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RomanceRe: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by purples25(f): 8:13am On Aug 17, 2021
FairlyUSEDpussy:
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Quick question!!!
R u decent??
R u a virgin??
After cancelling my comment? Then what right do you have to ask me anything? And why are you targeting me personally? Are you OK? Did I ask you anything about your genitals?

Today is not your first day of wild and rude behavior. I said the truth, deal with it. You guys are not decent. And for your women not to be decent either or virgins is a mirror image of you!

Stupid question! So if I am not decent or a virgin I don't deserve a right to close my legs again! Or to wait till my wedding night!

As una Don turn God now. Yes, I'll say it again you people are not decent and you keep pushing girls to open legs.

Virgin or not, I have said the truth! Hug transformer over it! Many girls will still be virgins if not for the insistence and pressure from men!

I already know I've made a mistake answering a rude person like you. Cancel my comment again, any rude thing at all, or continue mentioning me rudely, your ban is waiting.

This is my last reply to you.
RomanceRe: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by purples25(f): 12:24am On Aug 17, 2021
Veggieseedies:
Purples25, need I remind you that the moral decadence in the society starts with the female child.

Once they are done with sec. Sch., they stop greeting some men (guys) they used to after developing a bigger akara balls.

They start looking at "who's looking me", starts painting, rolling eyes etc. Nobody teaches them, just inherent in them. By the time they are only 25, they must have seen about 100 gbolas and can draw (in sizes) even when they close their eyes.

Now, a guy will meet them at 30 and just marry them like that? Without having a taste of the only thing she can offer even in marriage. God forbid


Despite my views on Nigerian girls, God has answered my prayers of a rare "decent" Nigerian girl. And to her alone, I will "Simp" like I'm simping.

Moral

Only value can make a man simp, but will see you as stupid (Even online) when you're shouting future is female up and down like a used and dumped sex tool. Personal stories triggers these noise, and their noise tells why they should be abandoned like used and dumped weeding hoe
Yes it takes two to tango. Women have their faults.

I still believe that a woman has a chance as long as she is alive.

She has a chance to mend her ways, and not be available to every Dvck and Harry that claims they want to marry, simply because she was used before.

Life provides an opportunity to turn around.

That opportunity only expires when death comes.

No man should reserve the right, or deny a woman the right to become a chaste woman if she so desires to repent.

But men believe they reserve the right to condemn.

So, many non virgin women must bow and open their legs or suffer abandonment.

And still that kind of arrangement of sex before marriage favours no woman. Not the who're or the virgin.

There is no certainty of marriage or safety net for a woman in such an agreement. Just a possibility of continuing a cycle of 'she's been used'.

Every mallam to his kettle.
RomanceRe: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by purples25(f): 11:34pm On Aug 16, 2021
No more decency. Look at the decent man that has principles, he does what he does not caring about being fooled or not, he is more about himself and his God.

Yet he is smart, he still has skills to know and keep an innocent and decent woman without touching her. But that sort of guy is rare.
RomanceRe: What's The Best Way End A Relationship Without Hurting Your Partner? by purples25(f): 2:59pm On Aug 15, 2021
Ethereum:
I can smell wisdom and intelligence from afar and this comment right here is one of those.

Even better, it's coming from a Lady.
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By the way, going through some histories of your posts/comment further solidifies my assertion.
Thank you. smiley
RomanceRe: What's The Best Way End A Relationship Without Hurting Your Partner? by purples25(f): 8:47am On Aug 15, 2021
People should be able meet face to face, hold hands and have a heartfelt, gentle talk.

"I'm sorry, but this isn't working. You've been good to me, but I have to go."

I wish the two people could sit down, gently cry together, get it all out, discuss how they are no longer going to be in contact, and give a good proper farewell, without malice.

But some partners will never let you end it in a respectable manner. They will insist on continuing with what is not working, until cheating happens. You know, so that they can be victims.

Or they want to be the ones to end it, in a disgraceful and violent way. Suddenly. Just disgrace you in front of a crowd. They don't want to say it's over, they want to act anyhow and you will go through trauma and run away by yourself. I don't know why people prefer this to a simple, mature talk. Silent tears and kind consolations and a quiet good bye in private, face to face, should do it.

But how many people are sane?
RomanceRe: 61-Year-Old American Grandmother Engaged To 24-Year-Old Boyfriend (Pictures) by purples25(f): 1:41pm On Aug 14, 2021
Hope she doesn't end up crying.
CelebritiesRe: Olayiwola Olatunji 'DJ Scoot 007' Killed His Pregnant Lover - Family Of Girl by purples25(f): 1:36pm On Aug 12, 2021
Looks like many people didn't read the story.

Ignoring the fact that he isolated her from her family until she was close to death.

Ignoring the fact that she set him up, gave him money and he was defrauding her.

Ignoring the fact that he was totally reliant on her, she got him a house and car as stated in the article.

Ignoring the fact that he ran away with her two phones.

Ignoring the fact that he prevented her from getting medical help until her family forcefully came through.

Guys just picked on the fetish aspect to make the whole speculation on her death stupid.

How on earth do guys keep strongly defending themselves with the one point about the 'fetish' yet the entire story is right there on the first page? It's like being deliberately blind.
RomanceRe: Ladies, Do You Wear Pant In Your Jeans ? by purples25(f): 11:09pm On Aug 10, 2021
Queenslander:
These days for me, the answer is no..
Although wearing underwear has become a daily habit for most of us, We have become so conditioned to wear them daily, right since our childhood days, no matter what. But, times have changed,. While it might get a little uncomfortable in the beginning, and that’s what stops most ladies from actually trying it out. But once you get the hang of it, you’ll see plenty of health benefits after a few weeks. Also, over time you will feel more comfortable.
And again it greatly reduces the risk of infections..
Cause Some underwears, especially the synthetic ones, prevent the air from flowing in, trapping excess moisture and microbes that further act as a breeding ground for infections, leading to UTI or yeast infections.
Yes. We need to breathe down there abeg.
RomanceRe: Ladies, Do You Wear Pant In Your Jeans ? by purples25(f): 4:40am On Aug 10, 2021
Don't like pants.
RomanceRe: We Had Sex 2 Months Ago And She Is 3 Months Pregnant Now by purples25(f): 3:00am On Aug 10, 2021
Lol wicked man. When she was with you she never knew that you will reject her even more than that guy rejected Jesus.

I wonder what you will do if you find out that is your child.
RomanceRe: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by purples25(f): 9:51pm On Aug 08, 2021
emmyN:
Increase to body count: Who's counting?

Less value to potential suitors: Subjective. Else you are insinuating a lady's value is in her vagina

STD/Risk of pregnancy: A condom can prevent that

Emotional hurt if it doesn't work out: Not in anyway connected to the sex, is it?

Sex is a mutually beneficial activity. If it would mess one up, then it should mess the other. But heck it doesn't mess anyone up.
Your opinion. I just don't see it that way. Men care a lot about where their future wives have been. A lot of carelessness happens in sexual relations resulting in pregnancy or stds. It just happens cuz people aren't too careful. You wouldn't understand what sex does to a woman's body.

Well, you have your view. I have mine. The same guys that say there is nothing in it are the same guys to turn around and say they aren't marrying a borehole. Good night from here.
RomanceRe: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by purples25(f): 8:03pm On Aug 08, 2021
emmyN:
How does having sex mess her up?
Increase to body count? Less value to potential suitors? Stds? Risk of pregnancy? Emotional hurt if it doesn't work out? Need I say more? These are things that gradually mess up someone for life.
RomanceRe: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by purples25(f): 10:35am On Aug 08, 2021
FairlyUSEDpussy:
Yeah.......
I agreed to him fucking her........
He sud play her manipulative idea ahead........

Btw........when has sex been source of heartbrake??
Well if you think having sex with everyone is the solution to all in life, and if you think screwing everyone over makes you wise, please go ahead.
RomanceRe: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by purples25(f): 9:19am On Aug 08, 2021
Why are people so destructive? If she says she does not want, why not just let her go? Some people said fvck her and break her heart, for what exactly? What did you gain? Must you have sex? Is it a crime for her to warn you against her nature and why she is unfit for dating? So because she said her mind, you want to mess her up. It's not by force.
RomanceRe: Some Guys Are A Big Disgrace by purples25(f): 6:08am On Aug 07, 2021
If you people don't have sex, you will die. It's a fact.
HealthRe: Getting Over Addictions.. by purples25(f): 12:43am On Aug 05, 2021
Drugs and Alcohol are evil. Hope you get out of this addiction someday.
EventsRe: Scots Couple Wed, Ditch Clothes And Invite Island Goat As Only Guest by purples25(f): 7:20pm On Aug 04, 2021
Better than a big wedding.
HealthRe: 15-Year-Old Brazilian Girl Dies While Having Sex With A Man In His Car by purples25(f): 1:35pm On Aug 03, 2021
lexy2014:
Yes it is like saying that "once every boy starts releasing sperm, he is ready to have sex". Once sex comes into d picture, d likelihood of pregnancy is high. Whether or not d individuals involved are ready for d responsibility that comes with it is another discussion entirely. U can have people who are in their 20s, 30s or 40s who are ready to have sex but aren't ready to marry or start a family. What say you?
The point is that though a boy brings out sperm, you see how he still plays like a child and can't really handle a baby not to talk of a family. Why do people now assume that a girl should be ready? That she starts ovulating and menstruating and she cooks at home does not mean she is ready to be sleeping with men.

Physchological trauma will be there. As a kid. There's vvf and ovarian cancer for people who had sex too early.
HealthRe: 15-Year-Old Brazilian Girl Dies While Having Sex With A Man In His Car by purples25(f): 12:29pm On Aug 03, 2021
lexy2014:
U made some sense up there
That's just like saying once every boy starts releasing sperm, he is ready to have sex, marry and have a family.
HealthRe: 15-Year-Old Brazilian Girl Dies While Having Sex With A Man In His Car by purples25(f): 11:25am On Aug 03, 2021
RIP to her. Hope you all can now see that a girl of 15 can look big. For all those doubting that a girl of 15 or 14 can look tall and whatever.

May God give her family the fortitude to bear the loss.
RomanceRe: This Is Why The Husbands Always Die First In Marriages!! by purples25(f):
legallyminded:
That's where you got it wrong. Why mention his spite towards most lecherous women as orchestrated as a result of poor upbringing from his mother. Carefully choose your words please.
Okay, I've heard. It is a sensitive thing, I could have avoided bringing it up.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Joke Sketch: If Nairaland Was A Real City... by purples25(op): 11:57pm On Aug 02, 2021
olu77:
You are highly creative.

You can put in more time to work on a softversion that is not free and we'll just follow the link to buy. It could be 200, 500,1k or more. Try it that is when you will realize how much an average nairaland appreciates creativity. Make sure you become rich through your talent. If you need any support I will be glad to.

Have fun dear the sky is your starting point
It's a wonderful idea, I'll start with it. Thanks.
RomanceRe: I'm Avoiding Him Because I Get Hot Whenever He Is Around Me by purples25(f): 11:42pm On Aug 02, 2021
tesuto1:
My dear,forget about your heart and follow your wetness
Don't follow any yeye wetness. If you don't want to cry.
RomanceRe: This Is Why The Husbands Always Die First In Marriages!! by purples25(f): 11:06pm On Aug 02, 2021
legallyminded:
You never made any sense here. You only insulted his mother. That's what you ladies do. You're never logical. You only use insults, manipulation and emotions to have your way.
Oga I didn't insult his mom. I only mentioned the long standing issue between him and his mom as the cause of his mindset towards women. I wouldn't go that far, as to insult her.

He has posted about his issues with her, and I was sad to see it. But that, and not with a clear judgement, is what he based his opinions of women on. That's all I'm saying.

My opinion though.
RomanceRe: This Is Why The Husbands Always Die First In Marriages!! by purples25(f):
TheGidRedpiller:
Of course i can't deny. What else do you want me to sayhuh
Although i'm 90% sure that if i was a feminist, you wouldn't open your second pvvssy to say all that rubbish. Peace.
You see. Most things said against males or females come from a place of hurt. Most of us are biased.

Peace to you too.
RomanceRe: This Is Why The Husbands Always Die First In Marriages!! by purples25(f): 9:17pm On Aug 02, 2021
TheGidRedpiller:
Its the full note of BULLCRAP!! grin
It's the truth.

If your mom was good to you, you wouldn't be here. Face it!

If she was raising you like a good mom, would you be here? Why else would you be here?

Angry at your mom or not? You can't deny!
RomanceRe: This Is Why The Husbands Always Die First In Marriages!! by purples25(f): 9:09pm On Aug 02, 2021
I think, if a redpiller should come forward, let it be someone without a history of a bad mother. Or a traumatized father. Someone from a stable home. Someone who met a good woman, one of those people who married who he wanted and got what sort of life he wanted.

grin

The truth is, no content man, who wasn't involved in a dysfunctional relationship with women, would be out saying this. It's 'hurt people' going all out to create issues over the gender that hurt them. There's no real reason except that they've been hurt again and again. This is why you simply cannot find a man who had a decent mother or wife saying all these, and in this manner.

Y'all are listening to someone whose mom hurt him with her lifestyle. Of course he's going to turn you against women. It's a personal agenda, and not for unbiased reasons, so this guy's preaching is not reliable.
RomanceRe: Why Are Most Nigerian Girls Almost Bald. (Picture) by purples25(f):
doggedfighter:
I am on low cut now because I'm tired of relaxers and my hair is too strong to comb.


All suggestions are welcomed.
I have strong hair like iron. Even broke a comb once. But it's because we didn't learn these things.

Grow the hair. Simple hacks to comb your natural hair include putting water inside it, douse it with water and then comb, it will be fine, soft. Use Shea butter on the hair, it really softens it.

Follow any natural hair guide on social media, for blacks. They really give simple and cheap tips.

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RomanceRe: Why Are Most Nigerian Girls Almost Bald. (Picture) by purples25(f): 10:46pm On Aug 01, 2021
doggedfighter:
What can people do . grin Most people's hair texture is too strong to manage.
I stopped using them. Let's find ways to manage our natural hair.

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