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richmond500:

I do things my own way actually and I define what morals is by my self.

What do u want me do to keep body and soul togeda as I never marry?

Self control.
That's what to do and have.

richmond500:
My morals won't let me do it, moreover I am a demisexual, so I dont think I will do anything with a married woman

Calm down.
If you engage in premarital sex(with any lady,whether married or single) you have no morals.

O Lord, I'm praying. Let nothing happen to this girl because she seeketh a good course to earn a decent living.

Father, Please let her be found alive and in one piece. In Jesus name.. Ha!

Lol.. in 2021, people can really be funny.
You think any supernatural being answers prayers(your wishes and thoughts),you are kidding me.

The girl was raped and murdered.
How far God and your prayer na?

STOP MEETING STRANGERS, ESPECIALLY FROM SOCIAL MEDIA..
They say NO.They will start defending rubbish and stupidity.
I keep saying it..for one encounter from social media that ended well,there are so many with bitter experiences.
Even replying chats from strangers is risky..But they won't listen.
For her mind, he will give her a job, probably marry her. Lol.

Just as they watch in Nollywood movies.

Her eyes don open now.

I'm jobless.
We move!

Senseless woman.
You refused to dump the idiot when you found out about the HIV... that was the opportunity to leave the nonsense marriage with your body parts intact.
Now, you are leaving without an arm. .. Shey marriage is for better for worse, you for still stay till it claims your life.
Ndi Mrs Title holders

Barbiturate:
You should have left when you discovered he concealed his HIV positive status.
He stopped taking care of you, cheats on you and started spending on women and you still didn't divorce him?

As usual, the case will linger and linger and the idiot might walk away freely!

Women are foolish like that.
A man finds out his wife is HIV positive.. He is negative.. most times, he will divorce her.
But not the case in women, they will stay back til they are infected. And the men are never repentant.. they keep flirting and messing around..

33bandit:
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hahaha ..thats why ill keep telling people ..ive not seen anybody who was coerced to study medicine and ends up regretting that life choice

120-200k is the salary range of a young post NYSC doctor in private hospitals in Nigeria.. yet they are complaining the pay is poor.
Pls how many young graduates in other fields earn like this?

I was still serving when I got a job.. had to combine that job with my NYSC .. 2 months later, I passed out of NYSC and concentrated fully on the job, that was 3 years ago.. the pay was 120k at least, there were other benefits though.

If you mention 120k salary today, esp for a young person, it sounds unbelievable.
Medicine forever... I did myself good and married a doctor too.Both of us ran away.
We are doing pretty good.
I can't shout

33bandit:
sequel to this thread , https://www.nairaland.com/6525528/mum-insists-medicine-nothing

....I've had a similar encounter which im inundated to share .
I grew up in a loving family tbh there wasn't a case of tyranny or blackmail ,my parents just try to give you enough reasons why you should do certain things until you run out of arguments to buttress why you don't think their discisions is or was rather the right one

anyways I had passion for technical drawing during the course of secondary school ,I was one of the best students in that art form ,however my first jamb which I registered and had applied architecture was a disaster, although I could remember vividly we was in a friendly competition as to who would secure admission first coupled with the pressure of writing waec and neco

I think I discovered nairaland during that time because we scout the internet throughout the night with our illegal phones looking for who would send the waec expo ,shit was wild tbh

long story short after being shown the realities of the job market in nigeria and using alot of relatives as examples loooool ..I finally settled for medicine..im an average student ,that is to say I've to work hard befor I get good grades ...,not naturally high IQ for those who care about the neurological aspect ,thats what it is

wrote jamb 5 times and now I'm here ..did I regret studying med? ..never did, there are challenges but whatever it is ,it would be worth it .

the job market for medical sci graduate is wide and one does not have to be at the hospital everyday to have that fulfilment ,some of my seniors are now teachers in the dept .
thing is medicine just propels you to a second class citizen immediately you graduate
as far as ones parents would fully support them to study medicine I don't see reasons why they should refuse that offer ,shit is expensive anyway .

whatever you do in nigeria ..passion is never enough ,just do what works ,this isn't anyway deride people who have followed their passion and made it

there's always a percentage lads .

NB I didnt edit this ,time no dey!

I can totally relate..
It took me 12 years from SSCE to bagging an MBBS.
With 4 years spent writing JAMB.

But the whole story changed immediately I graduated.
I have no regrets at all.

I found my way out of the country within 4 years of graduating.
Medicine & Surgery.. It's been worth it.
If reincarnation is real, I will study Medicine again.

MickzyDonald:
It's not new hearing different complaints coming from relationships, but some people tend to have the biggest of them all that made them quit or lost interest in the relationship, I heard someone saying she will forever regret the way she submitted herself in her past relationship, hereby putting her BF before her family, spending on him, trusting him and so on, But at the end, the guy later broke up without a valid reason....

So you can share yours.

My first relationship... PREMARITAL SEX.
I will regret till death.. Even though I'm married now.
In my next life, I will NEVER open my legs before marriage.
NEVER!

pocohantas:
Muslims indeed. If it were a woman that went to meet an EX few days to her wedding, I am sure you in particular would have had a lot to tell us. They never start to poison una. Shebi una feel say una rational? Irrational gender done drop one rational. Toor!

Don't mind them.
They think they are wise.
If tables turned, they will all condemn the woman for visiting her ex few days to wedding.
It has happened now, they are blaming the ex.

A man who went drinking with a (bitter) ex with the hope of smashing her again (and coming to brag about it on social media),he deserved everything he got.

ebuka10box:
been dating this girl for a while ,we have had our ups and downs but we settled. I plan to get married to her when I get back by God's grace . I noticed she wants to get married by all means,note:she is 27.
today ,I wanted to try her loyalty and submissiveness. I decided to give her number to a friend ,guess what ..... she denied me , I dont feel bad at all but tired of searching....
omo this girl use me play gg2.5 lolz...... imma take a break rn

I thought you would say your wife denied you.
So it's girlfriend.
You have always been single.
If you like, be in a relationship for 100 years, you are single until you are married.

The girl is 27.
She needs to settle down to avoid boys on this platform tagging her evening newspaper.
Since you are not ready, commot for road.
Let a serious man see her.

Xenry:
Maturity is when you avoid getting emotionally attached to people so that you won't be embarrassed by whatever they do or say.
Be emotionless, but not heartless. Emotions are distractive, especially to we the hustlers because we need focus to make our dreams come true.
Emotions=Distractions.

100% carried!

How people attach their emotions to others in the name of relationship baffles me.

Oweku:
Mine, d moment I told her I like her and I wnt to date her she said.. "Are u a graduate?"
Next question "what is your highest level of qualification?"


Although then 2009 I was a cleaner in d hospital where she is working as a nurse... Tnk God today am a graduate...

That was not a bad reply.
It was a normal question..

Kalatium:
It seems most of us do not know about other states in Nigeria. As such i want to use this arena for us to enumerate the languages in our respective states.

I noticed that most people down south assume that once you are from the North you are hausa (aboki) likewise those up north are ignorant of down south.

In case you don't know Kaduna State alone has about 60 languages alone. Names on the bracket is their alternative names.

KADUNA STATE
1. Atyap(kataf)
2. Akurmi(Kurama)
3. Anghan ( Kamanton)
4. Amo,
5. Aruruma(Ruruma)
6. Atachaat ( Kachechere),
7. Kadara(adara)
8. Atuku,
9. Ayu,
10. Bajju,
11. Bakulu/Ikulu
12. Bhazar/Koro
13. Bur (Sanga),
14. Binawa,
15. Dingi,
16. Fantswam,
17. Fulfulde ,
18. Gbagyi,
19. Gure,
20. Gwandara,
21. Gwong (Kagoma),
22. Ham ( Jaba),
23. Hausa,
24. Jangi,
25. Kaibi,
26. Kahugu,
27. Kanufi,
28. Kigono,
29. Kinugu,
30. Kitimi,
31. Kiwafa,
32. Kiwollo,
33. Kono,
34. Kuvori (Surubu),
35. Kuturmi,
36. Tsam (Chawai)
37. Mada (Mardan)
38. Nandu,
39. Nduyah,
40. Numana,
41. Nindem,
42. Ningeshe,
43. Ninkyop,
44. Ninzo,
45. Nyenkpa (Yeskwa),
46. Oegworok,
47. Pikal,
48. Pitti,
49. Ribang,
50. Rishuwa,
51. Rumada,
52 Ruruma,
53. Rumayya,
54. Shemawa
55. Sholio (Marwa),
56. Siyawa
57. Takad,
58. Tarri, and
59. Lemoro * not sure,



What about you how many languages does your state has?

Unnecessary division.
All these tribes understand and speak HAUSA.
Yes or Yes?

One evil gone.

Good riddance!!

Grow fast.. become a young adult.
Then Nigerian men will start accusing you of hoeing and using clitocurrency to acquire wealth

She must have been expecting applaud from men.
Unfortunately, they are insulting her.
How funny!

Tatarison:
Lol.
I'm a stalker (a good one tho').
I always look forward to reading your comments on Nairaland. How is UK, work, Oga and the kids?

Hehehehe.. Good stalker.
That's a new one.
We are fine.
Everything going well.
Thank you

To study medicine and work as a medical doctor

VS..


oh! Yes, I studied Medicine and I am practising it.

What is your aim of chatting with a total stranger (supposedly) female on the internet?
To achieve what exactly?

Lucky you didn't see more.

He is a man so he bought it with his hardwork.
But if a woman, clitocurrency is involved.

assamu1122:
Please post for me ASAP

My girlfriend of two years just informed me that she got pregnant with another man. That she has just done a test and it's positive. This is a woman I have gone to her family with my people and have collected and argued list. I have started buying marriage stuff on this list and now, this happened. I am confused.


What should I do please?

Switch to your other plans.. B, C, etc.

Afterall, you people always brag about 7 women rushing one man..
Why are you perturbed about 1 woman.
You are a disappointment

philanthropic:
Hope you are not lying..

If you are saying the truth, then you don't need a prophecy to tell you that your fiance is no more your fiance, except you are a Major General in SIMPING.

Many or most girls of this generation like sex, and one of the reasons is because they sleep around and get possessed with the spirit of immorality.....

"Those days, many women cheat because of lack of love and attention, today, many women cheat because of the sweetness of Fornication and Adultery"

Yeah... And they are cheating with animals.. Goats, Dogs and Pigs in the shape of men.

DannyG8:
When we started dating everything was cool, she do call me, we chat everything was ok. She comes to my place but just all of a sudden she changed, stopped picking up my calls, stopped replying my messages or sometimes it takes her days to reply me

I don't understand her and I don't know what to do either. I need your advice please no insult.

SIMP!

How can you use innocent and police in the same sentence?

No responsible and reasonable woman joins the NPF.

She got served..

This happened to me.

I met this cool guy and we were about starting a relationship... along the line, I found out he slept with one of my friends.The lady had gotten pregnant and they aborted it.
It was the relationship he was just coming out from.
I stopped seeing him after that knowledge.
I couldn't have been involved with my friend's leftover.
If table turned, he would leave me too.
Cased closed!

Mozegee:
Not only 34 years ,you would have write 15. Old woman claiming 34.

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Is 34 a young woman?
I thought old women start from 30 in Africa

Her faith encourages Fornication and discourages abortion.. That's interesting

Hausa Muslim , wealthy man..
3 daughters..
Quietly adopted a son.

Meanwhile , a wretched jobless man with no properties will continue birthing kids searching for a male child who has nothing to inherit except poverty.

8 children? And expecting the 9th?

Children are free gifts from God.
It's the Lord's doing...

Nonsense.
Poor people are just plainly Stu. Pid

Premium tears for the lady.

Guy will make money now and suddenly remember she is fat and dark complexioned.