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cryingeyes:
Tribalistic - I only mentioned the tribes, as I thought it was an important bit to include. I'm not tribalistic and don't think I know what it means to be. We communicated in English and I once told him I wanted to learn Ibo so we could communicate in it.

I did worry that maybe he was getting into a relationship too soon and needed time to heal from his marriage or get over his ex-wife. His separation started last year and the divorce is yet to be finalized this year, but he had told me he was in a ldr with a girl in Nigeria last year after his separation started, that only didn't work out because of her parents, that he was fine with being in a relationship with me. I wanted to keep being friends and take our time getting to one each other, but he had asked me twice over the phone to be in a relationship with him. I agreed to be in it the second time he asked me, but even then I wasn't ready to meet him, as I'm shy and have never met anyone from online before, but he was eager to meet. I wanted to continue as we were doing, getting to know one another, and wait till June to meet, but he kept saying we've no excuse not to meet now because we're in the same country. He booked the flight anyway and I didn't have a choice but to meet him.

I gave him lots of space. Before we met he would say we weren't communicating enough and always wanted to talk on the phone (being an introvert, tbh I didn't always want to). It was new to me but I didn't mind as I didn't have anyone to talk to before. During his visit he also told me he wanted us to communicate more, so I'm not sure why he suddenly switched after the visit.

Direction - I only asked him to "please keep going straight because it's faster this way and that "I would tell him when to make a right". He was already driving in the direction I was asking him to go (straight) and I told him I would let him know when to make a right because I would get off soon after that right turn. That was all I said and gently. With the other direction we were following on the GPS, we would make several turns and it would take longer to get to the destination, but when I realized that the direction he was already driving in was better and faster, I told him and thought I was doing the right thing, but he decided to lash out at me. I said "Please" and I was very gentle with how I asked. He knows I'm quick with "pleases" and "thank yous" (sometimes when I would say "thank you" and he would ask why I was thanking him, as he didn't find it necessary).

Blocking - This was my way of responding to my unhappiness but at least I didn't get angry or yell like he would. The last time I blocked him I told him I would stop it and that I had only done it because I wanted his attention, which was true.

samso247:
The truth is that the man is angry, because u refused giving him punany. Imagine traveling from another city to another city to see a gal, and it's just kissing. E pain d man gahn, but he doesn't know how to go about it.


Am just saying ooo

Rozcol:
That lady involved isn't just any lady she's on a mission.

Yeah, on a mission to destroy and it's quite unfortunate that she succeeded instead of being passed around by the guys. I guess she's devil's niece and with the help of her uncle she came out victorious and not only that, she use dem count census cum still carry Belle for another guy wey im preeq make sense pass these foolish friends.

Ishilove:
We even hear the girl was pregnant for somebody else entirely while all the slaying was going on. Negodu rubbish hian

Ishilove:
For me, being a loner has paid me a lot. No unnecessary drama

Is that so? someone is about to change that status of loner to.... Ermm, I've forgotten. When I remember it, I'll tell you.

Lonelypacifist6:
Sure! you deserve it. You're youngie ooo, at 38 All the things I would/ wouldn't do, if I could turn back the hands of time.

You can still do lots of things you know, age has got nothing to do with that.. Would it make you feel better if I tell you I'm 46 as well? e no dey hard me to increase my age oh

Lonelypacifist6:
Evening newspaper at 38! Who talk am? What about a 46 year old? Ancestor? don't let anyone deceive you, You're still young.

Someone is toying with my emotions tonight , so I'm still a Youngie at 38.. I think I'll sleep with a huge smile on my face tonight or what do you think?

Lonelypacifist6:
chei see youngee.

LOL.. Shey you dey whine me ni? an exclusive evening newspaper like me na im you dey call Youngie, continue washing my head with hypo

sunshineV:
i've never reach here in my life but i have dis egbon that likes buying all his stuff in alaba...dem dey scam dis egbon back 2 back bt e no dey here word like wen e bought a tv without the follow come screen, dey hold d tv with brown tape and cut one thing glass their...i was just laughing bt he still went back to pay for ps4 with one pad but dey gave him faulty xbox one without pad but with fifa 20

Kuku kee me

Bola146:
I don't have for your gigolo type either! Hypocrite

Osim gigolo? when did I suddenly develop a pipe in between my legs that I'm not aware of? Now I know your brains needs to be checked, you're yarning of point and that isn't good for a lady of ya age..

Do yourself a huge favor by being yourself, pretence will take you no where my sister. I know say I dey craze gan and e get people wey still like me laidat

There are some things ya prayers can not solve hanty prayer warrior use your sense na why God give us brain to discern right from wrongs. It seems you have no idea who you jam for here I no dey look face before I wash person oh.. Just enter ya shell back biko.

Mylife89:
I’m currently serving, I meet this beautiful, lady while in camp, We served together till my relocation worked, we were in love or so I thought.

Things has been going well, even when it's a long distance relationship, up until yesterday night I called her and while we were talking the following was happening:

She wasn't paying attention while responding awkwardly

She was trying hard not to moan loud.

She was telling me to go to bed that it's late in a moaning tune.

While I was still trying to listen more closely, I could hear a guy spitting, I'm sure on her pussy and giving her head which even made her not talk back for some split seconds.

As a guy man I coded, but still kept the conversation going even with the responses from her �


But while all that, I was losing my mind, my heart racing like someone who just got news about Jesus coming in 5mis and hasn't repented �

I couldn't take it anymore and told her that why is there someone there with her and she couldn't tell me.

It was like boom, next thing I heard was a guy wishper, meaning she had the phone on speaker, and she also immediately regained her senses and responded like a normal person saying things like

Ah, me noooo
Dear am alone in the room no one with me
Don't you trust me

Me already filled with rage ended the call and here I am it's 5am and I still cant sleep well

Fear ladies

Bola146:
Come and hear from one of his friends You better repent before it's too late

Perhaps you should stop trying so hard to be a prim and proper woman online, be yourself and stop using church and prayer points to cover up.

Bola146:
Thank God you are very vigilant, you don't allow lust to cover you. Don't ever give him any chance please, run away from him, he can kill. He is looking for sugar mummy, let him face his criminal life, I just pity his children. Pray to God for a honest, caring and understand man, they are still out there but they are few. Just use your senses please

omaclarry:
Where una dey see all these kind of girls sef... Me na only chibok and dapachi girls i dey attract, na so i dey pay ransom for their head every tym