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PoliticsRe: Supreme Court: Why We Accepted Materials Tendered By Uzodinma, Police by TGM2015:
I said this before.

The Documents tendered were original duplicate copies of INEC issued Forms, filled and signed by INEC official representative at the Polling Units concern. The Coalition Officers looking at the figures strongly believed the figures were cooked and allocated, then, using his/her personal intuition, experience, and judgment, s/he cancelled the results of APC from 388 polling units under contention.

Hope went to court to challenge that the cancellation has no legal backing, instead of PDP to counter the application and show evidence that the votes allocated to APC were fraudulent, they did not even challenge the petition at all. The Supreme Court accepted APC evidence as it was original duplicate copy from INEC. The 7 SC judges hold that the (fraudulent) votes were illegally cancelled and there was no single evidence to show it was fraudulently allocated.

Personally, I believed the votes were fraudulent and on moral grounds should be cancelled as done by the INEC coalition center. Unfortunately, the court will and should never rule base on moral grounds or perceptions but on the letters of the Law. So, morally, the cancellation was correct but legally wrong.

To those people blaming Supreme Court, they should know that legality is different from morality. It is just like rape cases, it must be proved beyond a reasonable doubt that a crime has actually been committed. The responsibility to proved otherwise rest on every interested party that believes otherwise as far the evidence from the petitioner emanated from legally recognised and authorised sources. In this case, the provision of evidence rest solely on PDP and her candidates and not INEC. The role of INEC in any election matter is to provide evidences at their custody and testify in election matter and not to prove that elections were fairly or fraudulently conducted. In this case, INEC should have tendered the Original Form for which duplicates were presented to prove that the figures were altered or incorrect. Unfortunately, there is no need to do that as all parties involved know that the presented evidences (Original Duplicate Forms) by Hope were original without alterations, so presentations will only support Hope's application. Therefore, INEC should not be blame for not presenting the original forms even though they suppose to. They choose not to because they knew it will give strong evidence to support for Hope and APC application.

PDP failed woefully in their defence, they should learn their lessons and move on. We should not be cloud by our emotions, moral stands, or political affiliates by blackmailing the judiciary for upholding the law of the land, instead, we should work towards changing the law that make criminals and fraudsters get away with their crimes.
PoliticsRe: Mike Ozekhome: Why Supreme Court Judgment On Imo Can't Be Reviewed by TGM2015: 6:50am On Jan 22, 2020
Come ooo, so PDP is citing Imo Supreme Court judgement to win their case?

We also cited the case of Hope Uzodinma vs INEC of last week and the case of Governor Aminu Tambuwal that was also decided on Monday morning as being in our favour but they did not touch any of them at all.
PoliticsRe: What Happened To Trader Money? by TGM2015: 7:49am On Jan 20, 2020
Nnannapat:
So many comments here about how SIP has been shifted from the VP's office to the newly created ministry of Humanitarian Affairs. Some are saying that the scheme has been ongoing before the VP makes it more popular by visiting markets and snapping pictures with the beneficiaries. Now the question for those asking us to channel our investigations to the ministry in charge.
1, Did Nigerians complained about Trader Moni before Osinbanjo decided to be the brand ambassador just months before elections?

2, Those yellow T shirts that reads" I am a Trader Moni beneficiary", where are the new sets?

3, Why can't Sadiya Farouk imitate Osibanjo and personally give out the stipends to the new beneficiaries even if it will be Abuja or Nassarawa state that is closer to her?

4, Why is it not necessary again to sensitive the masses about the activities of the Trader Moni in print and electronics media, as was the case in 2019?

Nigeria indeed will be great again.
The whole thing about TraderMoni, MarketMoni, Npower is that it was conceived by Buhari’s administration a year after his first election through his first budget presentation (2016 Budget) but the Saraki led Senate delay the passage of the to the middle of the year making implementation to be close to end of year 2016 and early 2017. You will remember that Npower first set were absorb in November 2016. So most of the GEEP initiatives came to light in mid 2017. You will remember same fate, even worst befell 2017 budget.

The delay of the the budgets (2016 - 2017), makes all these initiatives it look suspicious as the delay push the implementation towards few months to preparation of 2019 elections. The PDP gave these initiatives more social and public awareness by their clumsy campaign against the programme as a vote buying strategies. In my personal opinion, I believe the VP, being the brain behind and Administrator of the initiative, see the negative publicity as opportunities and take charge of it. His involvement create a greater awareness and the masses are confirming the realness of ALL the initiatives. It eventually paid off for their re-election, thanks to PDP for bringing it to the public awareness.

On the current situation, personally I knew people who were send text messages last year October and November that they money are ready for collection. They have not only collected the said money but some have paid off and applied for next higher value. The less publicity can be attributed to the cause of it initial publicity. (1) PDP are no more interested in what those initiatives stand for, and (2) the programme has been move from the VP office to a new Ministry, hence, the non-involvement of the VP office.

In conclusion, TraderMoni and other initiatives like it were not conceived for vote buying but as a fulfilment of one of the campaign promises but later turned to become one of the tools to re-elect the current administration because they positively took the wrongly use campaign strategy of PDP to their own advantage.

I hope you get answers to all your questions in this post.

You see in life, you don't really have enemies. You only have people who throw unpleasant obstruction on your way to make you understand the great potential of little things you care less about.
EducationRe: Amotekun Is Cheetah Not Leopard by TGM2015:
Demzlent:
The launching of operation amotekun has exposed the fact that we yorubas are losing touch with our language to the extent that our leaders are calling leopard amotekun.
So I am taking this opportunity to educate my fellow yorubas
Many of us believe that tiger is ekun, leopard is amotekun,this is wrong.
Tiger is an animal that is not found in africa,Yoruba land included,so our fore fathers did not come in contact with it,so they couldn't have given a name to it.
The correct translation is
Leopard - ekun
Cheetah - amotekun
Amotekun means like 'ekun' because if you look at leopard and cheetah,they look alike only that leopard is bigger. Tiger doesn't look like these two , it has stripes not spots like the two
There is a Yoruba proverb that says ''asunkun pani bi amotekun' this is because of the stripes below the eyes of the cheetah
Thanks
Simple Google will have save you all this embarrassment. I am sure you saw the write-up somewhere, you copied it and then come to Nairaland to paste it for the gullible ones. Now check the attached screenshot and get yourself more knowledge.

By the way, who told you that our forefathers in Africa have never see Tiger before, so therefore, they do not have a name for it. That is totally false. Let us assumed they never saw tiger before, it does not translate to that there is no Africa, in this case, Yoruba, name for Tiger. At least, every language including Yoruba, has a name for mobile phone and internet.

Check out the link below for more Yoruba Names for animals.
https://www.theyorubablog.com/oruko-eranko-ati-aworan-yoruba-names-of-animals-and-pictures/
http://myenglishsalon..com/2016/12/learn-names-of-some-animals-in-yoruba.html?m=1

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(Moderators: Fynestboi, Richiez, olawalebabs)
Please change the title on the Frontpage to Amotekun means Leopard not Cheetah. Attached also is the dictionary meaning. So the the traditional Yoruba and academic field, Leopard means Amotekun in Yoruba. So the OP is wrong. Thank you.

Jobs/VacanciesRe: Union Bank Management Trainee Recruitment 2019 by TGM2015: 3:15pm On Jan 16, 2020
MStar09:
Please someone should kindly respond.
Which employer should we put on the last page of the Asset Declaration?
If the question looks like or the same as the question in quote below, then your answer is Banking (Union Bank of Nigeria Plc).

Proposed employment or occupation after the present one:
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Union Bank Management Trainee Recruitment 2019 by TGM2015: 8:09pm On Jan 15, 2020
mrbrams:
@TMG2015.. Please I am using combined results, I don't know if they'd be accepted. I have the original copies for them
I don't see any reason why they should not accept combined results. For you to make it to documentation stage, it is very unlikely that you will be disqualified because of combined results.
PoliticsRe: INEC Issues Hope Uzodinma Certificate Of Return (picture) by TGM2015: 4:32pm On Jan 15, 2020
sevo:
This incompetence of INEC needs to be looked into..wetin make dem comot 233k votes belonging to uzodinma like thathuh How are we sure sai dem no comot atiku votes give bubu toohuh
The real issue was that the Coalition Officers for the affected pooling units suspected that the figures submitted by Presiding Officers were fraudulent and must have been rigged, which personally I believe those figures were outrageous. It was wickedly allocated. The Co therefore rejected the result and collate other results discarding APC results. Unfortunately, under current electoral law, it is only the Tribunal that can discard/cancel announced votes at Pooling Units.

So Uzodinma filed that his votes were unlawfully cancelled, which is legally correct. Instead of PDP to cross examine the petition and proof that the so called unlawful cancellation was actually lawful, they did not examine anything. Second opportunity that PDP has is that there was earlier judgment upholding Nwosu of AA as the valid candidate of APC, hence disqualifying Uzodinma, they believe it was none of their business because Law recognised the party not the individual forgetting that it will create another problem for APC.

So in this case, the Supreme Court judgement against PDP was legally and validly correct and right in the eyes of the law. PDP Should learn from this and accepted that their defence was not only weak but inadequate.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Union Bank Management Trainee Recruitment 2019 by TGM2015: 4:26pm On Jan 15, 2020
abdoullerh:
@TGM2015 I only have statement of result. I'm presently in Lagos and my school is in Kano. Please advise on this.
Statement of Result for Degree OK, but for WAEC and NECO, you can:
1. Call any of your family members or friends at home to get your certificate from where you kept it and send it to you through courier service.
2. If you are yet to collect your certificate from the School, you can get a Result Checker Scratch Card, print your statement of result online, and attach the scratch card to the print out. Make sure that you have at least 2 copies for yourself.
3. If the original statement of result issued and stamped by your school is with you, you can go along with it. There is very high likelihood that it will be accepted but option 2 above will be be. In fact, you can present the two. Do try to explain anything if you are not asked why you did not present your certificate.

But, make sure you get your original certificate maybe after training and update your records with HR later after giving you employment and deployment letter.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Union Bank Management Trainee Recruitment 2019 by TGM2015: 1:46pm On Jan 15, 2020
feekah2:
House, please is secondary school certificate equivalent to waec certificate ?
In Nigeria secondary school certificate is equal to any of the certificates below :
1. WAEC (WASSCE and GCE)
2. NECO (School candidates and Private)

So, the answer is YES.
PoliticsRe: Supreme Court Sacks Ihedioha, Declares Uzodinma Winner Of Imo Election by TGM2015: 6:58pm On Jan 14, 2020
akpunda86:
Wich kind prophecy.Hope uzodima left his position for okorocha nd cant go empty handed. Gave his position to okorocha so needs to be compensated.

Mbaka is a fake and will remain a fake prophet.
OK, just pronounce your moniker yourself, that is who you are.
PoliticsRe: Supreme Court Sacks Ihedioha, Declares Uzodinma Winner Of Imo Election by TGM2015:
Reverend Father Mbaka... hmmm this is the first prophesy of him i truly pay attention to because I never believed this can happen.
From 4th to 1st...whatever happens the man should keep up his stand with God because Politicians and their monies are coming...

Seriously I need the full content of the ruling what happens to APGA and what makes PDP lose this case? Anyone with information as I never takes interest in the happening till I saw Rev Fr Mbaka's prophesy on Imo.

Modified
Just got details, the main reason was that over 333,000 votes were illegally excluded from APC votes in 318 polling units. These was proof with evidence by the APC and Hope, was accepted UNANIMOUSLY by all the seven judges, then the unlawfully excluded votes were added to the INEC announced votes of 96,000 for APC resulting to over 426,000 votes to beat the PDP votes. Check the attached tweet

PoliticsRe: CBN Governor, Emefiele Risks Prison Over $53m Garnishee Order by TGM2015: 9:13pm On Jan 12, 2020
Looking for every means to milk Nigeria.
This man knows those judges that can do dirty jobs for him. When you know the kind of person a man is, you will surely know the motive behind every of his actions.

Mr Joe Agi, a Senior Advocate of Nigeria has opened up on the $30,000 he deposited in the account of the suspended Chief Justice of Nigeria Justice Walter Onnoghen.

Mr Agi in a statement explained that though he convinced the suspended CJN to open the said domiciliary account with the Standard Chartered Bank ten years ago with initial deposit of $30,000, but insisted that the said deposit was never a bribe to the CJN.

https://themetrolawyer.com/why-i-paid-30000-into-onnoghens-account-joe-agi-san/
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Union Bank Management Trainee Recruitment 2019 by TGM2015: 2:59pm On Jan 12, 2020
Engrkawu:
Please does Union Bank accept statement of result for the training school? I haven't collected my original result yet.
Yes, but must state your course, class of grade (first class, second class Upper, etc), and year of completion.
PropertiesRe: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by TGM2015: 2:46pm On Jan 08, 2020
Starboytwo:
the only benefit is a one year rent free living, cuz we moved here October 24 2018...

I can always pay the rent tho,

Maybe I should ask where the general rent for the past 3 years been going to?
Leave the past to be in the past, do not go through this route on another person's property even though the person is your biological father. Just hustle like your father and get your own house, fear for your life and future, do not trust anyone when it concerns money and valuable properties. Who knows whether it was because of your moving that prompted the selling suggestion. Whatever it is that make them advocate strongly for selling that property just after you moved in, may grow to suggesting eliminating you or render you useless for life. I know you know beyond those words... trend carefully and not confrontational but diplomatically.

Don't kill yourself on "ogún" (20%), get yourself things of your own "ọgọrun" (100%"wink and have peace of mind.
PropertiesRe: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by TGM2015: 2:14pm On Jan 08, 2020
Starboytwo:
what would you do tho,

I don't want it sold, (won't change) but I have learnt that it can be sold without out consent anyway...

And now I'm seeing they may give us small money, nothing is impossible in this life, so what would you do if it were you...
I may need clarification on something. It your dad's house belonging to 4 pillars. Three want it sold while one didn't, the three carries the day except
1. the house can be equally shared, like there are 4 flats or eight rooms. In this case court can rules that the rooms/flat be shared;
2. the three changed their stand on selling, which is the best route. But how?

Before how, what is the current situation. What is the building structure and purpose for building it? If your father built it like a family house with each wife/children having their room, I do not think they can sell the whole building without the consent of at least the eldest of your mother's children or your mother.

To me I think the main reason must have been that you and your siblings (1 pillar) is enjoying the benefits that all of you (4 pillars) should be enjoying. Even though they are not living there, if the house is leased/rent/sold, they will get their FAIR share of the building. It is fair that they have a fair benefit to the building. If part of the house is used for renting, it should be assumed that all the apartments are used for renting in sharing the rent proceeds. Such that the estimated rent value of the section you occupied will be deducted from your share of overall benefits. If there is excess, they give to you and if there is shortfall it is either they forgo it or ask you to bring in the balance.

My advice in all cases of family properties is never to go legal. Be fair, persuade and encourage them to see your side of argument. In this case your stand will always be seen as being bias as you and your brother will benefit most if the house is not sold.

I wish you the best.
HealthRe: Her Palms Are Peeling. She Needs Help (Photos) by TGM2015: 1:25pm On Jan 08, 2020
Offpoint:
Doctors In The House Please What's Solutions To This?

Have a friend who have been battling with rough palm for long now.

According to her, it happens like 8 years ago. She used to have a normal palm, until a particular day she helped someone to applied Relaxer without gloves. Ever since then, her palm started peeling and cracking causing her severe pains and pricks.
She taught it was just something that will go away in few days, but till date making 8 years she's been experiencing crack, hard and and peeling palm.
It get worse every harmattan seasons, there are days she can't eat she had to be fed by someone due to the pains.

she has applied all sort of treatment but they're not effective.

She said she has been to a clinic once but they couldn't specify what's wrong with her, they only gave her some drugs which ended up not being effective.

Please anyone with similar experience should please share whatever treatment they applied.

Doctors in the house, please your help is needed.

Please help me push it to front-page for wider audience.
It would have been good if you can state the name of the Relaxer in question as the condition started after a direct contact with the Relaxer and possibly the contact stays for hours.
Anyway, there are many hand creams that can help soften and nourish the palm. She should also be using Vaseline baby cream. I hope with time (4 to 6 months) there should be changes. After four months if there is no significant changes, she should please go to a Teaching Hospital nearest to her.
PoliticsRe: SERAP Gives Buhari, Osinbajo, Governors 7-Day Ultimatum To Publish Assets by TGM2015:
How?

Socio-Economic Rights and Accountability Project (SERAP) should know better and check the law guiding CCB and Master the Privacy and Data Protection Act very well. No court or agency can order publicity of the Asset Declaration Form of a private individual even if s/he is occupying a public post. The information is private and confidential.

The only one person that can do so is the individual him/herself. I think if Buhari made such promise publicly, he should be man of his word and published his Asset Declaration Form publicly. Firstly, SERAP need to bring a video evidence of such promise by Buhari himself not a write up of news media or blogger.

In the specific FoI request to President Buhari, SERAP noted his “public promise to make specific details of your assets public, and urge you to consider this FoI request as a unique opportunity to fulfil the promise made to the Nigerian people.”

The various FoI requests read in part: “Our FoI request does not clash with the rights to privacy and data protection. Both rights are not absolute and can be restricted provided there is a basis in law and a legitimate public interest justifies the restriction. Prevention of grand corruption and exposing unexplained wealth of officials are serious and legitimate public interests.”
Edited
It seems SERAP is still relying on Buhari’s 2015 campaign word, I doubt if Buhari made such promise for his second term.
RomanceRe: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by TGM2015: 9:06pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
I'll be 30 this year. I have bin in so many relationships. The first woman to spend on me among all the ladies I have ever dated is an Asian woman. This is my first time seeing a Nigerian lady spent on a date. 2020 is starting off nice.
So you are footballer. I don't think the Lady deserves you.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Union Bank Management Trainee Recruitment 2019 by TGM2015: 8:48pm On Jan 04, 2020
abdoullerh:
I have a testimonial, but there is no date of birth on it. Only my school name, my name, preferred subjects, and issuance date.
Then you should have your Birth Certificate.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Union Bank Management Trainee Recruitment 2019 by TGM2015: 7:52pm On Jan 04, 2020
abdoullerh:
The date of birth on my primary certificate is not correct, I notice this when i started going for interviews. Do you think court affidavit would validate it?
Affidavit to validate date of birth on FSLC? I don't know much about that but if there is/are error in any certificate, you should return it to the issuer (the school) for correction. Alternatively, if you have you Testimonial from the school with correct date of birth, you can attached it or better go to the school to get a testimonial.

Generally, if you have you Birth Certificate (not Affidavit), that should be fine as per your date of birth irrespective of dates on your certificate.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Union Bank Management Trainee Recruitment 2019 by TGM2015: 2:34pm On Jan 04, 2020
mrbrams:
Please who knows how I can call the union bank recruitment desk? I don't know how to include the extension to the telephone number. Please someone should help
When you call the number, immediately it connect, enter the ext number.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 2019 Graduate Trainee Programme At Wapic Insurance Plc by TGM2015: 5:09am On Jan 04, 2020
vikky47:
Please, how did the Assessment Centre go?
Hi
FamilyRe: Is There Anything As A Destined Wife/husband. by TGM2015: 8:45pm On Jan 02, 2020
TheLaughter:
I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks
In simplest spiritual form, there is no one person that is particularly destined to be one partner but there are a lot of spiritual incompatibility. So both of you may not be spiritually compatible or you might be compatible but with undesirable destiny like short life span, etc.

But one is very sure, it is only you that can know for sure if spiritually you are compatible. In a nutshell, if you believe in spiritual guide to your marriage (which actually is the best), you need to give yourself to some spiritual exercise that will lead you right. Any other external reports or revelations will only be secondary.

Let give you a recent example. I have a friend that around 2006 he dreamt of a lady consistently, he is spiritually active, he approached the lady a year later but the lady turned him down. As at December when I had a Facebook call with her sister, I discovered she, her sister and her brother are still living in the same room. By 2016, my friend got another vision of a lady, he approached this lady and got a friend zone replied. He specifically told me last January that if by December 2019, he will forget about the lady as he had a prophesy that he will marry the lady last year. This is at the time that the lady is no more in town living 4 state apart. I, his mother and everyone has lost hope, in fact, I was forced to reveal his prophesy to his mother so as to calm her down till December. Guess what, they get married last year November.
I visited him during Christmas, I saw them all happy. Happy, I mean my friend and his mother (an unavoidable enemy or fighter), sister and brother in his room playing and enjoying the themselves. The marriage brought peace to a fighting home and my friend has put on weight too looking fresh.

From life experiences, there is a very high likely hood for two people who genuinely love themselves to be spiritually conmpatible except there are family spiritual warfare that need to be won or generational curse to be broken. The last two may possibly be the issue and not that you are not spiritually compatible.
PoliticsRe: How Shehu Sani Got Into Trouble With EFCC Over Car Dealer’s $30,000 by TGM2015: 7:41am On Jan 01, 2020
Those trusting Sowore should learn from this. All "politicians activists" are politicians and are not different from the Nigerian Politicians.
FamilyRe: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by TGM2015: 8:34pm On Dec 30, 2019
socialmediaman:
A proverb you probably misunderstood? In those days, the rod was used for guiding sheep in the right direction, not flogging them. It literally means “if you do not guide the child, you spoil the child. Sometimes you need history lessons to understand the context of the Bible.
I think it is you that misinterpreted that verse. Now take a look at the Bible verses below from the same author.

Proverbs 22:15 Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from HIM. (KJV)

Proverbs 23:13 Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you punish them with the rod, they will not die.
Proverbs 23:14 Punish them with the rod and save them from death. (NIV)

Cc: naija4real

But excessive use of cane for discipline and misuse of cane to show anger should be highly discouraged.
FamilyRe: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by TGM2015: 1:45pm On Dec 30, 2019
Alooone:
None of my siblings has this disorder, and I had my first child Hale and hearty without any problem....my only consolation is that ALL the symptoms have stopped....
Please read the link, you may possibly find a cause for it like some trauma during pregnancy and the like. Just take your time to read, digest and meditate on the link. You may find some answers in the write up, if none relates to you, then you need to get stronger spiritually through a devoted days of prayer and fasting to conquer the current and future attacks.

Please pray and reconcile with your husband, and see if things will turn out to be better. You should know that the feeling of being betrayed from close and trusted people is very very strong. You are the only one that know him better and it is only God that can guide you to suppress that feelings he has developed and make him heal with time.

I wish you God's wisdom, grace and blessings to save yourself and the future of your children.
FamilyRe: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by TGM2015: 1:24pm On Dec 30, 2019
PerfectMatchNG:
Is she married?
Still married according to her but abandoned by her husband because of her condition.
FamilyRe: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by TGM2015:
Alooone:
Mine is more or less of betrayal and man's imminent wickedness...
I got married to my husband in 2013 at the age of 22, then I was still in school... We ttcd for 2years before I gave birth to my daughter in 2015... In 2017 I got pregnant for my son and we packed into our new house (that's where all my problem started).... We had this neighbour that for no reason at all just hated me,...right from day one her complain about me has always been "u too dey pose".....its either you are posing with your husband or you are posing with your child or even your belle..... We nearly packed out because of them.... Shortly before I gave birth I had a dream in which I saw a cat enter into our bedroom and disappeared into my leg... The first attack happened 2weeks after I gave birth to my son then my mum came for omugwo... She was the one that took me to the hospital.... The doctor diagnosed "puperuim psychosis"...after then it has been one attack to the other... When it got to the extent that I have started talking to myself in public unknowingly... I had to run for my dear life... I packed a few of my belongings and RAN with my kids to my parent's house... Now you could ask where was my husband when all this was happening... My people instead of my husband to quench the fire he was busy adding petrol to it... He told whoever that cares to know how I was MAD... According to him he feels "deceived" and "cheated" as he feels my parents knew about my "sickness "before we got married but nobody told him about it. .. It turned to full physical and verbal abuse as he felt saddled with such a liability like me...everyday he reminded me how I was a "regret " to him and told my children how he was going to marry a new mother that will take care of them and was looking for every way possible to frustrate me out of the marriage , because He practically saw it as an "opportunity "
I'm currently staying with my parents and my prayer every day is God should give me the heart to forgive my husband....but it's not easy... Someone we ttcd together and I went through a lot for... as for my neighbour am still praying for her, my God will fight for me... Sometimes I feel like going diabolical cos all these is unfair... I come from a Good,decent Catholic home and prayerful .....just payed for my daughter's school fees (she is an ace student) and saving for my Masters because when I remember all I have passed it further motivates me to aim higher..
Still love my husband though... Sometimes I'm filled with hate for him other times I love him... As for the psychosis ALL the symptoms are gone.
Single motherhood is not what I will wish on my enemy... If you like let it be 500percent the man's fault there will always be a stigma associated with a divorcee....



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Are you sure, it is not the same spiritual attack on you that is affecting your husband? Or better still making both of you hated each other?

To your sickness, I will advise you to check on the link below and take note of the "Who is most likely to get postpartum psychosis?" section of the link.
https://www.rcpsych.ac.uk/mental-health/problems-disorders/postpartum-psychosis

If it turns out that the sickness is natural and possibly with family history, your husband may be right by his outburst. My only issue with him is, it is either he is not mature enough to handle martial challenges or he didn't have enough knowledge and understanding about your condition. But his main issue is the feeling of collaborative betrayal by you and your entire family, though he may be wrong.

Now the solutions is for you to know the real cause of your sickness. Is it historical (family related) or not. Can it be spiritual attack or some previous disorder. Either way, help your husband to recover from his feelings of being betrayed (which may have been intentional or not). If you feel, in all honesty, you had the hint that such can happen, then you need to ask for his forgiveness. If you think your family could have known, apologised on their behalf and give him time to heal.

If after all efforts and pleading that are done in all humbleness and sincerity fail, please move on. Additional information which is not to scare you is that you can hardly find a man/family that will accept you with that condition except they are keep in dark. Unfortunately, you have a higher risk of goings through the same condition on your next birth except it is an attack.

God be with you and guide you to overcome your life and marital challenges.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Sterling Bank (workforce)graduate Trainee Recruitment 2019/2020 by TGM2015: 8:42pm On Dec 29, 2019
Eyitayo29:
I'm not sure we are going to hear anything from them this year, at least not during the festive period. Consider December 25 to January 1 as a period of dormancy... Most companies are stopping operations for the year already. Everything resumes after New year celebrations, i.e, after January 1st next year.
Helloooo.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: First Bank 2019 Graduate Trainee Assessment Centre Invite by TGM2015: 11:06am On Dec 29, 2019
dipsy2009:
It’s the location that’s closest to you.
Hello ooo.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Union Bank Management Trainee Recruitment 2019 by TGM2015: 6:42pm On Dec 24, 2019
attahvicktor:
Why I'm asking is because on one website, some people of 2010 set said they were in union bank training school owerri branch, another person spoke of lagos and I think Abuja too.

See the link to that page here

http://www . naijahotjobs . com/ f36/unionbank-training-school-share-your-experience-24459/
Just remove the spaces in between
That's 2010. In 2019 Union Bank has only 1 training school situated at Ọba Akran, Ikeja Lagos.
The good thing about the Union Bank training school is graduate will be given some exceptions when registering for CIBN professional examination.
EducationRe: Segun Ajiboye: 19,273 Teachers Failed Qualifying Test by TGM2015: 7:19am On Dec 23, 2019
And SW and Kaduna top the list of most registered teachers.
Kaduna has 94% pass rate while SW has over 70% pass rate.

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