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Michelle55:
Lol... Should we tell him?

Don't tell him yet... Let him listen to those Audio advice, that they are giving him.

backT:
It has all been rumors and hear-say, up until this point; however, the intense intimacy and chemistry in their performance has finally been confirmed as a valid romantic relationship, as Tiwa Savage declared that her relationship with Wizkid is "Nobody's business" and besides Wizkid (who has 3 children from 3 different woman in Nigeria, USA and UK) likes his women older. Tiwa Savage went further to explain that the "older the berry, the sweeter the juice" which is a direct correlation that Wizkid is into her because she is sweeter than all his previous women and baby mamas.
This entire incident happened at Tiwa Savage's concert last night, which had several stars including Wizkid, Zlatan and others.

Abeg how much be nokia charger again?

millionboi2:
Not true.....if u respond to police with d right word thy no go touch u.

right words without money?
except you're the son of a senator, high rank soldier or millionaire. just rest o.

Circulate:
thanks for ur advice but no to NOUN

why No?

Legitportal:
Please what background of passport is used for a LGA of origin certificate?
White or red

white backgrounds

jesusjnr:
Damn!

Did you really go through that post, or did I just waste it on you?

To the blind, darkness is light.

And speaking of Paul, I am not so much a fan of his writings but let me just leave you with two of those i love:

1 Corinthians 1:25 (KJV)

25 Because the foolishness of God is wiser than men; and the weakness of God is stronger than men.[/b]

1 Corinthians 1:27 (KJV)

27 But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty;

Hope you can see that wisdom to men is foolishness to God, so it feels really good to be foolish to the real fools.

Our everyday religious fanatic.

Nothing can convince a fundamentalist. But until you drop this your head-strong speaking in tongues theory.
And get down with real Bible analysis about why condom as a birth control strategy is a sin for married couple. I won't reply your next post.

CrEaToRmalden:
Oh, this reference to Nairaland has given me a better idea now.
In essence, do you mean when a page on another website mentions my url, it becomes a backlink?

Yes, it works like dat.
Although don't just think by posting just one url on nairaland would give you powerful backlinks. Google is really smart on how they handle things.
Another way to get backlinks, is for user to share your post on their facebook page, twitter page etc

1StopRudeness:
I don’t really get the clap back..is it like hushpuppy is wanted by the law in Nigeria and he can’t come home again or something..??

According to Gary Garden of USA FBI.
Mompha and Hushpuppi is among the top 10 internet fraudsters on their list.

Abalado:
Waiting they worry this plantain seller before now,,,,, waiting they do am for body, waiting him get way person never get before? Ode, plantain seller

why e come dey pepper you for body.

jesusjnr:
If I ever fell into any pithole in this case, it was when I first said that use of condoms by married couples wasn't a sin. Because that was a lie from the pit of hell.

So that's the pit i have come out of thank God, but you're still very comfortable to remain there.

If you don't believe it's a sin, so what's the point of all this talk about population of the Earth and what not. Or are you insinuating that it justifies the reason to sin?

For your information, this post is not meant for those of the world, but for those of God who represent His interest and ways on Earth.

You seem to be suggesting, that you a mere mortal could possibly knows better than your Creator who also created the Earth, and that He cannot be trusted to control the population of the Earth without the use of condoms.

So i would to give you an assignment, to give me examples of men who walked with God in old times who trusted God with the birth control of their marriage and not condoms, and tell me how many children they bore.

Let me just encourage you with a hint:

*Noah lived over Nine hundred years on Earth but had just three children without using condoms.

*Abraham didn't have a child until he was seventy five years old without using condoms, and wouldn't have had any until he was a hundred years old, if him and his wife didn't usurp God of His right to control their childbearing just like what condoms does.

*Isaac lived a hundred and eighty years but had just two kids.

*Zacharias had no child until old age when he had John.

Yeah, I know i have helped you with your assignment, but you don't have to thank me for that because I'm happy to oblige to make you see that God is more than capable of birth control.

And the glaring difference is that God knows when to control child bearing and when not to do so, as He does it to according to His plans, but condoms lacks that knowledge.

Imagine losing children like Moses, Elijah, Daniel, Abraham, Samuel, John the baptist to condoms, Hmmm....

So, although the Holy Spirit revealed the Truth to me via tongues, that doesn't mean I didn't see it being justified by the scriptures before bringing it out.

You can still ask me whose tongues again.

"A casual stroll through the lunatic asylum shows that faith does not prove anything." - Friedrich Nietzsche

Next time you write about Spirituality, do write it like Paul.
Paul was a man of God with deep understanding, everything he said, he gave a solid reason and explanation. Such a blessed Wiseman with deep understanding, reading pauls letters and book will make you understand that God has deep meaning behind all his words.

Your write -up is just so shallow. you're not better than a muslim fanatic that does things without any proper understanding. You gave a point and your only reason was that you were speaking tongues. The Holy Spirit didn't reveal any meaning to you? Bro seek wisdom (James 1:5).

portune:
What should I do about this? I am gainfully employed. Gives her 60k for house upkeep. I buy bulk thinks like yam , rice, oil tomato etc. She locks shop on me always. I need your thoughts on this pls.

Always giving excuses. At night, "I am tired". In the morning, "go work abeg others have left and making money and you are here looking for who to ram."

Even few moments I press her to it she will insult me sotee my prick falls down.

Then play your own games too.

jesusjnr:
All these you're saying is because you don't agree with this view, if not it's also at the comfort of your home that you came to the view that it is not a sin.

By the way, confusion to you is not confusion to God, so that doesn't apply.

you just fell into another pithole.
I want you point the exact part of my comment where I said it is not a sin.

I shake my head.
The earth capacity for human should be approximately 8 billion people. currently we are 7.3 billion already. After that amount, disease and poverty is the only strategy that would take away the population.
Whatever you're analysing, please backup with many reference, personal study so as to have a deep understanding (2 Timothy 2:15) . Don't just conclude because you just felt you started speaking in tongues.
please If I ask tongues of who??

Everyone can give birth to any amount in the time of Onan. I bet human population could be bearly above 500 million then.
But now we have about 7.4 billion. Please add some variables to your Biblical analyses. perhaps the case of Onan never placed a clear context as of why he was killed. but if anything is clear, disobedience was something we see first rather than just the act of spilling his sermen.

Your arguments isn't new at all, infact it is sub-categorization of the belief that sex is for procreation only. Som3 extremist have this believe and they often advise people not to have sex if they don't wanna procreate. In today's world, the economy will run into trouble if everyone decided to have sex without pregnancy prevention.
So it is either you have sex only for procreation or you use protection. The negative effect of having sex only for procreation will likely lead many to sexual starvation and as a chain reaction would lead to alot of sexual offenses. Even the church is unlikely to preach this.

so I hope you think about this.

jesusjnr:
Use Google.

You people will just sit at the comfort of you house and start making decisions on what and what isn't right.
The flimsy excuse you gave why condom is a sin is really annoying.
Anyway I want you to understand that God is not the author of confusion. If you like have 30 children and claim it is God that sent them and don't train them.

babyfaceafrica:
What is right about it?.. You drink, dance lewd songs and womanize in clubs, how is that godly?.. Shun all appearance of evil

stop being overly religious, do you know they have good club wherr none of what you said exist. The act you mentioned are the wrongs not going to clubbing.
of course majority of people who go clubbing does this things but then an then again, don't generalise it.

Mind you, drinking isn't a sin, smoking isn't either. The negative effects of drinking and smoking is what is sinful and this involves getting drunk, becoming irresponsible, loss of mind and health etc

Be guided

Snowale:
Recently, I thought of learning another language, Java, I bought a textbook and downloaded PDF, the textbook made clear that I can download the JDK 8 while the PDF says I can Download the JDK 7, I went to Oracle, just to find out the latest JDK is JDK13, probably the the textbook and PDF was released many years before the latest JDK13 came out, is it possible to still use the same textbook and PDF to manage the JDK13, or should I Just download old JDK 7 or JDK 8, and use the follow the textbook. I haven't seen any latest textbook so far.

use it like dat by maybe next year. 14 will be out. funny thing is that, the difference is new support and tech being introduced that isn't relevant to a newbie

Ausrichie:
Bleep OOP it is the reason why no language can beat C and Assembly no OOP.

such a naive statement

hotwax:
Nigerians think when they send money to scammers, the money is gone. The money may be gone, but the account numbers that received the money has an owner. The owner is captured with BVN and KYC. There are addresses In the KYC data. Referee name and telephone.

People are just lazy. When I say people (Bank Customer Service agents, the victim, Police). There are enough records to be used to trace the scammer.

A guy was robbed at gun point in Lagos last month..they took his ATM and collected his pin...they transferred all his money to an account number.

When the guy reported to the police and my bank branch ...we investigated and found out the address belongs to someone in Kaduna. The guy was arrested..although he claimed he didnt know the source of the money...he later confessed and explained their modus operandi

This morning one lady is trying to pull a fast one on me...very funny...See screenshot

How is the so-called transportation a scam?

Johnnoah1st:
tank u ojare, dos comments above don make me sideline d girl since, I never reply to d message, but I tink I can continue my tori now

Dont take that smiley of her serious, it doesn't mean anything.
The guy you quoted I feel is just being sarcastic or just mocking you.

Newguyhere:
Never compliment a girl you are interested in. Neg her instead.

PUA

Aplaudez:
I'll be brief as possible, when we started our HND programme so I met this girl, one thing led to another, we got intimate, she got everything I always wanted in a lady, she always treated me like her hubby but she's engaged, her husband to be gave her a ring which she always use but seeing that ring always doesn't make me happy, I want to create space between us but she's getting more closer to me!

fellow nairalanders, what can I do??

She will do same to you with another guy that would draw her closer

jesusjnr:
IS IT A SIN FOR MARRIED COUPLES TO USE CONDOMS?

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This post is an offshoot of a recent thread titled, "Are we truly safe when we commit sin with condoms?"

https://www.nairaland.com/5582353/truly-safe-when-commit-sin

That thread was primarily intended to use the Truth of Jesus Words to disprove the idea being sold by the world in the name of "safe sex", that someone who commits a sexual sin, let's say, adultery, using a condom could yet be truly safe.

But then a someone with the moniker @Prettyjanet1 pops up with this interesting question:



So that's obviously where I got the thread title from, and this was my answer to the question:



So married couples using condoms was not considered a sin to me then, and that corroborated my position on the Op of that thread that I wasn't against the use of condoms because I didn't believe that it was a bad thing.

But then came someone else with the moniker @Godsonjolly with the following question:



This was my response:



Then he said:



But his comment seemed to make some sense to me, hence my response:

Therefore his comment agreed with my inclination on the use of condoms amongst married couples, because I believe that God should have the last say on the amount of kids a couple should have, even though at the time I didn't consider it to be a sin if they did so.

However the difference in this case was that I somehow just found it hard to include the part that "it was not a sin to me" in the final post of my conversation with him, as I did in my response to the first question, even though I had initially typed it. So I just had to chop that part off before posting, because at that point, it just felt quite uncomfortable to include it, as it just didn't seem right.

So it seemed my initial position about married couples using condoms during sex not being a sin had began to experience a bit of a wobble.

And to add to that uncertainty, there was a development I had noticed after making that thread, and it was the word "condom" suddenly beginning to feature in my tongues. But I felt very uncomfortable with that for obvious reasons, even though I had just done a thread that had something to do with that, as I had expected to move on from that since I had accomplished what I intended with that thread. So the last thing I was expecting was for it to start showing up in my tongues.

But it was later when I began to say "condom na sirin" repeatedly in tongues, that the picture began to become clearer of what the message appeared to be, as it sounded like "condom na sin" in pidgin English.

I began to have the feeling that perhaps the Holy Spirit wasn't pleased with the impression I had given about the use of condoms on the Op of that thread, where I said that I wasn't against the use of condoms and didn't believe that it was a bad thing, so that i would correct it.

But it was when I came back to the thread and saw where I had categorically responded to @Prettyjanet1's question, and said that use of condoms by married couples wasn't a sin, and had followed my responses up til the final response I gave on that same matter, where I was no longer comfortable to say it was a sin as i had done initially, that it became much clearer to me what actually happened then, and what that had to do with my spoken tongues about condoms.

So I believe the message of the Spirit of God is that it is a sin in God's sight for marriage couples to use condoms, just as that brother @Godsonjolly had insinuated, to correct my initial response that it wasn't a sin.

And though I don't think it's a sin that could lead married couples to hell, I believe that God is not happy when married couples use condoms during sex, as it usurps Him of His right as the One who determines giving kids or not in a marriage.

This may have been one of the things that displeased God concerning Onan that made Him slay him as was suggested by @Godsonjolly, for in the Bible days there were no condoms, so child bearing among married couples was solely God's prerogative, therefore Onan may have also dishonored God by what he did.

This is not intended to frighten or judge married couples, however I believe that especially for christians, it's best to follow the examples given in the Bible where childbearing in marriage was usually attributed to God, and the amount of children was determined by Him, so that condoms would not take God's place in determining how many kids they have.

That would obviously require married couples completely trusting God concerning childbearing, but i believe the marriages of those do so surely shall surely reap the rewards of them placing such extent of trust in God, because God alone best knows how many children a married couple should have.

God bless.

please op what is the current world population?

bindukwe:
That would be a shallow way to categorise people.
There's a reason behind the attraction people have for him and his work.

He's chosen as their avatar for a reason, seek that reason and you'll find a richer understanding.

You don't get to call people fools without knowing what's driving the folly.
That's what constitutes folly really; unguarded statements

Tell that to the dogs.

aro1:
Most People might want to always castigate naira marley..
But this guy mostly speak the truth:some girls are so unkempt,the bushes on their vagina is enough to breed rodents.. Damn!

There are no medical research that has justify shaving is more healthier.
Infact medical professional often advice people not to shave.

SirLiquidGold:
I will go straight to the point. I'm 29years old and I have no girlfriend to call mine. Although when I was in school and during my NYSC some girls do give me attention but the moment we all did POP it was like the world changed for us all. I realized maybe I was too busy getting worried about the future than I should have had more time for women.

All along, my intention was to graduate, have a good job, then go into a serious relationship and get married but reality can be often disappointing.
It's rather unfortunate that no job is forthcoming since I finished service in December, 2017.

I'm very sure you would not believe it if tell you that I'm a virgin because I've never tasted sex all my live. Though i intend getting married at 30 and I've no job yet, I really feel like having a girl in my life now. I feel really lonely waking up alone everyday and hugging my pillow. It's as if nature is craving for what I ought to have had by now.

I need somebody that I can share my thought with, somebody I would be there for and also would be there for me. Guys I know you are wiser than I am, please advise me!!! Just yesterday night I came across a post on front page about "if money was delaying one from getting married and I am really worried

Your lack of relationship isn't exactly having money though. You don't have a girl and you don't have money
You have two problems Bro.
Don't let anyone deceive you on that.
it ain't one.

CrEaToRmalden:
It's already 10 days since I got my blog up. I do wish to grow it but understanding the concept of 'backlink' is a problem.
I just checked today using moz and it detected One Dofollow backlink. I don't even know how that came to be.

Do help me with a simple tip.
Also, I've searched articles using google but do not understand how exactly this works. What they describe on their articles are majorly the importance of backlinks without giving examples of what could be done to OBTAIN A BACKLINK.
Kindly help out.
Thanks

Backlinks simply means when other websites refer back to your blog uaing a url link. This happens when your blog is so credible or when they copy something from your blog and posting reference.
just like the way Bloggers post their stuff on Nairaland and place their link.
The give search engine the idea that your site could be credible since other site referenced it.

Mhizdebs:
Good evening.I have been on this forum for some years now though am a silent member.I am studying computer science but They mainly just teach the theory part no practicals at all.
Please I want to improve myself. I heard about online courses,i need suggestions and advice.Thanks..

What do you dream building someday, just make research and kick start.

But be careful of online, many things you see are not real. please be careful.

dangotesmummy:
those are female athletes or females in male dominated sports or careers like female bouncers,football,race etc..

[b]Naturally no woman was born with male physique.[/b]they tampered with their bodies in the process of trying to fit into their careers

Not so true, some women have so much of testosterone, that they natural look like a man, African women especially.
it could be so bad, that would have bears, muscular body even without alot of stress or doing any male kinda job.

Omoslim26:
Wait a minute
21yrs old gal nd still a virgin
in dis age and time
Nooo adonbilivit

SMH

Ryan03:
no, everybody have the right to if you have genuine reason

oh ok.
Anyway thanks.

mathephysicist:
I have a chance of learning it but didn't like coz of its syntax and no clear Convention. I opted to learn Python/django and Nodejs stack. Now am stucked at getting Job as most openings want PHP this, PHP that.

Thats the reality most Nodejs dev don't wanna accept. PHP is the language of about 80% website on the internet. it is a pain in the neck and old habit die hard. No matter what web language you learn. if your intentions is to work as a freelancer especially on the web, learning PHP isn't an option, it is a must.

mathephysicist:
Is PHP a must in Nigeria Tech Industry?

can you do without it?