₦airaland Forum

Why is the man walking around. Why is he not under the jail

ragdollz:
No single one of them wore what fitted their skin tone, shape or height. Emeka wore a jumping suit, like it was meant for a shorter person . His wife dressed for the wrong climate/occasion, lol. Highest that dress is OK for Sunday service. Ini Edo wore red shoes with her champagne jumpsuit, bleeh. Red shoes can not titivate a plain colour like champagne. The other girls wore dresses that looked like something they would have put on two years ago, not now in 2010. These girls are supposed to be movie stars and should know how to dress to the nines. Ordinary girls who attend our everyday weddings even know how to rock styles more than these so-called celebs.

what shoes should she have worn. I actually think the red goes well.

She was arrested when the man was trying to rape her It must have happened in India.

rotflmao

Tonto Dike's dress is ugly and her shoes are even uglier. Stephanie Okereke is always on point. Why the hell is Emeka Ike's wife wearing a sweater turtle neck dress to a wedding. Na wa

IS it our culture or religion to use the internet? It is up to you what you want to do. You cannot put this one on the Bible or on culture

bawomolo:
i know, her screaming and hollering just came off as weird though. i thought i was watching the nigerian version of the exorcist for a minute.

LOL

It will be wise if you guys actually watch the video before commenting. They damaged her car and then physically assaulted her.

I don't think it is on the internet anymore. He basically was having sex with an underage girl doggy style and then when he got done he peed on her. He claims it is not him though but I saw the video and if that is not R Kelley then it is his identical twin. He also has a history of dating underage girls. He supposedly married Aaliyah when she was just 17. I am pretty sure he had sex with her before than. He likes little girls. It is an open secret in the industry

Wow. Just crazy. I cannot even speak. The sad part is that the excuse we keep hearing is that the woman might not have the money. Why can't the man be made to pay for the lawyers fees. I think we should have matured past the age of "well there is nothing that can be done" in Nigeria. Lawyers need to be educated and not just the victims. It seems to me that the average lawyer in Nigeria is just simply interested in bearing the name Barrister. Nigeria is just so out of touch with reality. Imagine policemen standing by while a man kicks his wife. E no go ever better for them. I am so pissed right now. I will never give up my fight for justice for Nigerian women even the ones that do not want to help themselves because of the backlash. I cannot even begin to mention the cases of abuse I have heard from Nigerian women. In the US a man that commits such an abuse will even be given a psychiatric evaluation because people just see something so brutal and a sociopathic or psychopathic thing. In Nigeria they just say he "beat his wife". Like damn. This is a national shame.

If they are giving you 1/3rd back then they are admitting that they have your money. You should not let it go. That is armed robbery

They at least dressed up the trailer

It doesn't acknowledge if it took your vote or not. It doesn't say if you can vote more than once either.

This is actually a great idea. Maybe a thread should be made in the family forum and then "STICKY-ED". Just showing the exact steps a woman can take to even leave the man including legally getting financial help with raising the kids also if the man will not do so willingly. A step by step guide. Maybe even the names and office addresses of lawyers that can take on their cases in court. I think that would be valuable information. I will ask my cousin for some info. She is a lawyer and has helped a friend who was being beaten up by a man that had never worked since the day they married and after beating her and making her taste her blood he told her to pack out of "HIS" house. The house that he moved into when he married her. Chai. Legally the man had no case and he soon realized that with a lawyer behind his wife he had no choice but to do what was right.
Any lawyers in the house can actually be of help here.

It is not against the law to take pictures of a police officer unless they think you might be doing something dangerous with it. Of course the police officer can choose to say do not take a picture of me. As long as you are not going to do something criminal with it then you are fine for the most part. I don't know about Nigerian law though but I know for sure that they make things up as they go along. I have NEVER EVER heard of a case in the United States that someone was arrested for taking pictures of the police

Brisingr:
Hide yur daughters.

I was clicking to write "lock up your daughters"

Seems suspicious to me but you should have done this before you married him.

She most likely got attention from her lies as a child. So obviously she will continue with it. What you guys thought was funny and laughed at was seen as encouragement.

He has to set an example for the satff. It is good business sense. People do not even begin to understand how your attitude or behavior towards your business affects how other people including staff treat it. If you want your staff to walk in and feed their husbands and wives for free then let your own spouse eat for free

Don't give them anything. It is against the law. Tell your sister to take her camera phone or a recording device and tape them asking for cash. They are thieves. I think they look at the person though before they ask for money. They know if they get caught they will be in trouble but at the same time they know that the average Nigerian is used to paying bribes and if they feel that you are the average Nigerian they will try to ask you to pay.

OAM4J:
I have no problem with men taking over some of these responsibilities you listed. I will do them with all joy. I love cooking too

But the point am making is that women should not allow anything or anyone (including husbands & children) to stop them from looking after their health.

I agree with you here

OAM4J:
What about using some of those time spent in gossiping 'gisting' with Iya basira & co? or reducing some of the time spent in church and other association meetings?

You can blame men and others for your misery for all you can, but the fact is; the misery still lies with you. I will say women should take responsibility for their health.

Sweetie I don't know what you do in your house but in my house I will work out for two hours if that is my wish. If I also decide to gossip with iyabasira or whomever you said I will do that too. As a matter of fact you just proved my point with your comment up there. She should spend less time at her church. If you have issues with church how can you then sit here and talk about not bitching about making you play your role in the home and let her workout for an hour. Whiner

How many Nigerian men here are okay with their wives leaving them with the kids for two hours four days a week to go to the gym
How many of you will pay for a personal trainer for her if she is not able to
How many of you men including the poster will watch the baby from 8am to 9am so that mummy can go for a walk around the block
You people are so full of poo poo. How many of you will agree to come home from work 4 days a week and madam goes to the gym from work rather than come home and fix dinner. How many of you can even handle this 2 days a week. At the end of the day it is the women that I blame. If you decide to be as selfish as these undeserving men he will quickly realize that you are way out of his league. Stay single and if you do not then do not expect your wife to get pregnant or get older. Just adopt a kid so that that way you can guarantee that she will stay slim

He was in mummys tummy and then they took him out of her belly button

Stick with your principles. You will get farther in life being true to yourself. I don't think it is unreasonable at all.

May his soul rest in peace. Take comfort in knowing that he is not suffering anymore. He is in the bosom of God.

Why are you so fixated on masturbation. Masturbation is not a sin. I am even doing it right now. mscheeeeeeeeew. A person who r-a-p-es is simply a criminal. Not just someone watching something on tv. The average well brought up child will not go and be assaulting women and r-a-p-ing them

I don't believe Nigerian women spend 450.00 on those ugly ass weaves I always see and also to conclude that the average Nigerian woman does not produce is like ridiculous. If you say they don't really understand how money works then I can buy that but to say that they consume and not produce is totally wrong. I don't know too many Nigerian wives that stay home and the few I have come to know still shock me everytime I see it. It is definitely not the norm for Nigerian wives

You don't even have to ask me. If I see a man hitting a woman then he is going to jail. End of story for me. She can decide if she wants to bail him out or drop the charges. If a friend asks me of course I will give my opinion. If she wants to turn around and blame me later then so be it. All I know is that I spoke my truth. If you call me and say that you saw naked pictures of your husband's secretary in his work briefcase I will tell you that he is most likely a cheating dog and you a fool for standing here asking me when you should be giving the man hell

It is a halloween costume for crying out loud. I like it but I would have worn different shoes and also gone a little darker with the animal print.

May God bless their union. I know those pictures are just for his comedy because even that 4runner on the dirt raod alone is enough to slap yourself

Let her add sugar before she drinks it mscheeeeeeeeeeeeew