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mastermaestro:
Very annoying. Between a year and half, wedding plans should already be underway. Five years? He never wanted to marry her. The more reason he tried to terminate the pregnancy. Too bad the innocent girl lost her life in the hands of a deceiver who paraded himself as a lover.

A lot of years wasted for a woman is something no millions can replace. You have the right idea.

abimic:
Is there anyway it's decreed that such is wrong?

To me it's wrong. A woman's youth is valuable to her. Wasting those years is an expensive mistake for the woman.

Why date a woman for five years.

Blackfire:
Chai who do this boy like eeehhh...


Ok I beg unbehalf of women sorry o

If women admit all they have done, you guys call them shameless slu.ts. If they don't admit, you say they are hypocrites and liars.

Haba mana Women's wahala no dey finish for your eye.

Okay. Just go and subscribe to chronic undead on YouTube. Everyday he picks a video on a woman and insults her. He is your twin.

I read something yesterday about grown women being wicked to little girls because they take them as rivals.

What she did is quite bad.

Welcome back petyprincess.

She stayed with him when he was nothing. She invested her youth, birthed for him and by so doing sacrificed her body to bear his kids. She nurtured and cared for his offspring.

You can't buy back time. No millions will buy back her youth. She was his WIFE.

If any woman deserves any money from him, it would be his wife. Any blood sister. And his mother, if she was still alive.

Done.

I have the feeling that the leather bound book that no one can figure out is a Bible.

R. I. P sir..

I can never forget his name from reading about him again and again in secondary school. That aside, he was a great artist.

I think she could have called him privately and discussed this. No need to air anyone's dirty laundry and still not help them on top. After all we all have something that we don't want the public to see. This is unkind.

I didn't say she should wash or clean. No.

Call him aside and advice him. You don't disgrace a person to the world. Not when it is not a beating or something very harmful that needs exposure. If it was even something lethally harmful or abusive it would make sense. But not this. I don't support this.

They usually don't care.

R. I. P to her. I wish she'd lived. Though, if she had, I can bet he would've effed her raw again, then gone to play ball.

Ekaro ma! You are beautiful.

Righteousness2:
The Bible says, a Man shall not put on a woman's Garment neither should a woman put on a man's garment. All that do such are Abomination to GOD.
You don't need an angel, Prophet or seer to tell you what is men clothing or women clothing except you wanna Deceive yourself.

No Matter what we argue and say this or say that. We can only Deceive Ourselves, we cannot Deceive GOD. The Foolishness of GOD is wiser than the wisest of Men.
Everyone will stand before GOD.

Eternity is a very Serious Matter! It is a Personal Race so do not let anyone irrespective of title or Position make you miss your place in Eternity.

Nobody will answer or speak for you before GOD.

So Get the Word of GOD ( The Holy Bible) and stick to what it says not what Man thinks.

Heaven is Real
Hell is real
Don't play with your Eternity

But is it stated in the Bible that trousers are specifically a men's wear? There have been male and female trousers since the beginning of time. There are also those that wear skirts, e.g the Scottish men. Why would we now interpret, turn a blind eye to history, and say trousers are all for men? There have always been trousers for women. The trousers women wear are not actually made for men to wear.

peacefull:
purples25

How are you?
I hope you are good and stay in safe!!

I'm sorry. I think I'm too much disturbing your this topic again

Oh don't be sorry! I'm very glad you're asking about me.

I'm fine. Please stay safe too. Hugs!

Introducing : Wounds that should never be opened.

I don't even like to look at anyone as ugly though. I know how it feels.

My mom wouldn't let us eat garri anyhow. Sometimes she would hide it too, or not buy it. I think that was a good decision. I can look at other things most of the time without wanting garri. She also did that with sweets, minerals and chocolate.... Though I have gone back to chocolate/sweets on my own...

Maybe the garri rationing was because at least two of us have eye problems. But I don't usually notice side effects from eating garri.

effort1:
Why do some of you ladies here think everyone on nairaland is a small boy?

What birthed that funny idea? Do you mind sharing?

Sorry if that part offended you. But I feel people should understand that characters and problems are as wide and diverse as all the beaches of sand on this earth.

Some people's problems aren't really about money. That's why sometimes the rich man's wife sleeps around, because he really doesn't give a shit about her. He gives her everything, but as a human being, she needs who to talk to, make her laugh, play with her. Some men will never do that, and soon you will hear of cheating.

Caring for me and really being present in my life is very important to me. From there is where true concern will show. From there is where we will both give our last 500 for each other in any crisis no matter how broke we are.

The fact that you don't seem to get that is what made me think maybe you've not been around here for long. But again, I apologize for that assumption.

effort1:
Lolz. You can't be serious with all these. Stop whining me.

Maybe you're too young to understand. You probably haven't seen where there is money but your partner doesn't give a hoot about you.

NeeKlaus:
Purples25, I feel you would just be acting deceptive or dishonestly if you say "Money is not a major factor to win a woman's affection".

Reality check, we are still in Nigeria and you and I know how easily a guy's financial buoyancy sways a woman's attention in this country.

However, I won't commit the offence of Generalization; not all Nigerian women are like that. There are still some that don't care about the fatness of your wallet. Whether you are in this category or not, I do not know.

But at least 80% of women in Nigeria between the ages of 18-40 (the dating age) would always prefer a wealthy man to a broke man firstly, before looking at other factors like "love, trust, character" and all those other things that follow.

You know this.
It might not necessarily apply to you, but you know this.

Maybe tomorrow I'll try to explain some things. But if I say some things... They would sound very strange to everyone.

Money matters, not denying that. Guys just need to stop thinking its the one and only.

eeithis:
who no won sex?

Everyone wants it. But let it be the last thing. Cuz it distracts people from the real purpose in the relationship.

effort1:
Then, what's your idea of love and affection, if you don't mind?

Showing concern and care by calling, texting and seeing regularly. Being an emotional support in good and bad times. Even if you don't have money, be there physically every step of the way.

Show seriousness by making plans for the future together. That's a start.

Ishilove:
Are there really women who can be bound by

Sharwarma- 500/1000
Credit- 500
Indomie and eggs- 450

??

Exactly!

Just throwing their accusations back o. I don't know where they see these people. Cuz they always refer to this famous sharwama and indomie and egg. I'm just Freeing our ladies.

BTW I am just seeing this whole thing now... I was like fifty something mentions, who did I kill.. Who put this topic on front page?

Just laughing here I swear

effort1:
You mean love and affection like a shopping trip to Dubai?

.

Nope.

Hahahahahahahaha....

aynerodcirus:
That ain’t even what he meant. Why not understand the statement before making comments.

I don't even know why I started drinking panadol over this...

Just Letting the whole thing be abeg. Some people quoting me dont understand me either.

Adeebiwa09:
Cos we allowed it and made it so. If we no fear and say no, especially if the girls most say no the guys will comply but when she is threatened with breakup and sleeping around she complies and eventually the guy goes and the cycle repeat. My sister remember that song if you love me you go wait for me. Anyone that can't or won't wait don't love you

Solid points.

They threaten with breakup and sleeping around and then turn around to start making excuses later.

Hushpuppy20:
The first question I will ask you when I wanted to do and you say no is are you a virgin !!! That question alone I know the answer before you tell me the answer then devil will now help you to say No then I will now be wondering whether you wan dey whine my state abi omo ode lon pemi nigboro aye

I know. And if she says she is not a virgin then that is the key to open legs now.

I just can't see the logic in this theory. Except dooming non virgins to a life of promiscuity.