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Romance › Re: Help! I Don't Feel Sexually Attracted To My Fiancée by NoToPile: 8:05pm On Jul 24, 2021
zyphr:
She really doesn't. Quite bland. Wouldn't wear earrings etc. But there was moment when I liked her like that. I'm just lost at the moment. I really do want to feel attraed to her again because she is quite good on other aspects. My only fear is if the lack of sexual attraction would cause issues in marriage.
Sexual attraction my foot, you better don't listen to all the 'you must test drive before marriage sayers on the forum'

The only reason why you are feeling this way is simply because deep down you really don't fancy the no sex before marriage stuff but you really like the lady and you were ready to follow her rules till the marriage, if truly you are an advocate of NSBM by choice and not by circumstance all these talk won't crop up.

You saw that she's bland, doesn't wear earrings, you went to meet her, you didn't go and meet jewelry and makeup wearing church sisters.

If God forbid she decides to have sex with you the attraction will come out from where its hiding sharp sharp You better don't deceive yourself and let the devil deceive you.

See the way all of them are talking about sex as if its the only thing in marriage. Once theres a post about a lady not wanting sex without marriage, the vultures will always descend and say so many rubbish.

Jeez so many annoying comments.

If you know you will not marry her let her go peacefully abeg, since 2019 is it not even enough to get married after 2 years?
Crime › Re: Man Who Took Pregnant 12-Year-Old Girlfriend To Hospital Charged With Rape by NoToPile: 2:30pm On Jul 23, 2021
See people defending nonsense

The law has apprehended him, your opinions don't matter.


Sleep with a minor - get arrested shikena
Family › Re: Should I Move Out Of My Parent's House by NoToPile: 5:51am On Jul 22, 2021
I don't really get what the issue is with young men rushing to move out, shuu.

Gain some financial stability naa
Family › Re: How I Handled My Husband And His 4 Side Chicks - Woman (Video) by NoToPile: 2:38pm On Jul 21, 2021
Loool see as the thread is scanty.

Surprising peeps are not even talking about the mans infidelity
Properties › Re: Please Judge This Case For Me, Between Me And My Tenant. by NoToPile: 1:08pm On Jul 21, 2021
ford101:
so if it were to be the toilet sit that she changed, so she would still take it. Or if it were the door lock that she changed.
Loool you get the drift

Some even go as far as removing sockets and switches they replaced when they met a functioning one there.
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Olakunle Beloved: Sex Before Marriage Is Not Sin (Video) by NoToPile:
He said the verse 'marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled is not valid in this our generation' and it is a religious statement.

He also said that verse was not written to us it was written to the Hebrews.

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I have heard different levels of rubbish that some things can't shock me anymore but this is the height of it.

Awon grace preachers them

He even said that when people want to have sex and remove their clothes sometimes in the spirit realm they lose some things then after the act as they are wearing the clothes back, they should say anything they have lost they recover it back by the blood of Jesus .

Take back your inheritance( after fornicating ) by faith grin grin grin

Honestly I just weak.

Even a new convert cant talk like this.


Watch the video from 10:50
Family › Re: Is Reception A Most In Wedding by NoToPile: 10:55am On Jul 19, 2021
Not compulsory

Buy snacks and drink for the few people at the registry take pictures and go home.
Politics › Re: Deji Adeyanju To Obi Cubana: You Will End Up In Jail Like Hushpuppi by NoToPile: 10:14am On Jul 18, 2021
But there is some truth in what he said irrespective of the legality of his source of income his circle of friends ( as they are saying he is not the one spraying money) have successfully placed this Cubana guy on the radar of the efcc even foreign agencies.

Besides with the security situation in the country the social media hype was very unnecessary.

Attracting unnecessary attention to your selves
Christianity Etc › Re: T.B Joshua: Pastor Adeboye's Condolence Letter To Evelyn Joshua by NoToPile: 9:54am On Jul 18, 2021
I find it strange no one has mentioned the date of the letter, 15th june and the date it was received - 17th June.

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All the hyper ventilating people chochocho, so a letter has already been sent to the wife days after the Hubby's death and they are there talking rubbish they know nothing about.

Chai

Some people's mouth and typing hands will put them in trouble they can't imagine.
Celebrities › Re: Pretty Mike: Obi Cubana Said People Will Crave Death After His Mother's Burial by NoToPile: 7:34am On Jul 18, 2021
Is this not the guy that holds women in chains

Mtcheww

All of them are not serious.

Careless talk here and there.

They should continue attracting unnecessary attention to themselves.
Family › Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by NoToPile: 4:21pm On Jul 17, 2021
bosman4u:
Your head is not correct. Why don't you tell your parents not to pay your school fees and rather give you the 950k to ball.
If your parents had not invested what they had, where so you think your fees would have been coming from?
The small money that entered your hand, how did you manage it? BET9JA. And the result?
It's like you fell down from your mummy's back at infancy.
Tell me the basic necessity that they deny you.
STUPID BOY.
Loool

His parents are providing the essential things for him he is complaining .Orishirishi.
Family › Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by NoToPile: 4:19pm On Jul 17, 2021
Kondomatic:
How can you say that someone who is paying almost a million naira as school fee for you annually is stingy?
The mata just taya me
Celebrities › Re: Obi Cubana Mother's Burial Vs Mike Adenuga Mother's Burial by NoToPile: 10:31am On Jul 17, 2021
Loool

Sebi burial has finished ended ,we can have some fresh air on NL.


It because of the too much noise that's why everybody is talking and comparing, bloggers that kuku don't have work before.They will make different topics about this burial.

Besides why would someone compare mike adenuga with this guy, I don't get it.

That said an average Nigerian wants to show off that he or she has arrived , what is holding a lot back is lack of funds.
Travel › Re: Adelabu Street Surulere After A Heavy Rainfall Today by NoToPile: 5:47am On Jul 17, 2021
Even people that throw waste in gutters will be blaming government.

Flood happens everywhere, suruleres flood is mostly aggravated by blocked drainages anyway it will all go back to normal soon there's a canal that serves surulere.
Christianity Etc › Re: Daniel Olukoya Celebrates His 64th Birthday With His Wife All Loved-Up (Video) by NoToPile: 3:46pm On Jul 16, 2021
Happy birthday sir and ma,

He is 64 years wow, looks younger.

Baba is shy oo grin
Family › Re: Family Angry With Wife Over Her Decision by NoToPile: 1:14pm On Jul 16, 2021
Let the family continue to make noise, na them sabi.

Husband and wife agree, EOD.

The family will get over it.
Travel › Re: Train Goes Off The Railway In Ikeja, Lagos (Photos) by NoToPile: 12:23pm On Jul 16, 2021
Fake news, was at Ikeja along on Monday that train didn't derail, that yellow part was used to carry some equipment. It was constituting a nuisance there that's all and it even moved a bit when I was there.

I know this because I had to walk around it on early Monday morning, people were climbing it to cross instead of going round about it. fake news everywhere.

My grouse is that train shouldn't have been at that particular spot, it was stressful for workers even on a Monday morning.

Chai
Foreign Affairs › Re: South Africans Volunteer To Clean Cities After A Week Of Riots (Pictures) by NoToPile: 12:04pm On Jul 16, 2021
TMKsouth:
KwaZulu-Natal
Family › Re: Married To Mum Of 2 But The Babies Dad Choose To Neglect Responsibilities. by NoToPile: 10:12am On Jul 16, 2021
Nairaland is one funny place, the same people saying let him take his kids will blame the mother for abandoning the kids.
Family › Re: Do People Really Take Loans For Wedding? by NoToPile: 4:19pm On Jul 15, 2021
Loolz you are surprised, people even borrow for burials too.

Doesn't make sense to me.
Christianity Etc › Re: Do You Support Stand Up Comedy In Church? by NoToPile: 12:24pm On Jul 11, 2021
I don't support it.

Church is not for entertainment nor social gathering or club.

This is part of the reason we are having powerless christains.

I wonder why their pastors support it.
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Your Name In The Book Of Life? by NoToPile: 12:08pm On Jul 11, 2021
Johnnyessence:
T.B Joshua's death really exposed how empty and ignorant the average Nigerian Christian is. It made me realise that christianity in nigeria is a game of numbers not content. We have Christians in quantity not quality. Even the lowest level of the spirit of discernment doesn't exist in their lives, yet they move around with pride and pomposity, never willing to come of learning. To every genuine minister out there, this should be a wake up call. Teach your congregants life in the Spirit. Teach them how to grow in spiritual things. Enough with the prosperity messages. Teach them how you grew. When [b]believers are taught spiritual matters especially how to operate in the gift of discernment, they will know how to differentiate true from truth [/b]If they can't run against men, how will they run against horses; [b]if they can't differentiate between false prophets and true prophets, how then will they differentiate between the antichrist and Christ? Forget the numbers, Christianity is indeed empty in Nigeria. I really feel burdened and I wish my burden will be shared by every genuine Christian that walks by the Spirit.


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You see the bolded is the issue, a Christian should be able to differentiate between a true or false prophet, even a baby Christian should be able to.

In fact once you enter a church, you should know the kind of spirit operating there.

Ordinary watching a church's TV station you should be able to discern what is operating there, there will be a check in your spirit.

But then the bible said even the elect shall be deceived

When what most want is to be hipping and hopping in church, bible they won't read, lots of churches don't teach in depth messages, members don't attend beginners class. The same Christians will call a church a dull church if they focus more on things of the spirit .
Christianity Etc › Re: TB Joshua's Burial: No PFN, CAN And Notable Christian Leaders by NoToPile: 6:57am On Jul 10, 2021
The bible says ....even the very elect shall be deceived.

Stop judging other people for their actions or inactions, there is a reason why a lot of these people are silent.

May the eyes of our understanding be enlightened.
Family › Re: Is It Right For A Man To Be Bathing His Female Child? by NoToPile: 9:36am On Jul 09, 2021
No biggie,

Men do change diapers, wash the bombom if wipes won't do a thorough job, that's as good as bathing.

When its time its even the girl will be the one seeking privacy.
Christianity Etc › Re: US Court Orders Olukoya To Pay $7,320 To Sowore For Lying by NoToPile: 2:46pm On Jul 07, 2021
God2man2again:
Thanks a lot.

Lack of comprehension is the problem.

Let's read this topic again with an open mind
.
Issues about MOG, females, Buhari and Tinubu are hardly read with an open mind on this forum cheesy
Family › Re: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by NoToPile: 10:19am On Jul 07, 2021
Ambeed:
I'm in my mid thirties, not ugly, a health worker. From the southern part of Nigeria.

Will prefer men not boys from South south or south east. Lives in Lagos.

AS genotype, not much of a talker but cool.

If you are within 38 to 45 dm me, jokers and boys and red pillers stay away.

If there are white men on nairaland you can do me as well.

I need a friend that can become a confidant and husband tomorrow.
Well good thing you mentioned the bolded.

You can meet your husband anywhere even on NL. Seen it happen severally.
Christianity Etc › Re: US Court Orders Olukoya To Pay $7,320 To Sowore For Lying by NoToPile: 9:57am On Jul 07, 2021
Loool sensational headline, I guess most people didn't read the article.

I guess the lawyers and those involved didn't do their jobs well



Ruling on the suit on June 24, 2021, Theodore D. Chuang, the judge, held that “unfortunately, Olukoya’s response to the motion to compel contained a serious misrepresentation; he had not produced any documents relating to proceedings before the U.K. Charity Commission related to Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries International”.

“The conclusion is that; for the reasons set forth above, the defendants’ motion for sanctions will be granted in part and denied in part,” the court held.
The way most people are responding to this thread one would think Dr Olukoya lied at the witness stand.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Wouldn't Detach From Her Siblings. A Bad Sign? by NoToPile: 7:43am On Jul 06, 2021
LienwaltAbel:
Let us all sit and imagine for a moment this was the other way round, the man would have rushed here to talk about how his wife wants to cut his family off. Is it that the men on nairaland love nagging more than pregnant women or what?
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Same thing I have been wondering and he is even a boyfriend, he didnt even manage to say fiance, that makes the situation worse.

He is even calculating the salary one of the girls siblings earn, his mouth like he's earning 600k and only gave her 15k. I just tire for the guy. I would be very careful with someone like him.

And then the boys that are preaching 'when are woman marries attention is shifted to immediate family' should preach it for the guys too. It goes both ways that's how it should be.
Politics › Re: Minister, Maryam Katagum Collapses During Official Function In Bauchi by NoToPile: 7:23pm On Jul 05, 2021
That's how the manager of one of our contractors slumped inside keke and died, him and his boss discussed that morning, when the boss got to work and realized he had not arrived he called his no, a policeman picked the call, that the owner of the phone slumped in a keke and was rushed to the hospital, seemed the keke man came to give an official report, by the time MD and one of the staff got there it was his dead body they met.
Family › Re: Nigerian Parents And Oversized Cloths | My Own Story by NoToPile: 4:10pm On Jul 05, 2021
Oh my Goodness's

I have been laughing since, grandma bought christmas suit for my son in 2019, the suit is still not yet his size grin

I am also guilty of some of these sha. cheesy

But then these kids grow so fast.

You buy accurate size for a 3month old, in 4 weeks max it might not size them again
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by NoToPile: 8:57am On Jul 05, 2021
KristaPretty:
Hahahahah, it's a very serious something grin women de try lol
Very serious something. Hope you will get a buyer soon.

I had a good laugh this morning grin
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by NoToPile: 8:49am On Jul 05, 2021
KristaPretty:
Hello Everyone, In a bid to look like Kim Kardashian, I got this waist trainer last week grin.
This was worn only twice and I no do again angry sad angry chai! E no easy to fine at all hehehehe, but I no do again again abeg.


I bought it for N25,000 (you could check them out yourself) but I'd give you the opportunity to tell me how much you want it. Please don't price it like I'm selling pepper angry, I no wan vex abeg. Use conscience and joy take price am.

Buy o! Buy!
Location: Lagos
kristapretty00@gmail.com

Kind regards.
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Looool

I can't imagine, ordinary to wear girdle pant after delivery sef person no go fit breathe properly. Can't imagine how this will feel.

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