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RomanceRe: I Regret Being A Kind, Naive And Nice Guy by OvertheTop(m): 1:06pm On Mar 01, 2022
Wallteck:
For been naive, nice and kind. I have being a victim of bully because I can't defend myself. Have lose a lot of respect. I wish God can recreate me to be a tough guy. Have been call fool for my behaviour.

I just wish people can understand. This world we live people are just too ruthless. The moment they see a weak guy they will start using and riding him anyhow. If I decide to change my ways I swear I will be so Wicked to the extent I won't have love for humanity.

Right now, I don't make friends too much because I know my weakness. I just want to be a lonely and marry a lady who understands me. People are just too Wicked.

Respect to those tough guys out there. I will make sure all my child not suffer the same faith I suffer. People are just too wicked.
READ or DOWNLOAD: NO MORE MR. NICE GUY!!
PoliticsRe: Cameroonian Forces Encroach Into Nigerian Territory, Seize Farmalands by OvertheTop(m): 12:56pm On Mar 01, 2022
Juicie2u:
2022 is all about war....
the Corona Virus Game is Over...

Its the War Games Now.....
Foreign AffairsRe: China Opposes US, EU Sanctions Against Russia ( Pix, Video) by OvertheTop(m): 11:00pm On Feb 28, 2022
Guys!

what Happened to corona virus?

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Foreign AffairsRe: China Opposes US, EU Sanctions Against Russia ( Pix, Video) by OvertheTop(m): 10:58pm On Feb 28, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Keep quessing.. grin
You are Confused....
Slowly, you'll give urself Away....on your own...
Foreign AffairsRe: Schetkin Leonid Petrovich: Ukraine Captures Russian Tank Battalion Commander by OvertheTop(m): 2:10pm On Feb 28, 2022
Vickyvice:
When I was in sec school, some guy used to say,,,, small baby no be sickness... I ask them how I wan take fight who strong and grab pass me, e say just take am Down from below, dont allow grappling or close range fight.focus punch only on collar bone, blokos, in fact stand one place when e dey rush come, then dress or pan to your left when he throws punch with his right hand, that will make you to get behind him.it worked for me . Na that tactic Ukraine are using, every strength get weakness way den dey use against it
in my own view, Russia is Handling Ukraine....the way....You as the Eldest Son of the Family will Discipline your Youngest Brother.....Bearing in mind you must not Use Maximum Force. (Tough Love)

So Quit the Jubilation....
Foreign AffairsRe: Vladimir Putin: Then And Now (Pictures) by OvertheTop(m): 11:11am On Feb 28, 2022
Kingpin1000:
Putin was a strong man in the Russian secret police.
Putin has seen bad things and done very bad things.
We know Ukraine will bend and they will negotiate with Russia. I see the invasion coming to an end on a round table.
The Ukrainians now know who to call friends.
My greatest lesson learnt so far is that [b]any friend that cannot help you in times of need should be cut iff. [/b]I will start calling my friends and give them the new update... my friends too plenty but na only few be paddy men.
If the West had helped out, The Whole World would have started WW3.
didn't you read the Details?

its a Family Affair.
RomanceRe: When I Told Her I'm A Teacher The Fast Reply Stop Lol. KINGS by OvertheTop(m): 10:46am On Feb 28, 2022
uniqUN:
Only my landlord knows where I work. I tell ladies (and even men when they ask) that I'm a teacher. I have a good job I must say. There's this girl that has been very helpful ever since I told her I was a teacher. She shouts "uncle!" whenever she sights me from afar and I'll be like "which kain wahala come be dis one now?" grin She's a tailor and has bought and done some few things that will be useful for me - without me asking. I gave her money beyond their worth when she brought them and she said she didn't ask for payment, but I insisted. Just the other day, we met outside while both returning from work and she said my backpack needs mending that I should give it to her to fix. Atimes I suspect she knows where I work because she has been to my house and knows my landlord's sister. You'll honestly hardly find pure love and attention from most Nigerian girls if you no get anything. I know this for sure. But if you do find one, please treat her well guys.
if she is that Nice....Check her Age....
let me guess...she is Above 30.
RomanceRe: I'm Heart Broken. I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating On Me. by OvertheTop(m): 10:27am On Feb 28, 2022
luizpippo:
Thats just a joke post.


Coined from primary school mathematics, English, Verbal and Quantitative reasoning books author, Ugo C. Ugo
WOW!
that's Part to Success booklet that Year......
Bros, You be Advance man o.

Tuale!
EducationRe: What's The Slogan Of Your University? by OvertheTop(m): 12:24am On Feb 26, 2022
UNI PETROL
No Going Back on Subsidy removal!
RomanceRe: I'm Heart Broken. I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating On Me. by OvertheTop(m): 6:00pm On Feb 25, 2022
DavidHarry:
What's there to discuss ? Someone that has been keeping him off for days. Why are men like this for Christ's sake !
Don't be Deceived by the Name, she is a Lady.

Ladies most support ladies even when are at fault....

never Take Relationship advice from them...
RomanceRe: I'm Heart Broken. I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating On Me. by OvertheTop(m): 5:53pm On Feb 25, 2022
eteebanky1:
Simp.....it is bound to happen mehn, she works in a bank

she dn see better customer wey dy financially okay, that can take care of her needs

I know your set na.....my wife must be a working class, my wife must be earning her own Money, I don't want a liability

everything dn end like this, your eyes dn clear.......ojooooooo, e pain you lol
Sooo...you are 100% sure that a House Wife Liability Woman will Keep the Kpekus intact for Only u?
RomanceRe: I'm Heart Broken. I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating On Me. by OvertheTop(m): 4:22pm On Feb 25, 2022
OhiOfIhima:
Guy! I can see you are not doing bad as man, pls, go to ur village or Facebook hook up to start convo with a decent educated lady n get urself ready to wife her in a short while to avoid this kind of heartbreak.

Sorry man, this type of heartbreak pain alot, you will be shivering n expecting to meet ur girl at home but in d end is not.

While doing d hook up things, avoid any ladies below 25yrs of age abeg.
You mean the Retired Ones....Right?
RomanceRe: I'm Heart Broken. I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating On Me. by OvertheTop(m): 2:07pm On Feb 25, 2022
YinkaOlusesi16:
i ve been noticing u on diz forum, u like defending women when they are wrong, dem nova show u shege, that`s why u like defending them when they are wrong.
she is a Lady.....
RomanceRe: When I Told Her I'm A Teacher The Fast Reply Stop Lol. KINGS by OvertheTop(m): 11:02am On Feb 24, 2022
LagBlogger:
What if they pay him well and don't owe salaries did you also think of that?

Nobody wants a liability i.e someone looking for others to take care of them without them having anything to offer.

I pray you block him if he turns out to be a very rich guy.
i don't think that lady knows the Meaning of a Liability....

was the lady(in the story) going into the relationship to be a provider or LIABILITY
RomanceRe: When I Told Her I'm A Teacher The Fast Reply Stop Lol. KINGS by OvertheTop(m): 10:59am On Feb 24, 2022
akezn:
Exactly how a girl behaved when I told her I am a teacher. She later started forming love and wife when she discovered the school and the day she saw my salary and allowances alert. She started begging to visit me at home, and refused to go home when I finally agreed even though I told her she won't sleep over.

I done laugh tire when she started calling me baby and telling me how my salary is over 4 times her own. This was somebody forming classy babe for me.
I how say....you know come Overlook your previous Discovery.. and registered her as a wife material in your Mind....

if You have Financial challenges later in Life(which is normal in the life of every man at some point )......She go japa!

she has shown u the Signs already....
RomanceRe: I Am In Love With My Female Casual Friend by OvertheTop(m): 9:39am On Feb 24, 2022
czarr:
Oga na you no code wetin the babe dey tell you, girls no go dey direct like men she no go tell you say she wan come nack, what she did by telling you she wants to come read in your house is same thing as her saying she wants to fvck its called [b]plausible deniability [/b]look it up....for your mind you be straight to the point man but she done see say you no get experience and you don't know how women communicate....
Absolutely!! You Must be a Fan of 'Eric Von...'
RomanceRe: I Am In Love With My Female Casual Friend by OvertheTop(m): 6:55pm On Feb 23, 2022
ravensckar:
There's no harm in all these unless the guy is someone who can't control his third leg. I once had a female friend who regularly comes to my house, cooks for me, keeps me company, etc. We were so close that we even slept on the same bed on several occasions and never for once did I trespass. In fact, she was more than a girlfriend to me. Everyone kept warning me that we'd end up straffing each other but I knew that wouldn't happen. Why? I'm someone who'd rather die than lose his integrity and reputation.

My point is that some ladies are so comfortable with their male friends that they don't harbour any sinister objective. The onus now lies on the guy to remain trustworthy and look beyond 5 minutes of straffing. We both benefitted immensely from that friendship much more than the pleasure that we would have had straffing each other.

We maintained that friendship until I got married and had two kids. Even my wife likes her a lot. They became a friends; both of them usually behave like sisters. What separated us? Ideological sh*t. She became a feminist and started acting all bitchy. After speaking to her severally about it without any progress, I just let her be and moved on. #No_Time#


PS- She's also an active nairalander, hence, I know she'll all read this. cheesy cheesy cheesy
Your Action of Not Showing Interest in Her.....Turned her to a Feminist ...
Deep Down she must have Really been Angry with You....

she must have been Wondering.....I'm i not Pretty enough for this guy to be sexually Attracted to me ?....and a Host of other Questions....

That Girl Hated you...You just dont know it.
RomanceRe: Man Dies In Rivers Hotel During Sex Romp With Lady After Taking Sex Enhancer by OvertheTop(m): 7:27pm On Feb 17, 2022
Kvvngkhalifa202:
Always men dying because of olosho


Abi you don ever hear say man die for
e matrimonial bed with wife because of sexual enhancement drugs

-Men Stop cheating
why Not.....Goggle it
RomanceRe: Man Dies In Rivers Hotel During Sex Romp With Lady After Taking Sex Enhancer by OvertheTop(m): 7:24pm On Feb 17, 2022
barinedan:
People are dying because they have refused to learn from the mistakes of others, if you check well that man may have a beautiful wife at home
what if he doesn't have a Wife ??
RomanceRe: Man Dies In Rivers Hotel During Sex Romp With Lady After Taking Sex Enhancer by OvertheTop(m): 6:05pm On Feb 17, 2022
Aydot351:
I have and will never ever use enhancement for sex, I exercise regularly and I'm naturally fit so why will i use drugs again. Nah waste of money honestly
wait till you are 50-55 yrs....
RomanceRe: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by OvertheTop(m): 4:54pm On Feb 16, 2022
Olayetan:
It’s pure responsibility that reduces that sex libido
Responsibilities at these Age Bracket:

Rent Payment : N300k-350k/Year
Pay School Fee: N400 k-500k/ Year (for 2 kids)
Monthly Food: about N600k / Year
Transport: about N300k/Year
Outings: N150k/Year
Family Welfare: N100/Year
Entertainment(dstv...etc): 80k/Year
Appliance Repair (gen, car, fridge,...etc.): 50k/Year

…..Among so many other Bills.....

and you are now thinking of Saving to:
Build a House....N50 Million
May Be Bay a New Car: 2.5Million
Buy Assests....

.......among others........


With all these Activities Above, implementation Thoughts and the Current Nigerian Economy.....

The Urge for SX will likely Reduce
CareerRe: Update On My Issue With My Boss. by OvertheTop(m): 3:19pm On Feb 16, 2022
chigoziri2403:
To be candid, your personal relationship with the MD was what saved you

In a work place , there are processes to report an erring superior

You might not be lucky next time,if your next boss also have a personal relationship with the MD.
EXACTLY!!
SportsRe: Italy Issues Global Warrant For Robinho After Rape Sentence by OvertheTop(m): 9:55am On Feb 16, 2022
Kingpele:
Robinho will hid in Brazil forever, this is why it is always good to embrace the ways of God's holiness, a sincere child of God is always confident, calm and easy going ,he has nothing to fear in this life, no matter the challenges and temptations ,depending on The wisdom of God ,he overcomes it all ,the ending path of psalm 23 says evenif I walk in the shadow of death i fear no evil,why,? because God is with me his rod and staff, they protect me ,if u fear God u will have nothing to fear
Guy, Even as innocent as Joseph was in the Bible, He was Roped and Implicated.....
Na only God's Grace Save am Eventually.....
RomanceRe: Five (5) Reasons You Should Quit Porn And Masturbation by OvertheTop(m): 6:21pm On Feb 15, 2022
OYENIYIJK:
Your mates dey f*ck fresh pu**y everyday, you dey there dey masturbate grin werey grin

Check my signature bro
May be...Money No dey naaa....
RomanceRe: Five (5) Reasons You Should Quit Porn And Masturbation by OvertheTop(m): 6:19pm On Feb 15, 2022
IamV:
You have probably read thousands of articles where you're being told that masturbation is "self care and self love",while porn is not harmful as long as you're moderate in your consumption of it contents.

You might have probably read "health news" where "medical experts" are of the view that masturbating moderately can help prevent prostate cancer and "sperm toxicity" in the body.

Now,I'm here to tell you that those are all lies to keep you wallowing in this destructive habit,that will affect your sexual life and well being,in the long run.

Below are five reasons you should quit such destructive habit before it becomes too late.

-1 BOOST IN YOUR ENERGY LEVEL ;
If there is any result that's consistent with guys who have quitted porn and masturbation in the past is the noticeable increase in their energy level.
Do you have an idea what that semen you fap away recklessly contains ?

Semens contains vitamin C, B12, ascorbic acid, calcium, citric acid, fructose, lactic acid, magnesium, zinc, potassium, sodium, fat and proteins.

Imagine for some seconds,you were losing those nutrients ,even moderately, for some days. It will certainly take it tolls on you,and you will be left lethargic and weak,both mentally and emotionally.

-2 BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE AND SELF ESTEEM

They're few things that send strong signals to the brain and is empowering as quitting an addiction, in general,and that's exactly what quitting porn and masturbation does to the brain and body.
The brain will certainly fight back when you're on a streak to quit this addictions,but the more resolute you become,the more powerful signals you send to your brain how you genuinely care for your health,and the brain have no choice than to adapt to the changes going on in your body.

-3 YOUR BECOME MORE ATTRACTIVE AND SEXY

After staying away from porn and masturbation,you will notice something great about yourself.
A brighter eyes,a deeper masculine voice and an oozing level of energy and better self image you have not experienced during your porn and masturbation era.
It's so natural, magnetic and powerful,that , not just the opposite sex will start noticing your energy and how attractive you have become,both genders will.

-4 YOU WILL BECOME MORE PRODUCTIVE AND FOCUS

Instead of wasting your time and energy fapping to some naked bodies,you will develop the mental fortitude to step out of your comfort zone ,and face your challenges.
You now have the energy and a better self image to face those challenges you were scared of ,in the past.

You now have the zeal to make every minute of your life count instead of beating your meat in from of some naked persons have sex.
Quitting porn and masturbation is a life changer,and you will be proud of yourself when you do.

-5 YOUR SEXUAL SOCIAL LIFE IMPROVES

One other thing you will notice when you quit porn and masturbation is that you will grow that desire to socialize with people, especially the opposite sex,instead of locking yourself in your room, watching porn and beating your meat to it.
You will notice that desire to mingle with strangers,to walk up to that person that might be intimidating to you in the past.
You literally become a free bird gifting everyone who comes across you your new found mojo and freedom.
Many couples have also reported better sex life after one or the both quitted masturbation and porn addiction.

In summary,quiiting porn and masturbation should be your priority if you still find yourself in that dungeon.
It will be one of the most important choices you will make in life.

There is a thread in nairaland, ;https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread,were you can join and begin your journey to quitting this destructive habits.
BUT some studies say.... if you don't SHOOT IT OUT often, You Stand a Higher chance of Prostrate Cancer at Old Age
RomanceRe: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by OvertheTop(m): 12:58pm On Feb 15, 2022
Bamzyriches451:
Damn!!
That's for SIMPle men that still wants to go into marriage
How Old are You?

if you are Up to 37 - 40 and U are Still Single and Still Stand Strongly with this your Opinion on NOT Getting Married....
then I will Believe u.

From Observation , Most Guys Stay this Because they are still Young.....
RomanceRe: Man Slaps His Girlfriend After He Caught Her With Another Man On Valentine's Day by OvertheTop(m): 12:27pm On Feb 15, 2022
ayindejimmy:
So if there is a cop around, what do you think will become of the guy?

Learn to control your anger b4 it gets you imprisoned. The crime here is the molestation.
what if is was the Lady that SLAPPED the guy, would you say This
RomanceRe: What's The One Gift Your Ex Gave You That You Still Have? by OvertheTop(m): 12:36pm On Feb 14, 2022
Mitsurugi:
No. She was shocked. The gifts were given to me in 2009. I still had them in 2021. Don't be impish.
ahhhhh.....That Means you are still Reaching out and communicating with her....

Odikwa Risky!! shocked
RomanceRe: How Will You, A Single Person, Spend Valentine’s Day? by OvertheTop(m): 11:21am On Feb 14, 2022
Easy5265:
You are killing yourself thinking you are enjoying. All of this is poison.
what should he be doing instead?
give us ideas....
CelebritiesRe: Omashola Shares First Photo Of His Son, Eyitemi, Who Clocks 31 Days by OvertheTop(m): 5:48pm On Feb 11, 2022
GreatTormentor:
Omashola is a delta guy from delta state, he named his son EYITEMI a Yoruba name, for those mkpurumiri addicts and cannibals that normally lump up south south with south east hope you can retrieve your brain from kanu Nnamudi the monkey ohamadike,
its Itshekiri.....
FoodRe: Why Do People Eat This Kind Of Egg by OvertheTop(m): 4:43pm On Feb 11, 2022
Ilamina:
I didn't go to montessori

I like my egg properly cooked
I heard only razz people like the properly done ones like me

I saw my VM Montessori friend eat this Yama Yama one
Sadly, eating excessive Yolk of Egg is dangerous to Health...…Colesterol
EducationRe: Heritage Ajibola: OAU Student Dies After Falling Into Septic Tank In Her Hostel by OvertheTop(m): 6:19pm On Feb 10, 2022
israelmao:
One wonders what is then great about OAU?You collect huge sum of money from students yet your service delivery is not commensurate with the fees paid.There's so much rot in the public education in Nigeria and that is why the private sector is cashing in on that through outrageous fees .That is why many private educational institutions offer paltry sum to graduates irrespective of the their educational qualifications.A star,a future mother and pride of her parents has ended up her life in her prime for needless and unnecessary danger that would've been forestalled.
Its OFF CAMPUS!!

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