₦airaland Forum

HaneefahRN:
Sorry to say, but u wld be a stu.pid man too if u caught ur wife cheating and refuse to forgive bt send her packing.

Yes, in my opinion she is taking it too far but don't u ever judge someone wt someone else, not everyone can forgive easily, I can bet it u can't forgive such easily too. I'm certain she isn't cheating , just trying to get back at him wt all the drama probably from too much films.



Hear urself, love, understanding, and respect for the man, so the woman deserves nothing but only to compromise when bullshit is thrown at her? U'll claim men and bring another woman into ur matrimonial home, into ur matrimonial bed! Yet u're crying with him cos he met a man in their sitting room, the cousin part got me LMAOing tho. Trust me if she wanted to cheat the man wld never suspect anything.

AgbenuAnna:
seriously? is that all u think of

Adasun:
Hellow fellow,am in a big mess right now.



My pervetious heart lead me to cheat on my wife and unfortunately i got caught red handed.i woun't explain dat awkward experience for now.



My wife trusted me so much,but i broke those trust.now my own home is broken too.


When da deed happened and i was caught,she cried nd cried and later left my house.due to pleads frm those she respected so much because i ask them for help.she later came back to da hwz bt not in gud terms


we no longer greet,she hardly talks to me,she cook when she wants to.once she did not cook,i had to buy fud for da kids


most of all,she now started acting wield nd free.she picks suspicious calls right under my nose.laugh anyhow when charting.


When it first started,i thought it's just a plot to get me jealous so i dance to da tone.i use my body language to atleast show her am jealous and want her badly.


Bt it got worse,she now comes home late and even brought a guy home.and when i saw dis guy in da sitting rum,he introduce me as her cousing.


i was mad,but i myself i guilty.how do i show her dat am in charge when i myself was caught cheatingshould i send her out?on what ground

should i continue to make peace reign?bt i have tried my best.i need ur help my fellow landers.help a brother to make da right decision.

amtaken:
Did you read the post? Where did I write that ladies approached men for favours?

Why are some of you guys so pained by this post?

Hope it's not what am thinking.

Ttalk:
Sorry about your experience but is one of those things we face in this business, but note that winners dont quit, as you are almost there. If the cracks are on the wall, all you need to do now is to engage someone who can screed the wall with raw cement and screeding gum/paint, leave for sometime and ensure that the angles are double coated to form a thick layer and you are good to go. Where is your location, can you post the pics for us to see

Ttalk:
Sorry about your experience but is one of those things we face in this business, but note that winners dont quit, as you are almost there. If the cracks are on the wall, all you need to do now is to engage someone who can screed the wall with raw cement and screeding gum/paint, leave for sometime and ensure that the angles are double coated to form a thick layer and you are good to go. Where is your location, can you post the pics for us to see

amtaken:
Not me. Other women. Some have confided in me.

nanauju:
The breasts really need retirement jare
Seriously . Over 4k men?? Meanwhile some women live with just one all their lives

robonski15:
Boss you can mail me, or chat with me on whatsapp.. Thanks

justicejay:
it was heat i confirmed it from a vet doctor.
But if you still have better idea you can elight me.
What i firstly noticed is that their legs r weak they were unable to walk again but the didnt lose weight and they are eating but to walk or stand is a problem 4 them, initally i thought they lack enough bone in their meal but their wasnt changes after including bone.i also give them some drug but none yield fruit till i lose them all

Blackfire:
Deeper life.... Even the name makes me angry.. How can your life be deeper ? U will even confuse yourself.

How can u be an overseer, i think is only 'god' that is an overseer.

One day i know my loved ones will come out of that church. I hope they are see-ing the scam.

A church that scattered a once united family, till today the problem they caused is multiplying..

Deeper life *gets more angry *

litetias:
First of all let me say that this is not personal.

Now your statement indicates a lack of understanding on your part about what makes guys to womanise.
I call that naivety. I sense that you lack the emotional maturity to suss out that men actually womanise as a result of them feeling empty inside. So they sleep with many girls thinking it will make them feel capable and good about themselves.
So from this you can see that womanising is not related to attractiveness but is related to a lack of manliness.
Real men don't womanise because they know that even if you sleep with all the women in the world it's not an achievement because women are very cheap to get.
Btw I am attractive (without sounding immodest) but I don't womanise because just one woman is enough for a real man.
When you spend all your time and resources on the one that you have chosen then you are on the right path, trust me.
So in summary, go have a rethink about your view on men and womanising

rheether:
Any guy who isn't a womanizer is not an attractive man.

yommys01:
Thanks to you all. She stopped crying. If only the father can also get used to the idea.

Surprising she didn't answer his call when he call the 4th time today.

MizMyColi:
I think it's pretty normal for someone who has forged very strong familial bonds with their relation.

This might sound harsh
But you need to go tough in love.

While scolding her might sound like an option, it might turn out to be counter productive.

First, stop indulging and petting her.
I'm sure you've told her by now that she is now married to you, and that both of you need to be strong both mentally and emotionally for each other to build your lives.

If you have had this pep talk with her, and she is still tearing up.
Permit her to go to her house.
Tell her to stay as long as she likes and she shouldn't return until you come for her.

This sounds brutal, but it seems an efficient way to cure that unwanted spirit in her.

Malawian:
so those who decamp from one party to the other leaves their mandate behind?

missKiffy:
Lol have changed nah

missKiffy:
This job has made me realise that truly we women are the problem of this world. I started this job on the 2nd of November last year and the Manager who happens to be a lady is everybody's problem in that office.

While working there its been one issue or the other, this lady in question is repulsive, cranky, rude, very proud, talks to people anyhow including an elderly man who happens to be the driver, never takes blame for her mistakes but never fails to magnify every other persons mistake. My mind has left the place since the day I found out that she was looking for a replacement for my position, that was late last month, I had initially decided to leave after collecting my salary for that month before I later changed my mind, as at now I don't know if she still intends to find someone else but my mind is just not there anymore, there is nobody they haven't threatened with a sack in that office, in fact a guy was once sacked just a week after he started work. It's just a small organisation with about six staffs including the boss, she's actually in a relationship with the boss and if they do decide to get married I don't even want to be there by then cos if she can be behaving like this when they are only dating i wonder how she will behave when they get married.

I know a lot of people would say it's best to leave your job only when you've gotten another place but you might not understand what's it's like when your mind is not just there anymore. What do you guys think? Do you think I should quit?

Having known u to be one of the most celebrated tribal bigots on Nairaland, I have only one question for u;

This ur female manager, does she happen to be an igbo?

freeDR:
Apology rejected

vanpeele:
Nope. Well and Bucket

Malawian:
what if those anambra lawmakers decamp to apga? they still won an election by the electorates validly. this country is a zoo really.

adeaks:
The problem is that the supreme court declared the Oguebego Executive as the authentic executive but did not say anything on the election of the people tendered by the fake executive who contested and won the elections. People have only been reading their own implications into the judgment.

Inec CANNOT withdraw the certificate given to oduah and co without an express court order directing them to do so.

The Oguebego case was a pre-election matter dealing with in-house primaries. It had nothing to do with the election itself that brought in Stella oduah and co which can only be heard by an election tribunal.

The Suit filed by Awomolo and Co is for the supreme court to direct on which way to proceed. It would bring a final end to all the confusion we have currently. Justice kolawole's order is for INEC to wait until the supreme court gives a judgment one way or another in the current suit.

People will just berate the judge without understanding the issues. Justice kolawole is not a rookie judge not to have considered all the ramificatons of granting the injunction. And finally, he definitely didn't overrule the supreme court. The person who wrote the title is just being mischievous.

rhymesmith:
Sigh!

Lack of intelligence tells on you sir.
If you do not understand the reason why the students see this as a despicable act, then I guess you never went through the University (and even if you did, you refused to gather the knowledge you were meant gather).

And btw, for your information, you have successfully painted Sen. Ben Murray Bruce in a worse light than these poor students have.

Go and learn how to be more creative instead of just looking for cheap publicity with your #NotSoCommonSense post.

banmee:
If you believe this story, you'll believe anything. I don't think you understand how valuable a pilot is held. I wish I was a pilot. You can work anywhere in the world. All you need to do is acquire the license of the country you plan to work in. Bloggers sha.

Mannylex:
This is embarrassing to say the least. When would we get it right? There's always a good plan, but implementing has always being the issue from time immemorial.

But seriously , that lady selling cards after training as a pilot?? Can't she get something even more noble?

Wallade:
Please tell me about the 10% that is local content part of the vehicle in terms of components. I am all ears!

Wallade:
Please tell me more about this copycat brand called innosson. I am not against local manufacturing, innovation and industrialisation but I don't see innosson vehicles as innovative. It is just the brand name that is Nigerian, everything about the vehicle is not Nigerian and worst case is that the vehicle is substandard. Compare it with Tata brands and I will still pick a Tata vehicle.

I also learnt that the CEO uses other vehicle brands regularly, not his innosson. So tell me why I should be proud of innosson vehicles.

Anyway, I don't wanna discourage you.

Sibrah:
This Innoson man is doing sympathy marketing like he is an INNOcent SON of the 'zoo'. I will like to see the percentage of his car parts that are manufactured in Nigeria. Imagine using 100 local hands to assemble parts manufactured by some 5000 hands and calling it local.

phranseeqz:
Nice development, however, hope it has the strength for very coarse and dry land.
Promising

BUTCHCASSIDY:
Your opinion my friend. your opinion