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dmcdad: You got a break up text? Ahh! Na wa oooo. Anywayz, it's well sha. I hope it ain't telling on you that much...

More power to your elbow.

well there is a God , it hurts but life goes on really

sandylurv: My relationship in which I had so much hope, where I found true love and hapiness, where nothing else mattered to me in this world has just come to an end because of genotype incompatibility (AS-AS).

I feel shattered ,broken, pained, disconsolate, heavy-hearted, sorrowful, aggrieved, wounded and bruised. My heart bleeds terribly, I've cried myself to sleep several times(usually I feel better after a good cry when I feel bad) but I still don't feel better. I find myself blaming nature, my stupid genotype, and God....I loved him, I still do, with every fibre of my being.

Oh God,we had ‎​so much in common, ideas, views, beliefs, birth month, family structure,physical attributes etc.I know for sure,I'll never find anyone like him **sobbing** Until now,I neva believed any human cud feel this much pain.

The amount of pain I carry in my heart at the moment is such that I keep wishing for death, maybe I would find some peace there. I cant say but maybe I feel dis bad cuz it seems soo easy for him. He has moved on, barely one week after. Even went ahead to join a dating site just before our break up. Maybe its just my imagination but it was really easy for him. I don't know if its usually so easy to let go of someone you truly and really love.

He was everything to me, he made me very happy, my world went round because of him, and now, my world feels so empty without him. We had decided to go ahead initially, with the plan of having CVS with each pregnancy but he is too scared to take that chance. This is the saddest thing that ever happened to me all my life. I still want him. Imagine finding someone you love completely, and finding all u ever wanted in that person but still not be able to have that person.

I'm praying to God for strength to carry on (even though I must be truthful, I'm sorry, but my faith and belief in him has greatly dwindled) as I really don't wanna do anything nasty.I don't understand why God would sit by and watch me go through dis and not intervene.

Any words of encouragement to help me go through dis would be appreciated, as I don't really have my friends around me at the moment and I feel so lonely in this world, plus I really needed to bare my heart one way or the other.

I hope I feel better after this. God bless you.

sorry honey i got a break up text this morning myself so i'm hurting too but i will say this to you ,its perfectly OK to feel the way you do .
You are exactly where God wants you to be so that he can show you what he is made of.He knows what you want, he knows you are hurting SO IF EVER YOU HAVE BASKED IN THE GOODNESS AND GLORY OF THE LORD, IF EVER GOD HAS DONE ANYTHING FOR YOU, BE STILL AT THIS VERY SAD TIME BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU KNOW OF GOD, you will look back in yrs to come and say phew thank goodness

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]and the house chores and child-rearing. who is that left for?[/quote]your way shall never be narrow mondi_cheeks IJN, very valid question indeed , men claim equality when it benefits them and this is not just fair .

you wonder what exactly is the role of men these days , boyfriend , husband all want you to treat them like kings, cook ,clean , take care of them,the kids,the house , sex, suck up to his family but when its time to discuss financial issues then the topic of equality comes up.

Horus: Many indians who live in Europe bring back their skills and work experience from abroad to India to boost their economy.
Nigerians living abroad should do the same to create more economic grow in Nigeria.

yes but what of the Nigerians living in Nigeria, are they not good enough ?

2 million: All u guys have said can just be summarized with one word...CORRUPTION...right from independence till date, from d public to d private sector, from churches to mosques, from govt to the masses....CORRUPTION....is our only problem. And if we wish to be greater than India or Brazil or China, we must do away with our corrupt leaders, we must spend our monies in Nigeria instead of going abroad...etc. As long as there is corruption, there must always be ethnic differences, forget the boko haram boys, if there where gainfully employed even eithout going to school they wouldn't have had the time to plot terrorism.

even these countries you have mentioned have corruption issues too but somehow they still manage to perform better than we do , the problem is that it pays a few people for us to remain where we are, for there not to be progress , in all honesty there is really no excuse for us to be where we are right now.
in fact scientists are closer to finding a cure for HIV than we are in terms of take for instance finding the solution to the electricity problem in the country, its a shame

Goldenheart: i attend catholic...........they collect lyk 2 to 3 offerings. Plus harvest n thanks giving. Message is pour. U guys dnt read scriptures except bulletings. I can go on and on

please go on if you have time and energy.

and who told you we don't read the scripture? what are the readings then? what is the homily?
just because the priest is not sweating and jumping from one end of the church to the other doesnt mean that his message is less heard and understood

well there is hope because by 2050 all these damn policy makers will be suffering dementia , Alzheimer's, Urinary Disorders and Visual impairment due to old age , and hopefully will give room for more efficient people to move us forward

temujin1234: This has little relevance to most citizens.https://s01.flagcounter.com/mini/7uR/bg_F0F0E4/txt_F0F0EE/border_F0F0E4/flags_1/.jpg

honestly, no one really cares

hmm CSI naija
if the guy was tired of the marriage , the sane and i must add less messy option is to seek a divorce or a separation and not end the life of another in this very gruesome manner and how he thought he could get away with it is beyond me

[quote author=~Royal~]

Oh she warned 5 times?

Oh ok.

That means it's ok

Everybody please go back and edit you post...The Girl was Warned 5 Times...clearly this act was justified then.[/quote]sarcasm at its best

afam4eva: This is good. While the other ESUT graduates are donating murderous English, this one is donating borehole and other social amenities to a community.

Afam you are a riot and a half honestly, that definitely gave me a good laugh

ogbeche77: http://mobile.saharareporters.com/news-page/nigeria-first-ladys-trip-home-canceled

truth be told no one really cares

Super1759: Please don't blame the woman,she just finished 3days fasting and probably have not eaten. So she is seeing double. So the little catfish now seems like a SHARK.

i almost died of laughter at this comment

otokx: The good news goes unreported.

ah ah who told u? aunty patience is back now, not that many give 2 but isnt that good news

well you need a lot of diplomacy here , why not be flexible with some things, let her have her way with some things that you can let go of and stick ur grounds with the rest , if she inquires about something relating to the wedding preparation tell her you have sorted it , this one nko? its sorted ma and move on swiftly to another discussion , if its all sorted will she tell u to go and collect ur money back ?i think not
but allocate some tasks to her just so she is involved in some way, u need to thread carefully here , she only wants to feel like she is still relevant which is only natural.

Nigeria is on fire

http://lindaikeji..co.uk/2012/10/bbc-interviews-fathers-of-aluu-4-murder.html

Very interesting interview , different views

freecocoa: Abeg who was she referring to?her husband or his mistress? I'm kinda confused.
Btw how is it possible to write such epistle on twitter?

God bless you , i was just wondering the same thing

Olalekan 0: Uniport,pls do the souls of those innocent guys a favor by wiping out Aluu in it's entirety!

you shall live long

samguru: The Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB) has introduced three options for the 2013 Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination (UTME) for candidates. Prof. Dibu Ojerinde, Registrar of JAMB, made the announcement, on Wednesday, when the House of Representatives Committee on Education visited him on an oversight function.

Ojerinde listed the options as Paper and Pencil Testing (PPT), Dibu Based Test (DBT), where questions would be presented on computers and answers would be on paper and Computer Based Testing (CBT) where both questions and answers would be done on computer.

Ojerinde stated that candidates were at liberty to choose one of the three options in the 2013 UTME.

The registrar said that the most advantageous part of the CBT was that candidates would get their scores few minutes after writing the examination on their GSM cell phones.

``The internet age has come to stay with us hence as actors in the new age, you cannot afford to stay on the fence, you must be prepared to join the train or else you are left behind,'' Dibu said.

He urged candidates to study hard for the 2013 UTME, adding that consistent hard work was the panacea to success in any examination.

Earlier, Rose Oko, the Chairman of the House Committee on Education, said that the members were on a visit to the board because of the importance of education to the society.

``The examination process is very key and strategic in education as well as the sanctity of the examination,'' she stressed.

Oko commended the board for its quick release of the 2012 UTME results and urged it to sustain the tempo. NAN


source;www.businessdayonline.com

DAFT is an understatement,why 3 options ? what is the point of the DBT? so you get the questions online , then you provide the answers on paper,then you have the normal paper based one , then you also have computer based one where both are done online .All this just so that when the time comes for allocation of funds to implement it, there can be more than one way of stealing money .

the mind boggles really, i feel like these people should be sterilized then put on a Noah style ark and then let to set sail to nowhere in particular just not anywhere near Nigeria. We just can never ever move forward with their lot, as in NEVER!!!

the fact that i know my abilities and there is no way on this earth i would have achieved what i have achieved today by myself , i am convinced that it is no coincidence or luck it just has to be God

oge4real: I still do not understand why Nigerians react as if coins is a curse. If England, America, Australia and other developed economies of the world still use coins, why then is that we are so afraid?

the question is do the countries u have mentioned have ATM coins dispensing machines? i can understand coins as part of change but not an ATM machine that dispenses coins

fashola cant work with pdp!pls leave lagos for us

i am convinced GEJ lacks focus and drive to take this country to the next level.