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I have the one Kim has on in red and something very similar to Khloe's in cognac

I actually think Kourtney has a better body than Kim and I don't know why people act like Khloe is ugly. She is a beautiful girl

He did marry his standard though. They are both wicked selfish people. Thank God the other woman does not have to deal with this.

I think I understand what he meant when he said that but I might be wrong. My dad is a pastor and I remember when I was a kid and every sunday he would do an altar call and I was always faithfully there at the altar to repent (LMAO) because I would remember not finishing my homework or not doing what my mom told me to do. My dad asked me why I kept coming and I said well becuase I did this or did that but my dad said the altar call is for people who have NEVER accepted Christ or for those who have backslided and want to REDEDICATE their lives to Christ. So you can be a Christian and do some unchristlike things but you are not a sinner like those that are in the world,  

Here we go again with the whining men. Stop crying like babies. Men abandon women all the time and women move on. Madonna paid over 80million dollars to Guy Ritchie, Kirstie Allen paid 6million to her ex, Ann Heche, Janet Jackson, Brittany etc. They all paid because they made more. The sad part id most of the people crying do not even have anything to give in the event of a divorce LMAO. You guys should get the facts right. No court in the US will send a man away with nothing if his wife made most of the money. With a good lawyer the man is still entitled to up to half of what they made in the marriage in most cases. A lot of times a settlement is reached just like it is when the men are the ones paying. Puss.y men. It is very unmanly.

Imagine all the women that are abandoned in Africa along with their children. Husband that insists that she does not work away from home abandons her, her family turns their back on her, her church turns their backs on her, "friends" laugh at her but she still raises her children knowing fully well that african culture is okay with her suffering like that. Then come "men" whining about a woman taking money that they do not even have ROTFLMAO. You guys really need to stop.

Meanwhile in Nigeria child molesters sit in the senate

and while he is slapping your mother what are you doing hissssssssssssssssssssssss. Your mom needs to take some kickboxing classes because it seems nothing else has worked for her. 33 years ke. This is sad.

Find something to do. Find a hobby. Travel. Date. If you have a creative mind you can come up with all kinds of projects to keep you busy. Take a class in your local college. Is there something that you were always curious about then take a class in it. Have you been interested in playing a musical instrument then get a tutor and learn how to play. Don't let the loneliness eat you up. Who says you have to be married with 100 children right now. Have fun girlfriend. Things could be much worse. Where are you located by the way

I don't knwo why you guys are acting like this is an unbelievable story especially as it is a nigerian parent. It is very possible. I have seen females who are desperate to marry and are int heri mid 30's but will not even consider someone of a different tribe because their parents will not have it. They just languish in misery. How much more a 21 year old. Your friend needs to break the chains of tradition and find her way. Work and send home what she can. Not all the money she makes. She cannot change her mothers mind. If she is not careful she will be her mother's age and be doing menial work. She needs to make school her first priority not work or her mother's wishes

I no fit laugh abeg. I can't even begin to comment. LMAO

I don't think you should confront him but you definitely need to cut him out of your life. I don't understand why your girlfriend had her arms around your friends waist though. That just does not make sense. If it was your brother or dad I might understand but not a friend.

I am all for no sex before marriage. Not saying all those who do it will not make it. Far from it. Sex makes things blurry. You think more rationally when sex is not in the picture. On a spiritual level it is no and then on a common sense level it is also no

What money issues do you have and where do you both live

mypeace how come you know so much about where this woman gets her money. I am wondering why you are so worried about her marriage. What proof do you have that she is cheating on her husband

Every woman is different and so is every pregnancy. Nausea and being tired is very common in the first trimester. I would not say quit your job though unless a doctor says it is okay or you feel like you cannot handle it. Quitting your job just because you are pregnant though is not a good idea.

I bought "what to expect when you are expecting" as soon as I found out that I was pregnant the first time. It shows you what is going on in your body and what to expect week by week. The most important thing is to have a support system and also be aware of what is going on. Do not depend on just your doctors.

Cavemen

I am so dissapointed in this man. The emphasizing of "our children" is basically a way to make his wife look like the devil. He obviously wants to come across as if the whole family are praying for her soul. He is wrong for doing it. If he really felt the need to talk about it he should have left her parents and the children out of it. What if she decides to come out with her own response in video. Does he understand that he might not be able to discredit everything she might say. I am sorry but he is so wrong on this

safeact:
I laugh in yoruba! Im not yoruba so cant say 4 sure bt its left 4 u to verify and get their consents b4 doing anything! Let me share a sma£ tori wit u. During my service year, i v corp member girl who was a yoruba, she was opposed marrying a guy (stil from yoruba) by d her parents just dis your case, after persistent pleas and dragings, d duo went and got married in a friends church who is a pastor plus their court marriage to give it legal backing! In d far north, where we served, d man once came and visited her, dnt forget that every night with d help of midnight calls, they will always pray to bind and cast watever against their union from 12.30 to 4.30am. D judgement day came, after d man's visit, d woman took in, later on, she fell sick and despite all that was done to save her, my neighbour just died like that. As if it was not enough, d parents said they wil take d corpse as they never recognised any marriage that took place. So my dear b wise if u lv your gal and ursf. There might be something that they have seen that u hv not seen! Tread with caution.

So what does all this mean? The only thing it means is that their parents are very wicked and need to pray that God allows their soul to see heaven for the pain they brought on their children by making them go though hell for no just reason. Everybody is a child of God and unless the parents have a good reason for them to be wary then really they need to be quiet because they are not God.
This mentality of going along with something simply because someone says it is why Nigerians cannot put things together to solve their problems. Going through life with slave mentality. You have no right to your own happiness. You have no right to do this or do that when it is right that God has already given you. How can you base a life long decision as an adult on the idea that "daddy said it so it must be so". There is no marriage that is a walk in the park whether daddy said it is good or not.

If her mother is strong enough to take over all the household chores then she can also live on her own. I don't understand how a mother can insist on staying knowing that it is causing friction in her daughter's marriage. The only thing is if the mother leaves then the husband should know that all the nice things that came with her being there will also go with her. So he should not complain if he is not eating a new soup everyday.

I see that Q7 and I want to turn down the lights, light a candle and wear sexy lingerie. arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrghhhhhhhhhhhh lol

@ poster really though what is wrong with you? You said your wife is on IV but you still think it is all in her head? I don't see why any hospital will put in an IV if there was no reason to. I am a little worried now because I think you are being inconsiderate. There is no way I would recommend going to your niece's party when your wife is lacking fluids enough to get an IV and they still don't know why she is sick. I don't even see why this should be an issue with the family. Be careful my dear before you do something silly. Don't take your wife for granted. Your family would have sent you home if you left your wife in the hospital for a birthday party. There will be many more birthdays

bribery and corruption, gas flaring, bad infrastructure, poverty, war etc. Anything else you want to add on SMH

Why should a stomach pain stop you from going to your niece's birthday party. It does not make sense. There is more to it. Even if you wife is not going why are you not going. Is the stomach ache as a result of a serious illness. There is more to this

Sky Spirit:
Take it or leave it,its a man's world, next time when you see my post just pass.

You are just demonstrating how HORRIBLE you are as a wife or as a future wife, I can really imagine how miserable you & your unfortunate husband are leaving or would leave in future. You lack respect for men that is why you would come up on a forum like this to insult a man you dont even know. Let me tell you, your type would make the perfect slaves to men, rags whom they would use to mop rubbish from their husbands mistresses. Its your type that will sleep on the floor while their husbands would be digging it out in the bed. my post was not direct to you for your foul mouth to start ranting rubbish, swine, slut. Hissssssss!!!!
Just be intimate with Off

I am happy that you think of me in this light. If you thought of me favorably I would be embarrassed. You are trash. You have no morals. You do not deserve to walk around civilized people. I can bet that in real life you are nothing. It shows in the way you talk. You are probably a dead broke man that needs a woman who will stroke his ego when he wakes up in the morning and farts. You are a loser. No woman of quality will ever tie herself to you. I know. I have read you like a book.

Sky Spirit:
For your husband to stay 2weeks without calling you shows you ve a problem
with him that you are yet to realize. His mistress has more information about you,
& she is acting based on what ills your husband would ve told her in confidence.
You are the real enemy to yourself, try to find out what he likes that your are not
doing for him & what he doesnt like that you are doing. Learn to massage his ego
& never tamper with his pride. Try to be friendly with his mistress, he will run from
her, I assure you!

Oh be quiet. Honestly do you even have a heart. It is so obvious from your post that
you are either a horrible husband or you will make a horrible one.


@ poster you have to make your husband see that you are not a fool because he
obviously takes you for one. How can he possibly leave you with a baby for so long
and not call. The age difference, the fact that you are entirely dependent on him tells
me that he picked you out for those reasons.
I am not saying leave him now but I want you to start thinking independently and start
acting like an adult. You also need to handle the issue about the woman now. Do not just
let it go. It will not fix itself. Do not let him bully you out of him acknowledging that it happend.
You also need to make sure he uses protection from now on. There is no if and or buts about it.
Not only is he sleeping around but the woman or women for all you know have reached the
level of calling you.
As for your younger ones how old are they? You cannot sell yourself into slavery for your siblings.
Plan your life and empower yourself. Do it for you and your child. Set a good example

Thank God

Jackie looks really good. She lost a lot of weight too. Genevieve cannot win everything though I feel without a doubt that she is a better actress. Jackie is a good actress and I really like her.

0hsisi:
See me see wahala.
My point is very clear but cantell chose to listen to the demons speaking in his head
Is it my fault?

You need to stop please. My side hurts

They need to get that idiot ex governor that is probably raping a baby as we speak and lock him up with this fool. Hopefully they will rape each other to death

[quote author=aloy-emeka link=topic=431969.msg5906436#msg5906436 date=1271469440]How can the court award custody to a useless man who neither cared to file for custody nor show up in court?    [/quote]Nigeria for you. Tomorrow he will wear that ridiculous wig on his head and think he has achieved something. No amount of education can help a fool