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Do people forgive or do people really mean the kind gestures?

People are evil, they can't mean well truly.

If the woman was the one taking all this, I'm sure you'll say 'its normal' or you'll 'just feel bad for her'. But now that it is a man, you can't even swallow. You totally hate marriage because the man is the one taking it.

toujurs:
You are getting it wrong, tbh. It's the ladies that starts the begging.

Most guys don't want to answer "mumu" anymore, so once the babe starts requesting for favour, the guy starts demanding for sex.

The problem is most girls don't have standard, it's the highest bidder they date, and not who is actually sincere, currently now, it's very easy to decieve a ladies, to get in-between her thighs. Of you own a good apartment and a god car. i mean a typical lady, not the valued women o! Who knows what they want, earn and pay for their bills independently.

When you are not hungry, trust me, no body can treat you, as hungry.

Okay, but if a woman is morally bankrupt, that is no excuse to go ahead and use her. Guys need to be strong too. Hold your money and your divk. It's not by force.

Let's try and rate it that, no excuse will stand for anyone for doing what you know is wrong on judgement day.

As for me, I'm beginning to believe that you guys say what suits your divk.

When it itches you you complain about girls not being cheap enough, giving you sex for free with no morals.

When dikky is under control or you want to marry, you start classifying those same girls, how they slept with you for nothing, or they slept with you for indomie.

Don't complain about morality while wanting free sex.
Don't talk of women being loose while encouraging free flowing fornication.

If you want a person who will be worth your investment, worth the forming to also give you free sex all around the clock, why not get a wife.

How can you complain of loose women, when you yourself contribute to that problem by wanting women to give themselves to you without any boundaries. If prostitutes make you pay for sex, then aren't women who give you free sex going to be looking lower than them? By the way, if you have a daughter, you can encourage her to do love with men in such a way that the men will not prove their worth or give money... Tell her to give her pussy for free nah...so that STILL the SAME MEN will turn around and call her cheerful giver. As na groundnut or leaf you take raise her and the other females you want free pussy from.

You guys really don't know what you want.
You want all girls to give you free pussy. None should ask for money. Meanwhile you are not going to marry them. What is now their gain? Nothing.

Ok, tomorrow you will still come and say they are all easily used for no money at all or for indomie.... Cuz they let you get it cheap.

What's wrong with una gan? When your d is up you want all girls to be cheerful hoes. When you want to get married it's time to have fun bashing all the ladies you smashed, then go for the 1% that miraculously escaped when your d was looking for whom to devour.

Na wa o.

Very classy.

Topic stolen from YouTube. Also, I expect most men to make those their useless comments here. Look at them, already streaming with demeaning comments, they are worse than women with loose tongues.

Where is the proof that their son indeed killed them? We were just told that he did, and everyone is jumping about.

You're not ugly. Know this and know peace.

Now that a man's deeds have been blown out in the open, now that there is no lie or excuse to cover it, men went back to blame the woman.

Just keep quiet, men. If it was a woman, you know you won't have all these excuses to make the wrong party look good. The condemnation would be much.

Why do you believe you are entitled to a 'share' of a girl you haven't married?

Why do you think you have any right to sleep with a loose girl, because she is loose?

I think you guys see yourselves as angels. Perhaps you don't see yourselves as human beings with repercussions, but
feel that nobody will judge you.

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Matix222:
Get a life bitch she’s not you lame ass

your words certainly show your class. She should definitely leave you. She's dating a boy. Confirmed.


Immature brat.

Temiel:
Okay o, Mr trickster.
You cannot talk to her one on one and explain things to her. You resorted to tricking her like you're Mr Devil that tricks people.
Okay na, whatever comes out of it, you orchestrated it.

If we are to look at it now, the seriousness he's talking about won't be more than having sex o.

She should have left him. He is not mature and he likes mind games. He doesn't respect or value her one bit.

Not supporting her but I hate when people shame others for their looks.

Stop watching the TV, don't be selfish. Take her outside and join her to play there. And you could also take a break and watch her.

Don't say you will cage her simply because you cannot put your own leisures aside and spend time with her outside.

I really hope what you are doing does not backfire on you. I hope she won't grow to be a recluse that everyone will find easy to manipulate and use, I pray hard it doesn't end like that.

You have a child, not a fridge, not a dog, or a cat. Take out your time for your own child, treat her nicely and watch her outside so no harm comes to her. Let her interact like a human that she is.

I like it when people mind their business. People often involve in what does not concern them. They don't feed one but they want to control that person.

Realwisdomlaw:
True

Once there is no dad, chaos erupts. It's hard to discipline a boy when there is no father figure present. A mother that successfully trains ESPECIALLY a boy, she must be a very tough woman.

UseItOrLoseIt:
Let me ask you one question sista

If you had all the career success, money and businesses to last 3 generations - would you consider yourself marriage material to men? I am not towing the misogynists or anti-feminist line, just asking

Yes, as these aforementioned are part of many guys preferences.

A lot of men respect women who can provide enough money and who they can take pride in (as per academic achievements).

Looks like a story created to please a certain audience, which is men. A story that aligns to their taste. A story of a woman that fell because she didn't accept them

Rejection and separation is very painful Sha. But still, we need to reason rationally and take heart, rather than comforting one's self with such stories.

Even if her actions seem pretty and wrong

NoToPile:
Solid points.

Whatever you say can and will be used against you.

I am of the opinion that colleagues at work should be work relationship only and information they need to know only.

Honestly, just work with them and laugh small .

Recent events have made me to understand one thing.

Don't entertain gossip. You should also refrain from gossiping. Also shun people who gossip. If they start to gossip, try your best not to contribute to the topics. What you say is what they report to that subject of their topic.

No matter how they push you, don't allow people you know casually to make you to start talking about yourself. They say you're reserved, yes, that's the best, because all these personal talks about people and yourself leads to unnecessary gossip and fights.

You can't trust your blood fully, not to talk of people that don't owe you any loyalty outside. If they betray you, as is their nature, what can you say to them? You just have to swallow it because like I said, they don't owe you anything.

In my opinion, people should just know you as a hello and bye bye person. So as to reduce damaging talks to you or about you. If there is need for good deeds you should participate, and anyone complaining about lack of friendship should gettat. There is no need forming unnecessary friendship with people who at the bottom of their hearts have no deep loyalty towards you. At the end of the day, such unnecessary closeness and sharing info is just killing yourself.

People outside should learn to be content with friendship based strictly on work and other helpful causes that do not involve anything personal. Especially when they know that they don't have a deep good intention, loyalty or connection with the person whose business they want to be all dipped into.

TOPCRUISE:
Many innocent men have married torn, overused cum saturated and leftover pussies.

Innocent men indeed. Of which 90% are not virgins. At best after rocking life they start pretending to be chaste and shaming some girls who they KNEW were promiscuous by acting like saints, when it doesn't erase the sex orgies they were having in the past, a record forever worse than the ladies they are trying to pretend to.

Abeg abeg, most men are not innocent, most are not sexually disciplined until they feel like having a reputable standing in society. And that is after pushing many girls to open for them in the name of relationship. They mostly form the innocence out of thin air when looking for a bride. Most of them don't even care to pretend but you guys create this ridiculous impression that they are innocent. In what universe please?

Omo, no dey call men innocent. Men are wild as the air. Don't ever call them innocent. Men live very free lives. Most of you take sex like nothing, until it's time to judge a woman.

Why can't people mind their business? Y'all say nothing is your business but you really try to control others low-key. Funny enough when it's about helping others with money or jobs or whatever else to improve the lifestyle of these students everyone will turn their faces. Very bad. You are only concerned with what people are using their private parts to do.

In real life men treat girls like this best. They experience favoritism and outings and enjoyment and romance and love from men more than the average, good, modest and plain woman can ever dream of. The romance with fine boys and also marriage to them is mostly enjoyed by these girls.

I got so used to seeing all this around me that when I met a man who TRULY didn't like it or WANT it - all these types of dressings and hoeish attitudes, I won't lie, I was shocked. I'm still partially shocked.

LagosInter:
Go oral on her?

Since when did that become a requirement?

You guys are just silly.

You no wan do anything for your woman. Everything pertaining to pleasing your woman makes no sense. But you will pull out your own member for oral.

Selfish creature.

Just let us know that men are superior to women, to always be free and do as they like.

Also, just let us know that certain people are the little gods over others.

Because that's what this judgement implies.

If you can't live your life and take your decisions without thinking of what society wants, then in one way or the other, without paying your bills, raising you or caring for you, the society somehow controls you.

Why didn't the guy come out and scatter everywhere and claim his child even when he was suffering. His excuse is that he was suffering abi?

Now after someone else has paid for Pampers and done all the trouble, he has grown balls to come and claim the child. Shior. He doesn't deserve to be given access to that child.

If he truly loved the child, even in his rags and inconvenience, he would have fought for that child and for the other man to know the truth! While that child was still in the mother's belly.

Love after seven years. Love after or because he made money now....why didn't he carry his child in his days of hardship. He is also at fault and shouldn't feel entitled.

Omo, the amount of angry nairaland males on this thread dey shock me o.

The vexing is on another level. All trying to say she's a hoe and not worth it. Didn't know guys could be this evil and demonic.

Some of us, our only dream is to be beautiful. And successful. And smart and wise.

But beautiful first. Because we crave pretty privilege.