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Hopefully when someone gets it they can give us a review. I was initially interested in the N97, but definitely prefer this one after seeing a demo.

Yawn. . . .

@ tpia - why you had to steal my lines!"  
[quote author=tpia. link=topic=394216.msg5462660#msg5462660 date=1265488937]oh dear.


here we go again.[/quote]

@ jazz-man

If I'm correct you are the same person who posted that she wanted to break up with you because you were  "too big"?

A person cannot contract gonorrhea from a toilet seat.  She's only being dramatic  - i.e. threatening to kill herself - because she was caught lying. 

This is a BIG sign, at least to me, that she hasn't been faithful to you, she will not be faithful if you go ahead and marry her.  One time she used an excuse to get out of the relationship, this time around you contracted an STD from her - what are you waiting for her to do to you next?

ifedy: Not compulsory, but it is better before pple start running mouth that u re forced into marrying her
You know people always have explanation for everything, the aproko nature

It all depends on the individuals.  If you're getting married and invite bad belle people to your wedding, know what to expect. 

If it is in your control then you can dictate the type of wedding you want, you then have the choice of how you want things to be - or not. 

ndigbo:
I am one very shy person! some people have actually put this question across to me, many times 'what will i do on my wedding day as regards dancing' my response has been that i wouldn't, better still my younger brother can do the dancing on my behalf. 

I feel you on that - just hope your brother is a REAL good dancer!!   

@ poster

Yes it is. It depends on the people involved.

googles:
[size=13pt]whoever said you have to be chris brown or usher at your own wedding? who cares if you can dance or not all you have to do is let your excitement and happiness lead you trust me the question you ll be asking yourself after is "damn how did i learn to move like dat ?"[/size]

It isn't about being like Chris Brown or anyone else.  There's a difference between those who want to dance and can't dance and those who can but choose not to.  Dancing at your own wedding isn't compulsory.

In our excitement and happiness we didn't dance and don't regret it!

@ poster

And you believe this because it's written in The Sun newspaper, one of Nigeria's most reliable and upright news publications

@ poster

If you approach a woman the right way she will not reject you or be rude to you. Get to know her before you start stating your CV and "propositioning" her. If you approach her the right way and she is rude to you or starts acting up, walk away. She doesn't deserve any more of your attention.

Spare me that rubbish about "western culture", that's always used as an excuse for someone who doesn't know how to behave. Win her as a friend first rather than acting out on what you see and what you want to do with her (sharp women can read that look from a mile away). Oh, and make sure you smell nice

RESPECT is the key.

It isn't compulsory to dance at a wedding. What if you can't dance; why be forced to do something where you will embarrass yourself for someone else's amusement?

Yes, especially on the telephone and they haven't figured out it's me

If someone has to ask "how do I know if I married the right person?" it's a bit late, as the saying goes, to close the stable doors after the horse has bolted!

If someone gets married because of pressure from family and friends they are creating a rod for their own back.  In fact, it's a stupid reason for getting married _{(there, I said it)}.

[quote author=A_K_O link=topic=385320.msg5394192#msg5394192 date=1264570746]PMing would reduce people's interaction on boards, I think.[/quote]I disagree.  From experience on another site, PMing allowed us to take our friendships from cyberspace into the real world but it didn't detract from the message boards.

Not everyone a person PMs will become a personal friend - if anything, it may lead to more Yahoo Yahoo messages.  If there's a way to guarantee this won't happen that would be great, but I don't think it will mean people interact on the boards less.

errandbee:
I think we hide identities to protect ourselves from identity theft.

I agree to an extent, some simply don't need the whole world and a brother to know who they are outside of NL.

Abu Zola:
Where are you if i may ask.  Read my previous post again, i said we have few fornicator compare to the christian, the christian are the master, you can find 70% of the christian in a geographical zone fornicates.  And 20%  muslim.  You also know it unless if you have a hiden agenda coz everyone is aware of this.

My intention is not to make sweeping generalisations of any one group, that is why I differentiate between sincere and devout believers and those who are "religious".

Geographically we inhabit very different worlds.  I don't have a "hidden agenda", if you find one let me know.  In the meantime, while you are looking for the said "hidden agenda", I will make it easier for you by not responding to your posts.

Also, if you have nothing further to add to the original post, I suggest it is best to cease de-railing the thread.

[/quote][quote author=Abu Zola link=topic=383225.msg5406587#msg5406587 date=1264716616]@last poster, are you a muslim ?
Am saying what i know is rampant in my society. The christians are the prime people that does the fornication alot than you can imagine. Am talking from experience, even though we have few among the muslim but is rampant among the christian.

And I am saying what I know is rampant where I am. Replace "Christian" with "Muslim" - we are both talking from experience, because it is so does not make it exclusively right either way.

azeeza:
@mushin


Noted.thanks


@mazaje

weldone

I like the fact that you posted it here - hope it doesn't get derailed or moved _{(but then, when NLanders get bored. . .)}

Abu Zola:
Me too. Why should they lie when their mate are married and they re busy roaming the street.  It is a xtrian that i know they reach old age before marriage after sleeping with several boy friend. Salamu alaikum ya ikwan.

Normally I wouldn't reply to you but trust me, people will sleep with others before marriage regardless of belief.  The "religious" ones will do that, true believers of any religion will not.

lasisi:
This usually bothers me because it not only rob them of early marriage at prime age but also spurs the ready and capable brothers like me into marrying the ladies of other faith like I' m almost doing except a miracle happens which i still secretly pray for because I don't want to get it wrong a this critical decision stage of my life. So brothers and sisters lets discuss this issue which is gradually killing the spirit of the DEEN. jimohzz@yahoo.com

Those women who have said they are engaged aren't for you.  Or you've been approaching the wrong type of women.

I would encourage you to hang in there.  Don't go for someone you aren't totally comfortable with, especially if they are not of the same faith because it will cause problems later on.

@ poster

Why should your brother-in-law be freeloading off of the family?

If he is visiting briefly, I wouldn't expect any major contribution.  However, if he is living there, he should contribute. That is not an unreasonable request.

Too many people abuse this privilege of staying with family, then they end up using them and leave better off than those they were staying with!

@ poster

Do you think that your mother is supposed to have no feelings for her father because he's 92??  If you think your mother is pathetic now, wait until she hits her late 60s and starts looking and acting like an old woman, you'll be the one freaking out!

People who have their parents fear losing them, no matter how old they are.  As we watch them age, we become more aware of their mortality.  Was talking to someone a couple of weeks ago whose mother is 83 and growing more frail.  He worries about  her - and he's 60!

So long as parents are alive and their children are around, so will these concerns be.  The reality is that when they are gone you feel a void, you also feel the responsibility that comes from being the next generation.  The loss of a parent isn't something reserved only for the young.

Is it me or does the Maths here not add up:

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=387585.msg5386909#msg5386909 date=1264468931]Titilola also explained to the court while being led in evidence by her counsel, Olumide Ibiwole that she last set her eyes on her husband on April 12, 2005.


What made her story more sympathetic was that five years into the marriage, her hope of meeting her husband one day, probably when he will arrive to pick her abroad and continue their love affairs Was dashed. She informed the court that they were communicating on phone intermittently until January 2006, when the man bluntly told her not to initiate calls to him anymore.


“We spoke on phone sometimes, his response has always been harsh and unbecoming of the man I married. Our last contact was in January 2006 when I called him and he bluntly told me to stop calling him.”
.[/quote]She last sees her husband on 12 April 2005.
In January 2006 he says point blank not to call him again.

How could the interval in that year add up to 5 years?    And after he effectively dismissed her in 2006, she hung in there a whole 4 years waiting for someone who didn't want her and had no contact with her?!

Uhm, hello, what's a big old man like him taking a 14 year-old wife 

manmustwac:
what do you mean by Go's?

I think he means "General Overseers".  This is a Nigerian/African thing, most churches don't have them - at least not with that title.

Fhemmmy:
Nope,  just simply call me Fhemmmy or get me some nice pet name, like darling, chocomilo  , the day my woman call me Daddy, that is the day, i will wanna run away.

Sorry, I think chocomilo has been taken, how about milohorlicks? 

_{I see it now, Madam calling out "Darling Milohorlicks. . ."}

Fhemmmy:
That sounds so freakyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

How about Fhemmmy Senior?

^^^

33"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, "You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.' 34 But I say to you, do not swear at all: neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; 35 nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. 36 Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black. 37 But let your "Yes' be "Yes,' and your "No,' "No.' For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.
(Matthew 5:33-37, New King James Version)

You're welcome 

iice:
[color=#9900ff]I'm daddy's and mommy's girl ooo Hmmm actually the family's baby

That's coz i'm the only girl and i[b] just inspire them to serious protective mode[/b] [/color]

I think that's pretty much what Daddy's/Mummy's Girl/Boy inspire in parents, that protectiveness. 

Not every Daddy or Mummy's Girl/Boy is someone who can't stand on their own.  In fact they often can, but that doesn't make the parents feel less protective of them, even into adulthood - so long as they're not living or acting like a small child.

That would just be disturbing.