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samsilo:
I once saw an old woman in her underwear Unclad early in the morning on my street when I was in class 1 or 2. She could not find her way home and everyone said she was a witch who had been caught  out by daylight. Her poor son was called to take her home before she was lynched.
Having worked with a lot of elderly people in the past few years and seen how confused they can be while seeming to be talking sense , I have now realised a lot of the so called witches in Nigeria are people with Dementia.
You need to seat down with someone with dementia to understand how complicated the mind can be.

I was not really around a lot of elderly people in Nigeria besides my grandparents but a lady at my church was telling me how old people with dementia in Nigeria are usually just labelled witches.

Jettage stay of drugs

I think he is being very unfair. What he is doing is cruel. It is up to you if you think you really want to deal with this for the rest f your life. For a man to pull the rug from under you for not telling him things that are not so important means a lot. I want to be optimistic but I am finding it hard. Good luck

Don't feel to sorry for the woman. She is getting her own on the side. Why move on to another man who might also be a serial cheat when she can be married to an MD and she also making pretty good money. Keep the family together while they both keep fooling themselves. Hopefully someone does not bring AIDS home

You did not witness a witch. You saw someone with a mental illness that was saying back what people had put in their head. You basically watched people stone a sick person to death for being sick. May her soul rest in peace

Tell him to drop all his classes. He should be able to get most of his money back and by her the BB. mscheeeeeeew

I really feel bad for Mercy Johnson. It is really sad that she is being encouraged to marry this man. The fact that he even paid the bride price the same year on both women makes me wonder if anything else is even important here. I wish her well. Why is she saying "he told us". The one thing I can say about Nigerians is their investigatove skills when their pickin wan marry LOL. How easy it would be to find out the lies if you really want to. After all Lovely is very willing to show the documents. Why hide your head under the sand and pretend that everything is okay

Is it Okorocha's money or the state's money?

kinguy:
tell dem pls. d@s dia mentor, model, godess. . . All in d name of independence, civilisation. Reason hillary clinton didnot win her primaries is cos many american women says she's a woman who cant take kia of her home and u Xpect her 2 take kia of a nation. Dey gave an Xample of her hubby and lewisky's sex scandal, d@ it wz b'cos of her lifestyle her husband st@d havin sex outside marriage. Dey even brought oda domestic issues and oda women clinton bleeped D@s d most influencial living woman on earth.

Come on sharrap dia. See ya mouth like oprah did not cook. You think even if she chose to marry she would find someone that uses cooking as a requirement in chosing a life partner. If you stick to your level chances are that you will meet a woman that her sole focus in life is to cook for you. It is when you start reaching above your level that you start complaining. Stick to what you are used to then there will be no problem.

Eyah. Sorry dear. I honestly did not know it was you LOL. Please in the event that you choose not to use that funnel please move on. Life is too short.

lefulefu:
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many modern naija girls nowardays really dont know how to cook.all they are interested in is eating junk food.this is one reason when we naija men ask them out they beg us to carry them to mister biggs and mcdonalds

So do you really expect a girl to cook for you when you should be picking out a nice restaurant to wine and dine her. Abeg let me stop here before I say what I really want to say

















Bush Men

lol @ jenny and cc

I don't think she is taking you for granted. As for swapping rooms you should have said no if you did not want it. My in laws gave up their bedroom for me ones when I went to Nigeria. I insisted that I could not do it but they really had no where else decent for me and the boys. For me it was a huge deal but for them it was nothing. As for the statement of you ordering her around like a housegirl I don't see how that would have anything to do with age. I don't think that there is a woman alive that has nto made the statement before. Sometimes we really do feel like husband and even children alike just assume that they have a live in maid because everything "automatically" fixes itself.

Are you not the one they adviced to go buy a funnel

Nellyon:
Kim Kardashian
Socialite / Entrepreneur

Born: 21 October 1980
Birthplace: Los Angeles, California
Best known as: The socialite daughter of American lawyer Robert Kardashian
Kimberly Kardashian is a Los Angeles socialite, boutique owner, and star of the reality TV show Keeping Up With the Kardashians. Kim Kardashian first came to wide public attention through her friendship with socialite Paris Hilton; Kim is also the daughter of attorney Robert Kardashian (1944-2003), who became famous in 1994 when his friend and client O.J. Simpson was arrested and tried for murder. [b]Kim Kardashian became one of Paris Hilton's party pals and then in 2007 boosted her profile by taking legal action to prevent the distribution of a naughty home video she had made with then-boyfriend Ray J (born William Ray Norwood, Jr., the brother of singer Brandy). [/b]The tape was widely distributed on the Internet, despite Kardashian's attempts to quash it, [b]and she was launched into Hilton-like celebrity. [/b]That led to the TV show Keeping Up With the Kardashians, which starred Kim and her sisters Kourtney and Khloe and their extended family. She later appeared on Dancing With the Stars (2008) and made various appearances on other TV shows. She and her sisters own a chain of dress boutiques called Dash. Married at one time to music producer Damon Thomas (2000-04), Kim Kardashian was later romantically linked to a number of male celebrities, including Jessica Simpson's ex-husband Nick Lachey and Heisman Trophy winner Reggie Bush. She married NBA basketball player Kris Humphries in August of 2011. She and her sisters published a memoir, Kardashian Konfidential, in 2010.
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Compare this to a proper celebs profile, say JLo.

So how does any of that make her a porn star. Her name sells. Should she apoloize for her success. People know that if she models their clothes people will buy it. If they put her face on a product it sells. Should she say please don't use it for fear that people will say I am lazy. The JLo you are using is she actually any different. Her butt helped "boost" her career too. She is not that great a singer. Her acting is okay at best. She has a clothing line now and obviously so many other things that came as a result of her being driven enough to succeed. There are amnay other people that got the same opportunities as the JLo's and Kim Kardashians of this world but they could not turn it into a success. Let us just be happy that they are successful and no body has died in the process of them being successful. It takes talent to stay relevant in the media LOL.

is his moother going to be the one to look at the woman for the next 60 years?

Kunbee you are right. That is definitely her mothers wedding gown

How many men single handedly provide for their families. the lodest ones are the ones that the women are not only cooking for them but they are also paying for the groceries and every other bill in the house. Silly thread. Don't go and learn to cook. Wait for the woman.

Please I don't know so tell me. What is the definition of a p.orn star. I learn something new everyday

Why do you people argue with johndoe. It is obvious he is gay. He loathes women. Johndoe you need to understand that the first step in fixing your pain is to accept who you are. No one will judge you simply because you would rather be with a man. Why fight it. Embrace it my dear. You can even legally marry now. Why live in pain with a woman when you can get all the loving you want from a man legally and otherwise. O boy embrace your real identity.

He is has a hot temper then I don't blame your mom. She sees the potential of an abuser in him. Has he hit you in the past? I still don't understand why you want to secretly wed him though. How old are the both of you by the way?

Nellyon:
Oh really? what exactly do they do? News casters, anchormen, singers, actors,writers, dancers, i am running out of 'accepted' celebrity jobs here. (btw, my sister is a p,o,r, n star and one of them married a basketballer isnt one of them)

Yes they work. Which one is a porn star. Kim? Unless you want to sit up here and say you have never had sex. She had sex with her boyfriend. She foolishly let him tape it. years later it came back to haunt her. The only difference between you and Kim in that respect is that she taped it. She works and so do her sisters. She models, she has her clothing line along with her sisters and long before the show she ran a separate business apart from the clothing store that they all ran together as a family. Why hate? I bet if we put your work schedule along side hers it will put yours to shame. Don't take it personal. Probably mine too. They work hard and they play hard. Anybody who thinks that they just wake up in the morning and take a shit and do nothing else truly is misinformed.

@ poster please get counselling. If you listen to people here you will simply make the same mistake again. I say this because from your post you say that you shove and push each other but she adds slaps and punches to it. Shoving is bad. Shoving is the beginning of other things. If someone shoves me I consider it physical aggression. You are not innocent in this for the fact that you have also physically handled her. seek some professional help. It is not all on your wife.

I am not sure why you would say a little girl was trying to get her brother to penetrate her. Everybody knows what is important to them I guess. If I walked in and saw my neighbors baby on another child the first thing that would cross my mind is not to beat up the child. The first thing to do is to find the source of the problem. What can I say again. I guess a good slap fixes every problem for you people.

Why are they fake abeg? They are working and they get paid. Why is it such a problem for people? People who make use of opportunity presented to them can only be called smart. You people act like you would not do the same thing if given the opportunity. Please who wants to do a reality tv show and pay me 12 million dollars. I dey wait o

He jumped bail on ea shopliftng charge and the EFCC arrested him. I thought the EFCC was for big crimes

Na wa. Ficoram I am shocked at the way you and the childs mother handled this. I truly feel sorry for that child. Even if a child walked in on her parents in the act all she will take from it is that mommy was on top of daddy or something like that. She would never ever imagine penetration. So it is one of two things. You are either telling a lie on this child or you and the mother are not very wise. I am sorry but I had to say it. If someone is molesting this child you guys have basically made it impossible for her to ever say anything about it.

You guys should get counselling asap. Professional counselling that is

Can we please write a list and give to these women on other things they can protest about. Very silly indeed.

It is absolutely very true of many Nigerian guys

Only the Good Lord protects people in that hell hole. What if that bullet had hit her. Gosh. If there were armed robbers there this punk as.ss would have sh, t on himself

jennykadry:
I hope I haven't lost my naija accent . I am going to update the accent.

Nne ke kwanu. . . . . . .maka why . . . . . . .

Trust me. It's not that type of Nigerian accent. Bush woman