₦airaland Forum

adorable29:
Look at this one below who quoted me

just so you know, both you and freshvine did the same thing: you both made assumptions on incomplete information using your inherent/residual bias.

This was the information: "As a broke college student I told her I’m not ready for anything extra now other than graduating and getting my life together. So it was tough"

you assumed he left her to suffer and go through pregnancy and childbirth alone
while freshvine assumed extra meant marriage

do you have this lexus design bumper but with mesh grille ?

obailala:
Well unfortunately for you, I'm not here to start bantering of some Buharist or Jonathanian achievements. What remains a fact is that I finally get to see something which I longed for, i.e. a big man being convicted and sent to prison. And yeah, it happened during the time of Buhari, so please allow me the freedom to celebrate this.

Had it been the story went the other 'usual' way, i.e. "Federal High Court acquits Dariye of all charges", I'm sure you and your ilk would have jumped in here excitedly heaping the usual insults on Buhari for turning the man to a saint and not being able to achieve a single conviction. Now the story is different and you now choose to remember that it's the court and not Buhari's prosecution.

just so you know. I provided a fact about the story.

you responded with an assumption about me and my supposed ilk.

nonetheless, it is within your rights (and very noble) to celebrate this justice

obailala:
This 'food' was the principal reason I supported Buhari to be president. Unfortunately, 3 years after, and we've only been served with a single plate. Hopefully we would get more soon.

this is not a prosecution by PMB. This prosecution started in 2007. The sentencing was only delayed for 9 years because of his numerous appeal up to supreme court level.

he had fallen out of favor with the then PDP (was impeached and left the party) and both the Yaradua and GEJ governments.

seunmsg:
Like I wrote earlier, Buhari is a pragmatic choice. I will rathee help Buhari back than vote Sowore and indirectly helping PDP back to power.

However, I am not against voting outsiders. I voted Chief Gani Fawehinmi in 2003 and he lost. Voting Sowore will also lead to the same outcome as my vote for Gani back in 2003. We need to encourage all the so called outsiders to unite and present a single candidate under a united platform. Anything short of that will lead to nowhere.

you know there are those who do not want buhari and would say voting for sowore will indirectly help Buhari so they'd rather vote PDP.

in essence you are anti-PDP while they are anti-Buhari. None of you would be a true Sowore supporter

seunmsg:
I am of the opinion that Sowore will make a better president than PMB but the reality on ground shows that sowore stands no chance of winning. Buhari for now is still a pragmatic choice.

Why would you vote for someone you don't want because he is most likely to win.

no wonder people thought last election was either GEJ or PMB. If there are better candidates who dont seem likely to win then I would vote them. The more we vote outsiders and pretenders the more accountability we get.

With all the issues with GEJ he still got millions of votes. With all issues with PMB, he will still get millions of votes because of this mentality of not voting for featherweight candidates

koladebrainiac:
June 12 is a national struggle and not limited to Yoruba nation struggles. Jonathan did not declare June 12 a national day Obasanjo that benefited directly from the event did nothing. He even made so many efforts to ridicule the day itself.


They played politics with it.
Jonthan only tried to dangle icing cake. He did not even understand the struggle. he tried to name SCHOOL AFTER MOSHOOD which is irrelevant. the struggle is not only for Abiola but the entire nation. June 12 is a national struggle. a day one man robbed us all of our collective decision.

Now Buhari turned the whole thing around. He did one singular thing nobody has the mind to do in almost 25years. Politics or anything. even JONATHAN did play politics with it, but it did not work out.


But would this signify that Yoruba would vote for Buhari during 2019 election? well,as for me,i wont vote him,he still hasnt impressed me


But i dont know why Igbo are trying so much to condemn this day? its not as if they actually voted for Abiola or support june 12.majority of Igbo voted for TOFA. so why should their opinion matters?



whyy are they even getting from Nigeria? its not like they are either here or there.
Yoruba has ruled this country 8years,South South ahs ruled 6years, and for the sake of unity n fairness,we are saying the Igbo should make good calculation and vote for Buhari and wait till 2023 to compete. Not that its the idea thing,but we sey its the smartest thing to do. Maybe then they can decide to leave the union. its not a rocket science bro. this is politics. its not do or die.

You say you are not voting Buhari becuase he hasnt impressed you.

but you encourage an entire tribe to vote him because it is the smartest thing to do.

you are very funny

urose93:
Stop making fool of yourself. You obtained B.Sc in Engineering? please what is the meaning of B.Sc?

why are young people quick to insult and argue what they arent certain of?

the dude has said he got a B.Sc Eng from Unilag. You should confirm this first before you rush to type with those ill-mannered fingers.

there are schools abroad that award a B.Sc in engineering FYI

Newpride:
Nigeria is a lawless country, if not, saraki shld have first resign as the senate president over this indictment.

William Jefferson only indicted Atiku and Atiku was barred from entrying the US.
How can saraki these guys confessed they are working for saraki, that he gave them car to disrupt election, that alone is enough to jail Saraki

Nigeria is a lawless country, the law is only for the common man.
How many of us could have bn indicted like this and go free without facing the full wrath of the law.

you would jail all politicians then.

FGC Warri ! Make we start to talk?

Hakeem12:
Religion is not the solution to anyone's problem. Religion is the problem. Why would some all powerful being create creatures capable of reason and then demand that they act in a manner contrary to their creation? Perhaps the whole root of our trouble, the human trouble, is that we will sacrifice all the beauty of our lives, will imprison ourselves in totems, taboos, crosses, blood sacrifices, steeples, mosques, races, armies, flags, nation, in order to deny the fact of death, which is the only fact we have.

it is possible for faith and reason to walk together

OgaInnocent:
I agree with :
HOSPITAL MGT
HAZARD ALLOWANCE

I disagree:
With NON MEDICAL CONSULTANTS

Nigeria is a country where a med lab Scientist prefers to be adressed as a doc than who he is. This is not UK where there is law and self worth. In UK a nurse cannot take it from you calling him a doctor. A med lab Scientist cannot allow you call him a doc. They want you to call them who they are, they don't want you doc. The reverse is the case in Nigeria.


I'm telling about a Nigeria where a med lab Scientist who operates a private lab gives admits patients and give in patient care, just because the patient tested positive to malaria Parasite. It is maddening. Then imagine, when you allow these same people who want to be doctors by all means to become CONSULTANTS... my dear, you have killed the system...you will not understand what doctors are preventing until it happens. This is not UK pls. If you claim your family and friends are in Nigeria, and u r wishing for a JOHESUite to be made consultant, then pray they do not fall sick, or be ready for the unthinkable.

Secondly, that the doctor - patient ratio in Nigeria is low should not be a yardstick to convert a non-doctor to a doctor. You should rather root for more medical graduates and more medical schools and more quota. This is where your Hypocrisy came to limelight and puts your being a doctor in doubt. That we do not have enough pilots is not enough reason to convert an air hostess to a pilot. That we do not have enough Rev Fathers is not a necessity to convert a catechist to a rev father.

A word is enough for the wise.

me too. I agree with Hospital management and Hazard alalownace but disagree with Non-medical consultant

You cannot be a consultant if you are not responsible for patient care or consulted. A dentist or an Optometrist can be a consultant but not a pharmacist or lab med who are not directly consulted by the patients

LadyMarionette:
This is like saying that a bird doesn't have to be a duck in order to quack. You want it to quack but it shouldn't waddle. It shouldn't be a duck. Okay . Even if the bird doesn't call itself a duck (because someone tries to convince it that it isn't one), if it quacks like duck............

What you are only trying to do is suppress its knowledge of itself, so that you can harvest the advantages to yourself without dealing with the parts that aren't so savory to you. Shame!

Feminism is a range of ideologies, political movements, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes. Before you claim that financial independence isn't part of the feminist agenda, you should enlighten yourself on the matter of economic empowerment.

he is saying the relationship isnt commutative.


all feminists are independent doesnt mean all independent ladies must be feminists

izzou:
How many whites can afford surgeries to obtain black features? And what do you even mean by black features? Nyansh Abi na breeest?


I wouldn't want to engage you in an argument. I'm very busy now, and I don't know about you?

Just know that you have been noticed dear

Sai de safe

skin tanning, lips augementation to make them fuller are an attempt to emulate black features

Lalas247:
So I should be his dietitian also ...
Na wa o

Nothing wrong in feeding your man healthy meal .. DOn’t DEMAND IT!
If you want to eat vegetables and all that you only need to tell her ... all this rules who e help
Men be confusing house help / Mother to wife ... stay woke

I still cannot find what is wrong with the guy's post that makes him (or all men) useless.

the message is clearly applicable to Nigerian wives that are responsible for feeding their husbands. Those who do not have such responsibility can as well ignore his message?

StOla:
The great Yorubas caused the problems of the inferior Igbos.

Persecution complex!

Admission of failure and defeat.

as in ehn. see mentality of the response.

Wetin bring yoruba inside. So someone should be above the law because he is from one's tribe. Na wa o

justscorchone:
Me when dem rape at 12yrs when I dey smile since,I still dey search for Facebook now if I go see her make I give her return leg.

@mariesucre

an example here

MarieSucre:
15 years is too small. Make it at least 30 years so she comes out when she is in her 50's since she decided to rob his youth from him let hers be taken as well. This is sick and disgusting, where there no men above 18 where she lives. She is a paedophile, full stop.

I'm even more angry at the men making light of this issue, later y'all will come and say feminist do yen yen yen when y'all cannot even stand for the young boys.

I hope he also gets state counseling, she has psychological damaged that boy.

it is different because there is an added psychological trauma for females. most men were sexually abused as kids/teenagers but never considered it abuse. quite the opposite actually, it was a thing of respect that you chopped big aunty.

I have a friend who was constantly abused form age 7 till 13 by the same aunty. by the time he grew up and saw aunty, he wanted to have sex on his own accord but aunty refused. the effect and impression on young boys is different to be honest.

Thank God laws do not care about trauma or consent. If you have sex with a minor his/her perceived consent is immaterial and you will go to jail.

Takeproft:
This points are so one-sided. I'm a "No means No" kinda guy. I've realized that ladies hate it with passion. I've asked some girls out and when they didn't give me a straight forward answer or say I should wait or have patience or give time to think about it, I withdraw immediately. I still remain friends but I never mention love ever again. In my experiences, I realized ladies don't like. They hate it and some have confronted me about it. Some asked me "you been dey find my mouth? " "don't you know I'm a lady?" Etc. But once you don't give me satisfactory answer and attitude the first date or time of my asking you out, I get my mind off you.

I do this to safeguard my heart, my time and my finance. If you want to start wooing, impressing, pressurizing and waiting on a lady that's not yet your woman, then you're making yourself vulnerable and open to be used, manipulated and abused. Ladies have no conscience and they'll treat you bad, milk you, manipulate and abuse you when they know you still stick around after getting a No for an answer. The truth is , ladies are highly manipulative and they always love to have an edge over you.

there is no one size fits all. Some ladies want you to pester/persevere a bit while others want you to get the hint and let her be

ReinaFarine:
Yes, she is actually a wife material. One material doesn't suit all. There is definitely a man out there that wants exactly the kind of material you are as wife. You are his wfe material. You're not marrying society so don't let the tell you you aren't wife material. Do you. You'll find your soul mate.

+ 10000

CoolFreeday:
she has her point but can't be my wife.

she make some sense though...

thats a good way to put it. She can be a perfect wife to some other guy but not you.

You and her differ in values and expectations in marriage

AmazonTopaz:
Nice one and if you ever get married may it be with a man who shares your view.Some of your points made sense to me.

simple. to each his own. "WIfe material" simply means the speaker's idea of a wife material.

Same way I feel when I hear ladies say "A real man should and should not do bla bla bla ..."

it is all about our values and expectations jare

donstan18:
You cannot hurt who you love.

Stop these inconsequential and irrelevant excuses.

I disagree bro. Most men cheat because of their own lack of discipline rather than a lack of affection for their spouse. It is not an excuse, it is understanding the problem in other to tackle it.

vanhelsing1:
Ma FRIEND,I guess u need some brushing.der r no pple wiout a tribe..check d dictionary to see d meaning of a tribe...den come bek n thank me.except d Portuguese n English ur grannies in d 17th century.
thanks..God bless

you clearly are new here. MrCork used to be everyone's favourite troll on nairaland. His stupidity is unbelievable. We concluded he was genius level as it takes a high level of intelligence to troll this stupid.

Rotjijatau:
I Want The Public To Take This Piece Into Cognizance Regarding The IG Of Police's Speech Blunder

1. The speech in question was doctored

2. Even if it was not doctored, nobody is above mistake

3. If you have been following The IG's trail or watched him speak before, you'll know that he's intelligent & grammatically fluent.

4. People were complaining why he was promoted from a commissioner of police straight to an IG of police instead of following protocol. Well, that is GRACE at work...... Grace disqualifies the qualified in order to qualify the unqualified. God doesn't follow protocol when he wants to promote you.

5. If we channel the intellectual flexibility (making T-Shirts of Transmission & videos just to mock him) into more productive things, we would have been richer than we are.

6. The difference between Nigerians & Americans is, while they channel their brain to more productive things, we are busy using ours to trend someone's mistake.

says those that laughed at Oga @ the top and Patience Jonathan

Bethel4Life:
evidence of wat u said pls?? i havent heard of this before

fact check shows she actually never said this

Alejoc:
Stands them out of the crowd!

doesnt at all.

in the job market, we dont care. First class is first class.

ikennaf1:
Afonja stinking everywhere

if dem yab una now na una go first cry marginalisation.

bloody tribalists everywhere

dokyOloye:
I wonder if a senator punches another senator,shouldn't there be a mechanism to punish him,just like that suspension?
Should d same person still be strutting around in d chambers in the name of "he is representing a constituency"?
What if d same person repeats d same offence d next day?

who is even representing the Okun people as Dino is facing his justice?

My racist attraction orientation does not allow me have any physical attraction for a non-black skin

I cant even sleep with whites or latinas to talk of getting married to them.

Most of us will marry Nigerian women because we are used to them. The uncertainity of a new culture is very risky.

Most of the Nigerian ladies complaining about Nigerian men will marry us for the same reasons. ok one more reason: Nigerian men are the[b] one-eyed kings[/b] in an Africa full of blind "archaic" men.

Asowari:
Not over seriousness or ego anything.it's just the simple truth. A female can not rule Nigerian because they are not fit to rule
Stella oduha and Diezani Alison Madueke.
are a perfect examples.

there is no logical consequence in using a very small sample to generalize.

personal integrity has nothing to do with gender

Happigirl12:
Men and women are equals until they get married. That's when the husband becomes head. About the submission as to carrying him on my head when he can't respect me as well, I can't marry someone who can't do that...

even in Christian Marriages, they are equal in dignity. That he is a designated leader does not make her less.