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victorian:
I'm not confirming anything .

I believe, He's very OK down there. We both believe fornication can destroy ones success In life. And we are born successful in our individual careers, we are not ready to trade it for sex before marriage.

When uv fallen from Grace to grass, and really suffered in life after enjoying wealth. nobody will tell u to zip up, after Grace finds you and bless u all over again.
Experience is the best teacher. It wil linger long in your memory for many many years to come

So Mr doubting Thomas.

don't worry about us. We are fine and at peace with our decision.

So you haven't seen his erection. Wow

AussiePlayboy:
Nothing more infuriating than a girl trying to make you work hard for a pucsy you once had on your palms.
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This is why we always tell men Never to apologise to a woman. No matter the situation. Do not show weakness. Cos you are sending yourself down to the "back to the starting point" away from the p. The attraction instantly drops.

Whenever you want to "makeup" or "return" to a girl, more often than not you will be too emotional and show signs of being poosywhooped, which is already a weak position.
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Firstly, You need to be calm! Being emotional is feminine and that's what chased you away from her pucsy in the first place.
2ndly, You have to let her feel she is missing something. Maybe your life in a way has to change.. Etc. You have to put a value on her dating you. You must first let her know or feel that you have options even when you comeback even if you ve had no ass since she left. Can't stress this enough. She can't just walk back in 100% easily, else she will misuse it.

All these boil down to your Nonsexual attention. It is your currency. Which is your time, energy, resources. When you upgrade your life(career/social group/finances/appearance), you basically increase the value of your non sexual attention. You have to learn to use it. It has a value in the eyes of women. You are simply trading your nonsexual attention with sex from her. Women know how to use sex to get what they want. You must know how to use yours to get something from them.

These are all that go behind the scenes when you hear. I loved him, but he changed and treats me like sht.

Brah, I don't wanna sound like I'm dickriding but you are damn good. I feel like we are or rather we were dating the same girl.

At a point I thought I was losing it when we sexed, so i started working out more and taking good fruit supplements to boost my stamina but later realised it was because I was becoming soft towards her and she lost that respect for me.

The sex wasn't forth coming, it's like she wants me to beg for what she usually wake me up with almost every morning when ever she visits. Always making up excuses why she can't have sex, we'll set up 'appointment' and she'll end up not coming and will just throw a flimsy excuse or just apologise without much care and when she eventually visits, it's usually when she's on red or she's very tired after a long day and would like to have a good rest or she comes with her friend and won't spend the night. I asked what's wrong and tried to be reasonable after pressuring her to open up to me, she just started telling me BS like "Even if there's no sex, can't I just hold myself, must we have sex? If I truly love her, I should respect the fact that she's not just in the mood for sex these days because she's stressed and always under pressure". After that statement, I didn't breakup immediately, but just withdrew totally and that's how what I felt for her 'died' instantly. She still kept on calling telling me how she loves me and all, also sending love/romantic/sex-related text messages but at a point she realised I'd stopped calling and sending her love texts messages, so She queried why I stopped calling or texting her as usual. I was just giving her different type of excuses.

What truly baffled me till date is how she cried numerous times, asking me if it is a crime for her to love me( truly, when we started dating, I was strict, unapologetic even if i was at fault and was still in contact with my ex). That she's never felt like this for any guy. Would even update her WhatsApp profile picture with my own photo, told other chykers blatantly that I am her bf( I found out on my own), always talked about what our future, kids will be like, even begged me not to break her heart else she might do the unthinkable. I felt weak, and let my Alpha status down. I completely shut other girls out, even my ex who wanted us to just be FWB.
What I am happy about is that even after all her crying, I still kept the remaining 58% of my heart in a vault. So I was just heartbroken for a week or so, then bounced back. but the unfortunate thing was that my FWB-ex also shut me out after she got into a very serious relationship, and I had to respect that. So I had to start p*ssy-hunting all over again

At the bold. What do you mean be calm? Like you shouldn't initiate the sex, rather you wait for her?
Secondly, if she indeed initiate it. By setting standard for her, will it be to refuse her advance or like flirting with other girls in her presence, picking calls of other girls in her presence.

I don't really understand the nonsexual part and also where you said something about trading your nonsexual attention with sex from her.

This happened years ago back then in the University. So since then I haven't been in a serious relationship, mostly just hookups. So I need to get the 'right tools' when I finally decide to get back in

victorian:
I'm not confirming anything .

I believe, He's very OK down there. We both believe fornication can destroy ones success In life. And we are born successful in our individual careers, we are not ready to trade it for sex before marriage.

When u'v fallen from Grace to grass, and really suffered in life after enjoying wealth. nobody will tell u to zip up, after Grace finds you and bless u all over again.
Experience is the best teacher. It will linger long in your memory for many many years to come

So Mr doubting Thomas.

don't worry about us. We are fine and at peace with our decision.

You misunderstood me. I didn't say you both should engage in sexual intercourse to confirm his status. I said at least try to see if he can get it up. So, you have never witnessed him having an erection before, is that it?

Then again, how does having premarital affair lead to one's downfall? What about those Agnostic, Atheists, what would you say about them?

I know you are trying to change or have changed from your 'ugly' past because it dealt a heavy blow on you and I respect that but at least try to be sure before you make a mistake worse than you ever thought

victorian:
Lol


No need answering. He's too self conscious.

Shuu!

Madam celi celi. How long has it been now, 2months shey? This one Mr fair and handsome isn't troubling you for it, are you sure he is OK down there. At least try to confirm by just trying to see if it can get up

That first comment just said it all. The OP just wants to be seen as a good looking guy with girls crushing on him. Oga, I hope you font take these things serious forget these girls for now and starting chasing serious money even if you have, still be chasing the money. 27yrs no child's

I was once like that, back then in my secondary and university days, I even dated the sexiest and most beautiful girl in my area but no be fine boy she wan chop last last.

#Reminiscing, good old days
But back then, the way I catch them will be when I see them coming from the opposite direction, and once our eyes meet and she looks down to check if what she's wearing looks good enough or she starts adjusting her dress while looking down, Boom! That's a sure one for me....never failed

I never found this lad's joke(s) funny. Sometimes I just feel he is using this to carry out his closet cross-dressing. I find it so so gay(no offense to them faggóts).

Why not recreate Jidenna's Pope-like regalia or Kanye's torn shirts

Heard his SUV was involved in an accident sometime last year, so I guess he's really cashing out on Twitter

Don't want to be seen as a creep or a perv but damn, this is gf is about 95°c hot. Kept staring at her picture for over 3 minutes, thinking of how wonderful God created her body....that's if she didn't go under the knife. This is pure sexiness

....And one Emeka or Azeez will use his Lexus 300 to splash you mud water while you are trekking. Chai!

Good gracious. It has begun......as usual. Ken Erics, Blossom Chukwu, come here!

There's a big difference between Mom and Mother in this 21st century. A certain family friend of ours brought her kids to our place to help look after them while she went to the market to get foodstuffs.
As I was working/babysitting, after few minutes of getting acquainted with the kids, the first child not up to 4 years started saying something about Tacha and Seyi, I turned and looked at her with this big surprise all over my face, I asked her what she knew about Tacha and Seyi, she said she watches BBNaija with her mom and her mom wants Tacha to win....a kid of 3 years and few months watching BBNaija with her Mom.
The mom is a beautiful and endowed young woman in her mid 20s...what you guys call SlayQueen. I couldn't stop imagining the worst.

The ones that have extra sheath stuffed inside her bag in case you run out of rubber so action must continue all night

The ones that come with their own pills just in case

Isn't Puta supposed to be a censored word. It means b*tch, wh*re , p*ssy in Spanish. Not a fan of this dude one bit but I just admire the way be utilized his little opportunity to 'blow out'.

I remember when I did a little work for a colleague not even up to 5k but it took him more than 6 months to pay. Was driving with a relation when I spotted him, I had to stop the car, alight, ran up to him to pay me my money 'cos I have had enough of his excuses. He begged me not to disgrace him in public, na so my cousin just alight from motor as well, he is well built. Na so guy man just hand over im phone to me sharp sharp.

I told him I'd give him 2 weeks to pay up else I go either convert am to my second phone or sell it off.

I always ask myself this, "how do people sleep at night knowing that they have debt to pay or there's someone who they begged heaven and earth to lend them money". I
f I don't pay up before or on deadline day, just know something else completely took my mind away from the money I owe someone and the amount borrowed is not much. I don't sleep well knowing I owe someone.

We truly live with strange beings on this earth called humans

Why is it only the guys that have had 'things' to do with more than 1 chick. So all the females haven't done something crazy.

Few things I picked up from their revelations:

Mercy said she started taking care of herself and family at age 18 and has a love machine always on stand by......typical traits of a perceived runs girl who's now developed in a bigger runs girl

Omashola said he had orgy with 5 females; it's more of an exaggeration here just to be seen as a champion. Yeah, the dude had a hug mouth

Tacha said she hides when she visits a pastor's son.......so after docking from the pastor what next? Made her first million at age 22, now she's 23...why do I find this statement a bit... dogdy

Diane has crazy sexual fantasies but still a virgin 'cause she's scared of giving it to the wrong guy buy trust me, Elo will open that jar and take all the cookies and leave the jar open. Diane will become a freak when Elo finally tears off her label

I don't know why I just don't believe Seyi's confession- Lying and exaggeration here

I find Frodd's confession partially true but I wonder what kind of sisters would give in to a cry baby. Well I think the sisters have these crazy fantasies as well and frodd was the only option available the day they decided to put it to action....let's just say pity sex.

Cindy....this girl's case.....you know what, it doesn't matter abeg. Moving on..

Elozonam, hmmm this one looks like a bad child who deflowered all girls in his neighbourhood before age 25. I find his story a bit true and with a pinch of exaggeration

Khafi's celibacy ish is quite true until Gedoni brought it(nympho) back and just couldn't control it. Same way a virgin finally gives 'it' to that guy she truly likes willingly.

Mike doesn't want too spill much because he knows people are watching

dontai:
I swear he just lost a customer, I've been contemplating on contacting for a job, because I will be in lagos next week and need my faulty laptop repair. But with this I don't think it could work out. I'm a twin bro and I don't know how he will see it when he heard my name.( he may never heard of Mary slessor before). I will manage reach computer village, before some people we no like twins go do the unthinkable.

Sincerely, that guy is quite a fóólish business man. I have two accounts on this forum, one for being myself and expressing my views another is to just advertise my services and products shikena. I will never call for his service even though right now I also need to fix my faulty laptop.

A relation of mine told me how she went to the market, parked her car somewhere a bit far from where she wanted to get clothes,shoes and accessories for her kiddies' graduation party. It rained heavily that day, so she folded her trousers, coupled with the mud on her feet she entered a big clothing store for kids with about 4-5 sales girls and before she could utter a word, the silly owner of the store told her "Sorry, madam, I am not sure we have what you want". Meaning, she (my relation) can't afford the kiddies' clothes there. She was mad with anger, left the store and went to another close to the arrogant woman's own, she purchased clothes and accessories close to 50k, told a boy to take it to her car, walked past the woman's store and looked at her like " I'm sure I can't afford them".

Sometimes, people use their mouth to ruin themselves and lose better opportunities in life, later they'll go to Shiloh and be praying against any enemy disturbing their business. That guy needs to read books in business etiquette

That dude who repairs laptop lacks business etiquette. How can you be advertising your service(s) and be throwing tantrums and discriminating same time. I just feel sorry for the dude because I for one can and will never call for his service. Not because I'm in support of gays but the manner he went with his comments a d replies.

This is how people's business collapse and they'll start accusing 'village people'.

LillyVal:

Someone's happy today. I didn't prick your conscience,yeah?
Tell me why you stated that earlier?

And I came here with high expectations. Confused af

LillyVal:
You are high.

Such hostility. Why would you think me ' high'? I'm just a mere mortal, why worship me

chrisseun:
4k to start? Didn't you buy any printing machine and other materials?

Printing machine? Lol

No,bro, I just started with basic but important things like screen printing frame, ink(black & white), squeegee,emulsion and sensitizer, all cost me about 3800. And as the business grows, we'll start investing in bigger machines like heat press machine and standard screen printing press

Why is Nina trying to form Michael Jackson in his Smooth criminal video.

I don't understand this CeeC's dress oo. Looks like someone tore it out of jealousy, just like what that wicked Stepmother and sisters did to Cinderella or was it designed by Yeezy

calddon:
We got our dose back then in command. Those of us that decided to sew fela style or use chinos material, RSM gladly showed us the way.

Ex-commando! Tuaale baba!

Keepem:
Well, mine is quite different from yours. I once dated a girl by the name Asemota Emmanuella who's a student of AAU, Ekpoma. We were so in love but never let me touch her puna let alone fůck. We'd kiss and caress till she's dripping wet and when I'm about going down, she'd say no, till wedding night and would then go into my bathroom to spend some time. Once she gets out, even if I romance from now till next year, she won't feel a thing and she's not a virgin. I broke up with her afterwards and she still calls me wicked till this day. Asemota Emmanuella, thunder will fire you wherever you are.

Bro, this is funny but abeg you shouldn't give out her details like this online

Please a girl who's given a guy Mouth Action, hand job, leg job, dry humping , also had a guy clean her plate and eat her bosoms in the backyard at night but haven't had penetrative sèx is called what?? Yes, I'm talking from experience

I have nothing against virginity but it is just over hyped. I knew a certain virgin who wanted to keep it just for her husband. I told her she's just confused. If you like let konji kee you there, OYO lo wa

Baby, you cannot just wake up one morning and be heart broken. Action, Reaction is how nature works. So what caused your heart to break and it's making you watch blank TV after NEPA took like over 30mins ago?

Did you see your crush with another woman?
Did your man tell you it is no longer working?
Did your man cheat on you with a girl prettier/hotter than you?

I remember my first heartbreak back then in secondary when I caught my gf kissing her ex-bf after just small quarrel o. Food or water wasn't important any more, I just wanted to die.

Don't worry, time will heal all wounds.....well, if you don't have diabetes though

Before rushing to load 1k and choose such plan, make sure you call customer care first and ask if you are eligible. That's what I did when Airtel brought "My offer" or "Double data" plan. At first I was told I wasn't eligible, few hours later I was sent an SMS that I am now eligible. I don't know if the customer care agent helped activate mine. I called their call center again, and this time the lady confirmed I am eligible.

Still rocking my Airtel "My Offer" plan of 7gb for 2k.

God forgive me for what's going on in my head, this is someone's wife, I know that but..... i don't even know who's celebrating sef. See as she kon steal the 'show' and Joseph looking like someone with low self esteem. Just kidding

deltateam:
Nagging is not enough reason to end a marriage to a faithful wife. Marriage needs wisdom.

Women don't just nag for nagging sake. There's a reason. You don't go and come back by 10pm in the night without any tangible reasons and expect her not to nag.

Most times their naggings are as a result of their fear or insecurity. You can find how to reassure them or keep them happy.That way they can be the best and you will want to come back to a peaceful home. Appreciate their efforts, don't take a woman for granted.

You are correct about that, I meant a disrespectful wife. How long will you continue to stay put with a woman who starts and ends your day disrespecting you. Nagging and disrespect are two different terms here. I see a disrespectful wife same way as a man who beats his wife, the only difference is that one does it physically, the other verbally.

deltateam:
You can't put up all these and say you are not trying to justify his actions. That's exactly what you are doing. Real men take responsibility for their actions.

Marriage is for better for worse. Many men are married to women that nag and as a matter of fact many women nag since naturally they talk a lot. Deal with with it.

So all in all, you are saying you'd stay put in a marriage that starts and ends with nagging, probably die from it?

Yes, all or almost all women nag but even nagging has different stages. Some women know their limit, while some just know how to blow it out of proportion and fvck it up beyond recognition.

Yes, real men take responsibility for their actions, that's why he didn't deny having an affair and getting a woman pregnant in the process or is there another 'responsibility' you are talking about here?

victorian:
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he deserves the disrespect if he truly impregnate Lilian esoro!
How can he expect his wife to respect and honour him after such disaster. Haba! You men sef!
If your wife got pregnant for another man and you know, will you pamper, love and respect her? Be sincere.
Pertaining to the bolded no be only cobweb na cobhams. I rather stay single then be with a useless man, who will end up making me a divorcee with kids or baby mama.
God forbid! I don't need such emotional trauma.
Huncle, I'm not complaining. I'm perfectly fine with my choice of been celibate till I meet a good man who deserves me. I will never join the bandwagon of having kids with no legitimate fathers littering everywhere. Mba!

Hanty, I'm not supporting what blossom did. I just wanted you to see it both ways. I quoted you because you were just facing the fact that he cheated and ignoring how the woman disrespects him. The op said he moved out of the house because of her constant disrespect towards him, and to make matters worse, he now got a woman pregnant. It's obvious he met the so-called woman when he left the house or maybe not, I won't conclude.

I'm happy that you are celibate, for now. But who ever broke your heart and dumped you back then truly messed up a good thing. I'm so sorry about that, and I hope you meet that prince that will knock you off your feet and remove the cobweb las las. But how have you been coping since? Just a curious mind here

deltateam:
Sure but you ended it honourably. That's the right thing to do than cheat after marriage.

You can't compare you and him. Boyfriend and girlfriend is different from marriage.

That's why I said probably her nagging ways was what pushed him out of the house and into another woman's arms.

What if the said woman he got pregnant gives him that desired peace of mind. I am not trying to justify what he did but I just wanted to let the other lady to not just view it from one angle. Women just know how to play the victim card and make the story one-sided.

After I ended that ugly relationship, she told my close friend how she'd invested in the relationship, and i just decided to end things,making me look like the bad guy here. Thank goodness my close pal knew how many times I have complained bitterly about her character. She started out all sweet and respectful at first after a while her true character started to surface.

This is probably what Blossom was facing as well but his came when he'd already put on the 'marriage cuffs'.