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You browse women's pictures and follow such women but you want to put yourself in the background and claim innocence. You want to form victim and say the pictures are just coming to you.

WHAT YOU FOLLOW,

FOLLOWS YOU BACK.

I'm so sorry this happened to you. And you seem to have a good heart. Don't let this change you to a bad person.

Removing at two months old is deadly. Don't have an abortion.

Congratulations and happy married life.

Coke. But I avoid it a lot.

After doing the wrong things. They all turn around and try to make themselves look better and holier than those who they did worse than.

They always turn around. Everybody does. So don't be fooled. Stick to good habits. Don't let them put you in a pit, after some years they turn holy and leave you in a mess!

To hell with anyone who tells you to expose your body.

I made draw soup this evening.

LilMissFavvy:
As for me I don't like it. I wouldn't want anyone to kiss my child in the mouth, neither would I kiss my child in the mouth. Deep motherly hugs and caring for my child is enough for me to show affection. For peace to reign you have to wait till your wife gets tired of kissing the child, or you keep telling her you don't like it.

I don't like it. Its like giving the child his or her first deep kisses without their consent. Why full on the mouth like a lover? Sticking your whole lips on the child's lips, maybe even exchanging saliva, deep kisses like an adult. I don't like it. They should just peck the child, even if it is the mother.

You look good...I want to come over there ooo. Leave naija.

Amotolongbo:
another question is if he didn’t have another womæn he was servicing where he sojourned

In the article it is stated that he got a Tanzanian lover and even had a child with her, during the long period when he left home. His Tanzanian lover has not kept contact with him so that he could see his child.

He abandoned his family to go and enjoy life, yet thinks that the wives he left to suffer on their own and raise kids alone should be waiting for him. Maybe he is a narcissist.

He didn't care for his family as his allotted duty. But he wanted to enjoy them anytime he strolled back in.

I don't know sef, he thought he is a man and has the magical ability to roam around like an animal and come back and meet the women he kept there. No shame. That's true for men, Africa makes it a possibility, they feel they can go round and do this thing. But in his case, he overstepped, overdid, believed in his 'man magic' too much, that it backfired on him.

This is the perfect wedding.

I think what should be most important is those people who can lift you up when you're down.

What is the gain if, after everything, there's no one to care when you are sick or weak, or no one to help when you are broke? Classy does not automatically mean caring.

What we need most in life is those who can help us and whom we can also help in return, to build each other up together.

The woman always gets the harsher punishment for any sort of immorality. Or, most women do. The women will be the ones to be dumped in relationships and divorced in marriage, but if the cheating is from the man's end, the woman cannot beat him, rather she is advised to pet him and forgive him, even be careful how she handles the issue.

This woman cheated,her man flogged her. In another thread, men even wanted a cheating man to marry his side chic because the wife dared to cry out in pain, as a human being that she is.

More reason why women should not give in to guys for anything bad. Someone once said "If nobody pities you, at least pity yourself."

Jeon:
You are beautiful, I love your nose..

Thank you.

bukatyne:
Lovely story.

Have you thought of writing novels/columns/blogging or kids' illustrated books or being a cartoonist?

I have written children's books, for other people. I'm still planning mine.

bukatyne:
Awwwww

Just seeing this, Thanks a lot of the mention

Uwc dear

Taking the girl to cook and clean for her. Of course she does not believe that the girl has a say. She will make that girl her new emotional punching bag, house help and husband. The girl won't be allowed to go out and develop her life, since mommy needs company and compensation. I speak from some where, don't quote me on this.

Can you see she did not drag a boy instead? She needs a pliable house help and she knows the son can refuse to be that because he is a man. Mothers often believe their daughters are the dustbins of the family. A lot of times, women just can't treat other women right. They demand for rights from men, but they don't think their fellow women actually deserve it.

Believe me, that girl is struggling because this woman will over work her, treats her without respect and will turn her to a personal cook. Mommy is tired of married life, she doesn't want to cook again. In a house with the two of them, who do you really think will do the house chores? Mommy? No, this girl is going to be her personal maid. And if she is with the father, yes, she will work, but the father will not be as picky and troublesome as the mother. She would not be required to keep every cupboard and crevice shiny until she is thirty five. Mark my words, this woman, if she keeps her, will block her from school, cause trouble in marriage, eventually this girl will serve her until she is near forty. Mark my words.

Laeroy:
Right now, the goal is to be chubby....lol

Maybe surgery will help a little I think..

Surgery goes too far for that, to me. I think eating things that will help you gain weight would be better. But it's your choice oh.

Laeroy:
Are you sure 70% of Nigerians want this?
I want to be chubby ooo, Make my neck full small with a little fat around my thigjs and bombom, Make I change look small na...lol

I assure you, a lot of us do. Almost every woman I've come across is looking at the next woman's belle and fat, and very soon the talk is about how we are fat, and we need to reduce the stomach fat, and we should take this and that to lose weight.

But then, I've been slimmer and people were praying for me to add. When I added. I didn't like it. But it's good to have a little chubbiness. You'll get it, just enjoy and eat what you like.

We are all beautiful o, fat or slim, all acceptable. For me PERSONALLY, I accept everyone, I support all my girls! Celebs, friends, whatever. I find everyone fine, I just have certain things I want for myself.

Freelane33:
If you loose weight wetin me I go come loose ?? Bone ??

Lol

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Laeroy:
This life sef, when me I'm fighting to add some weight, been slim all my life even after two children, the only time get a little chubby is when I'm pregnant, afterwards na slim again.

In my family we get fat after kids. I want your luck o, no fat after kids. But my side, if you don't watch it, you will become a balloon very fast.

Well, I think you have a gift that 70% of Nigerian women want. But if you still want to be a little chubby, that's fine dear.

Linda looks lovely.

Happy birthday.

You are not ugly. He's just trying to hurt you.

Good one, Eniola. I also want to loose some weight like you too.

placeofallure:
I agree with you but do you know some men can be stubborn?

A certain guy keeps changing his numbers to chat me up. I counted about 5 or so. Each time I know it's him, I block his ass. He will still call, I know he will. I don't know how he got the number in the first place and I politely told him I'm married but that won't deter him.

As for OP, if you are not comfortable with it tell her to stop. How he got her number matters too.

The same for me. I have politely told him to stop asking me to come around. I asked him politely because he is crazily relentless. He has been coming back every year for some years now. New number every time. Always I say no because I know he doesn't have any plan for me.

I have someone who is so focused on me. I wonder why a Bleep boy thinks I will leave that person and follow him. One day my guy checked my phone and I said 'check everything, that is the guy that always asks me to come whenever his flight brings him to Abuja.' I showed him everything, revealed all.

I don't think OP should suspect his gf. I do that too, I am only trying to show that I am not hiding anything. So what would make op satisfied? She's baring it all now, guys said she isn't faithful. If she hides too or doesn't say anything, she's still bad.

This is a clear case of honesty. What guys are saying about that girl is unfair. Everything they think is biased and twisted. Always thinking evil of women. Very bad!

pocohantas:
Shebi na una tell them say they age like wine. As if no be their fellow men dey use muscle jack woman, pin am for wall or C-Ronaldo wey carry abs full body, e get two head? Even the ones with bellies like 6 months pregnancies would open their mouths waaa and be shaming women. Women are tasked with child bearing and all the hormones that come with it. What is a man's excuse for going out of shape? Nonsense and ingredients.

Lol that's why despite all the bashing here, you will never see the pictures of the offenders on their profiles. Especially the men.

They are too busy removing the specks from women's eyes. While forgetting the log is in theirs.

pocohantas:
When you see Nlders insulting grown female celebrities, you will think all these women with pot bellies, christian mother arms and non-existent necks are not their mothers, aunties, wives and sisters. Mtcheeew

This is the same thought that came to me yesterday. The women at home are not all super models. But they would be so picky and choosy outside their homes.

Tickles001:
You are really good. Wish you would do something similar for me without charging me
Or at least not charge me upfront.

Mr Tickles! Thank you. I love anything art, but I need money

pocohantas:
There should be nothing wrong with her to any normal human being. Most Nigerians are not normal.

I can't just fathom their issues. If she looks too 'fixed' they would call her plastic. If she is natural or has some natural features, na another insult.

I used to think being a celebrity would be great but they go through too much in the hands of some sadists.