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I really feel for you. Please don't give up, God will help you.

I support the woman's moral decisions.

Many men are agents of confusion. Today they are here dissing the O.P and saying her opinion is hypocritical. Tomorrow they will be the same people to come out and rate a woman by her vagina and body count.

You say a woman's vagina doesn't matter, but then you turn around to value her by/insult her for her body count.

Women should try as much as possible to make their body counts few. The same men saying it doesn't matter will claim this is all that matters tomorrow.

I like it in big chunks

Let jealousy be put on hold/in chains if possible. A lot of people are burning right now. When you see an average girl you run your mouth sweetly. When you see a fine girl with nothing to insult, almost perfect, it really upsets you. It burns you.

Then you get to the talk about morality. That's when morals come in handy.

If it's a dude with a penis they can help, but if it's someone with a vagina, they want to taste that vagina first. Life of a woman.

Sex sex sex.

Fair, thin and looking racially ambiguous is the beauty standard of the world.

But why did her mother do that?

pocohantas:
I would have thought they are immune from diseases or whatever judgement exists in the last days would exclude men.

I have no pity for them or their female counterparts. *jogs out of thread*

Don't mind them.

Guys should learn to be less carefree about sex, always test yourself and your partner before sex. Don't always be so eager to take someone to bed. You guys will be chasing a girl up and down, you have never even gone for one test to find out whether she is clean.

A girl would be telling you to wait, you would just be rushing to the bed. Take it easy, mba. Using all methods to remove the pant of a girl that you don't even know what's living in her vagina. At least you have put the thing there now. You are now a king. Make everybody rest.

Y'all think you're doing women with your selective reasoning where it's okay for you to go round, but a woman is a sinner if she does it.

Gragra Everytime. As if you can't live without it.

Deicide:
She actually looks 12. I don't know what the op was expecting.

Expecting her to remain boobless until she grows fully. Then suddenly breasts should just spring out. I think his type is the one that would be sleeping with underage girls when he feels that the kids are no longer small because they have boobs.

If the lawyer spread this picture, then that is the most unprofessional thing done so far.

I feel pained just looking at the picture and reading the news.

Might be someone who wanted her sexually by all means and had her through rape once they knew everyone would be out. Then killed her to cover the crime.

Or..

Robbers, either the thief was known by her, or she looked at the person's face. Then she was killed to cover the crime.

I think ladies, ESPECIALLY young ladies, should no longer ever be left alone at home, because now they are breaking into houses not to steal but just to have a forced taste of the young woman in the house. No young person especially ladies, should be left alone at home.

You don't know who is angry at your daughter for a stupid reason, or that relative, random man or neighbor that has been eyeing her but can't find any way to trap her or approach her and sleep with her.

Pls don't ever leave young ladies from kids age up to their late twenties alone. Especially the KIDS and TEENAGERS. All these nineteen, eighteen years. Someone's balls are already nearly bursting over them and they can't wait for you to leave the house so that they can get a go at her.

Shebi you smart? Shebi you get sense pass her? Get strength pass her.

Now you have shown that you have the strength of a man. Kindly flex your muscles to the jail cell.

Kingkum:
Thanks dear, the issue has been settle now. i appreciate your efforts to make peace between us.

Okay, I'm so glad that all is well.

Kingkum:
There is nothing to settle between me and that boy. I gave him a condition for peace to delete all his posts that relates to me but everything is still here till now. I can easily forgive for anything an individual did wrongly to me but i use to feel bad when someone looks down on me because of my condition and usually find it difficult to forgive such person.

He will delete everything, please forgive him.

Reminderz:
he has already realised his mistakes and apologize. he's very wrong. the fact that he later mentioned the person even when he was told not to do that is totally wrong. I'm sure he didn't mean it that way. just die down the matter... everything will be alright.

Amen. I hope they settle.

I don't know how someone will help you and you would be mocking the person. Imagine statements like:

'how can a deaf man help an able man'

'how can someone's dream be to enter an airplane...no be juju be that.'

'my WEIRD meeting with a nairalander'

What else does it look like but mockery. I refuse to see it as anything but mockery. You are upset that someone you would normally look down on extended help to you.

Hell, you even told people all about his farm! All about his debt! All about his life! Asking people look at this weird man....your WEIRD encounter with a nairalander.

He gave you money o, not that he did wrong towards you.

I want to say you are so ungrateful and go to hell! But I will not.

What I truly hate is for someone to lead you into something bad, only to completely flip and treat you like you are the corrupt person and start preaching to you ...... Meanwhile they are the ones that led you to that act, they are the ones that completely introduced you and put pressure on you to do it.

People are just weird. Why introduce me only to pull away to be preaching to me? Guess to them it's a game of who is holy and better, so they need that friend to corrupt so that when they change, they can have who to look down on, and say 'I'm better than this one.' Last last they are decieving themselves.

yeyedu:
Sister you are only prolonging the issue, truthfully men love and respect naturallity full stop

Men love and respect a fake ass that has treated her skin to look flawless and done make up. Otherwise they also love the 1% of naturally fine girls, leaving the remaining average 99% to languish in neglect.

Men run away from 100% natural women as they are usually not that fine.

Now being unable to let those women live in peace and dignity, that is a real issue.

Waynesteave:
first of all you get it all wrong.
Why would she use filter if she herself feels she's worthy or her looks is worthy
Why should a lady be using filter if she feels her natural looks is good enough.
She gave the room for insult and whatever follows, you know why? She started it, she insulted herself first and she downgraded herself firstly too.
I knw of babe who doesn't do make up and neither does she uses beauty camera or no filter and yet she is a banger!!!!

Despite all these, no one has the right to degrade her or judge her. Nothing gives anyone that right. Whatever she does with her face is her business, no one was given the position of the judge.

I hate it when there is no respect for privacy.

Also hate it when one is an opportunist, feeding on the imperfections of others. This is a human being born, raised and loved by someone, created in the womb just like you.

So you are okay with feeling alright with your own face while you downgrade her? You want her to feel bad to the extent that she should feel unworthy to use a big phone, you want her to be miserable about her face, for LIFE - while you go about feeling so confident about yourself.

Devil is probably not as wicked as we human beings are.

If this is true, then she is too entitled. Wtf even giving a time frame to take her back.

Instead of her to face the consequences of her actions.

MatrixCircle:
What of all the Politicians involved in Child marriage in Northern Nigeria.
Small girl that was already knacking.

So assuming the small girl was already knacking, it's good for him to knack her more? Or it makes it right for him to do so? Lol let's understand now.

Oh, they should tell him to wait, then arrest all politicians in Nigeria involved in child marriage, and handle all their court cases, before finally going to arrest him again?

Lol I don't really understand these your points. It seems that you are pained that he got punished.

A venomous tongue is worse than a sword. If someone who uses words as weapons attacks you, you will wish you were beaten instead.

I now understand that saying about it being better in the desert with no water or food, than being with a nag.

I like his spirit. To go back to school when you are old is a matter of courage. Mixing with immature brats and what not. You have to be tolerant, you have to endure, you still have to struggle not to be influenced by what is going on around you, because everyone has an opinion on what you should be doing with your life. He really tried.

It hurts when people think you're ugly. But we are fine to our creator though.

Congratulations, but you just made yourself a target. And people will really go for you. Especially female friends. Nobody will go after your destiny after such a great revelation like a fellow woman would. Speaking from experience. Letting the world know, especially fellow women, is a big mistake!

E better make you lower your pride and pretend you have someone but never go into details about your status, love life or relationship.

kaboninc:
Hmmmm....

So if we take a survey here on nairaland we will find married women who are respectable and in a very stable home, who are happy wanted creature that every man will not shun, calling her mummy this and that?

If your point is that we cannot find that here, then you can see a very good reason why more women are kicking against becoming baby Mama's. No woman wants to be a disgrace abeg.

If an unmarried woman has a child, she has really tried, because the stigma no be here.

kaboninc:
Haba, I have seen unmarried couples looking for children.

And besides when two people in a relationship have unprotected sex, are they not agreeing to whatever happens?

Why do you always think it's all about you the woman?

And I'm asking also, must every woman be married before having kids?

Yes, it's a must, to keep the woman respectable, and also for a stable home for the children.

It is a must to marry, else the woman becomes an unhappy unwanted creature that every man will shun, calling her baby mama. Without marriage, how can you boldly hold a man to child support? You think any woman wants to have a child while the father jumps around with different women? By that, wetin she gain? Abeg o.

kaboninc:
Na wa o.

Must I be married to get pregnant again?

If you don't think of that woman's future, she would think of it herself. If you are the woman, in her shoes, will you have a baby for a guy that hasn't married you, will you carry a big belly up and down while all enemies and friends laugh at you? Will you like to be the subject of all ridicule for YEARS?! Just imagine it was you.

Then tell me you will see the guy that put you through all this and you won't feel somehow.

Or all you think about is the product, you just see the woman as a vessel without feelings or a future. You don't care about the misery inflicted on her.