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dacblogger:
I will not lie, I dey insult Sha and if not for the kind of man my hubby is, him for don.commit suicide because of the things I tell him.
But the truth is that, I'm a very emotional person and I'm easily angered. Infact my hubby is the most annoying human being on planet Earth...
He has a way of getting at you and he does that on a daily basis .
So when he does that, I try to hold in the anger for days but when I can't hold it anymore, I explode... When I'm done telling him all those things, I feel better.
So you see , Venting is my coping mechanism.
We women we DNT do that intentionally, that is just our own way of expressing the anger that we have held for so long.
May God help each and everyone one of us Sha.

CryptoClub2018:
I believe this man. Most ladies are VERY wicked and evil. They know the society will believe them because they are women. They provoke you and push you to the wall and when you say pem, they start to play victim. Most of them are snakes and the society isn't fair to men at all. See the way people were condemning the man when the story broke out without listening to the man. See the rubbish false alarm made by that bastard Toyosi girl yesterday and without verification, foolish people started calling the number and raising curses on him until she issued a disclaimer. I wonder how the stupid people that believed that story will look at themselves and see how foolish they are.
The funny thing is that something like that will happen again and the stupid people will rush to believe because it's coming from a lady but if it were a man, they will laugh over it.
Thank God I am not God, I would have wiped out 70% of Nigerian girls

jrusky:
Oga biko keep quiet we are tired of men with no brain disgracing fellow men all the time.

Are you going to come out before I say you beat her? Even the beast called Peter Ochinahi demonic husband still denying touching her after so much evidence against him.

This is not the right time to go on defense in abuse case the death of Ochinachi still boiling people up so keep your explanation till later biko.

Your trap won't work she had dumped you and the is final go and marry your sister and turn her to punching bag.

Nonsense!!!

Happened:
Source: https://punchng.com/i-dont-know-why-i-stabbed-my-boss-to-death-stole-his-car-suspect/

cc; lalasticlala

Yemlizzy:
Things some people do for ill gotten wealth, how about the girl’s family?? So they don’t know she is staying with a man who hasn’t married her the right way. They didn’t ask or look for her. Something sounds amiss in this narration.


Sadly, those who will tow the path of this guy are many outside, still many girls won’t learn. Fetish purposes and rituals would definitely lead to a number of deaths for the female gender drastically this year.

Djackelectronic:
STILL AVAILABLE

harsysky:
I strongly believe this is one of the hardest questions some people would want to ask themselves, but to the fact remains that we ought to be realistic.

I have met couple of guys who had lost their jobs , and it was not funny at all. They tend to be somewhat miserable.

It is never something anyone would wish for their enemies. Even the ones who have managed to build their own houses are not equally spared as I recently met one and had this great pity on him .

Even to my enemies, I would not want to see them in such state as reality always dawns on people when they experience retrenchment. Most people could tell you one thousand and one ways they would have improved their lives if given a second chance, but the truth is it's like comparing theory with practical. Both can never be the same.

Everyone cannot be an entrepreneur hence I would advise we all go into it.

Now to my question, how would you practically avoid this miserable state especially if you are earning now, or how have you avoided it in the past?

Hanks0000:
I saw a post about how I can earn ₦50,000 VIP grant weekely on fairmoney app and I decided to apply because I'm going through financial difficulties.

I clicked on the link on the post and I was redirected to

https://molinahealthcare.life

It looks identical to Linda ikeji's blog which made me believe it could be real, after following all the steps that was listed on the article, I was also redirected to this website.

https://fairmoney.ng-pay.vip/Grant.html

I was directed to log in my fairmoney account and to enter the OTP code that was sent to me through SMS by fairmoney, I entered the code on the site.

The next message I received was that ₦150,000 was transferred to Esther Blessing Odion (access bank) from my fairmoney account, a transaction I did not initiate.
I called Fairmoney to make a complaint about this transaction which I didn't perform and the transaction indeed happened.

That was when I realised I'd been scammed and I don't know what to do . I might commit suicide because I don't have any mean of repaying. I am a student and I was considering taking a top-up so that I can pay my lodge rent which is already due.

I'm to pay
64,240 this month alone.
I don't know what to do.

PastorMisback
WoundedLamb

Bellotelli:
She was so opened to me and I was so ashamed of myself that I didn't know what to say. She simply said ' I can't date you cause you don't have money.. Let's say I need 10k now can you afford it?

akezn:
A girl that my guy asked out told my guy that she is not his mate, that when she started running show, that my guy was still watching tales by moonlight.

feldido:
Who still pays for DSTV when I can always stream live matches on HD and also cast it to my TV

cescky:
Hmm

Wer in the same boat.. This guys are wicked... With this package, when their playing champions league.. Thed off all the channels showing major matches.. After the match they restore... Evil people, ive refused to subscribe again.

Am buying Amazon 4k, ill get more shows and i heard ill watch epl for free. Dstv de wicked


Edited :For those asking.. Its called "Amazon fire stick" 4k is the latest version.. Just ask Google for more information

frozen70:
He should thank God that she has carried her wahala and liability away from him to another man

Truvelisback:
Woemen.

fasho01:
That's no more love but obsession

AFONJAPIG:
Exactly same happening to me now but I will never support evil, I got this girl pregnant 8yrs ago we lost contact , she kept the child, she got married same year I travelled out.. we started talking recently and she's want to leave the poor guy because of me, I only told her I want to take responsibility of my boy after DNA and I will compensate her as well but even if she wants, the boy will still be in her custody, but she's planning erupting with me and the boy and leave the kids he had for the poor guy ... God knows am not going to give her that

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnnn!!!! *You Live MUCH more Longer*


I noticed most single men tends to live much longer unlike their married Counterparts.

Honourable1901:
Can you imagine the rich also fight
One thing I know for certain if two pussy fight there's a dick involved.

Surrey2Bimshire:
It’s child abandonment especially when you have both parent and you uproot a child from his country of resident with the hope of you bringing them back only for you to abandon them there.

Speak to any social worker or child protective service agent they’ll tell you what he did is in fact a child abandonment and kidnap being held against their will .
That woman has a good solid case if they’re legal residence of Spain .and if they’re not she can use domestic violence and emotional abuse as a her means . That man is not smart at all

irunoko:
more implicating for the man if the woman went to the embassy and told them she was abandoned in nigeria.thry will investigate,fish him out and God help him if his purpose was to marry oyinbo woman double jeopardy.however if she's ignorant he can get away with it.first thing is for her to get to the embassy,call all her friends in Europe on phone and definitely he will be rounded up and made to face the laws

Some Naija men are completely unreasonable and not fit to be husbands.i wonder how his kids who are seeing all this things will be able to forgive him or have anything to do with him

Later some men will say children only focus on the mothers and leave the fathers out.he didn't even care about the childrens welfare, education or how they'll cope.its definitely a konji Influenced decision

When he's deported and given a taste of his medicine,sense Wil fall on him because if it was about the woman's misbehaviour, why also inflict pain on the kids.

Reptyle:
Painful betrayal from her husband. It may have been triggered by something the woman did. But no matter what he should not treat her that way. He can divorce her over there and let them continue their life.

But she needs to stop wallowing in self-pity and pick herself up. This is not too difficult to fix though it will cost her quite some money. This case will just be handled the same way you handle missing travel documents. She needs to get a lawyer and fight for her's and her children's rights.

The first thing she needs to do is file an affidavit for her missing passport. That way, she and her children can be issued fresh passports. Then she needs to approach the Spanish embassy to have her case reviewed and her visa restored.

I am not an expert in this sort of matter but I know it is not an impossible situation to resolve. A good immigration lawyer should be able to provide her with some professional guidance and support.

VenumX:
Mumu man. Make Spanish police catch you. Dem go deport you back to your sh1t hole.

The woman sef no smart. Abi she no go school. You no fit keep your own document and that of your children? Na your mumu oga come hold every thing.

alphaconde:
i have asked my self this question severally

how easy they say

what have u done for me

i am like

NOwazobia:
What I deduce from the story is that the girl was into the first guy because of money from the start, she actually accepted the second guy due to the help she got from him, and again accepting the first guy because of more money and a change to a better location.

Love is not in the picture for any of the guys.

ZUBY77:
If you like don't respect yourself and get stable financially first.
The same person you think loves you will be the first to tell you how useless you are.
You can not buy Rice, Diapers or pay house rent with love

frozen70:
You did well by informing her mum about your intentions on her

The next step is to discuss with your girlfriend and find out if she will marry you as you are not yet stable

If she accepts that, then ask her about their marriage rights and how best you guy carry it out without much fan fare

It's now left for her family to cooperate with you

Some women sponsored their marriage because then man couldn't and they lived happily while the man still finds his bearing

The only problem with such marriage plan is when the man starts measuring his muscles with the wife by being authoritative at home and there by proving stubborn

That will definitely not go well with them.

You can't be poor and troublesome in a relationship

ndukwechinasa:
I met my girl friend around 2015 but I was not so serious about loving her. Just wanted to make love to her normally or even become a casual friend. But my intentions did not work out as planned we both stop communicating.

Not until December 2020 when I had accident and she eventually came visiting me and bought somethings for me. I was so impressed for the kind gestures. Her care and kindness made me started loving her.

However, this love extended to her family. I always call the sisters and the mum at will. I also visit their village during festivities and their base too. She is kind to me that I can not imagine. I have grown to love her immensely that I don't have affection for another woman.

But yesterday, my babe called that the mum wants to speak with me. I aborted the call and hurriedly call back. I greeted the mum and she responded very well. She asked me not to get upset that she wants to know my intention towards her daughter that time waits for no one and again there are suitors coming but the daughter said she loves me. Finally she will not be happy with me if I dump the daughter in due course.

I just told her that I love her daughter so much and I also have the intention to marry her but she should also pray for me that things work out right for me.

Honestly, I really love the girl so much but I am not financially stable now cos I lost my job two years ago and I have been trying to put things in order as to meet up financially.

What do I really do now?

MATURE MINDS���

DimIsaac10:
The shit saved my name with Low Battery

Beedude:
Met online, claimed to be a big girl. Came with a Lexus on first date. I ordered something of 3k but she order 15k. I paid and we move.
2 days later, she made a disress call that she forgot her ATM at home while going to work and she already filled up her car with fuel of 13k in the station. So i should bail her out with 15k. She wanted to send the fuel attendant account. I told her bluntly, why cant u do the transfer from your own account since you only forgot your cards and not your phones.
She hissed and hung up immediately.
I helped her by blocking her on every platform she can reach me on.
Some ladies are just mad

pansophist:
Asked me to book for uber while coming, I did. While at the venue, ate so much and ordered take away, i paid, then asked for a uber ride back home to the island, i paid again. Another meet up, asked me to book uber again, while choosing an expensive location which I'll pay of course.

Mehn, I ghost her instantly. I can't be spending more than the minimum wage per date, I no be thief na. Watching as debit sms keeps entering my phone almost gave me heart attack. I don't like that feeling.

Betterprospect:
Good day Nairalander. I'm single, 30 years old. I studied agriculture related course at University level, and I presently worked in that field and I earned about 120k monthly.

I feel unfulfilled and I'm lacking interest day after day. The unfulfillment brewed mostly from my bosses egoistic and narcissistic approach to his employee, the insane working hours, and the lack of liberty, and most importantly, I feel I could do better. Now I have a meagre 2 million naira saved up, small? I know. Buy I'd like to pursue my passion in tech albeit from ground zero.

Now my dilemma is:

1. Seeing that I'm old and already past my prime for a career change at 30 yrs old, does a pursue of another career make sense?

2. Knowing that 2 million is small and would not last long. Does is it make sense to just up and leave?

3. I have a small biz I ideal which I feel could give me close to 50k monthly, but thing is, this is Nigeria and I might be wrong.

4. Should I just suck it up and continue for another year or two? Everyone I asked seems to think I should.

P,S. I worked 12 hours a day and its impossible I merge the two together.