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Yamiriflathead:
Iniedo is the wicked one for bringing a fatherless child into the world and you're gravely wicked for supporting her act.
Are you a product of a failed home?

Okay so Ini Edo is wicked for bringing the child to the world...

But the main person insulting the baby who knows nothing about it is...erm...that person is not wicked...

I gbadun your sense of thinking sha. It's very convenient for troublemakers.

DarlingtonC:
Bros why? This is so sad.

Why abuse an innocent girl that did literally nothing to you?

Very sad, I also wonder why. Wicked people in a wicked world.

Interesting and terrifying.

No, because with one boss, I told her i might be leaving to further my education, and she tried to boot me out. She was angry and jealous. I hadn't even told her if I was serious about it or not, or when I wanted to leave.

So soon after, in the blink of an eye, madam don find reason for me to be going.

Flamemignon1:
Go work on your internalized misogyny love

Just went to check the meaning of 'internalized misogyny', and I am not about that at all.

I am just describing how most men think. I don't actually LIKE how most men think. She can do whatever, but this is the way the cookie crumbles, which offends me too, but what can I do about it.

That man will turn around, and say she cheats, and that's why he goes outside. From exposing her as a cheat, he'll be able to foist the title of a liar on her too. Perfectly covering up his secret gay life.

I'm just trying to warn her about giving him a loophole or excuse. Hope you understand now.

Don't you think the better option is to leave for good?

Whatever you do, don't cheat.

Men believe a woman should be tolerant of all and a woman cheating is the worst crime on earth. They don't take excuses for it, neither do they forgive it, if they forgive just thank God cuz that would be a miracle.

In fact, it is better to reveal all to some wise family members from both sides, in his presence not behind him, and seek for divorce - than for you to cheat. If you cheat he will turn everything on you as if he didn't push you to it.

Swissli:
Thank You, You Are One otf The Few Made ay Sensible Comment Regarding The Post

You are welcome.

Cute. Happy birthday to him. God bless your FAM.

Being required to be financially stable as a man is not a gold digging move. It's something that will help you and your family's wellbeing and also save you a lot of strife and stress.

If as a man, you don't see any good in your woman wanting you to be financially stable before marriage, you can go and do that hustle. Take the road of suffering for yourself and your family, if you feel that's a wise way to go about it.

Y'all say bleaching is bad but you treat fair or bleached girls like angels that fell from the sky.

Jeon:
Wordsfrombimpe.
Mrscarter.
Dorin27.
Purples25.
llamina.
mamagee3.
Sh4d0w.

Just for you.
Today is one more day of always,
One more step toward forever. 💖💖💖

Happy International Women's Day.

Thanks Jeon dear.

More strength, long life and prosperity to you!

fabiano09:
Women marry pple in jail without any house , when a woman loves you she will not care about anything , it’s as simple as that my brother

Its a lie, such a woman does not love, she actually doesn't care about the future of that man, herself and her unborn kids. She doesn't care about putting her burden on a struggling man's neck, that's what I see.

Why will a woman not care about anything? Not even the future of the man himself?

Someone is helping you think about your future, and you are angry.

After you put yourselves into a life of poverty plus your kids all in the name of proving that she loves you, you'll start blaming her for making your life hard.

When you start struggling to feed mama and pikin in one sweaty self con, you will turn on her and start blaming her.

Meanwhile it is you that refused to hear that y'all should move out of self con and you should achieve more before marrying.

You want to use them but you don't want them to use you.

Pells1:
You don't like friends exposing your past life abi that's why you support parternity fraud

Why should your friend be the one to expose your paternity fraud/past life? Then how is that person your friend? And why should I like my friend to do that? Why can't it be my enemy that would do that? How would my own friend whom I trust do that and I would be happy? Does it make sense to you?

Anyway, there was no paternity fraud here. That woman told her husband all her secrets before, and that saved her. But if her friend is truly her friend, I wonder why she is taking that authority to sneak and tell the woman's husband. What happened to giving advice?

Wicked soul.

I wonder why some friends are like this.

With friends like this, you don't need enemies.

Get the proof of the blackmail and show it to the police.

Your ex brainwashed you but you won't see it now. Your head will clear up probably after a year of separation from him. Abusive people... do terrible things to you...then keep you close to them by doing good deeds and saying so many kind and sweet words filled with romantic ideals. It's hard to see past gaslighting smoke most times.

That thing your ex does just kills it. Ignoring you while pregnant and coming back after it has been removed. I think he just intends to use his charm and your love for him to keep you around until he's done with you.

When a man is not serious, but wants you around, he'll keep giving you little hints to keep you hooked, to hold up your hope. Such a man will never take a bold step like meeting your parents - he would just be feeding you drops of kindness amid plenty wickedness, and guilt trip you with words when you try to get out of the situation.

I think your fiance is the real deal. He stepped up to his duty and commitment much faster, not mistreating you and then guilt tripping you for wanting better, like your ex did.

Why must you leave your own life and sit in your sons house, waiting to fight and claim rights with whatever woman he finally decides to be with?

Why do women like to use their son's wife to prove they have power. Like this, I see that emotionally, many women turn their kids to their spouses.

A child is not a reward meter. You do your actual duty when you take care of your child, it is a responsibility, not a favor. You shouldn't expect ills from such an action, but why would you want rewards? For a child YOU decided to have? I was scared to say all this as I have a child too but its actually the bitter truth.

Why do people take care of kids expecting a reward? It's like a child is not even viewed as a human who is truly loved - but as a bag of treasures that will yield profits after eighteen years or more.

It's good for kids to repay parents and show gratitude. But it's not owed. They didn't ask to be born.

Lol all of a sudden, not with your consent sef, you are here, and you grow up on this earth and suddenly you're owing these two people who you never asked to bring you here.


Your kid repaying your effort is a choice made out of gratitude (which is good), but not a debt owed.

peacefull:
Hello! purples25 chan!
How are you and your family?

I'm so sorry for very late reply.

I'm sooooo happy to hear that!!
You are always making me smile and happy!
I really appreciate you!!

This your words "We're one big happy family" is really heart warming.
I really really appreciate you!!

purples25 chan, maybe you are very busy now for taking care of baby and home etc.
But Please always take good care of yourself!

Thank you, I appreciate you too

Its really sad. I was held at a government owned hospital for hours until I was transferred to a private hospital. And I had paid fully for a bed space, antenatal and all in advance. These people value money more than lives. Then there's the problem of incompetence.

All the disgust memes are not enough to express my disgust.

Nothing gets me angrier than an eavesdropper or a spy.

The worst one is this guy that says he saw the lady's protruding belly and views her with disgust now. You're supposed to be filled with guilt and fear instead! What nobody gave you the right to see. You were wrong and still, you're claiming feelings.

Agbani Darego is beautiful, but because she is dark,they said she isn't. Nigerians are very colorist in nature.

peacefull:
Wooooowwww!! Congratulations purples25 chan!!
I'm sooooo happy for you!! ＼(*´∇｀*)／

Wishing you, your husband and your baby lifetime of love and happiness!!

I'm so sorry for very late reply and I asked you about your private life.
I'm so sorry and I really appreciate you!

Thank you so much!! I appreciate you!!
My grandchild and your baby are same age
I'm feeling like I have a one more grandchild in Nigeria
Really so happy!!

Thank you for all the good wishes! Yes, you have another grandchild in Nigeria!

We're one big happy family

True.

Can't make the mistake of posting the little one again. We live in a wicked world.

peacefull:
Thank you so much!! I appreciate you!!
Every time I'm sooooo happy to see you here!
(*´∇｀*)

purples25 chan, if I'm not misunderstood, you got married and have a baby now?
I'm very sorry if this my question is rude to you.

My kid got married and have a baby now.
My grandchild will be 2 months soon!

Hi peacefull

It's fine that you asked...

Yes I got married and I have a baby now. He's two months and a few days old.

So nice to know your kid got married too. Congratulations on being a grandma! Your grandchild will grow big and strong and be a blessing to all.

Kobojunkie:
Of course she does not deserve to be lied to but she should have bailed on him after discovering the lie and particularly after the public humiliation she endured even during the marriage ceremony. Her family no help there at all either.

Yeah she should leave.

What is bad is bad, deceiving someone to marry them, male or female, is bad. Let's call a spade a spade not supporting evil because of gender. We don't know the character of the girl nor her family, but certainly we know she was lied to and deceived. In that case the guy should be condemned for his action. Why not pick who agrees with you on your financial condition. If you want someone to suffer with you and they say no, its not right to deceive them into it.

Greedy or not, she doesn't deserve to be lied to. That's like saying a man deserves a woman who deceived him with surgery because he said he must marry a beautiful young woman.

peacefull:
Hello! purple25 chan

Happy New Year!!
May the new year bring you and your family love, joy and many many manyyyy happiness!!

Hey peacefull! I'm sorry I'm just seeing this. Today is the first day of February, but I hope I can still reply Happy new year to you too! Sorry for my late reply. I wish you and your family the best, all happiness and joy this new year!