(heard their school bus) we came to the living room acting asif nothin happend then she left i thought that was all oo it kept going like that for weeks she will come to my place and we kick off I tried convincing myslf that I was having fun and all but I was drying up i say vagina tire me did HIV test came out negative na so I use scope lose guard the babe oo

Mhimi007:
i nor wan remember that thing abeg

Mhimi007:
oloun

AwesomeStormy00:
You granny me be great grand pa just say make i ask ni if u sabi speak yoruba cuz i dey gbadu your post blunt direct and funny

LOL.. Yeah I do!
Great grand pa kor... My ancestor ni

AwesomeStormy00:
@Michelle55 who dey teach you yoruba. Abi.na Google translate

Shey na granny wey be like me you open eyes dey yab laidis?
You want make I change am for you ni