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Kalatium:
That is a terrible experience.
Too bad you were used as a scape goat ad you said

However, the reason why everyone is against you is because you don't understand office politics.

You can't just be discussing your grievances to anyone when they are also not discussing theirs, from the story your complain was one sided. You were the only 1 upset that he didn't say it was from the boss.

There must have been other things you have been doing that is pissing them off apart from the money issue. Now you have learned to be careful.

Try to think this through in another perspective.

Why were you even bothered that he didn't say the money is from your boss ? He still have you guys the money nah. Had it been he didn't give the money at all, then it could have been a different case.

VULCAN:
Notice how this person completely absolves the adulterous woman and turns around to make it about men in general.

Many of these feminists have psychological issues that undiscerning men won't notice till they have entered their trap.

I advise men to look well because a lot of these girls out there are mentally unstable

Nwunyeodogwu:
All these people that are indirectly pressurizing me into losing this my virginity that I don’t want to lose

Bradford111:
She was thinking of allowing us to see on Sunday when I called her she even woke with a good morning text this morning and spoke very nicely to me yesterday

Bradford111:
She has fallen already is a pity

Bradford111:
What do you say she even acccepted I come pick her up from work and was asking you if I’m coming or not

HolyMan12:
Are you a virgin?

DaddyCK:

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Well, okay
Am not a female, I don't have sufficient knowledge about this.

I respect and accept your opinion.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Yea not too large. Her stature is ok like a model. But d protruding belly (that look like Princess of Wales own when she newly gave birth) nearly ruin everything.

But she a beauty queen not an average girl

Blackstan:
I'm 100% sure u have a big stomach as well..

AlphaTaikun:
@Purples25, Very well said.

You forgot to mention
@Mstravelindiva in your post so that she'll easily know the post was meant for her.

You are one of the few creative, mature, and intelligent young females that I've known in my 17 years here on NL, and this is the reason why I'm still following you and your topics on an older moniker of mine that I created in the 2000s. You largely spoke my thoughts about that boy (troll) who tried to derail this San Francisco travel thread.


Last but not least, I'm also certain those two "lovable" teenage boys in your house have been tamed and are no more stressing you out.*smirk*


Stay safe. Enjoy your weekend.




P.S.
@Mstravelindiva, the post from
@Purples25 is originally meant for you. She's also based in Abuja, so when you and your spouse come visiting from the U.S., your paths might cross.

If your travel thread and posts were meant to brag or show-off, it would NOT have made the front page. Some trolls are depressed so they take out their frustrations on others. He doesn't even realise that you are not a young gurl, but you are above age 40, and a Company
Executive who just loves to pictorially document her travels for the benefit of all!

Just ignore that boy (from the location in his profile, it shows he is
Ibo) and any derailer next time. Also hit the report button (near the like button) or let the mods on the Travel thread know about the troll. They will send him to "sleep" for derailing and insulting you.


Enjoy your weekend. Ciao.

kkins25:
AS for me, It's difficult oh, I'm working on myself 'spiritually'-not in the religious sense though- trying to heal and fix myself.

Not to repeat the story you've already told, I wonder, did any of that bad habit rob off on you? I'm the slow to anger type but when I get annoyed, the kind of words that leak out of my mouth scare the hell out of me. One day, I was in class teaching, a very naughty girl and her apprentice of a friend were distracting my class. I ordered her to leave(they were arts students anyway) but before she did she created a scene that got me annoyed. I uttered the words to a 15-16 year old girl, I think, "Your parents are just sending you to school for sending sake, if not, you're brain dead".

The whole class grew a bit uncomfortable even myself, my conscience didn't let me rest until I had apologized later that day, I called her and the friend to apologize. If I remember correctly, I apologized to her privately and also in front of the class. Hoping it ease the burden on my conscience. sometimes the words that come out of my mouth when I'm annoyed are almost prophetic. The girl got pregnant and hasn't been able to continue studies till this day.

Most times, i don't let the angered voice spill out but I wish I could do away with it.

TheSourcerer:
I’ll like to have you on WhatsApp though.
You have gone past this trauma now I hope?

TheSourcerer:
#hugsTight , I know the hurt I Truly do , Shame on those Adults making you a subject to be ridiculed, The IQ of the average Nigerian is 70 , so I can see this happening over and over again but hey it did make us stronger , it made us stand out , it made us who we are today , knowing full well the meaning of life and it’s paths which of course is a win .

TheSourcerer:
People are good , the thing is media focuses on the bad , as they say if 100 planes take off and 99 survives and 1 crashes , media would focus on the one failed flight , thing is protect your circle , your bubble and you will be alright , no matter where you are or the laws in place good people will always be good and bad people would be bad , hows your morning going so far , it’s rainy here .

TheSourcerer:
wow this is pretty intense, something similar ever happen?

TheSourcerer:
Morning Purple, hope you have a wonderful day