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ityP:
I don't have a problem with evening newspapers. I just want us to not lie to ourselves. Pocohantas made it seem as if evening newspapers find the best of men. They don't. Statistics and biology don't agree. Young, vibrant women do. This is the truth. And as Jesus said, the truth WILL set us free

Pocohantas has a point.
You have a point.
I have a point too.

You don't have to understand everyone's point of view, but you can respect them and yourself enough to read and pass.



Beauty for men lies in the eyes of the beholder.

Quality for women also lies in the eyes of the beholder.


Every woman has the right to decide what quality means to her because she will be the one to live with him, not anyone else.


Let the beholders choose their partners and leave them ALONE.

ityP:
Nobody loves me NOW. Thats why I'm focused on being better and bigger and richer. When I achieve these, I will land the love of ANY lady I desire. You don't have that luxury

Money can't buy love.

Have you learnt nothing?




Anyway, join the statistics, it's your problem, not mine.

ityP:
The truth is bitter

Drink water, you'll be fine las las


Just leave people to find love wherever they see it, and for how long they want it.


If they divorce and find love again, e no concern you, at least you're not feeding them.



Most women are suffering in their marriages because they didn't set boundaries before marriage, but you won't understand, would you?


Women like Kemi who won't take nonsense took their time to find their type, now you're hating.



Please just face front abeg.

ityP:
Stop comforting some people abeg. A lady in her 40s would not meet a quality man. She'd meet divorced men, unaccomplished men, rejected men, widowed men, etc. The phrase man na man is a phrase older ladies use to comfort themselves when they finally land a man

Hahahahahahahahhahahaha

Jealousy jealousy.

ityP:
Any man can land an evening newspaper. Just show commitment and be serious about marrying her, and thats it.

You're just jealous because nobody loves you.


Calm down and maybe you will be able to make a meaningful connection with someone who will stay with you.

e316:
Those referring to Oscar as a hungry Buffon who is looking for a meal ticket do not know him. Is research that difficult?

The man made it difficult for basic men to find him, that's why.

nickyvil:
Normally, I don't engage in this kind of discussion but for you to say "Women of good quality and standing would find worthy men, whether as morning, afternoon or evening newspapers. " shows you no nothing, I would ignore this but for you to try to shame Regina's decisions says it all, Regina's choice is far better than this and for your info, she already secured her future and the future of her kid/kids, now go back to study the man in question with less than 5k follower on Instagram and with no real Bio, you call that man of steel, LOL, the man only want fame through Adetiba because all He does is to post about her all the time.

Wow, he chose to have quality followers.

Simi is following him.



Can you see?


Is it not better to have few quality followers than allow every dross of society around you in the name of popularity?


He's obviously on another level and still Kemi could command his attention!


Now, that's impressive!

pocohantas:
Women of good quality and standing would find worthy men, whether as morning, afternoon or evening newspapers.

The men you meet in your 20s, would be very different from the ones you meet in your 30s, provided you work on yourself and blend into the right crowd.

That is why I hate when some ladies start pity parties. There are men you appeal to. I know redpillers would hate this, but there are men who love evening newspapers. As in, that is their spec.

Now look at her fiancé, tell me which of these alfa males can measure up to him. I dare say a young girl in her 20s cannot get this guy. Where una wan take meet? For Coldstone? Wetin una go dey discuss? This is not some misdirected ancestor like Ned.

Ladies should focus on the men that matter. The men doing the marrying are not in the Romance section ranting every other day. Don’t allow these small boys that dare not put on generator before 7pm get to you.

Congrats to her…

Wow.

A woman who works on herself will meet a quality man whether at 30, 40, 50 or even later.


The point is to continue self development regardless of marital status.

Tabithazen:
You be baby mama.

Take it easy on her.


She's only trying to figure things out for herself.


Besides, every woman na baby mama unless you no wan born.

Luvinghrt4:
Pls, someone help me. What should I do with my life? I'm two months pregnant and I'm going through depression. It would have been peaceful if I just die, but what happened to my 8 yrs old son?
My husband is addicted to betting and I've done everything to stop him, all to no avail.
Sometimes, I've followed him to betting shop, some times, I come in the morning still come back to meet him in the evening at the same spot. standing from morning to evening, looking tired, stressed, hungry but he wouldn't leave until he finished the whole money he had.

I wish I'm fianancially ok, so, I can ignored him, but right now, I am not.

When I had money, I was taking care of everything without complaining. I even place him on 20k monthly salary for several months from the money I made from my business when he had nothing to do. Yet, he was gambling with it and was always apologiesing.
I have been advising him, praying with him, but it seems he has decided not to change.
I have finally discovered that he's heartless, he don't care about us.
Nothing is pushing him into gambling, he's just greedy.

He can use his last Money to gamble and return home to meet us hungry with nothing.
He uses mine as well, but I wasn't paying attention.
In October last yr, he made me loan my business capital to his elderst bro who was processing Visa. he knew, that money was all we had. His brother bridge the agreement and started refunding installmentally. That was how I lost my capital. We had nothing, so we were solely depending on what he was refunding. ( My business capital) I couldn't talk, because I don't want to sound disrespectful to his elderst bro.

Since I met my husband, he had never had a reasonable job and I have been there for him. toward last year ending, someone I helped long time ago called me for a job, i declined and recommend my husband instead. He got the job.
Since, he started earning 80k - 90k salary in a month, his attitude change. He prefer to spend the whole day in betting shop. But once the whole money finishes, he will return with apology and behaving well.
Some days, we go to bed without food. I can't believe since 3days, we've not eating any meaningful food in this house. he doesn't care because he eats from restaurant.

Please,
I need a job or little capital to continue my business pls. if I'm going to have this baby in 7 months time, then, I need to fianancially equipment myself, otherwise, we will suffer. I need to save money and get an accomodation. I need to move out of this house before I suffocate to death.
Pls, someone help me or what should I do to relive myself of the pain I'm going through.
Someone advice me please

Go back to your family please, or wherever you were before marrying him.




Then start your life from there.

Lamanii22:
Hello guys, this may be a bit lengthy, please bear with me... thank you





my mother is always right about everything,could it be her 6th sense or something more.... so many times I would be like "mom I don't agree with you" and later i'd be like "omoor mummy you're right ooo".... I am someone who is very plain and I easily trust people, so there's guy who offered to teach me pastries for free, he even offered to teach me at my own home... I was like what a lovely gesture, he is the one that will buy ingredients, he would buy me ice cream, yoghurt and different things..... my mom was like "does he want to marry me" I'm like "he is just being nice that's all"...


So one day he came to tell us that they are doing freezer promo in his area and that he has already started the payment on my behalf.... cause one can pay in installment, he showed me everything, he said he has almost finished the payment and that the balance is remaining 20k and we needed freezer so badly that time cause I sell tasty time and drinks.... I was like "what a great opportunity"... I then told my mom happily about... my mom just said "o fe gba e ni" (he wants to scam you), I told her no way that someone that is teaching me kini for free, I sha collected the money from my mom and then gave it to this guy, he even showed me the receipt and the freezer via video call and all...... guys it's been two years I didn't see freezer nor my mom's 20k... He still calls me and keeps promising he would return the money, some part of me still believes he would return the money cause if you see this person eehn, he is really nice, he would help me carry tasty time from a very far distance to my house..... there was this day I lost my market money and he gave it back to me...


I just don't understand why he lied to me, or maybe he needed my money for something or he just did all that to gain my trust, my mom would always say she warned me but I didn't listen..... I have always wanted to prove my mom wrong but she's right all the time.....


Some other occasions like that too but this one....

Please get closer to your Mom.


And don't take any freebies from any Nigerian male. Nuff said.

NotoriousBiggyS:
My elder brother who is married have a side chik who is from anambra state. I have so much love for my elder brother wife because she's such a good woman. My brother use to call this gold digging anambra girl so much that he tells her everything going on in his nuclear family affairs even in my present I feel jealous about that because I like his wife so much that I feel like telling the wife about this. Will it be bad or good idea if I expose this mothe*fuc*King gold digger of a girl to my brother wife before she breaks her home?

Expose it. Expose it right now.

Coolliot:
Always igbo ladies.

Na wah

emotionalwoman:
Thank you for your responses.

I think it's best we remain apart because I'm at peace where I am.
I guess it's loneliness and the fear of taking care of two kids all by myself that was making me reconsider our arrangement.

I'm at peace with myself, I don't hate him but I can not forget how toxic it's been.
I really do hope we maintain being cordial, for the sake of our kids.

I honestly do love him but the truth is we are truly incompatible and love is just not enough.

Our marriage of seven years has scarred me emotionally and mentally.
I actually do not want to be entangled with anyone anymore, I just want to focus on me and my kids.
I guess because I don't talk much about it or I'm always jovial, he still doesn't understand.


Thank you all.

Hmmmm, the final decision lies with you.

Much as I'm elated to read that you want to stay put. Please remember that it's okay to second-guess yourself once in a while.



Don't be strong just for the fun of it.


Also keep in mind that beating you up while pregnant is a horrible crime that you and your family should have followed up with. At least let him get some resetting from police men.



It looks like time and hormones have healed your wounds and you have forgotten each punch that put you and your unborn baby within an inch of your delicate lives.



KEEP YOUR DISTANCE.

Pareyz:
Over the years, i had always admired Jane, a girl that lives in my neighborhood. She's extremely beautiful, the kind of girl I liked and wanted in my life. Any time I saw her, my heart would start to race, and my lips would begin to quiver- i just couldn't summon the courage to
step up to her and tell her how I felt about her.

However, in the last quarter of 2021, i decided to man up and make an advance on her. She didn't hesitate to accept to go into a relationship with me and i became very happy. It was like a dream come true.

Two Months into our relationship, i discovered that she had sex with my cousin long before I met her. A boy that I'm 7 years older than. When i asked her about it, she admitted to have had sex with him. This is a girl i love so much.

Right now I'm totally broken, I don't know what to do. I'm just thinking of breaking up with her.

Please leave this girl alone.



And why did she say yes to you sef.

Mariangeles:
If you see am that way, no vex.

All clear.

Where are these girls picking these ignorant boys from?




Na wah o

Mariangeles:
Why are you being so sensitive over a simple comment? Na wah o!

Yup, it looks like triangulation to me.






Let's not derail somebody's thread.

Mariangeles:
If only it were that easy to let go.

@Amazingbaby, is your husband and marriage worth fighting for? Only you can tell.

Please and please,


I made a comment, make your own abeg


Don't put me in a triangle I didn't sign up for.

Mariangeles:
Why do you think so?
I felt her pain, even though there were a lot of information she left out.

A hurt woman will tell how sad she is, not about fighting.

If indeed she is a woman in this situation, she should just face front.




Omo, who wants to get stuck with someone like this.

[quote author=Amazingbaby post=109950140][/quote]If you're really a woman, face front and live your life.

He walked out because he doesn't respect you.

Amazingbaby:
It is kind of surreal

My husband took his bag and left the house after an argument and have been gone for over a week now, trouble started when he came back and told me he wanted to hire a particular girl to work with him,this girl was working with his friend before he closed up.he told me his friend beg him to hire the girl.
Earlier in the week my husband told me he was going for a convention,I checked his phone and saw when this particular girl was asking him when he will be leaving the house at 7:44 in the morning,I didn't talk or made a fuss about it,so when he told me he wanted to employ this girl my suspicion grew,I asked him how does he want to pay her he told me the lady said she would work for free.
I started laughing,which girl on this island would want to work for free if you don't have anything to do with her.i started bombarding him with questions;
If the girl is your friend's employee how did she know about your business?My husband said he has not talked to the lady since last year but he never knew I saw the messages.

I told him to give me his phone only to see that he has been exchanging Whatsapp calls and phone calls with her.i got angry and was asking him questions he took his bag and left that night.

That was when I confronted him about the messages I saw the week before only for him to say he doesn't owe me any explanation.

I am deeply hurt that he would want to employ a person he has a secret relationship with and has the mind to tell me about it.he deletes any conversation he has with this lady,he hides his phone and would never pick a call in my presents.

Pls how do you think I should handle this,I told him the only way I would ever listen to him is if he tell me where he went with that lady on that Saturday. Calling her sounds desperate and I don't like fighting my fellow lady because of a man.your opinion pls

This story is not written by a woman.

Hmm,

Food for thought, players get substitutes, keepers get substitutes but referees don't get subs for almost two hours.


Not fair.

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