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Sanchez01:
She can't. 2Face is dying. She will stay around and fight as the legally married wife. Else, Pero, Sumbo and their kids will take everything.

I am sure she has seen this playing out.

Wetin do am?

My colleague no let us rest since yesterday on watsap status because she went for this party.

excellence44:
Check for vap act. The law clearly states that a spouse that is into a paid job or earning must contribute to house upkeep. May not be equal though. Exemption is married house wife/husband.
Withholding or starving your spouse is a form of violence I mean VAYOLENS.

Just googled the act and it talks about violence

@bolded.seriously?

excellence44:
Register505
Does she contribute at all to house keep money? If no, whenever she asks for money give her 70% then tell her to complete the reminder. Legally, she is suppose to contribute to house upkeep if she is earning.
Don't just shoulder everything because you're a man try to delegate some responsibilities to her after all she is your partner not your child.

@ bolded In naija or where?

Which law states this? First time I am hearing of this.

My current boss (hate might be a very strong word for me)

Never ever met a man that Nags so much, talks too much and very petty. Almost made me hate the job I love doing but God pass am.

We know its just a matter of time they will soon post him out.


@Dozis the dozismaterm made me loool, there are lots of materms out there

bukatyne:
I think Paul needs a lot of help; he might be becoming bipolar.

He has managed to drag Peter into this mess and insinuate that Anita and not Lola (his favorite Yoruba witch) is the cause of his family's problems.

Loool, the guy has issues abeg.

At least he didn't blame Lola this time around.

AgroSeeds:
I sell in packs only

Okay thanks.

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Do you only sell in packs?
Do you sell small measures like quarter of that pack?

I know its required for Muslims because of their religion.

For me
Girls- no cutting
Boys- trim with scissors when the hair is very full this should be around 10-12months. If he's not hairy leave it.

The hair protects their scalp.

ityP:
Oga, you're fooling yourself. If God wants to speak to someone, you think earpiece in the person ears will stop the flow of info? If I use earphones all day to listen to the word of God, is it wrong? Why Una like to dey justify man's philosophy na? Which scripture did Oyedepo cite or quote that formed the basis of all he was saying? God forbid with naija Christianity

You can actually state your point without using such bolded words.

To your question yes for some people. Not everybody hears God loudly like you hear another man speak, some actually need to be quiet to hear his voice so too much noise in any form can be a distraction.

The point here is distraction.

Karleb:
Of course now, you will give a figurative meaning to his literal statement. Is he not your G. O?

Bros, baba fucck up for here. He misyarn.

This is similar to what Tope Alabi said regarding the "Oniduro" song.

He now remain who go drag the richest pastor in Africa.

No he is not. So I am stating my point from a neutral point of view.



I didn't watch him say it , but from what was posted here in the original post of this thread that's my understanding of his statement. which is basically distraction in all forms.

corbanstevee:
It's imperative to state that what David Oyedepo is saying is purely addressing distraction in it's entirety and not literally saying use of earphones or pods is devil's device.

Look at it in the context of the Church/religion it is absolutely right to refer to such item as a subtle distraction.

In the work place context we can't say it's devil's way of cheating you to productivity rather it's very irresponsible to wear one as it's clearly not the norm in most work place if not all....

My opinion.

Someone who understands the point he made.

How will you even be on earphones all day and you want to hear 'the still small voice' speaking to your spirit

Distraction, lack of quiet time and meditation culture is also part of what he is saying.

DonroxyII:
Pe!!


But if you fvcked her beyond her mental security, You will die or turn mad .... Women's venom pass snakes and scorpion combined !!

May God delivers us !!

NinjaMetahuman:
Why was pocohantas first post hidden.

The original post was the truth..

Now we can see the bias of mods in this forum.

Loool I was shocked when I didn't see the post again.

Those who cant handle the truth, hypocrites.

djon78:
Is Anita from igbo?

She is from Rivers State
A kalabari woman

None of them was igbo

Igbo women are way different

The point is a lot of these tribalistic folks portrayed her as the perfect wife and she was always compared to Lola who was nicknamed the Yoruba witch


She was always the preferred by tribalistic folks on this forum. The same people are the ones saying shes from this and that.

All that is even irrelevant by the way because marriage is serious hard work, Igbo, Yoruba, Kalabarii woman wherever they are form is not the point I believe the e-warriors are realizing that now.

Anita might not even be the problem it may even be the husband Paul. Someone that can publicity insult his twin brothers wife, How will he treat his own?

Things are not always the way they seem to appear.

And as usual some people will still blame Lola for the divorce.

It is well with marriages these days, only God can keep a marriage.

So sad seeing marriages crumble.



I hope some people won't blame Lola for this again.

Kobojunkie:
If she believes her mother is indeed glory seeking, she shouldn't say so? She knows the woman more than you do so why isn't she allowed to speak her truth?

Okay.

Kobojunkie:
Why is she not to speak her mind?

Not saying she shouldn't speak her mind, its the way she described her mum as glory seeking is what I feel is not too palatable.

Doradorwa:
She always cut the discussion of me knowing him off. Sometimes she accuse me of been ungrateful. She's actually trying hard for me to have a good life. Sometimes I believe she just want to have all the glory to herself like single handedly raising me. I'm in my finals in EKSU now and she's already talking of Msc. She just want to have all the glory to herself something she has done for so long that she can not think of stopping now.

Watch it young lady be careful with your words.

Finally we see her smileand its nice.

Kokaine:
Most times when we pray for success, we dont remember to pray against the challenges that come with it.

The most notable of these challenges are feeling of entitlement and envy from friends

The feeling of entitlement is what makes people get angry with you when you do not give them their demands. They come to you for their every needs even up to house rents. And they never understand when you say you dont have. They pick offenses and hold you in contempt.

Envy is something you get surprised with. Its so complex that even the people who have always gorged you on and encouraged you on your chosen path, suddenly get sad when you actually win. They show you everyday how they want to see you win, but suddenly get sad when you actually win. It confuses you, it makes you loose friends and make your heart sink. It makes you value your new circumstances less. Some will actually come to you to say things like this. " kokaine, I'm sorry oh... This is a personal question i want to ask you, how much are you worth, like... Net worth. Account, properties and crypto? What's your net worth "?

A question like that coning from a friend is quite confusing. But you find it safer to downplay everything. To prove to them that you're still human and you still cry over other losses they may not be aware of. Even a song by lucky dube says " behind the mask of a clown lies a trail of tears." They may be seeing what you have physically, but not know what morbid pain you experience from a failed relationship for instance. Or knowing that you can never really tell if your partner loves you. There may be one thing or the other you are striving for. All they see is what you have and use you as a standard for measuring happiness. Some can't wait to see you cry just to console themselves that the rich also cry.

Some praise you endlessly when they dont mean it.

Its quite a wild and wooly world out there. My advice is: if you suddenly advance in your financial circumstances, learn to hide. Learn to maintain a lowkey. Learn not to show off or tell people who shouldn't know. So it doesn't become a challenge to them and make them ungrateful to God for what they have. The evil eye is real. Pray and go lowkey. You will enjoy it more unknown than when you become popula r

Solid points.

AdaAwka1:
I bought a car and everyone in my area started to hail me like one big personality, its so embarrassing. Some of my church members now look at me with heightened respect.

You see that church own ehn,the greatest hypocrites are in the church, very terrible something even in the house of God.

kudinkarfe:
You will have more enemies also. Many will hate you when you become successful especially your friends and some relatives. They will be like you don't deserve it they hustle more than you. Some will be praying that your source of income should block. They might sometimes show their bitterness even in your presence but will claim they are only jocking.

God bless you oo

Rich ke? That's even going to far. Drive one small car you will see peeps calling you sir/Ma.

An average Nigerian seems to be a hypocrite, you cannot seem to be respected until they feel you are rich, lots can't seem to respect you until they feel/know you have small money. Its so bad that its even more rampant in the church.

Fake people who won't accord you respect when they think they are better than you, until they have a little peep at your real person they will now start doing eye service- Na lie ooo .

There's this annoying culture of your worth or perceived worth is the basis with which you will be addressed. Even among Christians, when they now realized you seem to have small change , they will be like arrh but you are very humble oo but they will still be envious and jealous.

I just pity those who flaunt their success.

We have a terrible mindset in this country , glorification of money. Taaa!

Olumighty123:
Y'all, do you know that the OP's wife passed away earlier this year, it's a tough one, pray for the deceased and the husband, she left 3 great kids.

Haaa

May she RIP.

When I saw 40k in your write up I was like aha its because of textbooks as prices are on the high now on checking the picture I actually find it strange that books/ educational materials are 5k for a nursery 1 student.

Are you sure they are buying all the necessary books? Because I know the textbooks for nursery 1 are more than 5k this 2021 especially with the rate of inflation and I am talking about the cheapest from our Nigerian publishers.

As for the school fees Its the environment you live in, there are areas in outer lagos with cheaper schools as cheap as 10k,15k 20k and the expensive ones are available too but September is always loaded because of textbooks.

explosiveskull:
Them don start all this scam again, which one is selling cooking gas in litres please? How possible is gas that is not liquid sold in litres, how correct is the measureage? Na scam wan enter am.

I saw that stuff first at one station that uses dispenser to sell gas, I don't know if 1L is equivalent to 1kg but it just didn't sound right .

I told them to put it on the digital scale.

bukatyne:
Resting in peace kwa?

E shock you abi

Loool. Nairaland no go kee person.

404Dev:
There is no way a company would give you permission to sell a replica under their brand name.

That is why those Chinese manufacturers always sell under another name closely related to the original.

Go to aliexpress and you will see.

The replicas name are very identical to the original name but not the same

Well this replica issue has come up recently twice and in both cases the names are exactly the same as the manufacturers.

404Dev:
A simple dictionary check of the word replica would prove otherwise.

If I create an original design of a shoe and use the cheapest leather available to make it and trademark the design and name, the design and name now belongs to me.

If you come along later and recreate this same design using the most expensive material available, it's a replica and a knock of the original design.

And if you sell or market it using the original name then you are selling a fake and I can take legal actions.

In this context, fake doesn't mean something that has low quality or no quality but something not made by the original and authentic manufacturers.

That is the reason why we have trademarks, copyrights, licences and the rest.

If they are producing with the permission of the parent company is it still a fake?

GIANTPLUSHUB:
Enough of all these arguments guys!

We are into procurement and shipping from India and as you all know, when it comes to clothings, india is one of the countries to go to. Replicas doesn't really fake or counterfeit, it only means an alternative to get it cheaper.

Infact, in India they call it MASTER COPY! they have Master copy for almost all types of brands. The thing I like them for is that the seller will always state " Master copy" in their quote or advert to avoid you thinking it's original. Some won't include it as they don't expect you to think it's original with the price.

Had several conversations with them and got to know it's as if they were giving the master copy license to produce it as it's everywhere in India and they easily sells and ships it to other countries.

Working on joint importation of some nice Zara Tshirts which landing cost would be around #1200 to #1500. Below are the pictures. Tell me, which original Zara Tshirts is #1500?

Lastly, once bought some Master copy shirts for a customer and the customer confirmed it's even better and quality than the original.

Replicas doesn't mean fake guys. I will urge everyone who is advertising here to state if it's replica or original. That way, there won't be arguments.

Thank you for the bolded, God will bless you.

I was actually very shocked seeing posts saying replica is fake.

From shoes to watches to everything that's how it is. Even in the open market everything has grade na and the seller won't even tell you and the companies producing them are aware. Price range is enough for you to even have an idea.

Oya sellers write Grade 1, grade 2, China, vietnam, USA , original original whatever on your products so we can all have some sanity on the thread

5200 last Friday for 12.5kg roughly 420per Kg.

That same day a dealer closer that got new stock told me 6,500 for 12.5kg roughly around 520 per kg but because I bought from the seller above the that same week I called and she said its still same price. I quickly went there.

Hmm this gas was 270 per Kg just few years back.

Location Lagos