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Klass99:
Oh.........okay, now I think I understand. They tap power directly from the source, which is the electricity pole outside the building or close to the building with many wires, right?

And I would have killed to have a pre-paid meter at a previous accommodation, cos those NEPA officials were just billing us anyhow at will. Meanwhile power supply was very erratic and non-existent 70% of the time.

Not necessarily from the poles some tamper with the connection inside the meter itself while some just tap from the wires supplying the prepaid, very close to the meter itself.

You need to be at a close range to notice this tapping/bypass that's why the NEPA people inspect meters now,I believe that's also why some prepaid are now mounted on poles.

Same old same old

The hilarious one that happened is there are cleaners being paid to clean grandmas place and compound, the whole compound with 2 tenants is cleaned by this women we pay oo. Nobody is collecting any money for cleaning from the tenants.

You are now complaining that as they are sweeping dust is entering your window, totally cemented compound oo. They sweep compound just once a week

You now confronted the women yet again. Shouting at them. According to them this was the crux of it as he has been rude to them severally because they are cleaners always shouting at them, people you did not even employ.

They told him to shut up, came to report to grandma that this man has been excessively rude to them and they want to give him a showdown that she should please just ignore when they start. They insulted this guy ehn
ilu-oke people can yab oo.


Shishi you are not paying for cleaning the compound, the few minutes they will sweep pass your window you are complaining again.
Some people are just naturally troublesome, this same guy doesn't pay 700 naira security levy.

Merely writing about the incident makes me laugh again

Klass99:
How did this matter end?

And if she bypassed the pre-paid meter how was she getting electricity to her flat? I don't understand how that works.

I hope you terminated her tenancy after the police incident.

If you bypass the prepaid , you are using free light , you don't buy units and surely one day NEPA will come, discover it cut off the whole wire and bill you 50k for tampering the connection, this same tenant will expect the landlord to pay it.

Bought this evening 550 per kg, I paid 16,200 for 30kg, I was given discount of about 300 naira for bulk buying, its a big depot.

Lagos state.


I have bought this gas at 275 per kg before. It is well too.

TWLifestyle:
why are you people always so obsessed with who women are knacking? It's like you will die if you dont comment stupidly on female issues They wear skimpy clothes you idiots will complain , this one is covered up you still opened your big mouth to talk trash .

Loool, is it not NL boys again best is to ignore them.

The wife has not said Helen priests child should not be a beneficiary of the estate from the OP.

The company shes a shareholder is the reason why she's setting the records straight which I see nothing wrong with this.

If its based on the fact that she came last in both screenings then their grievances are justified but as for state of origin its not an issue in selection.

The fact that she's the wife of the commissioner of environment says a lot, it's been politicized, the dissolving of the council the drama etc now it doesn't mean she's not qualified to be VC but there are others more qualified that applied for the same job based on the screening result.

Lokojatoofar:
I laugh when guys who are managing themselves decide to go for women who think they are all that because they are beautiful or whatever and then the guys turn around to say they can't find good women. Mr man, find a level headed girl and stay well with her. Many men don't want to stay at their level. The way you clam good girls are hard to find, it's same way women claim that serious and monogamous men are scarce in Nigeria yet women would not be pardoned if they do crime to get and keep a man. Many of you will not even look twice at a good girl. Mr man, people who are poorer than you are getting married every saturday

The bolded has always been the problem, they will leave the good girls and start running after shadows later they will start saying decent girls are hard to find.

30naira:
Aunty, no vex, but it's the gospel truth. I'm 28, have a decent job, earn around 250k a month. Getting a decent girl for a healthy relationship is hard, believe me I have tried. The ones you meet will expect you to compete with yahoo boys. Like I can comfortably take care of a woman, but I'm not going to buy a phone worth my 2 months salary, it makes zero sense to me.
At the end I'm labeled 'stingy'. The average Nigerian lady, expecially the Gen Z and millinials want to date fraudsters, that's the simple truth. They don't care how the money comes, as long as you can buy iPhone.

Change the type of girls you roll with, there are decent non-yahoo loving girls everywhere.

Kobojunkie:
Na wa oo!

Yes Ooo.

bukatyne:
These stories are so common around that the men have the sure hope that the wives would accept them back (whether forgiven or not).

That's why I hammer on intentional fatherhood a lot here and I am particularly happy there is no isonu reconciliation to cater to someone who roamed the streets in his prime and now old & broke.

Even happier to read she has forgiven him so she peace and no sin hanging on her head.

The stories are just too common.

An elderly woman once told me that she can't be packing shit and taking care of her (seperated from and trying to do isonu reconciliation ) husband in old age when she never enjoyed his youth.' Let those he was with back then be with him in old age'

bukatyne:
Change ko, APC ni.

If he has changed, let Heaven be his focus.

bukatyne:
Odesan means 'home is good' or 'no please like home' sort of.

A man marries the first daughter(s) of his sisters or very close relatives.

If his parents are from different villages, he can marry very close relatives from either parents' village.

The whole idea is the daughter (s) especially first marrying a man very very close in the family tree.

Hmmm first time I am hearing of this.

Is this still common nowadays in Ondo state?

enilowo:
Good day,

1. At your present monthly pay 500k is too much [/b]a loan you can pay off easily except you are earning unofficial pay to balance up.

2. All those your extended family he is reporting you to kindly tell them to do it for him and see their reaction.

3. Note this! If you take that loan I am sure it can only be from all these loan shark around and[b] it will be at exorbitant rate that will destroy you and will make you loose your job. I am saying this cos I know there is no standard bank that give you 500k on that monthly pay. The maximum any bank can give you 25k multiply 12 which gives you 300k. This is arrived at using you debt service ratio DSR. So my advise for you is to take a 250k loan for him with the mindset that you are the one that will pay back.

4. I advise you do this cos I know he won't pay back so once he defaults you have reason never to entertain his entitlement mentality again.

5. Above all I pray God lift you up soon to be able to rescue your dad and family.

Thank me later on enilowoatgmail.com

Cheers

Solid points

Op is the one that will service whatever amount he loans, he should find a lesser amount to gather and give the DAD because his earning power is low compared to the amount of loan he wants to take, if its contribution its better because theres no interest he will pack first and then continue payment .

Loan matter ;we have not even started talking about interest and he earns 75k. If he earned more its a different thing entirely. All these lenders don't smile, they can harass terribly. I fear loans oo

I have seen stuffs like this happen in families and 8 in 10 cases it doesn't end well.

My prayer is God lift the OP higher where 500k will not be difficult to gather. Amen.

Bloggers can write anything in their review now, it doesn't necessarily mean funke has anything to do with it.

All some are talking about is the sisi sisi issue.

I see nothing wrong if she says she will finish school before she gets married. You guys can now reach an agreement of before NYSC.

Some families will not give their daughters out till they have finished their first degree at least.

Pavore9:
Hope when he visits other people's houses, he flushes after usage.

I recall I along 3 others went visiting a couple, one of the guys requested to use the toilet and madam of the house showed him the way. He came back after usage and just about 10 mins later, madam came to the sitting room and requested the guy to go back to the toilet and flush it, should also use the brush to clean the stained sides......felt so embarrassed.

The annoying thing was that on our way home, the guy was justifying his dirty action by saying what is the big deal if the woman had flushed it, that is it not her home!

Imagine the effrontery.

I like what the woman did.

Sledgehammer20:
Pastor, I want to tell you that, this is one of the miseries in marriage that will be unfolded in marriage, especially for those of us who are Christians and believe in the doctrine of NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE.

Before marriage my expectations was very high about sex with my wife,even though we had talked extensively about it before marriage and I already knew that my wife had no interest as much as I do because of the rape attack she had when she was much younger. Even though I had the believe that all shall be well when we get married, I planed to take my time to tutor her in various way and material I could lay my hands on, which I did after our marriage. I really tried but it yielded nothing much compare to my expectation.

At a point I got frustrated and began to have the same feeling as you mentioned, I wouldn't know who exactly to talk to, because I wouldn't want my wife or myself to be ridicule. The truth is that everyone has their own marital issues and some person might not know how to manage the issue for you but rather complicate it. So I began to talk to God directly the way I was feeling at that time. I was basically asking for GRACE everyday from God, initially it was not easy for me at all ,because all those fantasies and dreams of my sex life in marriage never come through. But, later on I found grace to maintain myself and carry my cross. You also can ask for grace from God and God will give you. There are graces, you will only access if you can ask for it.

Now my testimony is that my wife is better even though not exactly what I expected.

I will like to mention this, most of us men don't know how to make love at all. pre-intimacy is key, you must make her enjoy whatever you are doing with her even without you penetrating her. Make her enjoy it first, be patient with her ,women are slow in picking up in getting aroused and when they are cut off it could be frustrated because, it will be a journey of begin again Make her climax or reach Orgasm and see if she will not change or be asking for it. Know her interest and then you will be getting along gradually

Check out her daily activities if it is tiring kind of daily activities (Stress).

Pastor, I have to stop here. There are many factors responsible. Above all, there is nothing prayer can not do. Talk to God about it. But first do you best and shower love on your wife and you will see a change in Jesus name.



All the best.

Maybe pastor will read the bolded, I still insist he has not fully discovered madams interest, once he does its madam that will be asking him for it.

Pastor should sha be careful and stop entertaining all those thoughts flying around his head. The Devil is out against homes oo.

You are married for 9 years and don't have an idea of what she will respond to?

Are you even sure she's satisfied sef? You have not pressed the right buttons when you do she will respond.

Also she's nor denying you, you want her to enjoy too abi press the right buttons

RSVP:
Abi oo
Pardon my ignorance but 500k salary loan without no form of proper verification or no any sort of " please visit our nearest branch for more documentation purpose" . That's lame! Maybe anything btw 1k- 200k would fly freely but 500k?!! That means GTB is not wise at all!! What if the person applying for the loan has already been laid off from work or a theft case just like the OP.

I was having an argument with one of my guy the other when he said he knew someone that collected 1m naira loan from all dis loan apps and I said No way! Which app will give you 1m naira loan just like that? We all know all dis loan sharks are desperate to make money and most of them are built with crazy interest rate so before you attain that level where you will be offer 1m naira loan that means you have been seriously ripped off and again which app gives 1m naira for personal loan??!

I don't think they ask for verification for salary account , they send messages to peeps with salary account to apply for as much as 5M, you won't need to get to the bank I think, it seems the salary account is the collateral.

Mbliz:
I have visited 3 centers and they all say they can't change the name. 2 licensed agents offices and nin 1 office. Please do you have any contact that can be of help please

Sorry for the late response. I just asked and was told its possible, go to any NIMC office inside any LGA close to you.

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bukatyne:
Simps & Alfa Mails, please don't derail the thread.

You just had to use the 'men are polygamous in nature' statement as an example

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want to believe you are not just insulting your father or beating him. You hate your father because he did not have money and your mother has poisoned your mind against your father He did not have happiness at home. He found ur mother's friend as someone that always console him. Maybe ur mother deprived him of sex.
There are lot to all these ur story. Your Dad is wrong, your mother caused it. And you yourself committed an abomination. It's sacrilege. You have already pray for urself that ur son will do the same to u.
You better go and call the family to beg ur father on your behalf. Omo ale

The most important point here is the OP should never have laid hands on the father don't even try to blame the woman for anything pls. He is an adult and knows what he sees nobody has to poison anybody's mind.

As terrible as the Father is , Op will still have to call elders and apologize to him shikena.

Loool

Even to provide lots of men on NL are running from providing from their family with different explanations blablabla.

You guys should ask him the money he's owing you that's what you guys should be discussing not who he wants to marry and if he decides not to pay you guys should try to move on.

Money always causes katakata between friends.

But those who checked her page said she never removed it naah.

Bloggers ehn

bukatyne:
She doesn't want a co-wife

To think she was the last baby mama in both rounds.

And is the youngest wife

Well to be fair I think she was the first girlfriend.

I would still say she should accept she has a cowife and comot eye from pero matter.

pocohantas:
Buka brought receipts . There were several other threads to that effect and whenever their picture comes up, they don’t fail to tell us “Be like Annie”.

I always knew that the major reason the marriage would last is not because Tuface has changed it is because Annie would stomach a lot This is very hard for her to put out, especially after playing virtuous for so long. She shouldn’t give up now sha.

She can't stomach more any longer( which is not something bad) hence the outburst. I would also advise her not to give up, she should simply acknowledge she has a cowife that's all.

If only ladies would be smarter and think deeply about consequences of some actions.

The guy is gone now its the lady bearing the brunt.

bukatyne:
I remember this thread in 2013 when some of us talked;

We were bad belle and don't know what love is.

https://www.nairaland.com/1233867/annie-2faces-love-story-how/6#14906640

Chef Chi aka Chioma Assurance came, we are jealous!

On and on.

How anyone can string love, Tuface and Annie in one sentence amuses me.

I don't understand the 'Nigerian' definition of love in marriage.

Abeg Annie should rest.

If she is tired of Tuface, let her 'let go and let Pero'

Ohooo kuku you dug the thread out.

I don't understand how the bolded is possible

Meninmen:
2face is an irresponsible man and Annie was not wise to know that neither she nor marriage cam change him.

E.O.D

I remember the uproar that year and how some nairalanders were saying Annie is patient virtuous has been able to tame tu-face etc etc.

It was even a topic of discussion on TVCs 'Your View' the matter was dragged.

Nobody should be surprised this is happening, she's taken in a lot willingly and can bear it no more hence the public complaint.

I honestly don't know what she was expecting, then when it comes to in-laws matter when a child is involved they will always support the child(ren) and the baby mama, those children are their blood.

Personally I will day she should take it she has co-wife that way she will have some peace.

Cc:Bukatyne