₦airaland Forum

Gentlesoul2021:
When u know u guys are not in good terms, u shouldn't have show him the house..

We were in good terms before i showed him the house.

IconicR:
He didn't even mention missing his wife because he already has a Lagos girlfriend waiting for him

It's all about his kids because someone is already on ground in Lagos to do wifely duties
Hian

You need help.

Wait you dey expect me to read all of that?

Lol stop playing

Hi house

I don't know if I will get a response to this but there is no harm in trying.

I need your contribution to this. How feasible will it be for a family whose husband is on a study visa and intend bringing his wife and two toddlers who are just few(2/3) months old?

I understand the woman has to take care of the kids hence limiting her work hours and all that which automatically means the bulk of taking care of the family falls on the husband who doubles as a student and also has limited work hours.

So is there an alternative to this? Or what's your honest take on this?

Use an anonymous number, a number not linked to you. Send a message to the man and the cousin with a little bit of proof. Then warn them sternly and make it seem more than one persons in the company is aware of their acts,afterwards destroy the sim. Let me advice you don't give them a cold shoulder or a reason to suspect you. That's on you not to let them know tho.

DON'T MARRY THAT WOMAN. A WOMAN FROM A SINGLE MOTHER IS MOSTLY A RED FLAG. THEY DON'T SEE THE VALUE OF MARRIAGE OR PROPER FAMILY. PLUS SHE IS ALWAYS FIGHTING YOU!!

You see as I write am in uppercases. If you like no hear word.

Agreed flee from sexual immortality but do you know that when you are about to get married you might still end up with used wife. Only except she is a virgin.

There is this guy whom we went to university together, graduated together, met in the same hood after education. We were both working and living in the same area even after school. We used to hangout, do so many stuff together. One time we were house hunting, I saw a suitable place then took him to the place to pick a space since he was also hunting for a better place. This guy told the landlord to chase me away and refund my money that he'd like the particular apt I paid for just because we had a little beef( he went behind me to rat me out to a girl I was trying to hook up with). Thank God the landlord knew the genesis of the whole house hunting thing and how I introduced him to the landlord. The man refunded his money and told him never to come close to his compound.

Don't play with David hundeyin. Man is anointed.

SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?

Lie from the pit of hell.

Don't pay no attention to this article o. Na propaganda

Kobojunkie:
All I read is you equate love with sex and your wife denying you sex means she has no love for you. And you somehow think the blame should all be on her as far as all the problems you perceive in your marriage, no be so? **yawn***

This is the only thing you unfortunately decided to pick out. It's always good to read and assimilate not read and type!

Let me add this here

Women could be very deceitful, laugh with her amongst other colleagues or in public but maintain your privacy.( I really don't know how to explain it). If she perceives you to be an enemy, you'd lose that job so inorder not to lose it give her that respect and be friendly with her to a reasonable extent. (set boundaries). You are a private guy but do you think you being a private man will work when she decides to turn on you? Nobody will believe you used to be a private guy when this happens. I hope you get it. In all just be in her good book.

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

You don't live with them.

Young blood,
She cheated on you when you guys were together, then she cheated on her supposed fiancé. Bro don't even get into any entanglement with her. Read the lines.... She will always cheat. You think you are close cause you are always communicating Bro, distance is making it look like you both have a bond,wait till you are back and then get bored and look for who to cheat on you with.

Secondly, FWB might not seem so bad till you get her pregnant. Then you'd realize that you shouldnt have gotten yourself messed up with her in the first place cause I can bet it with you that she will stall your desire of "FINDING A WIFE".

Bro, you can communicate but keep her at arm's length for your own good.

opera1:
It's a normal day, nothing is special about it.

Brother help me tell them ooo, it's just a NEXT DAY. What's the buzz all bout?

DMerciful:
You don't have a car but supporting a failed government due to tribalism. Your problem is Igbos in Lagos instead of you to hussle like Igbos in Lagos who're multi millionaires with several cars.

You're not doing well in the status quo so why do you insist on the status quo? Why not support Obi for a change


Modified: so many mentions, the thing really hit hard on struggling urchins claiming they own Lagos

It's unfortunate you are the myopic, short sighted individual who just sprew trash on a 100mb data. So because he doesn't have a car it means he is low on status quo? You can see how an average Nigerian thinks or let me rephrase an average Nigerian whose knowledge gap is so low and still have a milk brain. You need to growup and realize having a car or not doesn't make a status quo. Do you even know his account balance to be sure he is low in the social ladder? Do you know his investments? Have you had access to him or to audit him for you to come to an irrational conclusion, or just based on how far your brain can go (I guess this is it). Its just a matter of how far and deep you can reason or how much of an open thinker you are which is far fetched for you.

One last thing, if you had a good IQ or a good brain to assimilate you'd understand in his writeup that he was praising the SW governors which also comprises of PDP governors and not only APC. Make una dey think before una go just jump on any article just because you want the world to know you can type. Atleast type with sense.

Pakute:
Let's place a bet if you're so sure of yourself. If Tinubu wins, You'd suck my D on a live stream, if he loses, I'd owe you 500k and everything will be made open on Nairaland. You game?

No, you'd suck his D on a live stream also.
He doesn't need your 500k
Tit for tat

You were boring when chatting with these ladies. Maybe you are a typical boring person or just a "too serious minded" person. If you had tried to playful/naughty when conversing with these ladies and still gave you the attitudes you listed above then this writeup is justified.

APC2:
Thank you for this. Dollar need to rise again. I only earned dollars. I have never do any work which I was paid in Naira for the past two years. I live in Nigeria and work in US....

Then carry your black ugly ass to the US. Selfish slowpoke

But what is wrong with people or should I rephrase and say what is wrong with Nigerians? Do you people actually think. Your write-up is suggesting you are quite educated if not a complete literate atleast semi-literate. So your common sense and level of exposure didn't make your brain know its a no no to have 4kids in a room and parlor apt? Like why are you just being irrational. 2kids at most would have been best atleast for now till you find a bigger space. I can't tell you the number of kids to have but I can tell for free that you and your wife are bad parents. Except this story isnt true.

smileyoo:
Oga tinubu was actually right , in this climate change issue, but his mode of expression was simply too archaic and outdated.
he was simply explaining that Africa contribute so little in global warming, because we have achieved only little industrialization in Africa, while the west with their big high -tech industries, contribute so much in global warming, therefore the west should carry the burden of curbing the effects of climate change in our planet, instead of disturbing the poor African continent, that is already struggling for survival.
so why are you guys castigating the man ? an elder will always speak like an elder .

We don't need an elder, we need a PRESIDENT!!!

Op I dey reply again, RUN!!?? SHE WOULDN'T BEND THE RULE OR HER STANDARD FOR YOU IF THE TABLE WERE TURNED. BABA BETTER GIRLS STILL DEY FRONT. DON'T SETTLE BELOW YOUR STANDARD. SECURE YOUR UNBORN CHILDREN FUTURE ABEG!

Run!!!!!!!

They wouldn't even give it a thought if you were in that position/standard!

Keep to your standard.

You are also a standard for ladies out there.

This man don join apc

I am not sorry for what I intend to say but I might be sorry for how I say it or project it.


You see these bloodsucking hausas/fulanis are hypocrite, tribalistic and highest illiterate you can ever come across. They are brainwashed murderers and slow pokes.

Just because the presidential ticket was given to BAT- a western candidate, see the way their useless self have been decamping Before now, didn't they see the "bad leadership" melted on them as pointed out as the reason for decamping?! Now it's not suiting their self interest, they are decamping massively. These guys are the problem. Unfortunately, they wield more power when it comes to politics

Oga rest,
Go tell wizkid and the likes this.

Them still dey flourish o!!!

Moral of the story;

FEAR WOMEN!!!!!


Anywhere they enter na wahala. If peace dey before them enter, once they do na chaos go follow!

Dem no dey hear word

Dem still no go hear word

Mostly because they feel we all have our weaknesses and we should learn to tolerate one another. Truth is yes we do have our weaknesses, nobody is perfect. Tolerance is key. But unfortunately, some weaknesses turn toxic.

omaclarry:
Where you there when they grabbed her hand? When you arrive did you ask the guy what happened.. u just rushed flying nodding cos ur wife told u something on phone.. keep flying with ur head 1 day na grave u go nod

Cheat cheater cheastest